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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have any of you guys been messaged by another guy asking if you’d be interested in meeting his wife but she doesn’t know about it? I’ve had a couple of messages asking me to meet up in a bar, pretend I know the guy like a long lost friend and then try and chat his wife up with a view of all ending up in bed together. I declined as the men sounded desperate. Any wives been in this situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met with couples and have never had success with this scenario. After being approached several times, I have learned to ignore.

In my experience/opinion it's one of several things.

A guy looking for spank material.

It's the husband's idea and his wife doesn't know. He gets her d*unk and you are to seduce her.

Or a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds A bit iffy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had this too. Just assumed it was the usual single guys pretending to be a couple. Would also be very worried if it wasn't, and the lady was genuinely unaware!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have any of you guys been messaged by another guy asking if you’d be interested in meeting his wife but she doesn’t know about it? I’ve had a couple of messages asking me to meet up in a bar, pretend I know the guy like a long lost friend and then try and chat his wife up with a view of all ending up in bed together. I declined as the men sounded desperate. Any wives been in this situation?"

Mr N would never put me in this situation.

You do right to ignore it's hugely disrespectful to the woman in the situation and could lead to a world of trouble for the guy meeting under these circumstances.

A husband setting his wife up? Run away...fast.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

A long time ago i had a guy message me saying he wanted someone to come and take care of not 1 but 2 of his lady friends while he watched. Must think I was born yesterday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been asked this one.

Swinging is about trust, so how much trust is there is you start on a lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add, he asked us as a couple to seduce his wife.....

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

All very negative responses to this..my experience has been the opposite and have had great sexy fun sessions..you need to be open to the opportunities but of course be mindful and respectful of the ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All very negative responses to this..my experience has been the opposite and have had great sexy fun sessions..you need to be open to the opportunities but of course be mindful and respectful of the ladies!"

It's not very respectful if they didn't know they were being set up!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"All very negative responses to this..my experience has been the opposite and have had great sexy fun sessions..you need to be open to the opportunities but of course be mindful and respectful of the ladies!

It's not very respectful if they didn't know they were being set up! "

The thought of two guys conspiring behind a woman's back is hugely distasteful to me. I agree disrespectful in the extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a bit said the guy putting his partner in this predicament Like that’s a not very respectable thing to do

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

A guy looking for spank material.

It's the husband's idea and his wife doesn't know. He gets her d*unk and you are to seduce her.

"

Hopefully it was hubby getting spanked!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Had a slightly different variation.

Had guys asking for a meet, I reply sorry working nights...

They come back with, give me your address and I will go round and give your wife a good seeing to...

W.T.F. you think I am going to give you my address, knowing I work nights and my wife is at home with my children...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had a slightly different variation.

Had guys asking for a meet, I reply sorry working nights...

They come back with, give me your address and I will go round and give your wife a good seeing to...

W.T.F. you think I am going to give you my address, knowing I work nights and my wife is at home with my children... "

sometimes there are no words.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

With all the current furore about harassment and sex abuse it might not be a good idea. Or anytime tbh.

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