FabSwingers.com forum: Young swingers?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are n some ain't

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Yes alot of couples are but only when meeting there critera

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's so frustrating

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Do an advance search that should help

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

It's be not b. Even my 4 year old knows this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem

It's be not b. Even my 4 year old knows this

Your punctuation is poor as you missed the full stops.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

There are less young swingers about. You should be fine meeting others in their twenties. For people who are in their 40s and 50s, they have kids your age and won't be keen on meeting people your age in my opinion. Try a club that allows entry to over 18s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't know this was a English lesson . Illiterate fucks . Course I can spell , don't see the point in correcting my grama considering it's FABSWINGERS and not an English test. If you base you're lifes judging by other people's grama mistakes than you must live a very boring life .haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't know this was a English lesson . Illiterate fucks . Course I can spell , don't see the point in correcting my grama considering it's FABSWINGERS and not an English test. If you base you're lifes judging by other people's grama mistakes than you must live a very boring life .haha"

And there's the problem

you definitely seem your age

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I think this display of attitude shows your immaturity and sums up why many people won't meet younger swingers like you.

Good luck finding a meet - you're going to need it!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Such a shame when things backfire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's grammar not grama. And your not you're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its the profile full of bravado and bullshit holding you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's the problem

you definitely seem your age "

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

You are lucky you have fab swingers at this age , if I knew about swinging when I was your age it would have helped me to develop faster

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

And there's the problem

you definitely seem your age "

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that a guy at the age of 19 will struggle, yes. I'm still in my 20s and even when we first started swinging a few years back I wouldn't have been with a 19 year old guy. I personally think I wouldn't have much to talk about with a 19 year old. And guys that young tend to have a babyface look I don't find attractive.

Anyway....I think it's difficult for single guys on here generally and you can multiply that difficulty once a guy is under the age of 25.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Think you're on the wrong website. Get out in the real world with people your own age and get some life experience. With the attitude exhibited you don't have a chance on here.

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By *estridemeMan
over a year ago

Liversedge

"Think you're on the wrong website. Get out in the real world with people your own age and get some life experience. With the attitude exhibited you don't have a chance on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men, they’re more mature and know what they’re doing in my eyes, nothing more unattractive to me than a boy who acts younger and sillier than I do

Amber x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

Buy bye or by or bi even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older men, they’re more mature and know what they’re doing in my eyes, nothing more unattractive to me than a boy who acts younger and sillier than I do

Amber x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the issue is the attitude, your comment ablutnboring lives, was a bit of an example

As to why couples, females etc are put off by young swingers, it’s the perceived view of immaturity... good luck though with your search but maybe look at an age range that’s around your age or alternatively set the age range on search to include people who want your age...

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you're on the wrong website. Get out in the real world with people your own age and get some life experience. With the attitude exhibited you don't have a chance on here."

But he has a cock and he wants to get it wet....and don’t tell him off he’ll stamp his feet

This sadly is why I would never think of meeting anyone under 25

MrsK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd you lot are soooo friendly towards a young guy who just asked for a little guidance.

Can’t beat a good kicking in the ego when you’re starting out.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We would never play with anyone young enough to be our kids or old enough to be our parents. But it’s horses for courses at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young for me!

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I couldn't play with someone who is young enough to be my child. 19 is way to young for me.

Plus and this is just my opinion I find younger guys to be selfish and only interested in their pleasure. Which is why I prefer older men as they are more interested in pleasing a

woman and making sure she cums first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok from this post I have learnt two things, firstly never annoy the ladies on here as they are brutal and will cut you down. Secondly I am keeping a dictionary with me when I write any messages on here??

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this? "

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We would never play with anyone young enough to be our kids or old enough to be our parents. But it’s horses for courses at the end of the day.

Mr"

You play with horses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's the problem

you definitely seem your age "

Old people respond in the same way to nit pickers on here. The nit pickers are usually old too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want. "

Swingers are people just getting laid too.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Same age as my son so it would be a no for me.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

Swingers are people just getting laid too. "

Having sexy isn't the same as swinging. If it was, everyone would be a swinger.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

My experience is the women who like toyboys often don't like to acknowledge this on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust "

Are you fucking serious James? A 'feminine trait'?! How so??

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

There are plenty of ladies who would like to sample your young exuberance. Look at your messaging style as a possible area of improvement if you are struggling. Message only those whose age range includes your age obviously. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

Swingers are people just getting laid too.

