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By *innerdate OP   Man
over a year ago

Leigh

Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

That is exactly what we are looking for buy finding someone local is not easy.

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By *rave hunterMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your far away

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By *MF4meMan
over a year ago

Templepatrick

Yep too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of couple want that

put that on ur status u will get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I'd like to find for my wife but it's harder than it seems.

Most men can't accommodate at home as cheating

We can't accommodate due to kids.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its harder to find than we thought, been looking for a bf for a while now and coming up with zilch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only found this in the non swinging world.

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

exactly what we are looking for for my wife...genuine and regular bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what i want... I can accomodate, but finding someone local is hard. And there has to be a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for this ourselves

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Much harder to find and set up than you would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be my ideal friendship, 3somes and one to one with the Lady social and naughty and even taking hubby for the occasional pint

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

Used to have this years ago - with lovely hotwife! Didnt realise how lucky I was back then. Would love to find a lovely couple who want a boyfriend for the wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I’m looking to be....

West Midlands area ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up here, I would love just this! I mentioned it last week and there seems to be a lot who also like it!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

That is what we are seeking too. Not easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely want a guy she can see occasionally, just to add a bit of fun to things. And a couple of woman for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is exactly what we are looking for buy finding someone local is not easy."

Guess I’m moving so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's our dream.... just seems so elusive.

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By *ungrycplCouple
over a year ago

WORCESTER

I think what we need here is a bit of husband/wife trading. Lol. I'd love Becky to have a boyfriend for regular fun.

P and B

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

We've both got our own 'boyfriend and girlfriend' we have both found them through normal means rather than through here. We tried to find a guy through here but just wasn't happening, plenty of guys willing to come for a quick fuck but no one willing to put the time in as a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what ive been looking for for ages. Just a nice normal couple who would like me to take the wife out once a week and bring her back happy and contented and maybe a little damp

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"This is what ive been looking for for ages. Just a nice normal couple who would like me to take the wife out once a week and bring her back happy and contented and maybe a little damp "

You profile says you are a single man.

Shame as I’d hate been interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's our dream.... just seems so elusive."

Fuck buddies are hard to find!

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By *omisNWMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Good morning!

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We managed with lots of hard work on here. Wife has a couple of regular boyfriends (fuck buddies) she likes to meet at least once a week. She often drags them off to our bedroom whilst she has me stay out of the way or go to the pub. She always ends up satisfied and with a big smile on here face. Works for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We managed with lots of hard work on here. Wife has a couple of regular boyfriends (fuck buddies) she likes to meet at least once a week. She often drags them off to our bedroom whilst she has me stay out of the way or go to the pub. She always ends up satisfied and with a big smile on here face. Works for us both "

excellent work.

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By *exysurferMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Would love to find a couple London based for this.

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Its harder to find than we thought, been looking for a bf for a while now and coming up with zilch lol"

Me too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the “boyfriend” a few years ago to a hot wife couple, met outside of the swinging world and to be honest I didn’t realise how fucking lucky I was at the time

Good luck in your search, it can be great fun and you make a pair of amazing friends along the way, unfortunately mine came to an end as they had to relocate due to a promotion with work opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This all sounds brilliant, but as many have said very hard to find the right people locally.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Any couples in Hertfordshire Essex areas that are looking for a third, please feel free to message me

HG

X

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm free available and have house and can travel,available most the time, and empty bed most the time and no one is the slightest interested, so doesn't happen in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what I'm in the game for.

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By *heffcouple77Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

We are the same looking for a local guy local being sheffield it's hard work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just what I am looking for, friends with benefits,but it seems it doesn't happen round here either. Either that or I'm too old, got a beard, married or whatever. Hey ho the search goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what ive been looking for for ages. Just a nice normal couple who would like me to take the wife out once a week and bring her back happy and contented and maybe a little damp

You profile says you are a single man.

Shame as I’d hate been interested"

Sorry but I don't understand what you just said.

