FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the difference?

A married nske who has permission to play, and can when and where no restrictions?

A single man with no restrictions?

I know this may sound like it's personal, but it's a curiosity,

Why do some women only play with single men?

Secondly why come on a swingers site if this is the case?

Point to add, i ( Mr ) do not have permission to play alone, so is more curiosity as recently seem to find more and more profiles for single fems seeking single males only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the difference?

A married nske who has permission to play, and can when and where no restrictions?

A single man with no restrictions?

I know this may sound like it's personal, but it's a curiosity,

Why do some women only play with single men?

Secondly why come on a swingers site if this is the case?

Point to add, i ( Mr ) do not have permission to play alone, so is more curiosity as recently seem to find more and more profiles for single fems seeking single males only?

I think I get where your coming from OP in a way I do wonder if a genuinely single + single = swingers? Or is just considered two unattached people joining up for 1 on 1 NSA sex? I do mean if they only meet singles.

Personally we both play separately as well as together with couples and singles.

MrsK x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The definition for swinging is about being promiscuous, having multiple partners etc. It is NOT just about couples.

Single people come on here to swing, as they are entitled to.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh and some women only play with single men because they don't want to have sex with women. It's that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and some women only play with single men because they don't want to have sex with women. It's that simple

Who doesn't want to have sex with women? Lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Oh and some women only play with single men because they don't want to have sex with women. It's that simple

Who doesn't want to have sex with women? Lol"

Meeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and some women only play with single men because they don't want to have sex with women. It's that simple

Who doesn't want to have sex with women? Lol"

Lol me I don’t

MrsK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the word 'permission ' to play. I know it's an easily understood way of saying your boundaries, but it grates me, as smacking of ownership and as an adult, having no say in your own life.

A mutual agreement not to play separately pleases me more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The definition for swinging is about being promiscuous, having multiple partners etc. It is NOT just about couples.

Single people come on here to swing, as they are entitled to."

Depends on which definition you look at..

"Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1] Swinging is a form of open marriage. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality, quantity, and frequency of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate the word 'permission ' to play. I know it's an easily understood way of saying your boundaries, but it grates me, as smacking of ownership and as an adult, having no say in your own life.

A mutual agreement not to play separately pleases me more.

Sorry for the use of permission... I understand where your coming from, I must add, as the male half of a married couple, I do not have permission, not do I seek permission to engage in solo meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t swing alone with married or taken men, but that’s just my preference

I am a bit worried about the risk of drama, jealousy, upset etc

I would meet a couple tho

I definitely wouldn’t meet a guy who’s partner doesn’t know he’s on here

I’d rather find a guy I can hook up with multiple times, without the permission of his partner x

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