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By *orcester sauce OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

looking for ladies fairly local to worcestershire.

I have no face pic for obvious reasons but will gladly send one if requested.

Dan

(Know its not everyones cup of tea, so if it isnt yours just ignore the thread)

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Do you want to buy a tin helmet dan ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* watching from behind the curtain *

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By *orcester sauce OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"Do you want to buy a tin helmet dan ? "

Haha Nah im good.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do you want to buy a tin helmet dan ?

Haha Nah im good. "

I can hear the dah dum dah dum jaws music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he is honest ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deja vu Dan

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By *orcester sauce OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"At least he is honest ... "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Deja vu Dan "

Ding ding round 4 it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't turn me on at all.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Your chances of meets are limited but not impossible but at least you're being honest ..not only do you now need to find someone who will want to meet a married fella but who will decide your that fella and also be someone you want to meet . Just my take on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. Been cheated on myself, nothing worse.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Honest or not he’s still lying to the one he portrays to love not for me the poor woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. Been cheated on myself, nothing worse."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just leave if you're not happy? I don't get it

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Why not just leave if you're not happy? I don't get it "

The kids, money or he really does love her will be the answer I’m guessing

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By *om_HardlyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

It's not always as straightforward as that. There can be many reasons why either party will seek fun outside their relationship. But of course to many people none are acceptable which is perhaps why some guys choose to hide this fact. I won't go into my personal reasons on this thread except to say that I have had contact and met with some very open and understanding people on this site. All were appreciative that I was up front about it. Some weren't concerned about the detail, some were very supportive. One said she had more trouble with single guys who got hooked on her and wouldn't leave her alone! Anyway just my two pennies worth!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No total turn off.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. Been cheated on myself, nothing worse.

this"

Yep!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"At least he is honest ... "

Your definition of "honest" differs to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe better looking for a married woman.

And that's not me offering my services by the way!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Maybe better looking for a married woman.

And that's not me offering my services by the way!"

Awww

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I / we play with married men.

If they are consenting at a play, then we can't be responsible for their baggage and how they handle it.

Swinging for us is good old fashioned sex. Were not here for "relationships". We know why we are here, married have their reasons.

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By *ake searcherCouple
over a year ago

bath

Im married too but on here as a couple. No dishonesty here.we are a cuckquean couple..

Not that it make it much easier.

But i would NEVER cheat on my wife EVER.

Si

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're the exception Bunkie

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"At least he is honest ... "

Not with his partner!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"You're the exception Bunkie "

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By *elen321Woman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

It's not a turn on, it's just an extra layer of complication, I don't want to get involved in someone's screwed up marriage. I don't understand men who won't leave an unhappy marriage but are quite happy to dick around with other women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's honest...I've heard it all now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One said she had more trouble with single guys who got hooked on her and wouldn't leave her alone! Anyway just my two pennies worth! "

While I'm sure this does happen, married men come with the same risk because some will inevitable see a casual hook up as future relationship and escape route from their marriage

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"He's honest...I've heard it all now "

Honest on here maybe not so in his personal life...

At least it informs potential meets of his circumstance instead of pretending to be something he's not and leading people on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I / we play with married men.

If they are consenting at a play, then we can't be responsible for their baggage and how they handle it.

Swinging for us is good old fashioned sex. Were not here for "relationships". We know why we are here, married have their reasons."

I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!"

Yeah there could be...and that discussion should start with the wife/husband or partner first....if all agree then there should be no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're going to fuck people behind your partners back then stop trying to justify it with " we all have our reasons"

You're a liar and a cheat - own the label.

I'm promiscuous, drink too much, eat too much and give zero fucks about anyone elses judgement.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!"

I don’t have the time nor the inclination to debate the reasons why someone cheats. It's not my concern,I don't want to walk a mile in someone else's shoe's I have my own.

