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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, it could be me, but are you being propounding stereotypes and moaning about them all at once?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

they might hit a big criteria- doesn't mean the sex will be good. same with good looking guys, talk small big cock small cock you name. or big tits big pussy whatever.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

"

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure, it could be me, but are you being propounding stereotypes and moaning about them all at once?"

I am generalising... However I'm only talking about the few bad apples that seem to make everyone generalise the rest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males."

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

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By *ogan summersMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that

think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman w

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males."

Exactly!!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Hmmm, why do I feel that this topic had to be made to get some attention from the ladies, couples and those people that loathe black ppl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to avoid the men who use their cock as a bargaining chip.

I've turned down offers of parties aimed at white women being fucked by black men, because the dynamics doesn't suit me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......"

Why would you comment on such a "ridiculous post"???

Why is this ridiculous? It's Fab it's not that serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

Why would you comment on such a "ridiculous post"???

Why is this ridiculous? It's Fab it's not that serious

"

It’s about 15 lines of saying nothing in particular. Pointless and meaningless as most people seem to agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know how to avoid the men who use their cock as a bargaining chip.

I've turned down offers of parties aimed at white women being fucked by black men, because the dynamics doesn't suit me."

I have chatted with someone who asked if I've been blacked, and another who asked if I wanted his nigger cock. I had to check that he was verified in case he was a non-black fantasist.

It's off-putting for me, but they get off on it, and who am I to tell people what to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm, why do I feel that this topic had to be made to get some attention from the ladies, couples and those people that loathe black ppl?"

I'm not the type of guy who is trying to seek attention through a Forum thread. Not that guy. I do very well for myself. Lol

I'm actually being genuine and only talking about a small section that I don't like and think spoil it for others. There's a small group that message up every swinging scenario. I'm merely taking about a bbc issue that I see quite abit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

Why would you comment on such a "ridiculous post"???

Why is this ridiculous? It's Fab it's not that serious

It’s about 15 lines of saying nothing in particular. Pointless and meaningless as most people seem to agree. "

Obviously said enough to get a response from you...

I wouldn't respond to a "ridiculous post" unless you have an alternative agenda.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

Why would you comment on such a "ridiculous post"???

Why is this ridiculous? It's Fab it's not that serious

It’s about 15 lines of saying nothing in particular. Pointless and meaningless as most people seem to agree.

Obviously said enough to get a response from you...

I wouldn't respond to a "ridiculous post" unless you have an alternative agenda. "

And my alternate agenda is?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Good to hear that, ]I just think you could have phrased your initial post better. There was a lot of generalisation there. I do see the minority of black men who put their personalities behind the myth and who perpetuate the harmful stereotypes that plague us and possibly our descendants in the future. However, remeber not to generalise as it detracts from your message

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I know how to avoid the men who use their cock as a bargaining chip.

I've turned down offers of parties aimed at white women being fucked by black men, because the dynamics doesn't suit me.

I have chatted with someone who asked if I've been blacked, and another who asked if I wanted his nigger cock. I had to check that he was verified in case he was a non-black fantasist.

It's off-putting for me, but they get off on it, and who am I to tell people what to do. "

That's disrespectful and out of order. Some people really need to be educated about themselves. I can imagine how that spoils the fun as I have been on the receiving end of such BS, though it was subtle.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......"

..................the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that

think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman w

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

Exactly!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, why do I feel that this topic had to be made to get some attention from the ladies, couples and those people that loathe black ppl?"

I don't loathe black men. I rather like some actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know how to avoid the men who use their cock as a bargaining chip.

I've turned down offers of parties aimed at white women being fucked by black men, because the dynamics doesn't suit me.

I have chatted with someone who asked if I've been blacked, and another who asked if I wanted his nigger cock. I had to check that he was verified in case he was a non-black fantasist.

It's off-putting for me, but they get off on it, and who am I to tell people what to do.

That's disrespectful and out of order. Some people really need to be educated about themselves. I can imagine how that spoils the fun as I have been on the receiving end of such BS, though it was subtle."

