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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Hi everyone

I hope someone can answer this for me.

I have been a single male then a couple then a single again.

The friends that I made as a couple are fine me now being single but if I try making new friends it's like I have some incurable disease.

I still have the same respect, manners and morals.

What can a decent single male do to get rid of the stigma of being labelled "A SINGLE MALE".

I hope one of you lovely people out there can help

Cheers

Neil

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Get a new lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are single? You are doing it wrong! (I'm joking)

Don't know why people is doing that to you.

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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Get a new lady "

It's not that eady Sammie

Maybe I just want to be treated the same as the ladies.

I have a list of things I want and don't want. Just like females do. That's why I'm single.

Neil x

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I was joking maybe that’s why you don’t make friends no sense of humour ?

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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I was joking maybe that’s why you don’t make friends no sense of humour ? "

I have a good sense of humour

Knock knock

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I was joking maybe that’s why you don’t make friends no sense of humour ?

I have a good sense of humour

Knock knock"

Look when you say friends do you mean ladies on here ?

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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

I do Sammy

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Well unfortunately there isn’t a magic formula you have to work at it and hope you catch someone’s eye. Reading the forums there seems to be 1000000’s of single men and not many single women

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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

I agree Sammy.

Not all of the 100000000 are arseholes.

Some should just pay the money at a brothel and get it out of their system.

But

Some are decent who have the same needs and wants as single females.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

It must be really disheartening.

But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.

You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.

Sorry to hear it’s proving hard.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate


"It must be really disheartening.

But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.

You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.

Sorry to hear it’s proving hard. "

This as well

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By *jr123 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"It must be really disheartening.

But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.

You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.

Sorry to hear it’s proving hard. "

Thanks for you reply Mrs Trellis.

I completely understand what you are saying. When I was part of a couple I couldn't believe the amount of messages and invites we got. (Most from desperate single blokes).

Luckily I'm not struggling to meet ladies and couples as I have managed to prove that I'm a decent bloke through going to my local club and my brief encounter as half of a couple.

What I would like to know is what can I do to help me and other decent me attend another club as a newbie without being looked down upon. Even if it's only social. (I regularly attend my club just for a drink and chat)

I hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say maybe 10% of single guys are successful enough on here to make it a worthwhile use of their time. For the other 90% of single guys it's not worth being on here tbh and best to try somewhere else.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I agree Sammy.

Not all of the 100000000 are arseholes.

Some should just pay the money at a brothel and get it out of their system.

But

Some are decent who have the same needs and wants as single females.

"

Where did anyone say anything about them being arseholes

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

I've never found being a single guy a set back but I only correspond with people who are looking for single guys.I would never contact someone who isn't.

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