Which excuse is acceptable for cheating,which are we expected to go along with? At the end of the day if someone is seeking out sex without the knowledge of their partner then I quite simply do not wish to meet that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least he is honest ... "

yep

shame hes not honest with his wife but we wont go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if it was the right man and the wife knew about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would and have done so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least he is honest ...

Your definition of "honest" differs to mine."

He has announced he is married in a public forum and his site name declares he is married. That is what i meant - honest to Fab members.

I guess 90% of men on Fab are in a relationship and dont say on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband knows I play. He knew when I had a bdsm master, had to as the bruises and marks were obvious.

For his and my benefit I choose to be discrete rather than rubbing his face in it so to speak.

I'm pretty much insatiable for sex.

I would and have played with married men. I'd prefer they were honest with me, what they tell their wives/girlfriends is none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!"

Yes in the past there has been the occasional cheating thread were an interesting discussion took place.

In my experience this works when both sides of the spectrum allow each other's viewpoint to be aired without chipping in with the usual digs.

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By *ornyboy46Man
over a year ago

heatons

No comments about all the openly msrtied women playing behind their partners backs and using the excuse that they enjoy the thrill of not being found out. As we all know it catches up with everyone eventually and then all ends in tears

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"No comments about all the openly msrtied women playing behind their partners backs and using the excuse that they enjoy the thrill of not being found out. As we all know it catches up with everyone eventually and then all ends in tears "

In fairness women playing away isn't the thread subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's honest...I've heard it all now "

Yep.., my thoughts exactly.

He’s not honest with the woman he’s committed to, sharing a life with, made promises to...

But errr.....oh sure... he’ll be honest with you...

Of course naturally...

Because that’s different, you’re special..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No comments about all the openly msrtied women playing behind their partners backs and using the excuse that they enjoy the thrill of not being found out. As we all know it catches up with everyone eventually and then all ends in tears "

No comments directed at women because that's not what the OP was about.

And believe you me the comments said here by some apply to women too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you like it if you found out I was screwing your wife on here? I will not go there ever!

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Crikey you lot, the poor bloke only wants a shag he don't want another wife he already got one for cooking and cleaning.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not a turn on, it's just an extra layer of complication, I don't want to get involved in someone's screwed up marriage. I don't understand men who won't leave an unhappy marriage but are quite happy to dick around with other women!"

This again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's honest...I've heard it all now

Yep.., my thoughts exactly.

He’s not honest with the woman he’s committed to, sharing a life with, made promises to...

But errr.....oh sure... he’ll be honest with you...

Of course naturally...

Because that’s different, you’re special..

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Exactly - couldn't have put it better myself.

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

No offence but there’s lots of women on here doing the same thing as the OP yet a lot of guys love the idea of fucking a married woman. He’s only asking the same thing.

We are married. Play separately with each other’s consent and knowledge. We have come across lots of people wanting to meet who are married and cheating on their partners. Both sexes. Isn’t a kink for us. But surprisingly it is for many.

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By *orcester sauce OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Well thanks for the few positive replies guys.

One thing i find mad though,

Wonder how many females/couples who have posted negative on this thread. Have slagged off people for not reading profiles correctly?

Because it actually says i know it isnt everyones cup of tea so if it isnt yours ignore the thread. Yet so many of you felt obliged to comment.

Quite comical to be fair it really is.

Anyway i did get some positives from this so to those who messaged, Thank you

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Well thanks for the few positive replies guys.

One thing i find mad though,

Wonder how many females/couples who have posted negative on this thread. Have slagged off people for not reading profiles correctly?

Because it actually says i know it isnt everyones cup of tea so if it isnt yours ignore the thread. Yet so many of you felt obliged to comment.

Quite comical to be fair it really is.

