FabSwingers.com forum: Zero luck.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

Did you think it would be easy to get a shag here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game.

Men outnumber women massively.

Personality

Profile

Patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

Did you think it would be easy to get a shag here?"

Not easy no. But after a year I thought I mite of had a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a numbers game.

Men outnumber women massively.

Personality

Profile

Patience"

I have the patience of a saint. It's starting to get boring if I'm honest

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

maybe it's your approach if it's not working ask yourself why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

maybe it's your approach if it's not working ask yourself why

I am normally very polite. But my messages are getting shorter. Gets on ya tits writing along message and getting nothing back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting? "

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

She wants to know stuff about you, your likes, what she can expect from meeting you, etc.

Think of your profile as a shop window to the women of fab.

Would you go into the shop with a sparsely decorated display, or the one that has plenty of things to see and read?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

That’s a cop out. This site is full of public employees. The first thing people do when seeing a message is look at the senders profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

The first thing I do is look at the profile before opening the message.

Most of us prefer to be discreet so don't have our face on show. Using one's job is a lazy excuse and has you've found no one cares enough to pull teeth extracting pictures/information from you when there are literally thousands, fit as fuck guys on site.

So, the choice is yours...produce a profile worth attention or sit and bitch about not being balls deep.

Decisions...decisions...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself

That’s a cop out. This site is full of public employees. The first thing people do when seeing a message is look at the senders profile. "

There ya go op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

You're not the only 'professional' on this site. And it's very easy to put up pics that show the body without giving away your identity.

And to me a short profile is lazy. That indicates to me you'll put as much effort into a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me your ego will disappear into a black pit of despair. It will test you,only the strongest most patient will prosper.

Tips

Have no expectations.

Don't expect a reply.

Buy a sex machine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is, people say about having a good profile, good pics, being single, etc, etc, i have tried it all here! It makes no difference. I tried many different approaches. Many different pics. Long and short messages. Trust me be prepared to fail over and over.

Just dont get hung up on it. If you do, you will loose your power!

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself

That’s a cop out. This site is full of public employees. The first thing people do when seeing a message is look at the senders profile. "

Its like you own your own shop .....you have to put your ` goods & wares` on show for people to browse and hopefully you attract some interest.....

If the shop is empty and looks closed , would you go inside for a look ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures are a massive thing. I wouldn’t ever message anyone unless they have public pics. If I receive a message without pics it gets deleted. Who has time to constantly go back to 100+ people a day and ask.

Unless you’re a government spy, you can have pictures.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

Excuses Excuses.

Put some photos up and explain

- a bit about you

- what you like

- what you dont like

- when you are free

- what you want in a partner

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

have a perv in the pics.....

its hard but you got to be in it to win it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the oh so brutal advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're welcome.

Fluffy, there there, never mind, coddling is no use here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty "

Try messaging yourself then.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty "

So you would be willing to meet any woman meeting this criteria alone, with no photos?

I would suggest a forum search for profile advice as a starting point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

Try messaging yourself then.

I have. Got no response

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

So you would be willing to meet any woman meeting this criteria alone, with no photos?

I would suggest a forum search for profile advice as a starting point. "

No I wouldn't because I don't have no pics. I have three on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a numbers game.

Men outnumber women massively.

Personality

Profile

Patience"

And don't miss-sell PPP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're welcome.

Fluffy, there there, never mind, coddling is no use here. "

Is there a cuddle with that aswell

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By *unkey_DuckCouple
over a year ago

Kingslynn

Have a break, have a Kit Kat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a break, have a Kit Kat. "

If only

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

So you would be willing to meet any woman meeting this criteria alone, with no photos?

I would suggest a forum search for profile advice as a starting point.

No I wouldn't because I don't have no pics. I have three on my profile "

Not readily visible photos though, so most will simply pass you by.

I certainly would.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

So you would be willing to meet any woman meeting this criteria alone, with no photos?

