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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right now we may sound a little thick, but what happens at a bi party....does everyone there all join in with each other or do certain people play with select others. We would like to try one but want to no what were getting in to.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

We have been to a few bi parties and its pretty much like a club you play with them you want to and dont with those you choose not to. Just be yourselves and enjoy the fun how you want too xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you just didn't want to go into something blind not knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you just didn't want to go into something blind not knowing. "

It's best to ask them. Some have no pressure and it's just a party to meet similar people where you know they are bi. Some infer that *everyone* has to play or they're frowned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm that bad I couldn't even get any fun at a bi event! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one should be frowned upon for not playing, it should be up to the individual.

We want to have our own party where everyone can have a drink and a chat then if they want to play can do and if not then that's fine too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha is it really that bad???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem we all have here (Well mostly us men) is that being bi gives us a label, we are dirty for what we do etc...

This is 2017, it's about time people realised that just because we like to play with a cock, it doesn't mean we play without protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add, it's ok for 2 females to play with each other, but stick 2 males in the same situation.... you get looks of disgust and also people being rude about it too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest I used to think it was disgusting 2 women together and two men together, until I talked about it and tried it for myself and saw my hubby with a man. Now I love it and can't get enough lol not that we get much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky to get any here! Haha

Still hopeful though... I'm not dead yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I say stuff what people think we only live once and we are not hurting anyone we are all consenting adults having some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd like to think that in the swingers world nothing is frowned upon, if you attend a bi party then as a real swinger you would expect to see bi fun being had. If it's not your thing then you attend something that suits your sexuality and what you're comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Completely agree there.

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By *ethRyanCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Great thread as wondered this ourselves. We do prefer a social connection with who we play with and wondered if parties might be too full on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great thread as wondered this ourselves. We do prefer a social connection with who we play with and wondered if parties might be too full on"

I guess parties vary, some may be full on, some not. If the hosts of the party know your new to the whole party scene then I'm sure they'd not push you, and let you go at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same as us...we have been to a regular party which was really relaxed and no pressure on anyone, but wanted to no if no party's are any different.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

We’ve only really been to bi club parties but can only second what someone above has already said. Much like a normal club, play with the ones you want to or don’t with the ones you don’t.

No pressure and tbh found bi nights to be far more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now we may sound a little thick, but what happens at a bi party....does everyone there all join in with each other or do certain people play with select others. We would like to try one but want to no what were getting in to.

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As with any party, the choice is yours guys.. don’t be badgered into doing something that you’re not comfortable with. However, conversely if you are a tad curious, then it may be the place to experiment...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you we were thinking of having our own little party at home so we feel more relaxed and can choose the people we would like to attend.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I’ve attended a few Houseparties, & although they weren’t specifically Bi I soon sussed who was attracted to me, & who I was attracted to. (One night it was a hot lady. On another a really nice couple).

As others say don’t feel pressured at a party. You’ll know yourself if things are heading in that direction. If you don’t fancy someone you’ll probably move onto chatting with folk whose company you will enjoy.

The plus side of attending someone else’s party is that you can leave when you want to.

Good luck all.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


"You'd like to think that in the swingers world nothing is frowned upon, if you attend a bi party then as a real swinger you would expect to see bi fun being had. If it's not your thing then you attend something that suits your sexuality and what you're comfortable with "

Absolutely bang on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Been to a few bi partys and many str8 partys,they are generally very relaxed and fun. Again you play with who you want. Its the same as other partys,the big differance is that both the men and women or openminded enough to enjoy both sexs. mmmm

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