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By *evonmail41Man
over a year ago

Yeovil


"I'm free available and have house and can travel,available most the time, and empty bed most the time and no one is the slightest interested, so doesn't happen in my area "

Yes Somerset is a Bit crap for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We managed with lots of hard work on here. Wife has a couple of regular boyfriends (fuck buddies) she likes to meet at least once a week. She often drags them off to our bedroom whilst she has me stay out of the way or go to the pub. She always ends up satisfied and with a big smile on here face. Works for us both "

With a body like that I’m not surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's our dream.... just seems so elusive.

Fuck buddies are hard to find!"

You should drop your age limit by a couple of years....

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By *evilmancoolMan
over a year ago

london

Good afternoon swingers. I’m relatively new to this am eager to explore my sexuality with a couple. Met a few lovely ladies but am mostly just a wanker, good thing I can keep my self occupied in more than one way. I live in north London but am happy to travel and be a regular playmate

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We enjoy that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's our dream.... just seems so elusive.

Fuck buddies are hard to find!

You should drop your age limit by a couple of years...."

Perhaps but then chaps under 40 don't seem to like putting up pics!

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By *ean 8423Man
over a year ago

ilford

Looking for a girlfriend :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

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Send me a message and we can chat I’d be interested in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what I'd like to find for my wife but it's harder than it seems.

Most men can't accommodate at home as cheating

We can't accommodate due to kids.

X"

Can accomodate. Pretty local. Also looking for fun. Cant message you though

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I'm available to be boyfriend for your wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

Send me a message and we can chat I’d be interested in this "

Hi. Sorry I'd need someone with 10 - 15 to. Make it work properly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's our dream.... just seems so elusive.

Fuck buddies are hard to find!"

Fuck buddies who don't get clingy are very rare lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's our dream.... just seems so elusive.

Fuck buddies are hard to find!

Fuck buddies who don't get clingy are very rare lol

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Tell us about it!

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston


"I was the “boyfriend” a few years ago to a hot wife couple, met outside of the swinging world and to be honest I didn’t realise how fucking lucky I was at the time

Good luck in your search, it can be great fun and you make a pair of amazing friends along the way, unfortunately mine came to an end as they had to relocate due to a promotion with work opportunity "
guys seem to relocate also soon as thay find a gf lol but its hard to find single guys that don't want to at least try to meet everyone thay can from the site

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

I think there are a lot wanting to find boyfriends. For their wives. The hard part us finding someone local too us. Who we can trust to be discrete. Just come to ours maybe once or twice a month either have drinks at home with Sam and obviously take her too bed. Or maybe take her around to his place. Would even be good having a drink with the guy myself occasionally. He can let me know what kind of tthings they get up too together. Over a few drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems like a very common problem on here as most guys are just looking for a quick fuck and the nice ones are always too far away for anything regular. We are in south Beds by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we would like to find a 'bf' for Jay. Someone who would escort her to clubs etc as we cannot accom.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Boyfriends that actually get what it’s all about are every rare sadly but when you do find one it’s all worth while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for exactly this as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been looking for a hotwife regular friend for ages without success. I'm not the sort of guy that wants to bed every woman on here but genuinely am looking for a hotwife or gf. I love the dynamic of dating a guy's missus and to be honest im really surprised by the response from couple's on this post I'd have thought their would have been a lot less response. Very surprised.

On that note if any couples localish to me would like to chat with regards to me been a potential boyfriend please feel free to message me.

Thanks.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I think what we need here is a bit of husband/wife trading. Lol. I'd love Becky to have a boyfriend for regular fun.

P and B "

House has just gone up for sale

Send me estate agents for your area please

Can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boyfriends that actually get what it’s all about are every rare sadly but when you do find one it’s all worth while "

I have been a lover to a couple for 3 years now...but not what i was looking for. It builds up over time with trust respect and not over stepping the line between hubby and wife. Never ever presume anything being key. For me being a regular lover or pseudo bf is actually the most amazing thing but it takes time. So much so that we are all friends and i play golf with hubby. So be patient

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

This sounds great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" This sounds great."