It was a shock at first, as I don't really understand the psychology behind it, but it's their thing so I politely decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair some 'white guys' are as big as some 'black guys' and pound for 10 mins and of they go,,, so respect needs showing from both colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just prefer black guys technique ,I've witnessed a lot at clubs and lady's seem to get off more with equal cocks to white guys ,men also like to see there wives with black guys too .

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm still confused which myth we're discussing here?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I know how to avoid the men who use their cock as a bargaining chip.

I've turned down offers of parties aimed at white women being fucked by black men, because the dynamics doesn't suit me.

I have chatted with someone who asked if I've been blacked, and another who asked if I wanted his nigger cock. I had to check that he was verified in case he was a non-black fantasist.

It's off-putting for me, but they get off on it, and who am I to tell people what to do.

That's disrespectful and out of order. Some people really need to be educated about themselves. I can imagine how that spoils the fun as I have been on the receiving end of such BS, though it was subtle.

It was a shock at first, as I don't really understand the psychology behind it, but it's their thing so I politely decline. "

Sometimes seeing it first-hand at parties really makes me cringe. It's such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair some 'white guys' are as big as some 'black guys' and pound for 10 mins and of they go,,, so respect needs showing from both colours. "

Is that in clubs or parties?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I'm still confused which myth we're discussing here? "

Feeding into the BBC stereotype. No wonder people describe black men as BBC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

..................the OP"

Are you in agreement or being sarcastic? lol not sure anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm... AHA, I've got it! I know.. I'll lecture other black guys about how they must have more than just a big cock...self-disparagement demonstrating self awareness.. Yeah, that'll get me some white pussy."

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm still confused which myth we're discussing here?

Feeding into the BBC stereotype. No wonder people describe black men as BBC. "

The average black man has a longer penis than the average man of any other race. Perhaps the solution is to educate people on statistical distributions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still confused which myth we're discussing here?

Feeding into the BBC stereotype. No wonder people describe black men as BBC. "
black mental ,looking at your profile with your body I can tell your good at getting lady's off no matter your size ,am I right .

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Hmm sensitive topic, not gonna say much about it but I seen a lady above mention some black men asking if she wanted their 'nigger cock' ? I would advise staying away from them ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I being naive in wondering why we can’t just judge people on whether they’re an arsehole or not rather than the size of their cock or colour of their skin? If I’d posted this and swapped the words black for white it’d still sound ridiculous.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

"

It certainly isn't me, nor is it the majority of black or white men I know.

Unfortunately (some) men will promote whatever unique selling point they have that they can attribute to what they believe is a positive stereotype..six pack, emergency services, military, tradesman, wealth etc etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am deeply moved! I solemnly swear that from this point onwards in my life I will use my big black cock as a force for good.

I feel you bro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can empathise a little with the OP. I get men messaging me saying how they love a BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ridiculous post of the day award goes to......

Why would you comment on such a "ridiculous post"???

Why is this ridiculous? It's Fab it's not that serious

It’s about 15 lines of saying nothing in particular. Pointless and meaningless as most people seem to agree. "

Nothing ridiculous about his post.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I am deeply moved! I solemnly swear that from this point onwards in my life I will use my big black cock as a force for good.

I feel you bro! "

Just make sure you don't hang a bag of kryptonite from it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There's single men bashing other single men to curry favour. Now a guy with "black" in his username, in case we missed the bleeding obvious lambasting other black guys... ...honestly, you couldn't make this shit up!

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Crass and unthoughtful.you think black folks are guilty of this kind of behaviour? Another Self inflicted cheap publicity stunt.

