FabSwingers.com forum: Been caught at work :(

By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

What a nightmare the past few weeks have been...

My boss calls me into his office, which was a bit odd as I didn't think I'd been doign anything wrong and sits me down. He's got a piece of paper with him..

"I've been handed a list of websites you've been looking at from your works PC...."

My heart sank.... I knew what was on that paper...but pretended not to initially.. "Really?" - looking rather worried.

"yes, and lets just say they dont seem to be work related."

I coudlnt' argue, and didn't want to insult his intelligence even more.

At this stage I'm so embarressed... I mean what do you say? So I thought - ok I'll try and explain.

I started to explain how we'd got into it after a bit of a d*unken fantasy from the wife. She'd said we shoudl try it and thought lots of people our age did it?

Part of me was secretly hoping he would understand - hes older than me, a man of the world - surely he'd had the same thoughts?

But no... he just stayed there stern faced as I tried explain it away..

I was just making things worse...

He said that as long as I didn't visit those websites again then that woulld be the end of the matter and that this was just a verbal warning.

I took it as such - but it didn't end there...

Somehow people found out... it wasn't long before there was sniggereing behind my back, people I've known for years would suddenly change subject as I walked into the coffee room...

I've had enough - I knew there would be stigma attached but never realised how much!!

Forutnately my parents have been at it too for the last 12 years so we've been able to confide in them but you still feel like an outcast..

I'm struggling to go to work at the moment and considering jacking it all in.

So has anyone else been caught lookign at caravaning websites at work?

D&K

PS I apologies I'm just in a silly mood today - Kate had nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had me going! Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got to bit about your parents and thought wtf!!!!

Fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really started to feel your pain initially.... excellent post

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I had to read it three times before I got the like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it

You had me going! Thought you were going to say that it turned into a meet......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made me smile too ...very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx"

I don't think his cock got him into the world of caravans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx

I don't think his cock got him into the world of caravans

No. It was his mate, Brian

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Oh the shame!

I don't know how you had the guts to come on here and admit that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx

I don't think his cock got him into the world of caravans

No. It was his mate, Brian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx

I don't think his cock got him into the world of caravans

No. It was his mate, Brian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely disgraceful...

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Very funny, well done

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

First rule: Don't use web sites you don't want the office knowing about. If you do not control your internet connection, then you can be sure someone is watching the traffic.

Even service providers log your access against your account. That's why I use very high levels of security and access. I let people know only what I want them to know.

As to work place experiences. Yes, had a few. We had a couple live and work with us for 6 months, yet no one in the office cottoned onto all the flirting between our foursome.

Had another couple who moved and lived near us for 2 years. They worked with me on a range of projects and again no one picked up on the flirting, which was overt in many cases!

Maybe it's just that I'm friendly and flirty and people just expect.

I've had staff express an interest at times too. Not because they 'discovered' something, just their interest.

I guess your boss isn't as confidential as should be and certainly whomever handed him the 'list' has failed in their duty to keep matters strictly confidential.

Two options:

1. Hang in there, people will get bored of the topic in good time. British love a sex scandal. Most who will snigger are only sniggering because they are jealous of the fact you ARE whilst they only fantasise.

2. Look for a new job. When you do, maybe ask about their view on swinging

I did that once and landed a significant digit contract

3. Smile and be open to answer questions. Ignore the sniggering. You never know someone else there might be interested in joining you

I know I said 2

But there is always a 3rd option.

Look if you can honest tell me that in that very same workplace you have never spoken to someone else about the sex lives of other people then you don't deserve the be ridiculed by your work mates and it's totally inappropriate.

However if you have, be it about a story in the newspaper or something you saw in the TV news, or some work mate who 'banged a hot blonde from the pub down the road last week' - then maybe reflect on yourself and the people you work with as to how honest everyone really is.

Honestly doesn't mean telling everyone about your private life, or even answering for it. But it does mean not being the abuser of the very same thing you are crying victim about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Prisee,

Did you miss the bit about him accessing Caravan websites by any chance?

Frock xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Class and must point a friend to this post.

Caravaners how sick and twisted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First rule: Don't use web sites you don't want the office knowing about. If you do not control your internet connection, then you can be sure someone is watching the traffic.

Even service providers log your access against your account. That's why I use very high levels of security and access. I let people know only what I want them to know.

As to work place experiences. Yes, had a few. We had a couple live and work with us for 6 months, yet no one in the office cottoned onto all the flirting between our foursome.

Had another couple who moved and lived near us for 2 years. They worked with me on a range of projects and again no one picked up on the flirting, which was overt in many cases!

Maybe it's just that I'm friendly and flirty and people just expect.

I've had staff express an interest at times too. Not because they 'discovered' something, just their interest.

I guess your boss isn't as confidential as should be and certainly whomever handed him the 'list' has failed in their duty to keep matters strictly confidential.

Two options:

2. Look for a new job. When you do, maybe ask about their view on swinging

I did that once and landed a significant digit contract

3. Smile and be open to answer questions. Ignore the sniggering. You never know someone else there might be interested in joining you

I know I said 2

But there is always a 3rd option.

Honestly doesn't mean telling everyone about your private life, or even answering for it. But it does mean not being the abuser of the very same thing you are crying victim about.

Ha Ha you best read it again, was good advise tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First rule: Don't use web sites you don't want the office knowing about. If you do not control your internet connection, then you can be sure someone is watching the traffic.

Even service providers log your access against your account. That's why I use very high levels of security and access. I let people know only what I want them to know.

As to work place experiences. Yes, had a few. We had a couple live and work with us for 6 months, yet no one in the office cottoned onto all the flirting between our foursome.

Had another couple who moved and lived near us for 2 years. They worked with me on a range of projects and again no one picked up on the flirting, which was overt in many cases!