It is more than great......made me a lot more uninhibited and openminded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IAM up for this Iam based in northeast and Scots borders

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

I'm up for this ( BF for a hotwife)

Based in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference too.

Searching in or around Bristol for a couple.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Understanding the dynamic is probably the hardest thing, then the possibility of interaction with hubby scares the living hell out of most.

Guess with all things it's about nurturing the relationship, making it work for all three parties in the triangle.

It's fucking amazing though when it's flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

Send me a message and we can chat I’d be interested in this

Hi. Sorry I'd need someone with 10 - 15 to. Make it work properly x"

10 - 15 I’m not sure what that means haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you lower your age limit, you might find your eyes opening to a bountiful harvest, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

I’d love her too

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By *orny4uBigTimeMan
over a year ago

Caister


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

Love to be a BF for the female of a couple. Regular meet sounds like Heaven to me. Anyone local ish to me looking

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Understanding the dynamic is probably the hardest thing, then the possibility of interaction with hubby scares the living hell out of most.

Guess with all things it's about nurturing the relationship, making it work for all three parties in the triangle.

It's fucking amazing though when it's flowing "

Understanding the dynamic must be a mine field for single guys as no doubt every couple is different, communication is key

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By *ellowyellowXMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Love to find this in south wales.

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

We looking for this in Sheffield/Chesterfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I used this site to find her man friend with benefits. We were lucky to find a divorced mature Geordie who totally understood the dynamic we needed.

We are not really swingers so one genuine reliable Man friend was ideal for my wife.

Strangely proving a lot harder for me to find another man friend of my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looking bradford area xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hereford area please

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By *altire_SteveMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

This is what I’ve been looking for. Anyone in the Lanarkshire area or central belt of Scotland looking for a boyfriend for the wife get in touch. I can accomodate no problem.

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

We’ve had this situation a couple of times, and are always looking for it again, problem is, it seems incredibly difficult to find on this site, and we think there are a couple of reasons for this!

Firstly, there are almost no guys on here who are actually looking for this, most are simply looking to rack up numbers, and while lots will actually say they are looking for this, when push comes to shove, they are either not willing to invest the time or just want to fuck and go!

More importantly for us tho, it is almost impossible, we find, to find real chemistry through this site!! For Tif to have this kind of relationship with a guy, there has to be chemistry, there needs to be flirting And sexual tension, exactly like dating, when no one is sure exactly what’s going to happen! Problem with this site is, everyone already knows what the ultimate end-state is, and therefore seems to put less effort into sealing the deal believing it already sealed!!! It’s fine for finding sex, but not good for finding the sort of bf relationship we enjoy!

For us, we have had a lot more luck finding this sort of relationship through sites like tinder, or just people we know from real life such as colleagues (of both of ours) and also mutual friends!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We’ve had this situation a couple of times, and are always looking for it again, problem is, it seems incredibly difficult to find on this site, and we think there are a couple of reasons for this!

Firstly, there are almost no guys on here who are actually looking for this, most are simply looking to rack up numbers, and while lots will actually say they are looking for this, when push comes to shove, they are either not willing to invest the time or just want to fuck and go!

More importantly for us tho, it is almost impossible, we find, to find real chemistry through this site!! For Tif to have this kind of relationship with a guy, there has to be chemistry, there needs to be flirting And sexual tension, exactly like dating, when no one is sure exactly what’s going to happen! Problem with this site is, everyone already knows what the ultimate end-state is, and therefore seems to put less effort into sealing the deal believing it already sealed!!! It’s fine for finding sex, but not good for finding the sort of bf relationship we enjoy!