Having sexy isn't the same as swinging. If it was, everyone would be a swinger. "

Swinging ultimately involves having sex. Your aim is to get laid. Having a drink and a chat before or after isn't restricted to couples. If you're not having sex you're a couple of people out socialising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you're on the wrong website. Get out in the real world with people your own age and get some life experience. With the attitude exhibited you don't have a chance on here.

But he has a cock and he wants to get it wet....and don’t tell him off he’ll stamp his feet

This sadly is why I would never think of meeting anyone under 25

MrsK "

This is the kind of attitude that stops me meeting couples, and old people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

What a load of rot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

What a load of rot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust

Are you fucking serious James? A 'feminine trait'?! How so??"

I was wondering the same

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Callz you alway get the spelling brigade on here thay don't want dick or clits. so what thay doing on a shaging site is beyond me. most just on here to put others right on spelling mistakes

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I’m not attracted in the slightest to your age group. Then again I wouldn’t expect you to be attracted to us because of our ages either.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Sweetheart, I said it is a feminine trait because he reacted emotionally instead of logically

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

You are lucky you have fab swingers at this age , if I knew about swinging when I was your age it would have helped me to develop faster "

Feminine trait?!

Yes still being a teenager will make it pretty hard for you on here. I prefer the older lived in look myself not the new to shaving look. Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweetheart, I said it is a feminine trait because he reacted emotionally instead of logically"

Tell that to all the fourteen year old boys who can’t accept they’re ever wrong. Emotional, yes.. not feminine though.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

Check your own spelling first

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Unfortunately on the forums, your post doesn't always head in the direction you expect, when people struggle to make sense of what you have written because of bad spelling or grammar, they will often comment or correct, or even just take the piss, younger posters see this as undeserved criticism and explosively react, it can destroy the credibility of your profile instantly, leading to blocking, reading your posts we immediately assumed you are uneducated, immature, and volatile, non of which are traits we are looking for in a sexual playmate, swinging requires control and maturity an a sense of humour, none of which you have displayed, that is a common base problem that stops us choosing younger players on here, hope this helps you to understand.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

It’s tricky for us as jizzabelle would like to meet women her own age but on the whole I’m attracted to women in their late 30’s. So at the end of the day those numbers go out the window and you just look at who you are attracted to when you meet face to face in a club. That’s when age is not the main issue. It’s just about who you are.

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust

Are you fucking serious James? A 'feminine trait'?! How so??"

Uh oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

You are lucky you have fab swingers at this age , if I knew about swinging when I was your age it would have helped me to develop faster "

Having read a few of your posts can I just say you talk more shite than 10 arses.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

Swingers are people just getting laid too.

Having sexy isn't the same as swinging. If it was, everyone would be a swinger.

So do you think everyone who has ever had sex is a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem

It's be not b. Even my 4 year old knows this

*four

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

*Be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem

It's be not b. Even my 4 year old knows this

Your punctuation is poor as you missed the full stops.

You missed the comma, between poor and as.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough reading some of you're replies . In my opinion just because I'm abit fireiery may not be due to my age. I know lots of older people with the same explosive and spontaneous personality as me . I'm all for taking criticism however when there are a good 50+ people correcting you're "gramar" and moking you about you're age and automatically judging you , I feel you're going to get defensive and have a little retaliation. It's fair enough that sleeping with a younger guy is not for you however not all young people want to sleep with older women too . Minimum age limit is 18 on here meaning there will be other young people too , not every one want to meet an older lady either . I feel a lot of you have just jumped on this bandwagon and haven't taken what I actually asked into perspective . I didn't post on this forum to ask to sleep with people , all I did was ask a simple question. Thank you too those who actually answered me seriously .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And also just for you older men regarding my age as too young, I can guarantee you are scrolling the site for a younger women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not attracted in the slightest to your age group. Then again I wouldn’t expect you to be attracted to us because of our ages either. "

Well we all think we all think alike...but wouldnt the world be so boring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And also just for you older men regarding my age as too young, I can guarantee you are scrolling the site for a younger women "

Hey man im with you.

I started on here at 24 and i got loads of shit for my age, then people actually met me, and suddely stopped seeing me as just another 24/5/6 year old and saw me as me.

Some people will like you, some people wont.

