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By *reeneyedminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

near you

Hey all!

So myself and a few other single ladies we're wondering what size you men consider BBW?

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say general size 20+. But height can sometimes change that.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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I don't like the phrase at all. Beautiful to me is defined by the face. A woman is beautiful, average or not so beautiful on this basis alone for me. I am clueless at judging sizes anyway. I like what I like. Not a great answer granted but there you go.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

To clarify further I find bodies hot, average and not so hot. They may or not be the same people who are beautiful, average and not so beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say that a size 20 to about 26 is BBW. But to be honest, it can go on height as well. Shorter women will carry their weight more than taller women. If you notice, in women's plus size sections of catalogs, the models don't really look that big. This is because they use very tall women to model the clothes, rather than women of average height but larger weight. Things are getting better, though.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"They say that a size 20 to about 26 is BBW. But to be honest, it can go on height as well. Shorter women will carry their weight more than taller women. If you notice, in women's plus size sections of catalogs, the models don't really look that big. This is because they use very tall women to model the clothes, rather than women of average height but larger weight. Things are getting better, though."

They? Who is they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people involved in the photoshoots for the catalogs

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I hate it when 'they' catagorise things..people..

I'm just me.. I'm bigger than I want to be...but smaller than I used to be..

I wonder what 'they' would call me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photography agency? Probably the target market. Companies and such like to simplify groups with terms like that

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This isn't going to end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW is a term that is normally used inplace of "fat" or "obese" to convey the meaning, without being considered a blatent insult.

We all know what it means. In most cases, it really does not mean: -

Big Beautiful Woman

Please do not misunderstand me, I love ladies who are curvy and cuddly and (I will whisper it) fat. There are those who can carry it off so well. In fact most of my relationships over the years have been with women who were real BBWs.

Does anyone remember the sexy photoshoot Dawn French did some years ago? That was so hot. She has a lovely face anyway, but super large curves too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is subjective.

Big - subjective. Bearing in mind that even clothing manufacturers can't agree sizes, labels don't help.

Beautiful - subjective. Differing people have differing ideas of beauty. A pretty face to some may not appeal to others.

Someone who is labelled BBW may not necessarily be beautiful or indeed big.

That is the problems with labels though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't going to end well "

I thought that, but I jumped in nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't going to end well

I thought that, but I jumped in nonetheless. "

Opinion asked for. Opinion given.

You can't please all the people all the time. Either say what is on your mind or waste time by telling people what you think they want to hear.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I find the term BBW quite vague. I don’t believe you can pigeonhole it into a certain size, more of a generalisation. BBW to me means a pretty lady, who is overweight for their height (not meant to sound rude in any way). It’s all down to personal interpretation really. I’m not really a fan of labels and believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Mr x

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By *reeneyedminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

near you


"I find the term BBW quite vague. I don’t believe you can pigeonhole it into a certain size, more of a generalisation. BBW to me means a pretty lady, who is overweight for their height (not meant to sound rude in any way). It’s all down to personal interpretation really. I’m not really a fan of labels and believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Mr x"

Yes this is what I meant!

As a bigger woman I find it a compliment when I am called a BBW. And a lot of guys prefer bigger girls to slimmer girls.

I know I'm big (fat) but I don't mind, people can like me or leave me.

Xx

Thanks everyone for your comments all good for thought xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all!

So myself and a few other single ladies we're wondering what size you men consider BBW?

Xx "
isn't it size 18+? Ladies have different shapes and heights so varies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mm i love curvy women so i say 20 over? I love bbw though any near ashford message me

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

I think "curvy"starts at 14 plus size.but it's all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 18 and up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think "curvy"starts at 14 plus size.but it's all different."

You'd be wrong. Curvy is a shape not a size. In the most simplest of terms, a woman who goes in at the waist, think hour glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think "curvy"starts at 14 plus size.but it's all different.

You'd be wrong. Curvy is a shape not a size. In the most simplest of terms, a woman who goes in at the waist, think hour glass."

Oddly enough a curvy man goes out at the waist and is fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think anyone should be called bbw tbh woman are normal human beings curvy yeah i like that n also like a curvy lady treat woman with respect bbw is disrespectfull in my eyes (just my input)

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull


"This isn't going to end well "

... Your office?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"This isn't going to end well

... Your office? "

Ha, bendy ruler. You know the drill

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

BBW as a term just makes me cringe. It's almost like a consolation prize- "it's ok, I can still be beautiful", but funnily enough that beauty is only accepted facially.

Beauty is skin deep. Beauty is subjective.

Thank fuck there are enough people in the world to go round us all.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Depends on a woman's height, and their boob size plays in too, and where they carry their weight, But I guess generally it's around the 18+ mark.

But here's a question... What size does the term ssbbw start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when 'they' catagorise things..people..

I'm just me.. I'm bigger than I want to be...but smaller than I used to be..

I wonder what 'they' would call me.."

Delicious

Xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I find the term BBW quite vague. I don’t believe you can pigeonhole it into a certain size, more of a generalisation. BBW to me means a pretty lady, who is overweight for their height (not meant to sound rude in any way). It’s all down to personal interpretation really. I’m not really a fan of labels and believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Mr x

Yes this is what I meant!

As a bigger woman I find it a compliment when I am called a BBW. And a lot of guys prefer bigger girls to slimmer girls.

I know I'm big (fat) but I don't mind, people can like me or leave me.

Xx

Thanks everyone for your comments all good for thought xxxx"

Not convinced a lot of guys prefer bigger girls - or slimmer girls for that matter. I think most guys are less hung up on size than we ladies are!

I think that a pretty face and a great personality will attract chaps whether the lady is a size 8 or a size 18+ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on a woman's height, and their boob size plays in too, and where they carry their weight, But I guess generally it's around the 18+ mark.

But here's a question... What size does the term ssbbw start "

In America, they say if you're over three hundred and fifty pounds in weight, you're ssbbw

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Well I’m 5ft n size 16-18 so if I’m not bbw I’m a fat cow n u know what I don’t care what the majority think I am what I am, I’ve lost weight recently n back in 16-14 jeans so guess that still makes me fat as I still have a jelly belly n curvy bum but I am what I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking through your pics your hot as fuck is what you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’m 5ft n size 16-18 so if I’m not bbw I’m a fat cow n u know what I don’t care what the majority think I am what I am, I’ve lost weight recently n back in 16-14 jeans so guess that still makes me fat as I still have a jelly belly n curvy bum but I am what I am! "

Your not fat a size 16 is the average size for a woman in the uk.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Well I’m 5ft n size 16-18 so if I’m not bbw I’m a fat cow n u know what I don’t care what the majority think I am what I am, I’ve lost weight recently n back in 16-14 jeans so guess that still makes me fat as I still have a jelly belly n curvy bum but I am what I am! "

Hot from what I can see.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"I think "curvy"starts at 14 plus size.but it's all different.

You'd be wrong. Curvy is a shape not a size. In the most simplest of terms, a woman who goes in at the waist, think hour glass.

Oddly enough a curvy man goes out at the waist and is fat "

This is true forgive my ignorance.

Bbw starts at 18?

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Ahh fook it.who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think "curvy"starts at 14 plus size.but it's all different.

You'd be wrong. Curvy is a shape not a size. In the most simplest of terms, a woman who goes in at the waist, think hour glass.

Oddly enough a curvy man goes out at the waist and is fat

This is true forgive my ignorance.

Bbw starts at 18?"

I've been called a bbw here, I'm a 14 and just fat thanks.

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