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By *otbrowneyes OP   Woman
over a year ago

swindon wilts

Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

It's a shame you don't live closer there's no way I'd waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet up for tomorrow night .I've had two cancel so far, two wanting to change day/time and more showing interest then not talking ....so now I've cancelled it and just seeing one friend .feeling fed up . Hope your luck changes op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a lot of problems with this too sadly.

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ive just had a no show at my place, go to check online what was up but i was blocked....are there any genuine people left on here that are up for a chat laugh and good no pressure fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X"

No it doesn't, it makes you stand out more. How someone conducts themselves on here shouldn't have any direct bearing on your success or otherwise. Most women are clever enough to not tar every man with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X

No it doesn't, it makes you stand out more. How someone conducts themselves on here shouldn't have any direct bearing on your success or otherwise. Most women are clever enough to not tar every man with the same brush. "

Thank you. X

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Sorry to hear you have been messed about, I would have met you any day or time you had stated.

Gutted I did not see your meet listing x

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

I have used the site on and off for several years now and have noticed there seems to be more and more timewaster getting on here. As well as more escorts or hookers call them what you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason women do?

Cold feet

Never any intention

Better offer (had this one more than once!)

Fake.

It sucks but it happens. Hope the next one isn't such an arse OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

If u weren't mutually exclusive to each other and meeting as a couple y does it matter if he arranged gangbangs when he wasn't meeting u.

On the topic of time wasters maybe they decided they didn't want to meet or they turned up to where u was meeting and then changed their minds it happens just block and move on

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Sorry to hear that op. I think this time of year is difficult to meet new people as there's so much going on. Hope you found something else to do

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X

No it doesn't, it makes you stand out more. How someone conducts themselves on here shouldn't have any direct bearing on your success or otherwise. Most women are clever enough to not tar every man with the same brush. "
I agree with the Flamehaired one (welcome to the IOW btw) Good reliable people will always stand out, regardless of their sex, sadly too many people of all types seem to think its okay to organise meets without any intention of carrying it through.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

Timewazter are rife in Leeds. Now when we arrange a meet we set our sights on them being a timewazter. Then if they do actually turn up it's a bonus. Genuine guys are definitely in the minority round here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a timewaster,if I say I will meet,I do so.Pity so few take up the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a pity the OP ix not looking for guys my age....you would not be disappointed with me,but you do not allow me to message you.

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

I’m the same Salop I too would never let people down on a meet but I too would love the chance to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same reason women do?

Cold feet

Never any intention

Better offer (had this one more than once!)

Fake.

It sucks but it happens. Hope the next one isn't such an arse OP

"

I'd like to add to the list, wanking whilst on fab, and horny at the time. Then after they cum they change their minds! It does feel like 3/4 of the messages I receive are from fantastists now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a pity the OP ix not looking for guys my age....you would not be disappointed with me,but you do not allow me to message you."

Yes she would be disappointed as she isn't interested in guys your age!

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X

No it doesn't, it makes you stand out more. How someone conducts themselves on here shouldn't have any direct bearing on your success or otherwise. Most women are clever enough to not tar every man with the same brush. "

And that makes me happy.

I would suggest looking at someones verifications as a way of checking reliability though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

simple answer here

ambition exceeding ability

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We've been let down by peeps that have left us veri's saying don't let them down they are the real deal.

This has been on 2nd or 3rd meetings. = blocked we don't have time for time wasters.

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By *ift4lifeMan
over a year ago

pontefract

Women are the same its taken me a year to meet someone on fab, it is actually much easier to go to the clubs and meet women than it is to meet genuine people on here through chatting, just my experiance

some want you to do all the work and promise the world to agree to a meet then they wonder why a guy feels he cant deliver or has second thoughts so he backs out, some of the demands i see from most women on fab are ridiculous, not many realistic women on here, everyones looking for mr perfect then get dissapointed when hes not actually interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are the same its taken me a year to meet someone on fab, it is actually much easier to go to the clubs and meet women than it is to meet genuine people on here through chatting, just my experiance

some want you to do all the work and promise the world to agree to a meet then they wonder why a guy feels he cant deliver or has second thoughts so he backs out, some of the demands i see from most women on fab are ridiculous, not many realistic women on here, everyones looking for mr perfect then get dissapointed when hes not actually interested"

I'm not looking for Mr Perfect, far from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are the same its taken me a year to meet someone on fab, it is actually much easier to go to the clubs and meet women than it is to meet genuine people on here through chatting, just my experiance

some want you to do all the work and promise the world to agree to a meet then they wonder why a guy feels he cant deliver or has second thoughts so he backs out, some of the demands i see from most women on fab are ridiculous, not many realistic women on here, everyones looking for mr perfect then get dissapointed when hes not actually interested"
what kind of demands are women making on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

An hour? My limit is 15 minutes unless they have made contact to say they will be late, then they get 30 minutes!!

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"Women are the same its taken me a year to meet someone on fab, it is actually much easier to go to the clubs and meet women than it is to meet genuine people on here through chatting, just my experiance

some want you to do all the work and promise the world to agree to a meet then they wonder why a guy feels he cant deliver or has second thoughts so he backs out, some of the demands i see from most women on fab are ridiculous, not many realistic women on here, everyones looking for mr perfect then get dissapointed when hes not actually interestedwhat kind of demands are women making on here ?"