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By *unkey_DuckCouple
over a year ago

Kingslynn

A lil off topic, but i was watching black men with small penises on YouTube saying how they wish people didn't believe in the BBC myth as women get with them thinking they are packing a massive Cumberland sausage but in reality, they only have a tiny party sausage. They say the women get so disappointed and even just walk away from the sex. That must suck to have to live with that. I don't believe in it myself. When i first heard of BBC i thought people were talking about a television station. And the biggest i've ever seen have been on white men.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"A lil off topic, but i was watching black men with small penises on YouTube saying how they wish people didn't believe in the BBC myth as women get with them thinking they are packing a massive Cumberland sausage but in reality, they only have a tiny party sausage. They say the women get so disappointed and even just walk away from the sex. That must suck to have to live with that. I don't believe in it myself. When i first heard of BBC i thought people were talking about a television station. And the biggest i've ever seen have been on white men. "

There is no myth that all black men have big pensis. On average it's a fact. Averages have distributions, there are chinese men with massive dongs.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Never understood this myth. But guys will use certain aspects to make themselves stand out from the rest.

If the size of their cock I'd the biggest selling point any them, more power to them because plenty of women/couples are looking for guys who can fulfill their size fantasies.

Me? Never used the term BBC to anyone I've met.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Never understood this myth. But guys will use certain aspects to make themselves stand out from the rest.

If the size of their cock I'd the biggest selling point any them, more power to them because plenty of women/couples are looking for guys who can fulfill their size fantasies.

Me? Never used the term BBC to anyone I've met.

"

Exactly, the term 'size queen' exists for a reason. You never hear of an 'average addict' do you

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

Size isn't critical to me, however, how a chap cums is. In all the porn I've seen I've rarely if ever in fact seen a black cock spurt really nicely, all rather dribbly I've found. Seen plenty of white cocks spurt rather deliciously though.

Is that a thing then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

It certainly isn't me, nor is it the majority of black or white men I know.

Unfortunately (some) men will promote whatever unique selling point they have that they can attribute to what they believe is a positive stereotype..six pack, emergency services, military, tradesman, wealth etc etc etc."

Can't really blame anyone for trying to find their USP though. Men are told to stand out on here, then told off for trying to stand out.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

It certainly isn't me, nor is it the majority of black or white men I know.

Unfortunately (some) men will promote whatever unique selling point they have that they can attribute to what they believe is a positive stereotype..six pack, emergency services, military, tradesman, wealth etc etc etc.

Can't really blame anyone for trying to find their USP though. Men are told to stand out on here, then told off for trying to stand out. "

I agree but it becomes a problem when it leads to arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

It certainly isn't me, nor is it the majority of black or white men I know.

Unfortunately (some) men will promote whatever unique selling point they have that they can attribute to what they believe is a positive stereotype..six pack, emergency services, military, tradesman, wealth etc etc etc.

Can't really blame anyone for trying to find their USP though. Men are told to stand out on here, then told off for trying to stand out.

I agree but it becomes a problem when it leads to arrogance."

But then is the real problem the arrogance and not the USP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am deeply moved! I solemnly swear that from this point onwards in my life I will use my big black cock as a force for good.

I feel you bro!

Just make sure you don't hang a bag of kryptonite from it "

Lots of black man's kryptonite

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

is this one of those "oh but i am sooo different" posts.....

its like a black "white knight" post.... or should that be the other way around....

oh... and the other thing OP is that it may look less hypocritical for you to bash the BBC stereotype if you didn't have your apendage lopping out in most of your pictures either......

look... if you want to "keep it 100" some people play up to the stereotypes... some run from it!!!

so you concentrate on being the best "you" you can flower!!! and let everyone else be them....

you don't affect how i do on here, and i don't affect you!!!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

Odd sense of self loathing since the things you describe aren't exclusive to black males.

It's not self loathing. It's calling it how I see it.

Yes this dynamic goes across the board however I'm just talking about the black guys. If that's not you then it's all good.

It certainly isn't me, nor is it the majority of black or white men I know.

Unfortunately (some) men will promote whatever unique selling point they have that they can attribute to what they believe is a positive stereotype..six pack, emergency services, military, tradesman, wealth etc etc etc.

Can't really blame anyone for trying to find their USP though. Men are told to stand out on here, then told off for trying to stand out.

I agree but it becomes a problem when it leads to arrogance.

But then is the real problem the arrogance and not the USP?"

