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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you spotted the partner of a good friend of yours on here would you tell your friend or is there a kind of unwritten rule about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a good friend then yes I would. Of course that would mean telling them i was on here too. Thats my yardstick. If they are a good enough friend to be told i am on here then i would want to give them the truth.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Snitches get stiches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snitches get stiches"

Hahaha yeah. There's always that concern

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Snitches get stiches

Hahaha yeah. There's always that concern"

Well more seriously maybe they already know and would rather you (the OP) didn't make them lose face by bringing it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snitches get stiches"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't mention it. The dynamics are complex, who knows what goes on behind closed doors... she may well already know.

And it's their marriage, their business. No good ever come of trying to do the right thing, it's doubtful you'd get thanked and you'd find yourself stuck in their drama.

Tell yourself, not my circus, not my monkeys.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Steer clear, you don’t know their situation, you may think you do but people don’t always tell others everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steer clear, you don’t know their situation, you may think you do but people don’t always tell others everything. "

Agree with this... maybe the friend knows and would rather others didn’t. Maybe it’s an arrangement they have, maybe it’s a kink of theirs.

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I would be upfront and say... do they know you are on here...and also state... seeing as it is a good friend of mine... if you don't tell them.... then I will!!.... I will not tolerate people cheating in those I hold dear...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I wouldn't say anything.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I ask myself what would I want if I was that person. If I didn’t know, I’d want to know. If I did know I’d respect my friend for trying to help. Often the messenger gets shot but I’d rather know so would tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not say anything as someone else said you don't know the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you spotted the partner of a good friend of yours on here would you tell your friend or is there a kind of unwritten rule about it? "

Why would you? Nothing to do with you or anyone else fir that matter.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I personally wouldn't mention it. The dynamics are complex, who knows what goes on behind closed doors... she may well already know.

And it's their marriage, their business. No good ever come of trying to do the right thing, it's doubtful you'd get thanked and you'd find yourself stuck in their drama.

Tell yourself, not my circus, not my monkeys."

Yes, don't tell.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

If a good friend of mine knew my partner was cheating and didn't tell me I'd be pretty pissed off at them. I'd want to know and would tell a good friend of their partner was on here and meeting people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If a good friend of mine knew my partner was cheating and didn't tell me I'd be pretty pissed off at them. I'd want to know and would tell a good friend of their partner was on here and meeting people."

In this situation the good friend doesn't know the partner is cheating. They only know they're on fab.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

What happens in the lifestyle stays in the lifestyle.

Wouldn't ever discuss.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"What happens in the lifestyle stays in the lifestyle.

Wouldn't ever discuss."

Exactly. . What goes on in here stays in here

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It may be saving their marriage if the partner is on here. I’d leave well alone and block them.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"It may be saving their marriage if the partner is on here. I’d leave well alone and block them."

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You could always drop an anonymous letter through the door if you're going to tell your friend that is.

Mr2

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"It may be saving their marriage if the partner is on here. I’d leave well alone and block them."

The law of unforseen consquences...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Block the person and stay out of it.

I've seen and been contacted by a few men I know in the outside world or from the past. While I don't personally know their wives/girlfriends I do know they exist. I avoid. Drama is something no one needs

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