For us, we have had a lot more luck finding this sort of relationship through sites like tinder, or just people we know from real life such as colleagues (of both of ours) and also mutual friends!

you make very good points - had this sort of relationship with a hotwife - but as you said this happened out in the real world - (I met the lady on a vanilla dating site and she explained she was married but also looking for a boyfriend).

As you say - its the boyfriend/girlfriend thing - which you look for a vanilla dating site - whereas this site is about the sex/swinging - I date tis lady for quite awhile - there was no swinging at all - nothing like that. she just liked to have boyfriends to date...with her hubbys approval..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a swap deal a boyfriend for my wife?

It sounds reasonable to be honest

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It’s definitely something I’d be keen on - I love the dynamic of regular meets with a couple and building both the sexual and friendship side

It’s a great feeling being out with a lady or having taken her to a club knowing the man is at home really excited about what’s happening

Not that easy to find couples into this though I have to say

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By *inkyduokentCouple
over a year ago

Swanley

This is Andy's ultimate fantasy for me. Makes me nervous as guys get clingy.

We have enjoyed a couple of multiple meets and that has been super hot x

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By *ANMANMan
over a year ago

plymouth

I'm looking for a Hotwife / FB to enjoy regular fun with, don't mind if hubby / boyfriend is about to observe the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busty had 1 for nearly 12 months. Didnt go looking for 1, it just happened. A guy who liked her at work and went from there. Started with snap chat etc and then work nights out, to asking me if I mind if she stayed out on a dtaff nights do ..being on here I said no. 10 months they were together..It was fun and it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Busty had 1 for nearly 12 months. Didnt go looking for 1, it just happened. A guy who liked her at work and went from there. Started with snap chat etc and then work nights out, to asking me if I mind if she stayed out on a dtaff nights do ..being on here I said no. 10 months they were together..It was fun and it worked "

Brilliant and just what we’d like for one another. A few meets apart per year adds spice and excitement.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"This is Andy's ultimate fantasy for me. Makes me nervous as guys get clingy.

We have enjoyed a couple of multiple meets and that has been super hot x"

That’s where the selection process is key - getting the guy who’s secure in his own life is important

As is him understanding and accepting you’re a couple outside of the time he gets to spend with the lady alone

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Busty had 1 for nearly 12 months. Didnt go looking for 1, it just happened. A guy who liked her at work and went from there. Started with snap chat etc and then work nights out, to asking me if I mind if she stayed out on a dtaff nights do ..being on here I said no. 10 months they were together..It was fun and it worked "

Lucky you - thinking it thru - it seems more likely to find a boyfriend for wife in vanilla life than on site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Busty had 1 for nearly 12 months. Didnt go looking for 1, it just happened. A guy who liked her at work and went from there. Started with snap chat etc and then work nights out, to asking me if I mind if she stayed out on a dtaff nights do ..being on here I said no. 10 months they were together..It was fun and it worked

Lucky you - thinking it thru - it seems more likely to find a boyfriend for wife in vanilla life than on site like this"

Yeah we said that. Alot say they want regular but you never see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love this but it's not easy finding someone local.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife took a half day today and messages saying she was popping to her fuck buddies. She arrived home 3 hours later and told me she'd walked into his house to find Jim and two mates there too. All three had her stripped in no time and fucked her at both ends several times . She really enjoyed it and told me she's doing it again soon. She loves nothing better than multiple cocks at once

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Busty had 1 for nearly 12 months. Didnt go looking for 1, it just happened. A guy who liked her at work and went from there. Started with snap chat etc and then work nights out, to asking me if I mind if she stayed out on a dtaff nights do ..being on here I said no. 10 months they were together..It was fun and it worked

Lucky you - thinking it thru - it seems more likely to find a boyfriend for wife in vanilla life than on site like this

Yeah we said that. Alot say they want regular but you never see them again "

I guess - its often just distance - boyfriend /girlfriend means meeting several times per month - not easy unless you live in same town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the surplus men on this site I'm amazed boyfriends can't be found anywhere in the country...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve had this situation a couple of times, and are always looking for it again, problem is, it seems incredibly difficult to find on this site, and we think there are a couple of reasons for this!

