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Responses to being ‘outed’ ?

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By *orksCouple25 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admit nothing and deny everything

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I take no issue admitting to it

Funnily enough it happened once with a female work college and I just blatantly said “yes it’s all true, I like sex and lots of it” and she laughed it off and didn’t believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt to do with them. I dont interfere with their lives.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I deny with a smile on my face. They don’t know if I’m telling the truth or not. It don’t broadcast the fact I’m on here but not bothered if people know. I’m single and love sex if people can’t handle this then I have no interest in them

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "

"What's a swinger?"

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Jealous or looking to join??

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Oh crickey, this is embarrassing... for you. You appear to be suffering from a bout of over-familiarity and think i owe you a fucking explanation about life. I don't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Please take this message back to the rumourmonger. My/our sex life is none of your fucking business'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would respond. "Oh yeah, we heard that. Sounds like fun if it were true."

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By *orksCouple25 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/ "

Did you do the honourable thing and admit who you are otherwise it's a very one sided dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There's a couple of lads I work with, bit of banter yesterday & one mentioned sex parties... Think the aim was actually to embarrass me.

It failed.

My parting comment was "well I'm off now, got to go polish my latex dress"

Reverse psychology, they were left red faced & I did my best hair flick & flounce out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/

Did you do the honourable thing and admit who you are otherwise it's a very one sided dynamic "

I'd rather not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "

Laugh and walk away

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "

I'd thank them for letting me know that a rumour was circulating and end the conversation. While they're talking about me they're leaving somebody else alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask what exactly does that have to do with work

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd ask what exactly does that have to do with work"

Depends if you're a nun or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ask what exactly does that have to do with work

Depends if you're a nun or not. "

nuns are always at it..some secretly watch the exorcist while having a wank

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Have you been looking at my crotch again?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d just say and your point is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of a suspicion that I might be known as a bit of a player. I neither deny or confirm as it just adds to the mystery

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By *outhwestcouple88Couple
over a year ago

North Dorset

Depends what they take note of lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd neither confirm or deny, just smile and say sounds like fun, if I haven't already I might give it try.

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

Say thank you very much

Then rip the persons head off who'd been spreading the rumour

Happens to us and a do called friend was going round ever one we new telling them and showing pics

A work friend told me about what was happening

Funny the so called friend didn't see owt wrong with being a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just say that's strange I heard the same rumour about you

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

There is only one person who has the right to question me about my sex life.....my husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy at work just start humming the ‘Jaws’ theme tune lol

Took me three days to work out what he was getting at hahahahahahaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just say that's strange I heard the same rumour about you "

I like that, classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an enfemme Fb page which someone at work found through a mutual TS friend. He asked me if it was me and whether he should link to it. I asked him not to and no more was said. He was very pite and cool about it. The page has gone now for other reasons.

As they say we are all onky 6 steps away from each other, some closer than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a shit who knows to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the person but probably just laugh it off

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood


"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "

“Mind your own business you nosey fuck”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell them to wind their neck in and mind their own god damn business! Nothing to do with them at all. Noses OUT!

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

There's a rumour going round that you're intimate with your dog, and walk away.

This actually happened to us on a big scale when Mr was working in a factory. Two lads actually got sacked for showing our videos to other colleagues, let that be a warning to any potential gobshites out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell them they are correct and ask them what their point is. I would also tell them to f**k off because I do what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me few years back on my old profile. Was asked by a couple of new (lady) colleagues.

I just asked them to check with the rest of work (as they all already knew).

They came back, asked to see my profile, one of them actually joined the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about and that is not being talked about. (Oscar Wilde).

Let the rumours continue,they are the closest I'll ever get to being famous.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.

My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem

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By *orksCouple25 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.

My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem"

We think it's a lot easier for a single man to explain it in the way you have put it than a couple to say the same thing to their children!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"who told you? - snitches get stiches"?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "

I would admit it. No point in denying it at that stage.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


""who told you? - snitches get stiches"?"

"Well, Aunty Gladys saw you at a bukkake event last week"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At work, a woman once said to me that she'd heard I was on a swingers site and that someone else in the office had told her. I gave the furrowed brow look and didn't confirm or deny it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break into a fit of laughter and say "I should be so lucky"

Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's happened to us.

We were with a group of "Colleagues" in Germany and had had a stein or three when two of them asked outright if we were swingers.

They were rather taken aback when both said yes and we really enjoy it.

Obviously the cat was now out of the bag.

A bit later a few others asked us if it was true and asked some very sensible questions.

It seems odd that a fuss was made about the fact that we have sex with other people, together, by people some of whom are off shagging anything whilst away from their partners and it's treated as normal.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.

My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem

We think it's a lot easier for a single man to explain it in the way you have put it than a couple to say the same thing to their children! "

We didn't have an issue telling our kids, no secrets = no issues.

It was just matter of fact.

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