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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I went to Cupids last night and as much as I Love going to clubs and meeting great people. I often don't find myself playing with anyone...

I'm like a kid in a sweet shop and want it all but realise I can't so end up not wanting anything (all or nothing, type of guy).

Not only that but I've realised I'm better in a One on One situation where I get to explore my partners body all night.

I think I'll be like those women who go to clubs and not play...

Club meets or One on One???

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’m currently exploring the club scene, but as my verifications show, I’ve enjoyed far more ‘success’ on a one-to-one basis

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Definitely clubs for us.....loads of variety and a great atmosphere with nothing needing to be arranged.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I use clubs more for social or kink. Meets I prefer one on ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer one to one. I feel I have to “know” people to engage in play with them. I use clubs for networking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op why don't you do both. I definitely prefer a 1 on 1 but also luv the club scene as it's a great chance to dress up in sexy clothes. Take your meet to a club. Have a laff, few drinks, bit of flirting admire the surroundings lol..... then go and have your 1 on 1 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on One

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fussy fucker so the likely hood of finding people I want to have sex with straight away at a club is pretty remote.

One on one is my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fussy fucker so the likely hood of finding people I want to have sex with straight away at a club is pretty remote.

One on one is my preference."

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've had a few one on one meets but I tend to meet and play at clubs these days.

Since I first went to a club just over a year ago I haven't bothered with one on ones unless it is someone I've met before and I trust.

I just feel like a club is a much safer space to meet and play rather than visiting a stranger in their home or hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer 1 on 1 or play with a couple as i like to socialise and get a conversation going as then its easier for everyone.

I stupidly went to a massive party and thought even if i was interested theres about 20 guys all in front of me then the rest watching...not surr id be that confident about performing. Quite off-putting

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I enjoy the atmosphere in a club, the watching and being watched and all of that. but you can't get to know someone, you can't really explore new things... so 121 meets with a club (with a friend) thrown in once in a while to mix things up?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I much prefer club meets. I’ve given up private meets now. It’s the social side followed by fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on one due to all the clubs being miles away.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"One on one due to all the clubs being miles away."

Also a good point

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We goto clubs with full intenton of playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties and one to one as it seems single guys are punished financially on virtue that they are desperate and willing to pay

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By *avidandjaneukCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

Clubs for us too, you can pick and choose. We've never gone out together and not got to play and some of the group experiences we've had have been off the scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I went to Cupids last night and as much as I Love going to clubs and meeting great people. I often don't find myself playing with anyone...

I'm like a kid in a sweet shop and want it all but realise I can't so end up not wanting anything (all or nothing, type of guy).

Not only that but I've realised I'm better in a One on One situation where I get to explore my partners body all night.

I think I'll be like those women who go to clubs and not play...

Club meets or One on One???"

One to one is always more mindblowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs with a partner is fun. Watching and getting horny together then go fuck.

Clubs alone can be fun too for watching. 1 on 1 is fun with the right person. No preference really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer one to one. I feel I have to “know” people to engage in play with them. I use clubs for networking "

I am similar, prefer one to one. That would be my first choice.

I use clubs/socials for networking, but on occasions have been lucky to be involved in threesomes, moresomes and group fun.

For me the best situation is when I take someone and share the club scene. Hit the dance floor and just catch up with good friends.

In other words:

Combination of networking and twerking with cheeky pole dancing moves thrown in

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

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Clubs for us .. love getting to know new people having a flirt and if there's no one to take out fancy we have each other to play with... have had some fab notes at clubs x

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