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"hello can n e couple or single fem explain y were struggling to meet a single fem we have no probs meeting couples "single men are to couples what couples are to single women... lots of the former.. not so many of the latter.. welcome to our world... 
you are basically going to have to do what us poor single blokes do... stand out!!
think of the advice you would give to single blokes... and that is probably the answer you will have to find a single lady | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "Oooh reverse psychology..... not going to happen, but nice try, if it did, you would never see a complaint from single guys on the forum again... | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "am now very confused you ask original post why you weren't getting any now your saying your not bothered an now you met time wasters | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "*pinch* Ow! yes I'm real. But the problem with being a single female meeting a couple is its not just one person that has to fancy me, its both. Also, couples can be just as difficult to meet, especially if they have children or can't accommodate for some reason. Best thing might be to go to a club or social and see if you can meet one that way. We're rare but not that rare! | |||
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"No i sed not bothered if people dont wanna meet us if they dont find us attractive or wat have ya thats there personal opinion were not pushy wat were asking is why fems arnt following thru with us we have been on this site for over a year and have had lots of fem interested and each and everyone has let us down so far we havent met one zilch i wish they wud just say no in the first place than lead us on for weeks then let us down.Are all fems time wasters or is there genuine ones out there???? " Umm read the responses....There are lots of genuine single fems!!! I think insulting fems is a pretty crap way of going about meeting them though. | |||
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"1 - dont use text speak 2 - check your spelling and grammer 3 - read there profile to the full 4 - be Patience 5 - have fun " Heh, don't be the Grammar police and then get it wrong yourself, lol "dont, grammer, there profile, be Patience" Sorry, just made me laugh | |||
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"1 - dont use text speak 2 - check your spelling and grammer 3 - read there profile to the full 4 - be Patience 5 - have fun Heh, don't be the Grammar police and then get it wrong yourself, lol dont, grammer, there profile, be Patience Sorry, just made me laugh "omy me bad did not see some 1 read this lol | |||
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"Are all fems time wasters or is there genuine ones out there???? " You see, I read this and think that what you are actually saying is that, unless a single female actually meets you, you're going to think we are all timewasters. In that case, whats te point in meeting you when you have already made up your mind about me? It may be that the women get cold feet. Do you have a social meet first to see how you get on or do you expect them to come round ready to play cold? | |||
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"Labelling single fems as timewasters is not doing you any favours! Just because you have had no success in meeting one yet doesn't make them all not genuine. " +1 | |||
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"Labelling single fems as timewasters is not doing you any favours! Just because you have had no success in meeting one yet doesn't make them all not genuine. +1" Never used to like these +1 but in this case.... +2 Hehe | |||
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"hello can n e couple or single fem explain y were struggling to meet a single fem we have no probs meeting couples "Ah, you see, it's because we've cornered the market in single fems and they simply don't have the time (or energy!) for other couples. Sorry! | |||
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"No i sed not bothered if people dont wanna meet us if they dont find us attractive or wat have ya thats there personal opinion were not pushy wat were asking is why fems arnt following thru with us we have been on this site for over a year and have had lots of fem interested and each and everyone has let us down so far we havent met one zilch i wish they wud just say no in the first place than lead us on for weeks then let us down.Are all fems time wasters or is there genuine ones out there???? " ] You're not the only couple. But truth is, there ARE genuine single fems out there, (we used to play regularly with a woman from another site until she met Mr Right) but there's lots of things that can make it impossible. Some single fems don't want to meet couples, some chicken out, some want an ego boost, some change their mind, some live too far away, some won't find you attractive, some fall in love, some get sick, some go on holiday, some move home ....there are a million reasons. If you read other threads ( & there are MANY on the subject) single fems are the minority on here. You have a lot of competition (including us). A lot of meets are down to luck, another is patience. A quick bit of advice as someone that used to play as a single fem before I met Tod, winging & moaning are a HUGE turn off. I'm sure I can speak for a lot of the single fems, that they are here for fun. Complaining makes you come across as someone that could be be a hassle if for a good reason you stopped messaging (eg you loose your internet connection). & yeah the txt speak is off putting. They waste your time? Delete/block & move on. No big deal. So you've had a bit of time wasted, worse things could happen! C'mon you never wasted time watching TV? Chill out, enjoy the site & have fun. | |||
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"Never can quite grasp the whole 'if they don't meet you, they are timewasters' thingymajiggy.." sad but true | |||
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"Never can quite grasp the whole 'if they don't meet you, they are timewasters' thingymajiggy.." We actually met somebody once and because we didn't play were then called timewasters, go figure! | |||
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"Never can quite grasp the whole 'if they don't meet you, they are timewasters' thingymajiggy.. We actually met somebody once and because we didn't play were then called timewasters, go figure!" yeh i no what yeh mean - i like to meet socially first then arrange something for later those users that say you are a time waster has no clue | |||
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"You're pregnant...That in itself would make me not meet xx"how do you know that? | |||
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"You're pregnant...That in itself would make me not meet xx
how do you know that?"The heading of there profile lol. | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "Those could have possibly been single guys imitating single women as so to have access to your private pics and with the added dirty talk, possibly. | |||
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"You're pregnant...That in itself would make me not meet xx
how do you know that?
