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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

We do not detest single guys, just not our thing... But there are a number, not a few on here that do not or cannot read profiles, cannot take a polite NO as an answer and feel its is personal when we say no...

Our experiance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore single men as long as they are polite, interesting, non pushy and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore single men as long as they are polite, interesting, non pushy and friendly "

Do they need to tick all those boxes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a strong word "detest" isn't it?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I would not say detested. Thereis just a lack of demand. The supply is so abundant though that people feel the need to be explicit about the lack of interest so as to deter.

As far as couples go there are some after single men but lets face it they will be able to pick and choose from thousands.

As with all things demand and supply effect everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore single men as long as they are polite, interesting, non pushy and friendly

Do they need to tick all those boxes lol "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do they need to tick all those boxes lol

Yes "

Has marker pen, will travel

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that that they need to be more than that even, respectful, clean and good looking are all things that we look for in a single guy.

If he doesn't measure up, there are plenty more queueing up that might

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By *ovable roguesCouple
over a year ago

GATESHEAD

we love to meet single males tho its not as easy as some ppl think

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Some couples (like us) do look for single guys, but some of the messages we get sent we do find hard to believe.

There are lots of single guys on fab so it's just a case of being lower down on the food chain so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !"

Did someone say couples don't get moaned about recently? lol

OP, we don't 'detest' single males, we actually like them, the good ones I mean. It's the idiots we don't like and choose not to interact with (some may call it ignorance).... I'm not calling you an idiot btw!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !

Did someone say couples don't get moaned about recently? lol

OP, we don't 'detest' single males, we actually like them, the good ones I mean. It's the idiots we don't like and choose not to interact with (some may call it ignorance).... I'm not calling you an idiot btw!!!

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The actual quote was "rarely"........ Still because I like your arse I will let you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !

Did someone say couples don't get moaned about recently? lol

OP, we don't 'detest' single males, we actually like them, the good ones I mean. It's the idiots we don't like and choose not to interact with (some may call it ignorance).... I'm not calling you an idiot btw!!!

The actual quote was "rarely"........ Still because I like your arse I will let you off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !

Did someone say couples don't get moaned about recently? lol

OP, we don't 'detest' single males, we actually like them, the good ones I mean. It's the idiots we don't like and choose not to interact with (some may call it ignorance).... I'm not calling you an idiot btw!!!

The actual quote was "rarely"........ Still because I like your arse I will let you off

"

Thats not to say it wouldn't receive a damn good spanking for incorrect quotations but I will try to limit the stinging to "mild" rather than "sensational"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !

Did someone say couples don't get moaned about recently? lol

OP, we don't 'detest' single males, we actually like them, the good ones I mean. It's the idiots we don't like and choose not to interact with (some may call it ignorance).... I'm not calling you an idiot btw!!!

The actual quote was "rarely"........ Still because I like your arse I will let you off

Thats not to say it wouldn't receive a damn good spanking for incorrect quotations but I will try to limit the stinging to "mild" rather than "sensational""

Note: Spanking isn't one of our interests...

*goes to cower in the corner*

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !"

I don't think they are detested at all.. the ones who make an effort will always stand out....

I always said the biggest obstical for single men is actually how other single men act..... and it is as much about the arsey way people waste time, or don't take rejection very well, or become pushy ect ect ect......

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

detested no of course not. we prefer single men ,, just the right ones,, thoses who show respect x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Quite like single men - I wouldn't get much fun on here otherwise.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

couples and a single profile ,, case in point !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore single men as long as they are polite, interesting, non pushy and friendly

Do they need to tick all those boxes lol

Yes "

best get ticking hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hypocritical that the women say strictly no single guys.

Then you read their profile/feedback where they say

'met the guy alone tonight' yet they never seem to meet the other half. So despite saying they don't go for single men they quite obviously do.

This makes sense if the women get their fun from sleeping with an attached guy. I get that. It's the ones that specifically turned down all the single guys for someone who obviously lied about being part of a couple when they were blatantly single.(the fake 'couples' ones you can tell are a lie usually all looking for a female and some even say 'just for the guy' with very ambiguous details for the 'woman' they are with.

I can't believe some women fall for it. At least the single guys are being honest about wanting one on one action.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I find it hypocritical that the women say strictly no single guys.