Maybe it's just that I'm friendly and flirty and people just expect.

I've had staff express an interest at times too. Not because they 'discovered' something, just their interest.

I guess your boss isn't as confidential as should be and certainly whomever handed him the 'list' has failed in their duty to keep matters strictly confidential.

Two options:

2. Look for a new job. When you do, maybe ask about their view on swinging

I did that once and landed a significant digit contract

3. Smile and be open to answer questions. Ignore the sniggering. You never know someone else there might be interested in joining you

I know I said 2

But there is always a 3rd option.

Honestly doesn't mean telling everyone about your private life, or even answering for it. But it does mean not being the abuser of the very same thing you are crying victim about.

Ha Ha you best read it again, was good advise tho

+1 lmao read before comenting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D&K That was awesome...really had me going!

Thanks for the giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww that was funny...am still giggling away. Classic OP, well done...more of those pls xx

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By *illow_femaleWoman
over a year ago

Thetford

Awww you right had me going there then...

So funny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great and funny lighthearted post-love it!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

That was brilliant, I was startin to feel for you, had me cringing with you there. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao mint post i was reading that on the edge of my seat haha.

And truthfully id rather be caught looking at this site than a caravan one lol

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By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

Thanks all!

It did come from the amount of grief I was getting from colleagues about getting a "van"... Which I still actually find difficult to admin!

But was thinking, of those colleagues who know about this side of my life have nothing but envy... and hency the irony of it all.

Thanks for giggling I appreciate it and really happy to know a few peopel smiled from it

Happy Vanning!... I mean swinging...

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I openly browse and post on a camping related website during my lunch break.

My colleagues know I am keen tenter, so it is not a surprise to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careful about becoming paranoid, not every one is talking about you. In fact most people don't give a damn, chances are they were talking about something else and you popped in and broke the flow, ergo the silence. If your swinging most people are probably jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Careful about becoming paranoid, not every one is talking about you. In fact most people don't give a damn, chances are they were talking about something else and you popped in and broke the flow, ergo the silence. If your swinging most people are probably jealous. "

Being spoken about because you swing isn't the problem

Read again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo you had me going a treat there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely fun thread - had me laughing.

The sensible replies had me laughing even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what is funnier, the OP or some of the replies that demonstrate how well they misread the OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the caravan's a rockin'....

PLEASE come a knockin!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good story , i wasnt so lucky , i got caught looking a porn, red handed

lol hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know what is funnier, the OP or some of the replies that demonstrate how well they misread the OP!

I've shed a tear or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boyfriend builds caravans lol

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

jeez only a verbal warning should have been a written warning for looking at caravan sites

and re parents they have a lot to blame for this getting you involved in it

should be a law about it

lol xxx bloody good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant! Laughed my arse off, literally!!!

James x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen Prisee's reply and it's set me off again!!!!!!!

We bought a caravan too this year - so you're alone in your depravity!

James x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!"

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laughed at the parents bit...

Mine have never had sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, the disgust felt when I read the word "Caravanning"!

The hours spent behind those beige boxes when trying to get to the south coast.

Nightmare.

We've heard that some "caravanners" don't use these mobile homes to meet strangers & friends for sexual activity but actually go on holiday in them!

Shudder at the thought.

OP: Hang your head in shame!

Him

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian?? "

Check out the 11th Post. In it the word 'brain' has been mis-spelt and reads as Brian.

This was a brilliant post.

Even moreso, becasuse of those oh, so serious replies from people who obviously skimmed through the text and didn't read to the punchline tag at the end!

More fool them!

To the OP, if you think that was bad, about 2 years ago, a work colleague was called in to see the Manager and asked to explain why she'd been caught out applying to other jobs, in our company's time????

She became an "ex-colleague" very quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha! ur a git, really got me going there!

thanks for the giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even moreso, becasuse of those oh, so serious replies from people who obviously skimmed through the text and didn't read to the punchline tag at the end!"

It's been a giggle and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through so many emotions reading the OP but even more reading some of the replies, just goes to show how reading (and in some cases opening)things properly before replying helps .

Its been a really really funny thread to read, the best emotion ever laughter , thanks guys and girls xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian?? "

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out "

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

never mind getting told off by the boss, did he call the men in white coats to take you away to that special home with locks on the doors? or alternatively send you to dale Farm?

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By *axonsfunCouple
over a year ago

durham

brilliant, i was totally taken in. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out ""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out "

i said he could but he wasnt home from work yet !!

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out "

i said he could but he wasnt home from work yet !!"

To Quote Monty Python "Brians been a very naughty Boy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We share your shame. We sold our 'van

this year after it was spotted on google earth by a work colleague, the shame was too much. We have gone back to tents, we can hide them in the garage. Some people are so hurtful... We loved our little 'van but it was her or the job, and she didn't pay the bills. We still look at the spot on the drive and weep.... It's too painful now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boyfriend builds caravans lol

i live in one ...ooh hush my mouth !!

Oooh I thought you did

And to a previous post...whose Brian??

THAT REMINDS me of a message i had yesterday "can i come and fuck your Brians out ""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had stoped to think with your brian instead of your cock, ie work's computers and phones are all logged feel sorry for you in a way but did it make us laugh sorry.xx

I don't think his cock got him into the world of caravans

If it did then that's quite specialist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got paranoid as hell there for a second. Haha, brilliant post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Briliant OP, and welcome to the great world of caravanning!

Ignore the antis!

Coincidentally, just ordered a new one this morning, spending the next 2 weeks in the soon to be old one! And I'm sure I'll be thinking back and remembering the wonderful fun I've enjoyed in it's big island bed!! lol

Have caravan, will........!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice one dave lol

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