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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes there are lots of happy ever after stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have met here and now in relationships, some have even got married and still swing.

I met my partner on here four years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"

Snap!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think if you truly love the person then you wouldn't miss the lifestyle at all.

Personally I wouldn't go out if my way to find a partner to swing with. I'd focus more on the relationship first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"

G and i met via another swinging website over ten years ago. Fell in love even though neither of us were looking for anything more than nsa fun. Moved in together, been married a few years now. Still swing although not very often now due to a busy family life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you truly love the person then you wouldn't miss the lifestyle at all.

Personally I wouldn't go out if my way to find a partner to swing with. I'd focus more on the relationship first. "

Tried this. Didn't work. If it is part of who you are then you can't compromise it for a relationship.

Magic and I met on another site but knew of each other on here. He is my soul mate I know of quite a few people who have entered into a loving relationship within this lifestyle. Just don't compromise who you are

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something i would certainly be open too.

I would love a swinging open relationship.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My sister met a lovely man on fab, they've been married a couple of years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen lots of threads about this and about dating from single women too

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We met via a different site but now together forever and have the best of both worlds. If you really enjoy the life then meeting someone with the same wants and needs works best for a long lasting relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met via a different site but now together forever and have the best of both worlds. If you really enjoy the life then meeting someone with the same wants and needs works best for a long lasting relationship"

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

There are lots of us who met on fab and have happy, loving, successful relationships.

We met 4.5 years ago in the chat rooms on here. I moved in after six months and we’ve now been married 2.5 years.

The key to a good solid relationship from here is not rushing into playing with others. Take time to build a good solid foundation first. Oh and communication is vital. Be open and honest with each other every step of the way.

We’ve agreed that if either of us says that’s it, no more fab, then we quit. We do this together or not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, thanks for all the good replies. Looks like i could meet Mrs Swinger on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you truly love the person then you wouldn't miss the lifestyle at all.

Personally I wouldn't go out if my way to find a partner to swing with. I'd focus more on the relationship first. "

this xxx

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs "

Our approach is very similar to yours. We met via that well known kink site and unexpectedly fell in love. However although we both have a sickeningly soppy side. Both of us have realised and accepted the fact that monogamy doesn't work for either of us. That acceptance and the freedom it gives us both has taken away much of the sense of craving we had as singles. Why? because we know we can, there's nothing to miss. So although we go to clubs and spa's 1-2 times a month most of our interactions with others does not include full swinging. We're quite content just feeding off the atmosphere and only go with the flow if both of us are happy to.

That may or may not change over time but for us building the relationship is the priority.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs

Our approach is very similar to yours. We met via that well known kink site and unexpectedly fell in love. However although we both have a sickeningly soppy side. Both of us have realised and accepted the fact that monogamy doesn't work for either of us. That acceptance and the freedom it gives us both has taken away much of the sense of craving we had as singles. Why? because we know we can, there's nothing to miss. So although we go to clubs and spa's 1-2 times a month most of our interactions with others does not include full swinging. We're quite content just feeding off the atmosphere and only go with the flow if both of us are happy to.

That may or may not change over time but for us building the relationship is the priority."

I love the sound of that!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs

Our approach is very similar to yours. We met via that well known kink site and unexpectedly fell in love. However although we both have a sickeningly soppy side. Both of us have realised and accepted the fact that monogamy doesn't work for either of us. That acceptance and the freedom it gives us both has taken away much of the sense of craving we had as singles. Why? because we know we can, there's nothing to miss. So although we go to clubs and spa's 1-2 times a month most of our interactions with others does not include full swinging. We're quite content just feeding off the atmosphere and only go with the flow if both of us are happy to.

That may or may not change over time but for us building the relationship is the priority.

I love the sound of that!"

Awww thank you.

Its not easy though it does require hard work. We're mindful not to take each other for granted and it requires a level of honesty that could be described and ruthless.

However, its oh so very very very worth it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs

Our approach is very similar to yours. We met via that well known kink site and unexpectedly fell in love. However although we both have a sickeningly soppy side. Both of us have realised and accepted the fact that monogamy doesn't work for either of us. That acceptance and the freedom it gives us both has taken away much of the sense of craving we had as singles. Why? because we know we can, there's nothing to miss. So although we go to clubs and spa's 1-2 times a month most of our interactions with others does not include full swinging. We're quite content just feeding off the atmosphere and only go with the flow if both of us are happy to.

That may or may not change over time but for us building the relationship is the priority.

I love the sound of that!

Awww thank you.

Its not easy though it does require hard work. We're mindful not to take each other for granted and it requires a level of honesty that could be described and ruthless.

However, its oh so very very very worth it. "

I'm sure it can be an absolute minefield if there's a lack of communication between a couple,but great when you both work well together.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We met at a swinging party two and a half years ago and had sex. Met again at another swinging party a few weeks later. Had sex again and he beat me with a riding crop. Then he asked me out on a date and we have been a couple ever since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met at a swinging party two and a half years ago and had sex. Met again at another swinging party a few weeks later. Had sex again and he beat me with a riding crop. Then he asked me out on a date and we have been a couple ever since. "

Do you still swing together/alone?

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman
over a year ago

St Helens

Since I changed my profile and became very honest about wanting a vanilla type relationship with some swinging; some great guys have been in touch.

Got some social meets coming up so fingers crossed!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Since I changed my profile and became very honest about wanting a vanilla type relationship with some swinging; some great guys have been in touch.

Got some social meets coming up so fingers crossed! "

You sound amazing, I'm going to cross my fingers for you too. One of the things that drew me to my girlfriend is that fact that she's a genuine geek and Star Wars fan too. Having so much in common besides our perversions made her irresistible to me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here 2 years ago and its our anniversary tomorrow.