Absolutely, but give it a superficial peg to hang from and folks can start believing their own publicity

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

All this is much ado about nothing if you ask me.

The OP seems to be having a colonoscopy to help diagnose somebody else's ailment.

Unless you yourself fancy black guys and have been at the receiving end of your so called "disrespectful black guys who think they're special and only give you a 10 minute pounding", I don't see why you're making a fuss.

Why don't you be the best that you can be to attract who you fancy and let others worry about themselves.

Especially the women on whose behalf you're being aggrieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there must be some black guys who have little willy winkers just the same as us honkies - but hey, what the hell, it's not what you've got it's how you use it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna say it how it is...

Alot of you Black guys need to do better. Being Black doesn't automatically qualify you or mean you anything special. You still have to be a man first and foremost. Respect is a two way street.

I say that, to say this... It pisses me off and I hate to be associated with some of these parties. You get weird creepy black guys that think a bbc 10mins pounding is what every woman wants.

A few bad Apples... #RantOver

"

Changing your profile name before writing this post may have made you look slightly less ridiculous..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lost for words.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Urban myth is so funny, as is those who believe in it.

Still it steady’s a fantasy world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow...

After reading through the comments and then reading my OP I can see how I can now see why I've had a record number of profile views. Lol

Let me say that it's hard to get your true intensions in a forum or even WhatsApp or text sometimes.

Let me also say that I did not post it for the attention or an ego boost or anything else that was suggested. It comes from a genuine place and it wasn't intended to bash my race or any self hate. I'm a very proud Black man.

I understand the importance of race and I know that it's still an issue regardless of what some may say. Thone that say race doesn't matter or they don't see race is apart of the issue.

We all see race first, we all (on occasion) play into the hands of the social stereotypes.

I think if we were more honest and open about race then we would be able to understand every ones culture better. With that understanding all racial stereotypical barriers would come down.

Within certain Black cultures, women are not highly "respected", then white women are even less "respected". This is also a common custom within certain Asian cultres.

So when I see Black men displaying this behaviour, in a swingers club environment or when im on the doors working I don't like it.

Some of you has taken my OP to heart and I mean no offence to anyone. Apologies for the genarlising and hope you undertand my clarifications. Some of what I've said maybe the same with White men too, before you all think I have an issue with race I genuinely don't.

Hope you all have Fab Sat night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow...

After reading through the comments and then reading my OP I can see how I can now see why I've had a record number of profile views. Lol

Let me say that it's hard to get your true intensions in a forum or even WhatsApp or text sometimes.

Let me also say that I did not post it for the attention or an ego boost or anything else that was suggested. It comes from a genuine place and it wasn't intended to bash my race or any self hate. I'm a very proud Black man.

I understand the importance of race and I know that it's still an issue regardless of what some may say. Thone that say race doesn't matter or they don't see race is apart of the issue.

We all see race first, we all (on occasion) play into the hands of the social stereotypes.

I think if we were more honest and open about race then we would be able to understand every ones culture better. With that understanding all racial stereotypical barriers would come down.

Within certain Black cultures, women are not highly "respected", then white women are even less "respected". This is also a common custom within certain Asian cultres.

So when I see Black men displaying this behaviour, in a swingers club environment or when im on the doors working I don't like it.

Some of you has taken my OP to heart and I mean no offence to anyone. Apologies for the genarlising and hope you undertand my clarifications. Some of what I've said maybe the same with White men too, before you all think I have an issue with race I genuinely don't.

Hope you all have Fab Sat night

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Your profile name/profile plays into stereotyping that's why it's such a confusing post for me! If we're generalising and stereotyping I should know as I'm one of those thick thighed, round arsed white girls that tends to attract 'black men' (not a complaint)

If people aren't happy (especially women in a swingers club) I'm sure they can speak up for themselves and it won't go unnoticed

Whatever smokes our tyres and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow...

After reading through the comments and then reading my OP I can see how I can now see why I've had a record number of profile views. Lol

Let me say that it's hard to get your true intensions in a forum or even WhatsApp or text sometimes.