Then you read their profile/feedback where they say

'met the guy alone tonight' yet they never seem to meet the other half. So despite saying they don't go for single men they quite obviously do.

This makes sense if the women get their fun from sleeping with an attached guy. I get that. It's the ones that specifically turned down all the single guys for someone who obviously lied about being part of a couple when they were blatantly single.(the fake 'couples' ones you can tell are a lie usually all looking for a female and some even say 'just for the guy' with very ambiguous details for the 'woman' they are with.

I can't believe some women fall for it. At least the single guys are being honest about wanting one on one action."

Dont really play with attached men so they would fall flat with us. Single guys are fab

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

we love em,cant do dp withouth them

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We don't. We had a MMF last night and are meeting a new single guy for a drink on Monday. But here are soooooo many of you!

Now, as a bi couple with a horny lady, gagging for some pussy, why do all the single bi females detest couples so much???

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Why are single guys detested ? i have a couples profile , and get warm replies , singular , some what different !"

well we are only looking single guys so ur way off there, but i have to say there is few thing really annoy me/us. the hi guys how's it going, or well how u finding the site so far and ofcourse the hows ur day been so far. well those kind of opener come from a lot of single guys so get ignored and we do stress it on our profile but worst is the so when do i get to fuck u stupid or cant wait to get at that ass,for forst messages there not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we love to meet single males tho its not as easy as some ppl think "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore single men as long as they are polite, interesting, non pushy and friendly

Do they need to tick all those boxes lol "

depends which part they are pushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have blocked singles as we had too many and sometimes crass mail from them, however, we do choose to be friends with some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had that problem too were we have answer back saying and few days they send another message, now if we send a message to anyone and they don't reply then we just leave it and move on !

Often enough the men don't brother read profiles so we just get to the stage of block and move on.


"We do not detest single guys, just not our thing... But there are a number, not a few on here that do not or cannot read profiles, cannot take a polite NO as an answer and feel its is personal when we say no...

Our experiance..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite like single men - I wouldn't get much fun on here otherwise."

i agree the more the merrier

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"We do not detest single guys, just not our thing... But there are a number, not a few on here that do not or cannot read profiles, cannot take a polite NO as an answer and feel its is personal when we say no...

Our experiance..."

lol of course it is personal! There's something about someone that doesn't float your boat.

If they can't accept rejection that's their problem when all said and done.

You don't have to reply after all it's like receiving junk mail through your letter box!

It doesn't say any where that replies are mandatory it's just curtesy that prompts a reply.

And it's not just single guys who can be a pain as discussed on many a thread.

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

IM A SINGLE GUY and very polite if i msg a couple i make sure i read there profile first and if they reply no thank you your not for us then i just say thanks for replying take care and move on i dont get upset if i get rejected THATS LIFE theres always some couples who like to meet a genuine guy and who is not pushy and ask WHY WHY WHY WONT YOU MEET ME so there is a few nice guys like me on here thanks trevxx

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By *itchywarlocCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We like to meet single guys BUT why o why is it that they cannot read?

It clearly states on our profile what we expect in a message from a single guy and that he meets our stated criteria.

We delete without reading between 15-20 emails a week as they clearly haven't read the FULL profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say we are detested, but I've got sympathy with couples on this site, I can only imagine how many messages they must get starting like this....I know your not looking for Singles, but my Cock is Huge, wanna Fuck? People shouldnt take a no personal, just means were not what they are looking for.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"We like to meet single guys BUT why o why is it that they cannot read?

It clearly states on our profile what we expect in a message from a single guy and that he meets our stated criteria.

We delete without reading between 15-20 emails a week as they clearly haven't read the FULL profile."

She loves crisps!

But I still wouldn't read your whole profile because of the caps and rants it starts with so I wouldn't be contacting you as I personally feel starting off so negatively doesn't entice me further.

However, for the purpose of this thread I have

read it.

If you're getting so many emails from guys who haven't read perhaps you should revisit your profile and make it easier to read through. But of course you have the choice to set up your profile how you choose and guys have the same right to email you after reading as much as they want.

So you have choices to make:

Change profile or not.

Block guys and only choose those you want.

Get over what I class as Junk mail and accept

this is going to happen.

Why wind yourselves up over it.

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