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By *ettuceslug OP   Couple
over a year ago

Driffield

We strongly believe that this hobby allows you to do as you wish sexually, you set up your menu and find similar people to bring it to reality. For this reason we rarely complain as we feel that this is all about whatever flicks your switch and if it doesn't suit us then we should butt out.

BUT...

There are a number of folk on here that write quite abruptly and then have the front to say that if there's no face pics on your profile, they're not interested...still not an issue until you find out that they dont have any pics at all on their pvt or public profiles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nods in agreement.

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"nods in agreement."

+1

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"nods in agreement."

+1 had a msg from someone who doesnt meet smokers and only entertains msgs from people with face pics and you guessed it no pics whatsoever on their profile .....delete

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Scratches ear in indifference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters , pic collectors .

Mentally sick people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do what the hell i want and i dont need to explain to anyone if i dont reply to their message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mentally sick people ."

harsh mr jay

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

show me yours and i'll show you mine bollox, plenty fish out there to swim with i just move on to next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know just what you mean ,however it only becomes an issue if you make it one by continuing to read look at and reply to there add after all its you thats looked at them first its you thats continued to take things on, if they want to see face pics or what ever and you have choosen not to have any on your profile then just delete them and move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mentally sick people .

harsh mr jay "

Just letting off a little steam at such types of profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mentally sick people .

harsh mr jay "

very verey harsh mr jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"show me yours and i'll show you mine bollox, plenty fish out there to swim with i just move on to next profile "

I must admit to getting suckered , never again

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

timewasters!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mentally sick people .

harsh mr jay

Just letting off a little steam at such types of profiles "

just dont tar everyone with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"show me yours and i'll show you mine bollox, plenty fish out there to swim with i just move on to next profile

I must admit to getting suckered , never again

"

sometimes its worth it when you know they wont comply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mentally sick people .

harsh mr jay

very verey harsh mr jay"

Ok , maybe I was a bit

That may have come across in a harsh way but not intended to offend , these types of people do exist .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what harsh people or mentally unstable

Im mentally unstable ask anyone who meets me and lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"timewasters!!!"

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

"

thats why if i meet now its chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams "

That's one way to avoid the fookers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams

That's one way to avoid the fookers

"

depends really x but usually its good fun

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams "
and us !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams and us !! "

i met u at chams i remember

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams and us !! yep you did!you keeping ok?x

i met u at chams i remember "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im really good U x

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"timewasters!!!

It's the timewasters that are most annoying.

thats why if i meet now its chams and us !! yep you did!you keeping ok?x

i met u at chams i remember "
yep you did !you keeping ok?xx

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"Im really good U x"
yes fine xxxxxx

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

meet at chams at the moment as we prefer when seeing new people.though are long term "friends"we see outside the club

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet at chams at the moment as we prefer when seeing new people.though are long term "friends"we see outside the club"

im the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-2-1 meets for me .

Worry about the clubs once we have enjoyed each other

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"meet at chams at the moment as we prefer when seeing new people.though are long term "friends"we see outside the club

im the same x"
and theres no timewasters there,theyve made the effort to come to the club!I really dont want to sit in someones house making small talk etc

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet at chams at the moment as we prefer when seeing new people.though are long term "friends"we see outside the club

im the same xand theres no timewasters there,theyve made the effort to come to the club!I really dont want to sit in someones house making small talk etc "

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't reply without a face pic. My profile my rules.....I have pics in private and I am often on cam so the fact i don't have one up pulbic is my choice lol. I actually don't even open messages without attatchments. What a bitch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't reply without a face pic. My profile my rules.....I have pics in private and I am often on cam so the fact i don't have one up pulbic is my choice lol. I actually don't even open messages without attatchments. What a bitch!! "

I say good on you. There are no rules saying you must have pictures of your face on here. Ours is tucked away for us to send when we feel ready to send an interested party... If someone passes us by because we don't show face pics in our galleries then fair enough... an ounce of sleep will be lost over more important things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't reply without a face pic. My profile my rules.....I have pics in private and I am often on cam so the fact i don't have one up pulbic is my choice lol. I actually don't even open messages without attatchments. What a bitch!!

I say good on you. There are no rules saying you must have pictures of your face on here. Ours is tucked away for us to send when we feel ready to send an interested party... If someone passes us by because we don't show face pics in our galleries then fair enough... an ounce of sleep will be lost over more important things "

im the same but i have face pics avialable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here have got face pictures but i like to keep it hidden

dont want any 2 steal em to use for them selves as it has happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just read the small print on the OP lol

My posts on this thread only refer to people that have no pics whatsoever on thier profiles ie avatars or any other pics , not at people who have no face pics on display as its understandable why people choose not to.

I have face pics in private to show friends or anyone that's interested or any messages that I send out , its the ones that ask for yours but never send one back that's annoying .

OP can you type a bit clearer in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same here have got face pictures but i like to keep it hidden

dont want any 2 steal em to use for them selves as it has happen"

it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We value our privacy so no face pics ever.

Some on here want to know your life story before or during the meet and ask very probing questions but TBH we are only interested in having a couple of hours of sexy fun discreetly .

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We strongly believe that this hobby allows you to do as you wish sexually, you set up your menu and find similar people to bring it to reality. For this reason we rarely complain as we feel that this is all about whatever flicks your switch and if it doesn't suit us then we should butt out.

BUT...

There are a number of folk on here that write quite abruptly and then have the front to say that if there's no face pics on your profile, they're not interested...still not an issue until you find out that they dont have any pics at all on their pvt or public profiles!!"

okay... mr "bad guy" coming... I am now going to suggest something really really radical

wait.....

here it comes.....

not quite....

now!!!!

the site does give you options... no one is holding a gun to your head and making you answer those types of profiles! So don't!!!! mosey on by!! don't look back!!

I know... radical isn't it...

they may do that to there profiles... they have that option and how people want to set them up is really up to them, if people don't answer back I am sure they will change it.. some will,some wont!

I don't see why people get so pent up over things they can't control... as opposed to working on the things they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feel free to use your gun on me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a full clear face pic in pvt and others I will and do send them....If I am interested. I will not however reply with a pic of my face just to say this is me but i'm not interested lol. That doesn't make me a time waster I just don't fancy he or she or them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

okay... mr "bad guy" coming... I am now going to suggest something really really radical

wait.....

here it comes.....

not quite....

now!!!!

the site does give you options... no one is holding a gun to your head and making you answer those types of profiles! So don't!!!! mosey on by!! don't look back!!

I know... radical isn't it...

they may do that to there profiles... they have that option and how people want to set them up is really up to them, if people don't answer back I am sure they will change it.. some will,some wont!

I don't see why people get so pent up over things they can't control... as opposed to working on the things they can"

Whilst I understand what you are saying and believe it a fair point (although I take the ladies comments on this, they having had the experience )

These forums are available to discuss different aspects of swing and perhaps more specifically this site. The OP has a genuine point about about some people's profiles and requests and is offering this up to the "community" for discussion.

It is a little weird that people "demand" face pics without having any pics whatsoever on their profile, and maybe these people aren't making friends or having meets, by reading this thread they may reevaluate their approach or profile to the benefit of all.......

I mean, strangely the best place to learn where we are going wrong is to read other peoples thoughts on issues and see if we are "guilty" of some of those aspects ourselves

Its just a thought....

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Ill show you mine if I like yours, otherwise no point. Have shown mine anyway but then that just leads to a long discussion about why I dont want to meet.

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