Let me also say that I did not post it for the attention or an ego boost or anything else that was suggested. It comes from a genuine place and it wasn't intended to bash my race or any self hate. I'm a very proud Black man.

I understand the importance of race and I know that it's still an issue regardless of what some may say. Thone that say race doesn't matter or they don't see race is apart of the issue.

We all see race first, we all (on occasion) play into the hands of the social stereotypes.

I think if we were more honest and open about race then we would be able to understand every ones culture better. With that understanding all racial stereotypical barriers would come down.

Within certain Black cultures, women are not highly "respected", then white women are even less "respected". This is also a common custom within certain Asian cultres.

So when I see Black men displaying this behaviour, in a swingers club environment or when im on the doors working I don't like it.

Some of you has taken my OP to heart and I mean no offence to anyone. Apologies for the genarlising and hope you undertand my clarifications. Some of what I've said maybe the same with White men too, before you all think I have an issue with race I genuinely don't.

Hope you all have Fab Sat night

Your profile name/profile plays into stereotyping that's why it's such a confusing post for me! If we're generalising and stereotyping I should know as I'm one of those thick thighed, round arsed white girls that tends to attract 'black men' (not a complaint)

If people aren't happy (especially women in a swingers club) I'm sure they can speak up for themselves and it won't go unnoticed

Whatever smokes our tyres and all that "

Jesus you’re picture gave me an erection. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, interestingly enough, I notice the further north you go then the more I notice the black men seem...zombified. And way more into tap dancing for white approval.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"Also, interestingly enough, I notice the further north you go then the more I notice the black men seem...zombified. And way more into tap dancing for white approval."

It's the cold !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see the oblessed tools that are coming from my Brothers seem to be name calling and suggesting I'm being disingenuous or hate my skin, or trying to please other people.

Stop taking yourself so serious...

Not one of you have actu ally addressed anything I've mentioned but instead focus on creating more confusion.

I never understand the Forum. If the thread isn't for you or you disagree, there's still am etiquette of the dialogue. However this futter proves my point of ignorance and arrogance... I bet you guys still believe in Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am trying to explain my problem with your post and not having a free pop at you.

But having an opening thread about 'Black' stereotypes from someone called 'Blackmagic' and who

fails to see why he is not taken seriously shows something.

I mean what was wrong with 'Magic' or 'Magic Man'. I have sweated blood to avoid on this profile and on my kink profile references to colour. Hence my rather anodyne profile name, but it is my non fab nickname. Someone here called himself Brain' I wish I had thought of that.

Seriously you may be great guy but there is clearly a disconnect. It is like calling yourself black horse dick and complaining about other guys using black stereotypes.

The problem is that even before: "who is that private dick who is sex machine to the chicks. Shaft, we can dig it" there are those who have played the stereotype. I will not criticise because in basic sales it is give the punters what they want and there are a number of people who want it. It is not for me but if someone feels it helps them get laid good luck to them. Fab is not real life but it does seem to reflect the prejudices and preferences of real life.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Avoid people into the racist bbc sterotype (big strong black big dick). You should be fine then.

I mean the average african american is only 5'9, these sterotypes are so racist that it does no one any good to perpetuate them.

The sooner we are sexy people having hot sex with other sexy people, and not just a taboo fetish to tick off the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the point of this post. Was there some sort of outcry regarding this issue? You then went on to say a small number of them , so if it's a small number and there's no outcry why bring up? What was your reasoning behind this post that you know would be a touchy subject? Have some your female friends been complaining about this ? Please enlighten me.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Personally I don't mind a 10 minute pounding.

I have fancied black guys since I was a teenage girl. Lost my virginity to a black guy and dated several. Married a white guy because we have something special and it works. Never stopped me wanting to have sex with black guys.

Being a bit of a slut I have had plenty of experience of blokes and for me the myth holds true. Black guys can rock up, they can have a down to earth conversation about fucking (who wants small talk?), get it up, fuck hard, with generally a decent sized cock and afterwards they are polite and kind.