As the old saying goes, those who matter, dont mind, and those who mind, dont matter

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Age is no problem for me. Longs you your old enough. Love to meet young couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweetheart, I said it is a feminine trait because he reacted emotionally instead of logically"

A very retro attitude there...bringing back the 1950's

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The immaturity of some fellow ‘young swingers’ give us a bad name. But hey ho, you can’t always be for everyone. Just learn to accept rejection and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And also just for you older men regarding my age as too young, I can guarantee you are scrolling the site for a younger women "

Yeah, but then we ignore the ones with shitty attitudes..

Age isn't a problem, immaturity is. There's a world of difference between young and immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough reading some of you're replies . In my opinion just because I'm abit fireiery may not be due to my age. I know lots of older people with the same explosive and spontaneous personality as me . I'm all for taking criticism however when there are a good 50+ people correcting you're "gramar" and moking you about you're age and automatically judging you , I feel you're going to get defensive and have a little retaliation. It's fair enough that sleeping with a younger guy is not for you however not all young people want to sleep with older women too . Minimum age limit is 18 on here meaning there will be other young people too , not every one want to meet an older lady either . I feel a lot of you have just jumped on this bandwagon and haven't taken what I actually asked into perspective . I didn't post on this forum to ask to sleep with people , all I did was ask a simple question. Thank you too those who actually answered me seriously ."

I started really young with couples but maybe was different time as there was no fab/internet so people didn’t have a buffet to choose from!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not put off,its up to you to be here and your right.

I wouldn't meet someone of your age though

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

Swingers are people just getting laid too.

Having sexy isn't the same as swinging. If it was, everyone would be a swinger.

So do you think everyone who has ever had sex is a swinger? "

I don't see anyone who has sex as swingers. The term is outdated and doesn't fit most people who are having sex outside of a relationship. Ultimately, people want sex regardless of whether they are meeting alone or with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your maturity would show some old people up, on here.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Some people will be put off, maybe it’s a preference, maybe it is the ewk factor of ducking someone younger than their kids. You can’t knock em. We all have our own views.

Some people will have inbuilt models of what a 19 yo is like in attitude. Or bedroom skills or whatever. Some may simply filter. Some may test you. In this instance I think you have failed OP and proved them right. Others like a poster above would have passed. This isn’t an age thing. It’s just you. Sorry cowboy.

Some people will not even notice (or care) about age. But I’m afraid they may still care about what you’re like. Again, if your attitude is always as defensive as it appears then I suspect you, not your age, will trip you up.

And some will live a young un. Go find these and duck em silly. Just don’t act like a dick. And I promise not to whinge that these folk don’t like us older gents !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more concerned about OP calling people those who correct his spelling 'illiterate fucks'.

At least call them 'literate fucks'!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this?

OP, what in your mind defines you as a swinger? Ask yourself if you really believe in ethical non-monogamy, or if you are just a young single guy who's trying to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with either, I have been both myself, but I think it's important that you know what you are, and what you want.

Swingers are people just getting laid too.

Having sexy isn't the same as swinging. If it was, everyone would be a swinger.

So do you think everyone who has ever had sex is a swinger?

Personally I see a difference between couple who have talked about what kind of relationship they want and decided to be non-monogamous, and single people who want to get laid but wouldn't ever consider non-monogamy if they were in a relationship.

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By *anarian guyMan
over a year ago

Maspalomas

some lady or a couple Kik chat Camera?? Right Now;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started on here when I was 20 and yeah some people don’t like the younger guys and some do, just like how I’ve realisticly got an age i wouldn’t go over.

It will be difficult at first but once you start to get a repour with people it will get easier.

You will find it goes in stages, one month you’d get messages back left,right and center. The next thing you know your not getting anywhere, just gotta take your time and not rush things or come over as to eager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does not being gay or bisexual have any thing to do with 'meeting couples' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too young for me. Have three sons in their twenties so too creepy for me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"That is a feminine trait you have just displayed and you need to stop it, when people point out a mistake, just accept it and adjust.

You are lucky you have fab swingers at this age , if I knew about swinging when I was your age it would have helped me to develop faster

Having read a few of your posts can I just say you talk more shite than 10 arses. "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

A bit unfair!

Having taken a quick look at it - he’s put far more effort into his profile than most guys of any age do!

Op - you look great but you’re quite a lot younger than my oldest child - which would make it a definite no-no from me and many people my age!

However, there are people of all ages on fab and I’m sure you’d appeal to some of them. Question would be - do they appeal to you too?

