FabSwingers.com forum: cpls profiles without male pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

gonna rant

why do 90% of couples profiles not have any pics of the male half..us girlies would like to see what were getting too..or are we just along for the ride(excuse the pun)i sort 75% of our meets out at this end,,but am fed up of mailing profiles asking to see the male half..then recieve a cock shot...

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems to be very common that the male half hardly features in the public pics......bit of a mystery that one????? we have one of each on public view (i think so anyway...lol)......out of your 40+ pics the female features in over 90% of them!!!! i think its mainly due to the fact that normally speaking the female is the eye candy of the two....pmsl

maybe us guys are camera shy....or is it cos you females cant work the camera that we end up taking all the pics.....ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

To have at least one of the male seems to be an achievement on some profiles

Its got to be said that the women do look nicer though which is why theres always more of them

But I agree it is frustrating that couples looking for couples can't have pics of both on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh i have an opinion on EVERYTHING tonight ! Have to join in with this one though as ive only just started looking at couples profiles , and its just bloody silly not having the male half pictured. I exchanged messages with a gorgeous lady yesterday , when she finally sent a pic of her man he was old enough to be her Dad, and i felt horrible having to say ' no thanks '.

Tell you what also gets on my tits... accepting a friends invite and finding just genitalia to look at GRRRR!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You go Dolly!

We try not to get into too much conversation before we swap pics,it saves time in the long run if none of us are what we're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad this came up cos i've been thinking exactly the same.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Glad this came up cos i've been thinking exactly the same.

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"it seems to be very common that the male half hardly features in the public pics......bit of a mystery that one????? we have one of each on public view (i think so anyway...lol)......out of your 40+ pics the female features in over 90% of them!!!! i think its mainly due to the fact that normally speaking the female is the eye candy of the two....pmsl

maybe us guys are camera shy....or is it cos you females cant work the camera that we end up taking all the pics.....ha ha"

but he is there in his full minger form for all to see

luffs him to bits really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach"

Uhmmmmmmm pardo me Rach.... just went fora peek at your 50 or so pics. EVERY single one of them lovely .... YOU from every angle in every one of em ...and uhmmmmm one of a blokes face and one of a bloke fully dressed..... Fnarrrrrrr pots n kettles :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach

Uhmm gotta add to that - that it IS better than a cock shot ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach

correct..no cock shots..just 1 full length..1 face shot...enuff to pass judgement that he aint a fat git..bald and ugly maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly of topic i know , but i have never seen such a long freinds list. I guess you know what you are talking about when you say youve seen alot profiles with no male pics even in the private gallery.

On the flip side though, When people do have their pics on here, are they really of them? Were they taken before the Millenium? Oh tis a dilemma ...

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

I agree with you all. I think couples should show pics of the guys! Come on guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have pics of both but there are a little more of pamela as she is defo the more attractive lol

defo understand your post though, there should in my opinion be a face pic of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a pet hate here too, we hate having to ask... We say on the profile we would like to see yet so many ignore...

what do they think.. you'll turn up on a blind date desperate enough to think, oh well, were here now may as well boff his brains out anyway lol.. Or, she's pretty enough to sway it like the fems have no say... Oh yeah, thats gonna happen eh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a pet hate here too, we hate having to ask... We say on the profile we would like to see yet so many ignore...

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hard to tell with u two, who is who, seeing as you both have big tits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a pet hate here too, we hate having to ask... We say on the profile we would like to see yet so many ignore...

hard to tell with u two, who is who, seeing as you both have big tits lol

You'd still have a good time with all 4 lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well rachel youve seen my cock and my face lmao

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By *otSoSexyCarolWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Totally agree, most guys have cock shots, puppets or cartoons. I think cock shots should be banned unless they show 80% of the body. Face pics can be kept in private area to send with mail.

Also on the subject... how comes guys can put on puppets and cartoons... yet I cant put on a picture of my car which i use for meets?... seems i cant put it on for copyright reasons ..... its my car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/08/09 00:45:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite strange the things some folk get them selves all hot and bothered about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore any profile that doesn't have a pic of the male.

With many couples,including us,the female has the deciding vote on wether to meet or not,just because she may be bi doesn't mean she won't be interested in what the guy looks like.

Many guys dislike having their pic taken,however they just have to realise its a necessary evil.

Besides which,its only fair.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about choices?

Taking sexxxy/erotic pix of Kitten is a part of our sex life, Kitty actually loves having pics taken of herself in sexxxy/erotic posses in nice outfits and High Heels Shoes. A big part of the fun for her is letting others see them (posser)so sites like this are a buzz for her because we get to display her naughtyness publicly but safely.

I, Tom, don't actually enjoy having my pic taken, never have and never will so the only ones we actually have of me are normal with my face showing and we are not going to make them public so there in our private gallery for the choosen few to see

K&T xx xx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

don't you think we have a lovely pic of us holding hands in our public profile?

opps that looks like a request for you to go see

well if ya really want to we cant stop you can we?

If we approach anyone couple (even occassionally a single) we always attach a face pic of us both together (in same pic) but we aren't holding hands this time, does that matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe us guys are camera shy....or is it cos you females cant work the camera that we end up taking all the pics.....ha ha

but he is there in his full minger form for all to see

luffs him to bits really"

Rach dear there is nothing wrong with your hubby he great and a bloody good laugh unlike craig lol now theres another story lol

Les x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ignore any profile that doesn't have a pic of the male.

With many couples,including us,the female has the deciding vote on wether to meet or not,just because she may be bi doesn't mean she won't be interested in what the guy looks like.

Many guys dislike having their pic taken,however they just have to realise its a necessary evil.