Firstly, there are almost no guys on here who are actually looking for this, most are simply looking to rack up numbers, and while lots will actually say they are looking for this, when push comes to shove, they are either not willing to invest the time or just want to fuck and go!

More importantly for us tho, it is almost impossible, we find, to find real chemistry through this site!! For Tif to have this kind of relationship with a guy, there has to be chemistry, there needs to be flirting And sexual tension, exactly like dating, when no one is sure exactly what’s going to happen! Problem with this site is, everyone already knows what the ultimate end-state is, and therefore seems to put less effort into sealing the deal believing it already sealed!!! It’s fine for finding sex, but not good for finding the sort of bf relationship we enjoy!

For us, we have had a lot more luck finding this sort of relationship through sites like tinder, or just people we know from real life such as colleagues (of both of ours) and also mutual friends!

"

So right! I love the butterflies and excitement of 'does he like me?' 'Are they going to kiss me?' etc. A done deal which so many men on here expect is just not that exciting for me. I am still looking for a boyfriend who I have amazing chemistry with but for one reason or another I can't find a guy who ticks all of the boxes. Having fun with the guys who ticks a few though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very lucky I have a husband and a boyfriend. Husband used to be on here but lost interest. Been with hubby 8 years and with my boyfriend 7 months we are D/s.

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By *ka-sammi_n_danCouple
over a year ago

nantwich

We are looking for a boyfriend for sammi! Really finding it a difficult search. Any help appreciated x

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Stick at it nothing on here cums easy

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Anyone is the south area or hampshire area .. Let me know .. Would love to meet atleast once a week ... Finding the righ couple always so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a bf for wife on fab is as easy as finding something on eBay/Amazon..

Not sure why you finding it difficult

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Really interesting thread. Not a scene for us but interesting to read about couples who do like it.

Couples what is it about having a permanent third which is appealing, when it is for more than just sex?

When It’s sex you know where the line is drawn, and we totally get the hot wife having fun thing. But what else do you get from it - surely past sex there starts to be some kind of emotional attachment ?

Not judging - just asking !

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

"

Near impossible if you ask us. We'd love to meet a regular male or female for friendship and fun.

Notice everyone, we put the word friendship first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been the boyfriend before and found it a great experience, would love to find another fun couple

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By *ripodTimMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

Definately no couples seeking that locally to me. It must be the water

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We have been looking for a while but not found a guy yet

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

exactly what we are looking for too

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By *incoln coupleCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

almost impossible around here, We are looking for a guy to meet on regular basis who knows what she likes and gives it to her

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By *layeruk1Man
over a year ago

Derby

I really enjoy the regular friendship of a couple. And had this sort of relationship for a while. Any nice couples in the east mids come say hi.

X

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Really interesting thread. Not a scene for us but interesting to read about couples who do like it.

Couples what is it about having a permanent third which is appealing, when it is for more than just sex?

When It’s sex you know where the line is drawn, and we totally get the hot wife having fun thing. But what else do you get from it - surely past sex there starts to be some kind of emotional attachment ?

Not judging - just asking !"

I agree I also have a couples profile on here but we tend to keep meets to one offs or the occasional second meet after a long gap

My fear like yours would be if you met to often an emotional attachment could form which isn't what we are after

Im not saying someone regular for my husband or I isn't a turn on/fantasy but the fear of myself, my husband if even the other person developing feelings that could cause upset is enough for us to have drawn that line so far, so I'd be interested to know from those that have this kind of relationship how you keep it platonic

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"This is Andy's ultimate fantasy for me. Makes me nervous as guys get clingy.

We have enjoyed a couple of multiple meets and that has been super hot x"

If you choose the right guy who perhaps who isn’t in a position to get too clingy then that could work,

Cracking profile

HG

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Would love this but it's not easy finding someone local."

Define local??

