FabSwingers.com forum: I hate you all

By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

MIDDLESEX/SUFFOLK

I've seen a few profiles like this lately.

Now everyone knows Fab is not always a swinging Utopia and people get wound up by one-liner mails, fellas who won't take no for an answer insert your pet bugbear as appropriate.

But I can't help but notice that often those flouncing out of Fab are probably over-estimating how much they'll be missed.

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Everyone flouncing out of a forum is like this. It isn't exclusive to Fab. And at least 25% of the time they turn up again, if not with their old username then a new one but still easily recognisable from tone, language, etc.

Spend any number of years on any forum and you'll see the same behaviours and topics recurring.

Another favourite is the 'I remember when it was all fields and things were better round here' thread. I'm on one forum where this thread has been necroposted to annually for about ten years now, without any sense of irony from those who add to it.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It's the classic strop-for-attention.

If you really are 'going to leave' don't announce it, just go.

You can be sure they post and then sit watching and waiting for all the 'please don't go' and 'U OK HUN?' posts. They probably do it periodically on Facebook as well.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Bye, don't let the door hit your arse on the way out.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'checking fab one last time before we delete our account this evening'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the classic strop-for-attention.

If you really are 'going to leave' don't announce it, just go.

You can be sure they post and then sit watching and waiting for all the 'please don't go' and 'U OK HUN?' posts. They probably do it periodically on Facebook as well."

Haha are u on the “U ok Hun” page?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Seen status updates like this many a time and forum posts too

Or the whingy ones complaining that no one meets or site supporter coming to an end shall they stay or go ?

I guess they hope it will spark some interest and get messages

A lot use Fab like Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the person is hoping for is someone to read the status and then hope that someone will send them a message saying "don't do it"

Attention seeking

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

If anyone's got a few seconds spare pleas have a look at my status put up yesterday lol

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

Saw a profile earlier where part of the names “positive” and the status ...giving up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pops in.

Makes scene.

Storms out.

Door slams.

Everyone continues as if nothing happened.

Let’s face it; nothing of consequence did.

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

That sort are one small step from the current trend of screaming at the sky imo

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If people don't like it just leave, why bother posting about it ffs?

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Illusions of grandeur and self importance

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

I'm not putting up with this. We're leaving.

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

See you tomorrow.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Shut the door behind you ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m off too XXX I,'ll be back Saturday

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a cry for help. ..lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for the record, I'm here for the forseeable future

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Saw a profile earlier where part of the names “positive” and the status ...giving up "

maybe they were positive they were giving up lol

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

"Bye, don't let the door hit your arse on the way out."

Oh, I just love that line, not heard it for ages but it’s a reet goodie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not putting up with this. We're leaving."

Same here I'm off

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

There should be a flounce emoji.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I hate everyone too but I’m staying to be annoying

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Whatever happened to the clique of cunts flounce...

Best ever leaving thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate everyone too but I’m staying to be annoying

So annoying when people stay just to annoy us

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"I hate everyone too but I’m staying to be annoying

So annoying when people stay just to annoy us

I’m so annoying I annoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate everyone too but I’m staying to be annoying

So annoying when people stay just to annoy us

I’m so annoying I annoy myself

Have you been so annoying as to block yourself?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"I hate everyone too but I’m staying to be annoying

So annoying when people stay just to annoy us

I’m so annoying I annoy myself

Have you been so annoying as to block yourself?

Why would I block myself? I like annoying people

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But I can't help but notice that often those flouncing out of Fab are probably over-estimating how much they'll be missed."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever happened to the clique of cunts flounce...

Best ever leaving thread?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "I'm leaving!!" circle of status updates makes me laugh.

Leaving - uploads photos - staying - leaving - new veri - leaving - new photo - everyone's lovely - leaving.....

Shut the door on your way out why dontcha

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