Besides which,its only fair.

XXXX "

' Many guys dislike having their pic taken ? Since when? and diddums if they do. Pfffffft on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

They're very good and you're not ugly, K&T xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

They're very good and you're not ugly, K&T xx xx"

Thanks, and I know, I was attention seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

met ya in person and your well do-able

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

might be better if i reply in our profile and not his,,

has met ya in person and ya well do-able

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach"

I am not into couples but have always wondered that. I would put on your profile "I will only reply to couples who have face pics of both of them"

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Totally agree, most guys have cock shots, puppets or cartoons. I think cock shots should be banned unless they show 80% of the body. Face pics can be kept in private area to send with mail.

Also on the subject... how comes guys can put on puppets and cartoons... yet I cant put on a picture of my car which i use for meets?... seems i cant put it on for copyright reasons ..... its my car!"

I sort of agree I think the cock shot guys are hiding. I think cock shots should only be allowed if they show their face as well. I bet a lot guys would suddenly have no pics. Also then they coud not message people with only cock shots.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Totally agree, most guys have cock shots, puppets or cartoons. I think cock shots should be banned unless they show 80% of the body. Face pics can be kept in private area to send with mail.

Soryy but got to ask. Why do you have a single female profile wne you are not single?

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By *arolxxpaulCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach"

totaly agree with you i have had it on my profile for donkeys and i got that fed up with it i dont even bother replying now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone will show face pics for public view whether of the male or female .... our profile states quite clearly that we have face pics available privately for those who we may meet or those who we already know ... it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not everyone will show face pics for public view whether of the male or female .... our profile states quite clearly that we have face pics available privately for those who we may meet or those who we already know ... it works for us

It also works for most sane, sensible and tolerant swingers, a very rare breed on here at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also works for most sane, sensible and tolerant swingers, a very rare breed on here at the moment

Certainly seems that way sometimes lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the pics we have up of me good enough does anyone believe?

Yes I know I am an ugly bugger but that's not my question.

might be better if i reply in our profile and not his,,

has met ya in person and ya well do-able"

oh, I've just seen this, well thank you, I do rather clearly remember meeting you too (both of ya, lol), compliments have to be returned of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always send a pic if asked but the male is alot better known around the shire due to his job ect so we only show his pic to people we feel are genuine were sry if this puts people off

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"we always send a pic if asked but the male is alot better known around the shire due to his job ect so we only show his pic to people we feel are genuine were sry if this puts people off "

I've never Swung with a Chief Constable and his wife before!!

PLEASE say he is???!!!

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

hmmmm very interesting thread this, now we always had face pics of both of us in our public gallery but we just moved two pics showing Rich in more raunchy mode from our private pics to public.

So now for the big experiment, will we get more contacts/meets or less (lets say in the next month or so) from showing these sot of pics to all and sundry?

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is annoying when there is either no photo of the guy or just his cock or whatever..and even when we ask for those people to send us photos..we have still often only recieved of the girl / woman and two, its like pulling teeth to get them to e mail us some for some strange reason. we are genuine and upfront..there are photos of us both on the profile and happy to send more. I think they should have full photos too ,they dont have to be naked ones unless you wish in the private area. personally we dont give a stuff and show all on front page lol. And they are pretty much recent.

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By *hotandsexyCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

we aint got many pics of steve. due to work and such, but always happy to forward pics, but have many pics in our Private Gallery and have full dressed pic to undressed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve found that when weve looked at a profile with no pic of the male its the female pic that has got us interested but when you ask and see the pic of the male its a case of thanks but no thanks. A lot of couples weve looked at the female, for us anyway is a lot better looking than the male. We know that he may be a very nice person but there has to be an attraction before we play with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We completely agree, there should be a pictures of both, either that or none at all.

By the way - my choices were limited being dead centre of the paddock, running wasn’t an option, the impact certain judging by the speed he tore through the field. I stood waiting with my hand held intentionally outstretched, my plan was to parry the blow by using the force of his charging body and placing my hand against his chest and veering to one side hopefully avoiding serious injury, after all at the time I was only 18teen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont have public face pics, but they in our private gallery...but we do have other pics of us both...

but what is the point having a couple profile without both of you on them...

and weve now been photo verified together so we think that is a good idea aswell...

xxx

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach"

is it cos we is mingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, you could be a straight female like me, and pictures of the female half only, is about as much use as no picture at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did post this in another thread but it may have some relevance here?

Maybe the woman is shown alot more in profiles because their what the majority of people are looking for most of all?

Some couples who have a straight male state they are looking for single guys so obviously no sex will take place between the two men involved. So surely the woman, who is getting all the attention will want to 'advertise' (sorry for that term) herself more as she is the focus of the meet, and the single guy will respond alot more to her than her male partner.

A similar situation can arise with couples looking for couples and couples looking for single females. Though i realise these have different issues and the male partner does involve himself alot more in the equation. But saying that i have seen so many single/attached women saying their looking for another woman so again the female becomes the main focus of a profile.

I know this is not always the case and it's only observations coming from a single guy. Though we all know the ladies have the power in the world of swinging and all things sex related lol.

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

"gonna rant

come on cpls,,sort it out ffs

rach"

we put pics of hubby on the mantle piece to keep the kids away from the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

thinnk its because they are either as ugly as bill oddie with Shaven hair (Euphamism for bald as sam eagle) or because they are happy for the fem to have face shots but not them - its the wibbly wobbley world of swinging again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we need photos of the men for sure. I get fed up about this too. Yeah ladies are beautiful but at l e a s t one good pic of the man's face and body for goodness sake. We don't have ours on public display but some pics for friends and send more when requested.

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