FabSwingers.com forum: Single genuine guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How hard is it for a single genuine guy to meet females or couples. Been a while and nothing but time wasters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VERY hard! lol

To be fair its not that easy for couples either but will admit it may be slightly easier?!?!

We have to deal with time wasters to, Singles and couples!

Its just part of the process, Keep with it and try a diff approach?

Have you considered clubs and socials? .. Great way to meet

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's as easy or as hard as you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How hard is it for a single genuine guy to meet females or couples. Been a while and nothing but time wasters ."
is it a thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok one more thing, Please dont take this in a negative way but firstly change your profile to lower case as it looks like you are screaming at everyone

Secondly, Your profile looks a little desperate.. Anyone, Any age, Please contact me etc ... Just write about you and what you like without going over the top

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish. I have met onecouple in about eight months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

other people are in the same boat my friend

i dont have any meets either but i dont go moaning about it.

here are a few tips:

1 be Patience

2 use the chat room get your self known

3 try the socials if it fits your bill

4 read the Profile to the full

5 don't be pushy

6 avoid using text speak

7 be yourself

i hope this helps yeh it dose take time, every other single guy on here struggles well some dose some don't.

just enjoy your time being on here an have fun - repeated from another section

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I wish. I have met onecouple in about eight months"

So change your approach. The one you are using obviously isn't working for you (or them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how you sell yourself to be honest.

Have a think about this one...

As a couple, we get roughly 50 mails of interest from single males per week. We've been here 7 months... we can't say yes to everyone (I can count on one hand the ones we have had fun with).... I worked out the other day that I (the female half) would have had roughly 1,800 - 2,000 different lovers in a brief 7 months

We are fussy and very selective over who we meet, even for a social drink to see how we click, we've even changed our minds and cancelled (with good notice) if something doesn't sit right with either of us.

So then... I agree, you are right, it is hard for single males to get meets (I see you have had two) so you really need to make the effort to beat off the competition (other single males).

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

If you are the right person for them... not hard at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are the right person for them... not hard at all

Summat needs to be hard

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

See the above post from Frock Off, it speaks volumes.

The trick is not how to meet couples or girls, the trick is how to get couples or girls to meet you.

Frock Off are a fairly representative couple on here (I mean that in a good way), they have a good profile, attractive pics and to all intents and purposes will do what they say on the tin.

As a couple who will meet single guys of their choosing and at a time of their choosing, the trick is not to be one of the multiple guys who send them a mail every week.

You're never going to get noticed by them.

Other than geographically, I would more or less fit the bill as the kind of person they would be interested in.

I've got a good(ish) profile, nice pics and am verfied etc etc etc.

I'm also a wordsmith, so I can guarantee you I could write them a mail which would knock the socks off 99.9% of other mails.

But I rarely if ever write mails because they will tend to get lost in the maelstrom of shite in their inbox.

It doesnt matter how eloquent you are, you need THEM to notice YOU.

I did this the other day by casually mentioning how convenient it is for me to be able to flatten my eyebrows with my tongue in a forum post tucked away in the back of beyond.

I've been swamped ever since.

(okay, I made the last bit up, but you get my point)

Look at the profiles of people you would (in an ideal world) like to meet.

Now look at your profile.

Now look back at theirs.

Now look at your profile.

Would you meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooer Sensual ... I've just blushed lol

OP, I do hope the advice helps and you get some more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a bit of advice also.... starting lots of forum threads that are a tad cheesy, desperate etc dont help people either....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish. I have met onecouple in about eight months"
April 2011 was only about 4 months ago.... 2 meets in a month is not bad at all for a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a bit of advice also.... starting lots of forum threads that are a tad cheesy, desperate etc dont help people either...."

Aye, but fortunately for the OP less than 1% (I think that's what Admin quoted) of site users participate in the forums.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*Imagines how much he'd get laid if that figure was 99%*

I'd be beating them off with a stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*Imagines how much he'd get laid if that figure was 99%*

I'd be beating them off with a stick."

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By *illow_femaleWoman
over a year ago

Thetford

"*Imagines how much he'd get laid if that figure was 99%*

I'd be beating them off with a stick."

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