HG

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

come say hi if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes YES !

Someone to meet somehow on a weekly basis would be amazing. Locality is so important.

Why is it so difficult *sob

Send me a message and we can chat I’d be interested in this

Hi. Sorry I'd need someone with 10 - 15 to. Make it work properly x

10 - 15 I’m not sure what that means haha"

Sorry. 10 - 15 miles max!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want sexual ''boyfriends'' as I cant stand the clinginess that always always follow so sexual only I like to feel I owe nobody anything then let myself go with sex without all the crappy add-ons ..I have a life with hubs the only thing we want apart from that is sex nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has been an excellent read , love the hotwife scenario

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Jen here.

I'm in a happy relationship but had a regular fb, once or twice a week.

I loved it going on nights out and staying in having lots of fun. Then going home to my bf.

But my bf prefers me not to have a regular fb he's scared I will get feelings.

Even tho he knows I love him.

Any advice ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are a lot wanting to find boyfriends. For their wives. The hard part us finding someone local too us. Who we can trust to be discrete. Just come to ours maybe once or twice a month either have drinks at home with Sam and obviously take her too bed. Or maybe take her around to his place. Would even be good having a drink with the guy myself occasionally. He can let me know what kind of tthings they get up too together. Over a few drinks. "

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Jen here.

I'm in a happy relationship but had a regular fb, once or twice a week.

I loved it going on nights out and staying in having lots of fun. Then going home to my bf.

But my bf prefers me not to have a regular fb he's scared I will get feelings.

Even tho he knows I love him.

Any advice ? X"

I would suggest you make sure, as much as possible your bf knows he is the centre of your world, make sure he knows the benefits of having a a hotGF, how more sexy it makes you, how much more it makes you want him. Grow his confidence that you are there to have fun for you both.

HG

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By *opRugbymanMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Well if therr are and couples looking in the Doncaster area? Get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been exploring this for over 4 years and having had a number of lovers in that time, my conclusion is that it’s a nice idea, but not many men truly want to be the regular boyfriend of a hotwife. If they wanted a girlfriend they would have a proper girlfriend, and if they didn’t want a girlfriend then they probably would not want to commit to a relationship with a married woman either.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been exploring this for over 4 years and having had a number of lovers in that time, my conclusion is that it’s a nice idea, but not many men truly want to be the regular boyfriend of a hotwife. If they wanted a girlfriend they would have a proper girlfriend, and if they didn’t want a girlfriend then they probably would not want to commit to a relationship with a married woman either.

Mrs"

True ...but there are always the exceptions. I am in the latter camp and love it. Not what i expected from fabs....but there you go

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I don't see why it would be difficult to arrange. I like my life but having a regular female friend would be ideal and without the complication of being a "couple"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been exploring this for over 4 years and having had a number of lovers in that time, my conclusion is that it’s a nice idea, but not many men truly want to be the regular boyfriend of a hotwife. If they wanted a girlfriend they would have a proper girlfriend, and if they didn’t want a girlfriend then they probably would not want to commit to a relationship with a married woman either.

Mrs

True ...but there are always the exceptions. I am in the latter camp and love it. Not what i expected from fabs....but there you go"

Yes indeed. My more fulfilling relationships have been with men who are in the latter camp. But I have yet to meet that exception who is willing to commit to a relationship with me in the same way a man might commit to normal girlfriend. On the other hand it could well be partly my fault. I don’t have time for that level of frequency, and my lover’s all know that it’s not an exclusive arrangement. So I guess if I’m not prepared to behave like a proper girlfriend than I can’t really expect to be treated like one.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been exploring this for over 4 years and having had a number of lovers in that time, my conclusion is that it’s a nice idea, but not many men truly want to be the regular boyfriend of a hotwife. If they wanted a girlfriend they would have a proper girlfriend, and if they didn’t want a girlfriend then they probably would not want to commit to a relationship with a married woman either.

