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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I too fussy....or just not enough sexy single guys in my area. I keep reading about couples and guys not being able to find couple/single fem, yet when i am looking for fun not finding anyone i want to play with.

Any hints/tips? or is it just the way it goes sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to be fussy, we are, and always will be

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Me too, just cos we're on here doesn't mean we will meet just anyone. I have been accused of being too fussy but rather that than fuck someone for the sake of it

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By *kexplorersCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Well we just read your profile and think it is perfectly fine

It clearly states what you are looking for and if they fit the bill then they will reply...

As for being fussy... aren't we all

Keep the faith xx all good comes to those that wait xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to hear I am not the only one who is fussy, I cant play with someone just because they say hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us guys are happy to travel long distances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come nearer to me

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

I'm pretty fussy too.

So many guys just don't get it though. I've been pretty lucky it seems and found a few guy that fit my type.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

no point just jumpin in the sack if there is no attraction wether psychical or build a personality bond, though i'm shallow so looks do matter a lot, having sad that if the guys was a bore with no sense of humour good looks couldnt cover that lol, well anyway wot i'm sayin is it wouldnt in my oppinion be fun, i'd far rather stay fussy and have a few quality rather than quantity meets with just any and every1 and not enjoying.

havin bad memories and unpleasent images would put me off for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not about the quick and easy fuck its about enhancing your existing love life etc.

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By *XXJAYMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Ive always been fussy, and if it leads to very few meets, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you are being fussy its your right to do so, i am and im sure many others are too, why would you meet and fuck someone your not attracted to? Although to be honest i think some people can be a little too fussy, for example i know of a few ladies on here who complain about getting 200 messages a day but have no verifications 6 months down the line and harp on about not havin any fun. In summary be fussy your entitled to be but dont wait for the "perfect" meet cos in all honesty nobodys perfect just go with ur gut instinct and select someone cos YOU want to meet them. Good luck and play safe hope you find wat ur lookin for x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Nothing wrong with having specifications, but just as i say to the guys on here, dont expect a shag, its swinging not the local club at 3 am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few times i wasnt sure if i should meet a bloke, then when i met him he was ok. You cant really tell untill you actualy meet someone. Also some men send long messages, you think they sound nice, then after meeting them once or twice you realise they arent so nice, and men who dont say so much are nicer sometimes.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Am I too fussy....or just not enough sexy single guys in my area. I keep reading about couples and guys not being able to find couple/single fem, yet when i am looking for fun not finding anyone i want to play with.

Any hints/tips? or is it just the way it goes sometimes?

"

I have a LOT more problems meeting single guys and couples than people think. I think its just that we know what we want. However, as Auntie Dolly says, maybe try meeting people you might not immediately think are your type. Some of the guys I wasn't sure about have been the best meets of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I cannot fuck anyone I would not want to wake up next to in the morning. On the other hand the chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is absolutely your right to be choosy and picky ov er the guys you meet, this is not a numbers game, and meeting a guy who fits your requirements is exactly right. We are not here to fuck anything, and that's across the board, women and guys alike.

Of course if your requirements are very specific, ie he has to be 6ft 1 and a half, size 36 waist, size 10 shoe, 8inch cock, looks exactly like George Clooney and a neuro-scientist, then obviously your choice is going to be limited to perhaps a meet once every 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ever stop being fussy. Quality is always worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like who you like and there is no reason to change from this. There is no point playing with someone you are not really attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone....was starting to feel I was being too choosy but now reading all you have written it is worth waiting for the quaility meets and I will continue to be fussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone....was starting to feel I was being too choosy but now reading all you have written it is worth waiting for the quaility meets and I will continue to be fussy! "

Good on you

I'm yet another fussy one!

I will say I wouldn't follow the advice on meeting someone that you are not totally sure of as this could put you in a pressured situation. Swap pics, messages and chat on the phone first.... all good, arrange a social meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being fussy hun we aint on here to just fuck everyone there must be an attraction xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm not fussy. If you are blue and have a nice hat, you're in!

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

I am soooo fussy nowadays ..... A pulse is a MUST no exceptions

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead


"Am I too fussy....or just not enough sexy single guys in my area. I keep reading about couples and guys not being able to find couple/single fem, yet when i am looking for fun not finding anyone i want to play with.

Any hints/tips? or is it just the way it goes sometimes?

"

All the girls who find the sexy single guys lock them up in their dungeons that is the problem.

A lot depends on are you looking for people to swing with regularly in your area, or just one-offs etc

Dare I speak a word of truth, when saying most single guys require only a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhhh, so the next sexy guy i find on here i need to lock away for my sole private use....part of me liking the idea! he, he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too, just cos we're on here doesn't mean we will meet just anyone. I have been accused of being too fussy but rather that than fuck someone for the sake of it"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have said already, stick at it and don't drop your standards. Then it will be so much sweeter when you play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't blame any Ladies being fussy, cos I's fussy, and Devs is fussy too.

Wolf

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

You are so funny! Your profile says you can't met today and you have a meet today flag on your profile!

The problem I think you have is this:

Most men that will be a show up are over 45, over 50, over 55.

Most men uder 45 are married or have a girlfriend they live with and can't easily leave the keyboard.

Most men are in it for the fantasy hence the emails and IM and asking for pics. Not many meet. Those that meet tend to be very poor to barely average.

Those that think they are great in my experience aren't and those that often have people say they are great haven't has much experience besides the poor to below average types.

It does seem however you have a good number of meets. My question is why aren't you repeating meets with people you've already experienced.

Or do they fall into 'poor to below average' in hindsight?

I want to know where all the sensual emotionally warm women in London are! There must be some out there that don't want to be banged by a big cock and splattered with cum over their face. Don't other girls like a sensual erotic sexual experience?

So hard to find!

xox

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