Probably silly things like actually looking like their pictures, ability to hold a conversation after they've shot their bolt, not being married, that sort of thing.

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By *ift4lifeMan
over a year ago

pontefract

Looking like your pictures isnt unrealistic, ive never had that problem myself, thanks for the insight though

i do get a lot of people whos never met me accusing me of being fake or having fake pics though, it was cute at first i took it as a compliment but makes people come across as desperate and paranoid after a while

Its the expecting guys to jump when YOUR ready is the main problem with demands, we have lives aswell, not ALL of us are desperate to get our ends wet 24/7, sometimes we need to be in the mood aswell, i know theres times ive not wanted to say no in fear of offending women after having chatted for quite a while but just havent been free at the time to meet then they get offended, happens a lot

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

An hour? My limit is 15 minutes unless they have made contact to say they will be late, then they get 30 minutes!!"

Exactly, no way I'd be hanging about for an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet up for tomorrow night .I've had two cancel so far, two wanting to change day/time and more showing interest then not talking ....so now I've cancelled it and just seeing one friend .feeling fed up . Hope your luck changes op "

I do not understand it !!!

It’s a quandary

What are these guys playing at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that op. I think this time of year is difficult to meet new people as there's so much going on. Hope you found something else to do "

Sorry to say that is not an acceptable excuse

Am on the operating theatre having a life threatening operation maybe !!!

Should not make arrangements if not going to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that op. I think this time of year is difficult to meet new people as there's so much going on. Hope you found something else to do

Sorry to say that is not an acceptable excuse

Am on the operating theatre having a life threatening operation maybe !!!

Should not make arrangements if not going to attend "

To be fair, sometimes life gets in the way, kids, family etc that take priority. Sometimes people have genuine reasons for not attending but some just get cold feet and sadly cannot be mature about it and say.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets.

I am not far from you and would never let you down. Disheartens me when I hear guys do this. Spoils it for the genuine ones. X

No it doesn't, it makes you stand out more. How someone conducts themselves on here shouldn't have any direct bearing on your success or otherwise. Most women are clever enough to not tar every man with the same brush. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very common, some just love the idea and that’s as far is it goes for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that "

Then they shouldn't agree to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that "

But don’t they get a blow job at the very least before parting ways?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they get a kick out of arranging a meet and then panic.

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By *ift4lifeMan
over a year ago

pontefract

I think the wank factor mentioned earlier also has a lot to do with it, a quick wank on fab for some people is enough but for others its not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

I'm not too far from you either OP. And if ever a meet is arranged in there always in good time, every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I have never had my time wasted. You can very often tell if someone is going to back out. If I don't get confirmation on the day for example then I wouldn't travel, even checking with them up until we are due to meet.

The closest I have come is when I travelled to meet someone and have I waited for an hour, but she kept me informed, she was on a train, so I waited. She did turn up, but an hour would be maximum even being kept informed.

I also give someone new a second chance as life does get in the way. But no third.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

its a shame that people let people down. but why feel the need to give a reason why you are looking to meet (noones business) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that "

I would disagree with you. I've not yet had a social that hasn't gone further. Might not be and more often than not, isn't on day of the social. But I don't go to a social expecting to play, that's why it's a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys. Say they will meet you and your left waiting for over a hour .first time in long time for. Me to arrange a social meet. After my ex buddy decided to arrange gang bangs hotel meets. "

Just picked up on this

God knows why people never turn up its pisses me off big time and even worse they then block you or never return your messages

we have to accept that there are occasions where plans change, that's fine, but a simple message to explain would be nice

J x

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Goes both ways, women time waste too

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think the wank factor mentioned earlier also has a lot to do with it, a quick wank on fab for some people is enough but for others its not"

Hell of a lot of wankers on here then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that "

Not in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is Cose all the guys know 90% of social meet don't go farther than that "

where did that percentage come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet up for tomorrow night .I've had two cancel so far, two wanting to change day/time and more showing interest then not talking ....so now I've cancelled it and just seeing one friend .feeling fed up . Hope your luck changes op "
it’s usually like that for us guys where we talk then you stop talking but then still posting and changing status .... it sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a lot of problems with this too sadly. "
this is nuts I don’t understanf why people do this especially guys when it’s diffivjly enough to get a meet !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why i find spontaneous meets better , everyones in the mood

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Women are the same its taken me a year to meet someone on fab, it is actually much easier to go to the clubs and meet women than it is to meet genuine people on here through chatting, just my experiance

some want you to do all the work and promise the world to agree to a meet then they wonder why a guy feels he cant deliver or has second thoughts so he backs out, some of the demands i see from most women on fab are ridiculous, not many realistic women on here, everyones looking for mr perfect then get dissapointed when hes not actually interested

I'm not looking for Mr Perfect, far from it. "

Well thats lucky then - I don't think a mr perfect exists (at least thats what I have been told by female friends )

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I think the wank factor mentioned earlier also has a lot to do with it, a quick wank on fab for some people is enough but for others its not

Hell of a lot of wankers on here then lol."

90% of all men are wankers - the other 10% are just liars

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By *ustyBBW42Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

We had it happen a lot that’s why now we go to clubs or do spontaneous meets, as it’s wasting our time if they don’t show and we like to make the most of it when we are trying to be naughty xxxx

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