Mrs

True ...but there are always the exceptions. I am in the latter camp and love it. Not what i expected from fabs....but there you go

Yes indeed. My more fulfilling relationships have been with men who are in the latter camp. But I have yet to meet that exception who is willing to commit to a relationship with me in the same way a man might commit to normal girlfriend. On the other hand it could well be partly my fault. I don’t have time for that level of frequency, and my lover’s all know that it’s not an exclusive arrangement. So I guess if I’m not prepared to behave like a proper girlfriend than I can’t really expect to be treated like one.

Mrs"

Again fair enough...sure men in the latter camp can understand your desires. I know my situation is slightly unusual but it seems to work for all. As a 3 we all get.on very well too.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am in grimsby any lady like sum fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a bull for cuckold couples for years now but finding it increasingly harder to find genuine couples now especially the older I become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been the boyfriend for sex only no emotional attachment. It worked really well as that's how all three wanted it

Any Couples in Dorset interested message me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it seems like a lot of ladies like the idea of this, it's a shame that l can't find one

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By *antasticMrsFoxMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Mrs fox is out tonight with her bf there got a steamy hotel school night meet planned...

Very fucking hot

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By *dnortheastTV/TS
over a year ago

darlington

Me and the wife have tried over the past few months to find a guy for her.

We've done the mmf and mmmf stuff . A bit of hotwife also .

We both agreed that she needed to get a regular sex buddy as she has a good sex drive.

It's hard to find a guy that knows the scenario . No love . Yes maybe a good interest in the wife. I'd say affection is a good word.

Plenty guys say they are up for it but not into it 100% .

We will keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the wife have tried over the past few months to find a guy for her.

We've done the mmf and mmmf stuff . A bit of hotwife also .

We both agreed that she needed to get a regular sex buddy as she has a good sex drive.

It's hard to find a guy that knows the scenario . No love . Yes maybe a good interest in the wife. I'd say affection is a good word.

Plenty guys say they are up for it but not into it 100% .

We will keep looking "

There are guys who get it, but she might need 2 or 3 boyfriends, because you are right, many guys are up for it but not 100%. It took me a while to figure that out, but once I’d realise the score I was rarely without fun and attention when I wanted it.

Mrs

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

This is partly what we are looking for, is anyone local in West Yorkshire?

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Any wife’s in Kent looking I would be interested

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

I already have this ongoing, it's fun and fulfills all our needs

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By *r_magic_tongueMan
over a year ago

Hull

I've been the regular lover for a few couples on here over the years and it's always been great. Love getting to know how the lady likes it, what turns her on and all the flirty texts building up the chemistry.

Seems to be harder to find good couples for this these days. Am always looking for new potential swinging relationships, so anybody within a reasonably distance from Hull who's looking for this feel free to contact me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the idea mmf but when the wife starts seeing the "lover" on her own is there not a danger they could get to close? I find it a strange scenario..

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By *30FetMan
over a year ago

Bucharest

Lover for a hot wife here ! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couples in the Hampshire area? I would be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any couples in the Hampshire area? I would be interested "

Still searching in Norfolk!

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By *bwlover19Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Had my time as boyfriend to a couple. Loved every minute. To recreate it would be a dream. The results can be amazing if you click

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By *e enjoy esxMan
over a year ago

grimsby


"Had my time as boyfriend to a couple. Loved every minute. To recreate it would be a dream. The results can be amazing if you click "
can also be a nightmare too when they click too much,

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By *bwlover19Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Had my time as boyfriend to a couple. Loved every minute. To recreate it would be a dream. The results can be amazing if you click can also be a nightmare too when they click too much,

"

That's where boundaries need to be set early. When I've done it it's being a boyfriend that matters, not stealing someone

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

I found this site through becoming a bf for a very hot wife...

Has been fantastic so no complaints and can be very horny knowing she could see me whenever, stay or we go away for weekends ....

Good friends with her hubby and a great guy...., something extra special knowing they are very much in love and you can see how they rekindle with each other afterwards....