We meet as singles and as a couple,so ot does happen op and I think lots of people are open to it.

Miss

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We met at a swinging party two and a half years ago and had sex. Met again at another swinging party a few weeks later. Had sex again and he beat me with a riding crop. Then he asked me out on a date and we have been a couple ever since.

Do you still swing together/alone?"

We swung together til a couple of months ago when he decided he wanted a break from swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look forward to a fab relationship

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I met one of my partners on a fetish website similar to this (now defunct). It's still going strong six years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met via Fab over 6 years ago - happy as little piggies rolling in smelly stuff - my wife is wonderful and I get incredibly turned on seeing her having sex with others - which she thoroughly enjoys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"

Yes and she married him!!!!

Yes you can find it and can continue the lifestyle but remember this isn't for everyone. Trust is a must to have this sort of relationship and understanding.

We don't swing all the time and only when needs arise. Don't let fab or swinging take over your life and never jeopardise a relationship for it either.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Wow, thanks for all the good replies. Looks like i could meet Mrs Swinger on here! "

However you may discover that when you love someone you may not wish to share. Sometimes the thought is very differant than the reality

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By *exycouple68Couple
over a year ago

herefordshire

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By *exycouple68Couple
over a year ago

herefordshire


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"
I met my now husband on here and yes we are still on here and meet people together quite often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s possible but you must have trust and communication

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over a year ago

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?

G and i met via another swinging website over ten years ago. Fell in love even though neither of us were looking for anything more than nsa fun. Moved in together, been married a few years now. Still swing although not very often now due to a busy family life."
Buddha and I had a similar story, neither of us were looking for someone other than bad. Now very happily married to each other and very occasionally swing x

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that."

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation "

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol"

I thought the woman would be off swinging too?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol"

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship

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over a year ago

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship "

Lol what is FOMO?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship "

Evie i agree but at same time this guy thinks that every woman will want him! Does he not realise that on fab women can decide on who they like to see/meet or not so him saying that he had things in his favour? Hmmm sorry mate no man has things in their favour women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men will say anything to snare a woman to use as bait. Lots have found 'love' on here.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I've been here quite a few years.....was looking for the same thing unfortunately haven't found it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking, not found my actual match who will push my limits and let me push theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men will say anything to snare a woman to use as bait. Lots have found 'love' on here. "

That’s bloody true!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship

Lol what is FOMO?"

Fear of missing out. You fear your friends are going to be having more fun than you and you don't want to miss out but sometimez that means you let something great pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship

Lol what is FOMO?

Fear of missing out. You fear your friends are going to be having more fun than you and you don't want to miss out but sometimez that means you let something great pass you by. "

Totally agree on that score

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

With the level of ignorance from some people here, definatly not the kind I woould want to know short term let alone long term

Also the level of stupid..

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yeah, however, the story predominantly goes in one direction, which is the swinging reduces. I don't want that.

Surely the relationship is the most important part and the swinging for extra enjoyment?! Your partner may not feel very secure if you’re focused more on swinging just my observation

I like the swinging too much, I would not like to receive phone calls from my friends having so much fun with beautiful girls at the main swinging party and after parties while I can't join them because am stuck in a relationship , no chance lol

As a guy I guess the odds are in my favour, there will always be a beautiful and sexy girl waiting for me somewhere around the world when am ready lol

Man you have FOMO so bad! The whole point is that you wouldn't care that you're friends are having sex with random people because the woman you are with is the one for you and if you both decide to enhance your relationship by inviting others in then great bit it won't be the basis of a relationship

Evie i agree but at same time this guy thinks that every woman will want him! Does he not realise that on fab women can decide on who they like to see/meet or not so him saying that he had things in his favour? Hmmm sorry mate no man has things in their favour women do."

Well,that is where you miss the point if you think like that . Of a truth when a man and woman are 21 years and are both single, the woman has all the value and gets so much attention, the man has little value, by the time they both hit 31 and are still single, the woman will notice that the attention she got at 21 is not the same at 31 but the guys value will still be rising at 31, the tables have turned as they say lol

So for me there is no rush for a relationship, am really enjoying myself. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"
yeah we met off here and are happy ever after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing?"

What does your ideal lady look like/into there may be someone in the thread looking for the same thing (just call me cilla!)

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I’m loving this lifestyle now I’m single and love the excitement and variety. When I’m ready to settle down I’m worried that I’ll miss this lifestyle too much! So deep down I’m hoping to meet someone into the same lifestyle so we can swing together. Has anyone here met anyone off Fab who they are now in a full time relationship with but continue to swing? yeah we met off here and are happy ever after x "

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Hope springs eternal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my man on here. We are now trying for a baby and getting married after baby #1

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We met on here and been happily together for a few years now

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"We met on here 3 years ago. We took time away to enjoy each other and to have a family. We weren't looking for love but it just happened. We are now back and just taking things slowly. It works for us because we can both be honest about who we are and what we want from all areas of our life. Communication is the key though and we both know if any time either of us want away from this then we both go. It's one small part of our relationship but it's not the be all and end all.

Mrs

Our approach is very similar to yours. We met via that well known kink site and unexpectedly fell in love. However although we both have a sickeningly soppy side. Both of us have realised and accepted the fact that monogamy doesn't work for either of us. That acceptance and the freedom it gives us both has taken away much of the sense of craving we had as singles. Why? because we know we can, there's nothing to miss. So although we go to clubs and spa's 1-2 times a month most of our interactions with others does not include full swinging. We're quite content just feeding off the atmosphere and only go with the flow if both of us are happy to.

That may or may not change over time but for us building the relationship is the priority."

What a lovely ethos and good for both of you

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

2.5 years ago and loving life

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