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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got a message this morning from a guy that basically said all my meets have been white guys therefore I had clearly rendered all black and mixed race not good enough and I was cruel. It got me thinking of all the first messages I've had that ask if I'm into black. I meet people based on lots of things, never race though. Yet this always seems to be the go to reason if I decline. Must be racist! It's infuriating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 5 verifications, not enough for him to make a statistical analysis with!

Who you meet has nothing to do with anybody else anyway.

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By *onnor999Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

All your verifications are from men as well. Sexist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sound like the guy trying to fouce you into meeting with with him by using guilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like another bitter cock womble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All your verifications are from men as well. Sexist "

None over 40 either, Ageist!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I got a message this morning from a guy that basically said all my meets have been white guys therefore I had clearly rendered all black and mixed race not good enough and I was cruel. It got me thinking of all the first messages I've had that ask if I'm into black. I meet people based on lots of things, never race though. Yet this always seems to be the go to reason if I decline. Must be racist! It's infuriating!"

Just another stupid, gaslighting moron who is incapable of thinking beyond his own wants.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

So if you’re not attracted to someone because of their personality you’re now racist? Well that’s a new one

Tell him to rethink his logic and maybe also point out him assuming it’s because of skin colour is him being racist, not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All from east or West Midlands too!

How can you be SO georaphicalist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All your verifications are from men as well. Sexist

None over 40 either, Ageist!"

No one under 30 either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if you’re not attracted to someone because of their personality you’re now racist? Well that’s a new one

Tell him to rethink his logic and maybe also point out him assuming it’s because of skin colour is him being racist, not you "

That's the bit that pisses me off, I get branded racist because of someone else's issues!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All your verifications are from men as well. Sexist

None over 40 either, Ageist!

No one under 30 either!

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Yet! Lol

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"So if you’re not attracted to someone because of their personality you’re now racist? Well that’s a new one

Tell him to rethink his logic and maybe also point out him assuming it’s because of skin colour is him being racist, not you

That's the bit that pisses me off, I get branded racist because of someone else's issues!"

I get the same now and again and when I point out they have the race issues they usually back off, otherwise just hit the block button after sending your last message so they can’t reply, that always infuriates them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

They will use any -ism/-ist to justify you not wanting to meet them. I frequently get them.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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We've had the race card pulled on us a couple of times.

The first was by a guy who barged into the private club room as we were entering with play mates and was offended he was asked to leave as he was 'already undressing'

It was later he messaged us to say we must be 'against black'

What puzzled us was that we had public pics at that time involving black men and veri's also.

The last time was after XX had enjoyed several men on a GG night. An Asian male grabbed XY to question why he hadn't been invited to join and was wondering if it was due to his race but went on to say it couldn't be as he realised XY was the only white British male involved

Clearly some people don't understand CHOICE in swinging partners.

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