I would suggest a forum search for profile advice as a starting point.

No I wouldn't because I don't have no pics. I have three on my profile

Not readily visible photos though, so most will simply pass you by.

I certainly would.

Nita"

Fair point. Thanks for the advice

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Trouble is, people say about having a good profile, good pics, being single, etc, etc, i have tried it all here! It makes no difference. I tried many different approaches. Many different pics. Long and short messages. Trust me be prepared to fail over and over.

Just dont get hung up on it. If you do, you will loose your power!

I was once a prolific player but my veris have long retired from this world (or died)! I'm here now mainly to chat but I do remember a time when it was easier for guys..but I don't get this attitude, what are we men expecting? Free sex on tap?

Even with the best written profile in the world it means nothing, there's no contractual relationship between a man with a good profile and a requirement that women should consider meeting him! It makes it only (slightly) easier.

I stepped away because it was simply too hard, but that's nobody's fault it's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple question.

Would you be enticed by your profile?

If so, why?

Nita

Into curvy.

Anal rimming and fisting. That would interest me in all honesty

Try messaging yourself then.

I have. Got no response

Just block and ignore, that's the usual advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

Not all women, no. I'd chat to you going off your profile. I'm interested in the person behind the profile.

Are you chatty in messages? Sorry I suppose that's a daft question if no-one ever replies. It can make you feel invisible, I understand that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your another one that moans they are not getting anywhere. You have no profile pic nor do you have any pics for other to see So unfortunately women will pass you by thinking you are just a time waster

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

Me, I like the filtering, don’t want a shag, just connection.

L just likes a one off, especially with ladies.

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

Good, serves you right for not fancying trannies doesn't it!!!! Grrrrr!!!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself"

Do you think all they want is cock? If you do, it will explain your lack of success.

Just looked at your profile and found very little to attract. Not much detail. Dunno what you look like. No effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No pics, a very short profile, what are you really expecting?

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession. And is that what a women wants a fella that waffles on about himself

Not all women, no. I'd chat to you going off your profile. I'm interested in the person behind the profile.

Are you chatty in messages? Sorry I suppose that's a daft question if no-one ever replies. It can make you feel invisible, I understand that. x"

Thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jesus my ego is taking a beating. Message after message with no reply at all. Beginning to give me a complex

Good, serves you right for not fancying trannies doesn't it!!!! Grrrrr!!!

Haha. Wish I did. Make like alot easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it get to you op I've been here two years and still trying but in my area I already have three strikes against me before I even send messages lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Getting SO bored of not only the threads but being messaged by men who've made little to no effort either with profile or message.

I'd delete your message without even reading it op. And I agree "can't show public pics due to job" is a total cop out.

I've met Drs, lawyers, teachers, military personnel off here - they had public pics and made an effort both on here and in meeting. If you can't be bothered online I'm gonna think you can't keep up with me in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where’s Shag?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on a while on a number of accounts and only had 1 shag. What am I doing wrong?

Anyone want to suck me dry while I fart

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

Am always happy to send pics. Can't have them public due to my profession."

You're perfectly entitled not to post pictures, but your choice will have consequences. Women aren't interested in excuses, they'll follow the route of least resistance.

Expecting them to meet someone with a poor, pictureless profile is like expecting them to crawl through a briar patch to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pass you by. I'd read your profile before opening your message. If you can't make an effort with your profile, why should I make the effort with replying?

Get some photos on....

Be proactive and go to organised socials. Get yourself known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day were here to please the women etc esp if a single guy and what helps you get noticed is being polite and socialising at events or general meets at clubs. You are never going to get meets if you dont do this really as the person is not going to feel safe just to go meet someone, play and go. It just doesnt work like that.

Also put some effort into a profile and make sure its not all cock pics or a combo of body and cock pics. Try to be different, use a face pic as a profile and clothed pics or a combo and then maybe have 1 cock pic public and rest private.

There are ways to get meets but it down to how you go about it

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