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Nice guys get rejected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do nice guys always get rejected

Also if your Asian there's not even a chance =( what can I doo

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Wrong on both counts - there have been previous threads in both subjects and ultimately it's not about being nice, or the colour of your skin or anything other than being willing to be patient, put the effort in both with your profile and pics, and attending clubs and socials etc.

Sure there are no guarantees but having a positive attitude helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys who put the effort in do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys who put the effort in do well. "

When it comes to clubs:

Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys get ignored.

Cocky smarm-merchants do well.

Pack-hunters usually get lucky if they're persistent enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pictures, better text, dont bitch about not getting any. That should vastly improve your chances.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"If a man be lucky, there is no fortelling the possible extent of his good fortune.Pitch him into the Euphrates and like as not he will swim out with a pearl in his hand"

You need to consider that proverb and despite the odds put your bid in and see how it happens for you.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Oh shhhhh even woman get rejected

It's swinging life we are not for everyone

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By *unoversCouple
over a year ago

Clacton and Gloucester

It is down to the many liars and cheater to be found in the Male profiles. They claim to be single or their wife doesn’t mind and other such lies. Rather than risk all of that rubbish we tend to ignore the guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do nice guys always get rejected

Also if your Asian there's not even a chance =( what can I doo"

Playing the race card isn't nice especially when it's not justified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys who put the effort in do well. "

To be honest, the penis hidden under the duvet was a red flag too.

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

Update later...4 months! OP I think your profile needs a bit of attention. More body pics and more attention to the text! Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""If a man be lucky, there is no fortelling the possible extent of his good fortune.Pitch him into the Euphrates and like as not he will swim out with a pearl in his hand"

You need to consider that proverb and despite the odds put your bid in and see how it happens for you."
who are you and why are you on here?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Why do you ask that question?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think its an odd answer, thats all

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Scaramouch

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Update later...4 months! OP I think your profile needs a bit of attention. More body pics and more attention to the text! Good luck x "

How many body pictures you got?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys who put the effort in do well. "

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well that is a babylonian proverb, and is a good response in my opinion because the Op has generalised , he might be a cool guy that a lot of people would like but if you believe you would fail before you even start then how do you know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of men say nice guys get rejected. If you stop to consider this it's obviously not true. Most women will go for a decent guy with a good personality, what they think of as a good personality is down to the individual of course. A small minority of women will go for "a bad boy" but on the whole as a group we're not stupid.

There's no such thing as being too nice.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer you to this post it will clear stuff up

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/691340

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Whiney guys get rejected.

Nice guys who put the effort in do well. "

Eloquently put

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