The heading of there profile lol."looks to me the op could of easily made another profile an meet the women he has met and take it from there | |||
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"Are all fems time wasters or is there genuine ones out there???? You see, I read this and think that what you are actually saying is that, unless a single female actually meets you, you're going to think we are all timewasters. In that case, whats te point in meeting you when you have already made up your mind about me? It may be that the women get cold feet. Do you have a social meet first to see how you get on or do you expect them to come round ready to play cold?" "Welcome to my world, won't you come on in" - ah Jim Reeves, it seems like this Thursday its persecute Single females, but to be fair we had a "rage on single guys weekend" so you know balance, karma etc..... I would remind the OP of the Pagan law of threefold return, i.e. for every negative post about a section of the swinging community you will put three potential "local" playmates off" Good luck | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "Slut and Slutty that would be because they were a male posing as a single female to get a hard on from exchanging sexually explicit messages with you. When messages get to cyber sex, you can be assured the profile is about to dive. Next thing is, most single girls aren't really looking for couples. Some do, most don't. They can also be highly selective. A single girl is most likely also looking for a relationship at the same time, so selecting who they might have sex with often revolved around the perception of the kind of person they want to be in a relationship with. Now if every girl was happy to fuck every man, then your male partner would not have only you to contend with, and men wouldn't be struggling to find relationships or sex partners. It's also hard for a single to swing. When you finish having sex, you go home to be alone and not loved or adored or snuggled. It's pretty shallow and empty. Maybe considering promoting what the single girl is going to get from an experience with you, rather than the idea that your husband is going to have a two girl fuck party and fulfil the typical male fantasy. In any event if you'd like a a fun girl for hours of fun ... I'm available to meet
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" It's also hard for a single to swing. When you finish having sex, you go home to be alone and not loved or adored or snuggled. It's pretty shallow and empty. " This..... Paul's comment of the day. To the OP your wife/partner is no different in "basic" emotional "set-up" than the single women out there, ask her how she would feel about turning up at someones house, playing with a couple and then leaving again to go back home alone, and you might begin to appreciate how "emotionally" challenging it is for some singles (note the use of the word some). Many singles I "date" (I am going off the word "meet" because of its double entendre), like the coffee in the morning, the cuddle, the things that you as a married couple enjoy. Thats why, I guess, some singles (and in particularly single women) can be difficult to tempt into a "couples" bed | |||
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"I am a single bi fem. I am not: - looking for a relationship, even subconsciously. - looking to have sole use of the man to myself while his wife watches. - It is not hard for a single to swing if she confident in herself, and knows what she wants. I'm happy to go back to my own bed, to starfish, and not have to elbow someone else out of the way. Considering so many people are desperate to meet us, a lot seem to have a very low opinion of us." I have met a number of single women, as liberated (although I think thats the wrong word, perhaps confident, again it doesnt sound right, patronising.... "with clarity of purpose?" any good?) Anyway, yes, you are absolutely right, I said "some" because thats the truth, i try to use "some" more than "many" "most" etc. because sweeping generalisations are killing these forums lol | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different
Slut and Slutty that would be because they were a male posing as a single female to get a hard on from exchanging sexually explicit messages with you.
When messages get to cyber sex, you can be assured the profile is about to dive.
Next thing is, most single girls aren't really looking for couples. Some do, most don't. They can also be highly selective. A single girl is most likely also looking for a relationship at the same time, so selecting who they might have sex with often revolved around the perception of the kind of person they want to be in a relationship with.
Now if every girl was happy to fuck every man, then your male partner would not have only you to contend with, and men wouldn't be struggling to find relationships or sex partners.
It's also hard for a single to swing. When you finish having sex, you go home to be alone and not loved or adored or snuggled. It's pretty shallow and empty.
Maybe considering promoting what the single girl is going to get from an experience with you, rather than the idea that your husband is going to have a two girl fuck party and fulfil the typical male fantasy.