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Far from having a boring life we find getting things correct enriches our lives. Please spell grammar correctly.

Its not a test of the English language but it does say loads about the person.

What you are likely to be in bed if you are so sloppy in your approach to the English language beggars belief.

With a quick look at your latest utterance I can see at least eight grammatical and spelling mistakes.

Keep calm and take your time as no lady will enjoy the rushed attention of an inexperienced teenager.

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By *avidandjaneukCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

"And also just for you older men regarding my age as too young, I can guarantee you are scrolling the site for a younger women "

You can guarantee nothing, I was into mature ladies when i was young and I'm still into mature ladies now.

I have a daughter your age.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"some lady or a couple Kik chat Camera?? Right Now;)"

A hijacking the Popular Front would have been proud of.

Not for us op as our age preferences starts at 20.

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

And there's the problem

you definitely seem your age "

Whilst I felt telling you that you spelt like a 5 year old was a little unecesary it did provide you with the perfect oppertunity to display your maturity and earn yourself some bonus points in the forum however this type of response from you only serves to make it harder for yourself.

My advice to you is to remember that this is a forum and you will come into conflict i.e. diffrent oppinions and ideas followed by childish insults.

Don't allow yourself to become so upset you repond in the same way just try to let it go over your head and impress other potential meets with a mature attitude and handling of such post's.

You won't tick everyones box but you will others so just stay focused, polite and keep trying.

Your sincere best bet is to try a club on newbies night.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Good OP, now you have reacted like a man, you have thought about the problem and addressed it logically, it's not like you agreed with anyone you just stated where you were coming from.

Look at the thread,despite all the things the ladies might throw at me, I am still civil , very respectful and sweet to them and will never respond to them in the same fashion.

Because, when you react emotionally it means you have stopped thinking and have become helpless. It is ok for women to be emotional ,it is their nature but not for guys, think ten steps ahead everytime , cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just catching up on this thread... im only 21, does that put me at a disadvantage would anyone say?

Simply curious is all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just catching up on this thread... im only 21, does that put me at a disadvantage would anyone say?

Simply curious is all x"

No. Because you have a vagina.

Not only do single women do far better on here by default, young women are also generally desirable in a way that young men aren't.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Just catching up on this thread... im only 21, does that put me at a disadvantage would anyone say?

Simply curious is all x"

I’d imagine those with kids your age may(and that’s may) not be looking for your age.

But you seem like you can spell. So you’re okay by everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just catching up on this thread... im only 21, does that put me at a disadvantage would anyone say?

Simply curious is all x

I’d imagine those with kids your age may(and that’s may) not be looking for your age.

But you seem like you can spell. So you’re okay by everyone else!

As a masters student you'd hope i could spell..

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Wow what a hijack!

We'll just answer the question. No, age isn't our interest, we've met all ages and played with all ages.

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

“This is a shagging site” or “people who are bothered by grammar shouldn’t be on a sex site” seems a common thing to be said by illiterate teenage boys who aren’t getting much luck of here when people point out why they may not be getting meets.

First of all it’s a swingers site. Much different. You’ll find the majority of swingers enjoy the social aspect of the lifestyle as well as the physical. Many of us attend clubs to catch up with friends as well as meeting and playing with new people. Also those of us looking for FWB’s want more than a physical connection, where socialising is a must. If you’re after a quick fuck go dogging, get yourself on fuckbook/ tinder or go get a hooker.

The age thing can put a lot of people off, men your age usually come across as full of bravado and are disrespectful to couples and women. Obviously not all but you get my point.

If you want a better chance at having meets then why not take a look at people’s comments and adjust accordingly. Unfortunately you’re in the majority and will struggle for meets purely because you’re a single male. And the attitude is what’s probably putting people off more than your age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"“This is a shagging site” or “people who are bothered by grammar shouldn’t be on a sex site” seems a common thing to be said by illiterate teenage boys who aren’t getting much luck of here when people point out why they may not be getting meets.

The age thing can put a lot of people off, men your age usually come across as full of bravado and are disrespectful to couples and women. Obviously not all but you get my point.

Hahaha . Never said people who are bothered by grammar shouldn't have sex. Stop twisting words to make you look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 19 I'm classed as a young swinger. Are people put of bye this? "

Great spelling,a triumph of the British education system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grammar* Jesus calling people illiterate this is what gives us a bad name cockwomble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe spelling like a 5 year old could b your problem"

Yeah, it could b!

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