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

we're looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and available to be a wife's boyfriend .....

I can easily travel do distance dosent have to be a problem. ......

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By *unmeisterMan
over a year ago

London & West Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like got a boyfriend for my GF it’s going to be nice seeing her enjoy him in and out of the bed and a romance with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like got a boyfriend for my GF it’s going to be nice seeing her enjoy him in and out of the bed and a romance with him. "

Sounds wonderful and so lovely that you're embracing the romantic side for her as well as the sexual. I'm still looking for the right guy but there are many who say they want that set up but actually just want sex.

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By *ol_hereMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why is this so hard..there are plenty of nice men on this site (there are plenty dicks) but they are easy to spot...if your wife wants a boyfriend seek the guys who will put effort into a message...

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Would be awesome to be the bf in this scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this so hard..there are plenty of nice men on this site (there are plenty dicks) but they are easy to spot...if your wife wants a boyfriend seek the guys who will put effort into a message..."

There might be guys who are lovely but don't happen to be my type physically. Finding someone who is local, can accommodate, is physically appealing but also who I have chemistry with and I'm able to enjoy conversation with. All of these things and then they have to find me attractive, be happy with the situation and be available at the same times that I am. It's a lot more difficult than you'd think!

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Where do I apply!

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

We would like to find a man who can be totally trusted and clean. Meet wife on a regular basis and go bareback. Probably remain a fantasy.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"We would like to find a man who can be totally trusted and clean. Meet wife on a regular basis and go bareback. Probably remain a fantasy. "

Us guys do exist......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have found a lovely 24 year old guy to be my GF boyfriend and as well as sex a romantic relationship...she is his 365 days a year

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"Wife took a half day today and messages saying she was popping to her fuck buddies. She arrived home 3 hours later and told me she'd walked into his house to find Jim and two mates there too. All three had her stripped in no time and fucked her at both ends several times . She really enjoyed it and told me she's doing it again soon. She loves nothing better than multiple cocks at once "

Wow, that must have been incredibly horny hearing all about that . . .

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We’ve enjoyed this sort of scenario with another couple. Used to have seperate meets at different times. Loved it when my wife met up while I was working or out and I’d come home to find her in a sticky mess, the reclaim sex was amazing . . .

certainly plan to explore this further

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I think I have found a lovely 24 year old guy to be my GF boyfriend and as well as sex a romantic relationship...she is his 365 days a year "
Well done on finding what you both want. I really hope it all goes well for you both!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Why is it that all the couples who are looking for a fella are miles away .. I’d be up for it

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

3 yesrs in and loving it, hubby has the grief times and i get the great times lol.....

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"3 yesrs in and loving it, hubby has the grief times and i get the great times lol.....

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By *luffy MoleMan
over a year ago

christchurch


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

This would be my ideal situation. I'd like to be an exclusive FWB with A couple who I could regularly socialise, go for dinner, spend days and have naughty fun with.

I think it is a big ask though.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Id love to be a bf for a wife. Wirral, North West

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I think it could be an amazing experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d love a regular reliable, no drama, not married/attached boyfriend for the both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any couples want a boyfriend for the wife to go out with for social meets plus maybe more maybe even attend a club or just plain sex?"

We like a bit of a social attached to our meets. Makes for more fun and the Mrs enjoys the connection she has with a couple of men

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

A regular trustworthy man would be perfect.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"A regular trustworthy man would be perfect."

We do exsist......

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By *arEsseCouple
over a year ago

keighley

Would love my mrs to have someone regular to play with. She would love this too

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Very high on my fantasy list too. Unfortunately the couples I usually like most rarely live close enough to make it a realistic prospect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely up for thi, sounds wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be taking swinging into your real life. Not for us

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By *ylonbiWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes looking for regular boyfriend but finding one who understands the complexity of a cuckold marriage is very difficult to find

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

You would love my blogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IDE love to be a bf for a wife

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