In any event if you'd like a a fun girl for hours of fun ... I'm available to meet
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"1 - dont use text speak 2 - check your spelling and grammer 3 - read there profile to the full 4 - be Patience 5 - have fun Heh, don't be the Grammar police and then get it wrong yourself, lol dont, grammer, there profile, be Patience Sorry, just made me laugh "me too! | |||
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"lol As a Pregnant Single woman, I wonder where in this 'labelling' I fit. From my pov I have to like both parts of a couple, I have to feel safe and secure to go somewhere strange and out number myself 2 - 1. If I sense any discord between the two then I wont meet with them, because I do not want to be the 'cause' of any problems-arguments and I have met with couples where one of them is clearly more 'nervous' than the other. When I meet with a single male, it's simply easier. I either think oh yes or er maybe not. There is not the complication of having to ensure both are on the same page, looking for the same thing, and as has been said before, I am not purley a performing monkey. Dont get me wrong I have met with some fantastic couples and had some great nights, and when I was maried I had a husband and a girlfriend... Now that didnt mean endless 3somes, it meant I got jealousy from both sides. Not that I dont get single men wanting to 'keep me as a toy' either. Now pregnant my swinging has changed. I dont have the luxury of a live in husband to keep an eye on me, dont have a live in huband to drive me to others houses etc, so I am so much more selective and much less active. I also have a life, so I am enjoying clubs, a safe environment where I can meet people face to face, see if there is a spark or connection and feel less pressured to perform should I feel something is not 'quite right' Just want to add, just because I am pregnant has not had any negitive affect on the number of emails or 'oppertunities' I have, It's more the very oppersite, I have taken to hiding my profile as I was unable to keep up with the volume of messages. Just my pennies worth again, and it isn't thursday "Now you will get more messages lol xx | |||
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"I am a single bi fem. I am not: - looking for a relationship, even subconsciously. - looking to have sole use of the man to myself while his wife watches. - It is not hard for a single to swing if she confident in herself, and knows what she wants. I'm happy to go back to my own bed, to starfish, and not have to elbow someone else out of the way. Considering so many people are desperate to meet us, a lot seem to have a very low opinion of us." Like like like!
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol " | |||
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol "I'll see your and raise you | |||
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"Perhaps if you are getting timewaters you need to change the way you are doing things...... also the fact you are pregnant to me is a massive reason why you are not getting meets...." +1 | |||
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol
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"Never can quite grasp the whole 'if they don't meet you, they are timewasters' thingymajiggy.. We actually met somebody once and because we didn't play were then called timewasters, go figure!" 'Timewasters' is a phrase used all too quickly. There should never be any assumed expectation - everyone must be comfortable and happy at the time. Just because you have met, doesn't mean anying. | |||
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"I am a single bi fem. I am not: - looking for a relationship, even subconsciously. - looking to have sole use of the man to myself while his wife watches. - It is not hard for a single to swing if she confident in herself, and knows what she wants. I'm happy to go back to my own bed, to starfish, and not have to elbow someone else out of the way. Considering so many people are desperate to meet us, a lot seem to have a very low opinion of us." Ditto........ and some of my most successful meets have been with couples. xx | |||
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol
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" Ditto........ and some of my most successful meets have been with couples. xx" I'm schizophrenic, if that helps. | |||
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"im not bothered if people dont wanna meet its when they arrange n let you down n delete there profile at last minute. this has never happened to us by a couple but quite a few single fems leading me to believe there time wasters is there any fems that can proves us different "How many of these single females have been verified? When i was on here as a couple we also got loads of messages from supposed single females..we got very good at spotting the fakes. As it says on the site advice page " if it seems too good to be true, it most likely is" It's all the fakes that give the good ladies on here a bad name | |||
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"WHATS WITH ALL THIS WE CANT GET A SINGLE FEMALE . single girls are just girls who dont have a fella . get a cple you can trust. let your wife have a 3sum with them . then let them return the favour. its just the same if we all do this the single females can go fuck them selves lol having said that we dont have any problems we just pay an escort . yeah 120 quid an hour but who wants to last longer than that lol " To be fair I have told Master next time we want a female we would be better off just paying.. can go window shopping for exactly what we want..and best of all.. nothing to worry about.. I have not met couples more than socially as there is always something that just doesnt sit right.. I think for me its the fact of giving some other guy two women.. something I would much rather keep just for my Master.. and a swap with a couple wouldnt work for us either really. I also find couples tend to want longer meets than I would want to give. Cali | |||
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"Not all single fems are tmewasters. For me meeting a couple requires more trust as it's just me lol. I always get to know cpls really well and try to understand there relationship before I Join them. I don't meet cpls just to fulfil there fantasies etc...I have to like them and wanna actally spend time with them. Good luck though as gen ladies are on here! xx
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