Perhaps I biased because I fancy Afro-Caribbean guys? Suppose being blonde I am a bit stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, interestingly enough, I notice the further north you go then the more I notice the black men seem...zombified. And way more into tap dancing for white approval."

On another thread your calling certain people racist. I think your the racist one very arrogant as well.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

A lot of things are playing out here.

Over the past 3 decades the way the guys were brought up has been very different from the way the men of old were brought up.

Even in the responses of these guys on the thread I can clearly see the absence of a male figure bringing them up.

They are so quick to jump in support of the ladies and act in a disrespectful manner to other guys. All this so that some ladies will take pity on them and meet them, it's really sad. The truth is that women are not attracted to this kind of weakness and this kind of behaviour. Women are only attracted to confidence.

Well I will give them some old school game from the men of old,

when you have only one girl, you are subject to whatever she says and you will be into her, taking all the bad and disrespectful things she will dish out to you. You will also be very insecure and think negatively of every guy that talks to her in the swingers club.

However, when you have five girls openly, in a matured and responsible manner, not hiding or cheating, all the ladies know themselves , then you will not need to feel insecure or accept any kind of disrespect. This is the only solution to being insecure. The confidence and game that makes you this kind of man that can handle being with multiple ladies openly and correctly is what you need to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is complete nonsense. Its also racist as you are equating a race to a physical trait, whats next white men have bigger brains? Or bigger feet?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"That is complete nonsense. Its also racist as you are equating a race to a physical trait, whats next white men have bigger brains? Or bigger feet? "

Some physical traits are more prevalent in certain races than others.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"A lot of things are playing out here.

Over the past 3 decades the way the guys were brought up has been very different from the way the men of old were brought up.

Even in the responses of these guys on the thread I can clearly see the absence of a male figure bringing them up.

They are so quick to jump in support of the ladies and act in a disrespectful manner to other guys. All this so that some ladies will take pity on them and meet them, it's really sad. The truth is that women are not attracted to this kind of weakness and this kind of behaviour. Women are only attracted to confidence.

Well I will give them some old school game from the men of old,

when you have only one girl, you are subject to whatever she says and you will be into her, taking all the bad and disrespectful things she will dish out to you. You will also be very insecure and think negatively of every guy that talks to her in the swingers club.

However, when you have five girls openly, in a matured and responsible manner, not hiding or cheating, all the ladies know themselves , then you will not need to feel insecure or accept any kind of disrespect. This is the only solution to being insecure. The confidence and game that makes you this kind of man that can handle being with multiple ladies openly and correctly is what you need to find."

.... and again, my god you talk some rubbish..... really!!!!!!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"A lot of things are playing out here.

Over the past 3 decades the way the guys were brought up has been very different from the way the men of old were brought up.

Even in the responses of these guys on the thread I can clearly see the absence of a male figure bringing them up.

They are so quick to jump in support of the ladies and act in a disrespectful manner to other guys. All this so that some ladies will take pity on them and meet them, it's really sad. The truth is that women are not attracted to this kind of weakness and this kind of behaviour. Women are only attracted to confidence.

Well I will give them some old school game from the men of old,

when you have only one girl, you are subject to whatever she says and you will be into her, taking all the bad and disrespectful things she will dish out to you. You will also be very insecure and think negatively of every guy that talks to her in the swingers club.

However, when you have five girls openly, in a matured and responsible manner, not hiding or cheating, all the ladies know themselves , then you will not need to feel insecure or accept any kind of disrespect. This is the only solution to being insecure. The confidence and game that makes you this kind of man that can handle being with multiple ladies openly and correctly is what you need to find."

What about my comment makes you think I grew up without a father figure ? Lolololol bruhhhhh

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

Is it just me that thinks it's slightly odd that a lot of guys have some derivative of 'black' in their username?

One must assume it's used as a USP but it does seem to re enforce historical stereotypes that if I were black, I'd be keen to at least avoid, or positively challenge.......

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

To respond directly to you is to bring myself down to your level but for the sake of conversation do not throw personal insults at me , I do not disrespect anyone niether do I accept disrespect.

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