FabSwingers.com forum: How many is too many guys watching a couple?

By *urreyfun2008 OP Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Last night at Ab Fabs in the dungeon it was three deep with men as they watched a couple play in the cage.

Peeked and wandered off for chat elsewhere, swim and some fun later on in the end.

Have been to clubs on bi nights before, but now understand the moans about packs of guys hunting. Was a little silly to watch the train wandering around the place.

Also although it was naturist night the rules have changed to allow clothed after 8pm, and not liking it, too odd with guys wandering around fully dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many is however many the couple are comfortable with +1. Three deep does seem a touch OTT, though.

Also fully clothed in a sex club? Not unless it's fetish night and you're suitably attired.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

i dont mind how many are watching, just a pain if they keep edging closer and closer etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no rules in any club as to watching

Not that ive been to anyway and ive been to loads of clubs

if you dont wants guys watching dont play in the open simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres no rules in any club as to watching

Not that ive been to anyway and ive been to loads of clubs

if you dont wants guys watching dont play in the open simple really "

Think that answers the question posted

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By *urreyfun2008 OP Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"Also fully clothed in a sex club? Not unless it's fetish night and you're suitably attired."

As in standard chino's and shirt for most of them. To me it felt more like a gentlemans club with a little entertainment, rather than a relaxed night with naughty play. The new clothes rule from those I talked to couple and males does not seem popular.

This mean the pool, jacuzzi's were nice and quiet, as rare for them to venture in.

What was funny was when one couple was in the dark room, cum slut moment that the guys were moaning where is the light switch, dont get that stuff on me to each other.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We don't care how many watch, aslong as they are polite enough to shut the fuck up!!

Other night we were playing and it was totaly ruined by some gobby cow laughing and giving a running comentary on what she thought was happening.

Kept going on about "ooh look that guys waiting for his turn with her"

Totaly put us off for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't care how many watch, aslong as they are polite enough to shut the fuck up!!

Other night we were playing and it was totaly ruined by some gobby cow laughing and giving a running comentary on what she thought was happening.

Kept going on about "ooh look that guys waiting for his turn with her"

Totaly put us off for the night."

Had a similar experience and agree completely. The whole world can watch if they like, just stay quiet! (though a little applause at the end would be acceptable)

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Were the couple being watched worried?

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over a year ago

"We don't care how many watch, aslong as they are polite enough to shut the fuck up!!

Other night we were playing and it was totaly ruined by some gobby cow laughing and giving a running comentary on what she thought was happening.

Kept going on about "ooh look that guys waiting for his turn with her"

Totaly put us off for the night."

I find that sort of behaviour disgraceful and while I very rarely play in open rooms anyway when I have ive heard people tell others to shut the fuck up or move elsewhere if they're being a bit too vocal,theres really no need for it and im not surprised it put you off for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind how many watch as long as they are respectful and keep their distance!!! Also don't mind a few suggestions but not a running commentary!!!

Come and watch sometime!!

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By *urreyfun2008 OP Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

I think what got me, was used to there being less guys about, so it looked crowded, and a lot were fully clothed in play dungeon on a naturist night - a change of rules for Wednesdays allows this.

Also some were having unrelated conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't want them doing that while you're doing your best to be sexy

No - respectful quiet is the name of the game unless one of the watchers is brave enough to make a suggestion as he watches....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many would be when they are 3 high on each others shoulders as well as three deep

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

"I think what got me, was used to there being less guys about, so it looked crowded, and a lot were fully clothed in play dungeon on a naturist night - a change of rules for Wednesdays allows this.

Also some were having unrelated conversations.

seems to me that your gripe is that there are too many single males now!

Think the clothes rule was changed because males were complaining that it was getting too cold to be walking around in just a towel yet women could get dressed

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

We've had a similar thing - started off - no one in the room, the firt time Kate opened her eyes - there was no room left in there!

they all started bunching up and, to be fair everyone in there was very respectful, however Kate jokiningly looked up and said "its getting a bit too much in here dont you think guys? - are there any women?"

At which point, an absolutely gorgous woman pushed her way through just said "You'll be after me then!", and lets just say Kate no longer minded who was watching as she was off somewhere else lol... oh and I ended up watching then too - so coudl hardly moan

But that had that not happened, I think we'd have paused for a bit as it gets a bit much when people are queuing out the door just to watch.

D&K

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"We've had a similar thing - started off - no one in the room, the firt time Kate opened her eyes - there was no room left in there!

But that had that not happened, I think we'd have paused for a bit as it gets a bit much when people are queuing out the door just to watch.

D&K

Oh and if mystery woman is reading this or anyone knows who she is - it was about 8 weeks or so ago at chams, then please get in touch

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