Anyway i did get some positives from this so to those who messaged, Thank you "

That's not how forum's work I'm afraid as well you know,so there's no point getting agitated about it when people don't agree with what you're doing.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Great filter thanks.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Honest or not he’s still lying to the one he portrays to love not for me the poor woman "

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Poor woman be damned I'll bet the silly cow ain't getting her panties off for him.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Crikey you lot, the poor bloke only wants a shag he don't want another wife he already got one for cooking and cleaning."

Haha

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only if his wife was there and jack was with her

Miss

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Why not just leave if you're not happy? I don't get it "

Leaving is not that easy for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just leave if you're not happy? I don't get it

Leaving is not that easy for men.

"

actually it is.

if you arent happy, explain and say it needs to end

why cant it be that black and white

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Why not just leave if you're not happy? I don't get it

Leaving is not that easy for men.

actually it is.

if you arent happy, explain and say it needs to end

why cant it be that black and white"

Well, apparently it is not.

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By *rban-NitesCouple
over a year ago

LONDON (SE)


"If you're going to fuck people behind your partners back then stop trying to justify it with " we all have our reasons"

You're a liar and a cheat - own the label.

I'm promiscuous, drink too much, eat too much and give zero fucks about anyone elses judgement.

"

Love this, pure honesty.

Cheats and liars will ALWAYS try and find a way to justify why they creep around behind their partners backs... because it deflects from the real reasons as to why they cheat... No moral compass,

Selfish, greedy and narcissistic.

I'll wait for the responses from said cheats to try and disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a turn on, it's just an extra layer of complication, I don't want to get involved in someone's screwed up marriage. I don't understand men who won't leave an unhappy marriage but are quite happy to dick around with other women!"

I haven't seen in anything he has said about having an unhappy marriage.

It might be that everything else is ok, except for his sex life. I've known both men and women in marriages that other than their sex lives everything else is ok. For those people, where do they go for something that is missing. A site like fab is the obvious choice as it is meant to be nsa. Some will use an escort, but many wouldn't.

There are many reasons why someone, male or female look for sex outside of their marriage. One of those reasons could be due to child birth or illness.

I think many people think that because someone is trying to have sex outside of their marriage, it is because they are a 'player'. While I'm sure there is an element of that, it's not always the case.

I just think that we are all on here for our own reasons and that many, if not all, would be judged unfairly by the majority of the 'general public' for swinging or recreational sex. Therefore I won't judge anybody's reason for being here.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"It's not a turn on, it's just an extra layer of complication, I don't want to get involved in someone's screwed up marriage. I don't understand men who won't leave an unhappy marriage but are quite happy to dick around with other women!

I haven't seen in anything he has said about having an unhappy marriage.

It might be that everything else is ok, except for his sex life. I've known both men and women in marriages that other than their sex lives everything else is ok. For those people, where do they go for something that is missing. A site like fab is the obvious choice as it is meant to be nsa. Some will use an escort, but many wouldn't.

There are many reasons why someone, male or female look for sex outside of their marriage. One of those reasons could be due to child birth or illness.

I think many people think that because someone is trying to have sex outside of their marriage, it is because they are a 'player'. While I'm sure there is an element of that, it's not always the case.

I just think that we are all on here for our own reasons and that many, if not all, would be judged unfairly by the majority of the 'general public' for swinging or recreational sex. Therefore I won't judge anybody's reason for being here."

All those sensible reasons do not apply unless you are a woman. Where have you been, young man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a turn on, it's just an extra layer of complication, I don't want to get involved in someone's screwed up marriage. I don't understand men who won't leave an unhappy marriage but are quite happy to dick around with other women!

I haven't seen in anything he has said about having an unhappy marriage.

It might be that everything else is ok, except for his sex life. I've known both men and women in marriages that other than their sex lives everything else is ok. For those people, where do they go for something that is missing. A site like fab is the obvious choice as it is meant to be nsa. Some will use an escort, but many wouldn't.

There are many reasons why someone, male or female look for sex outside of their marriage. One of those reasons could be due to child birth or illness.

I think many people think that because someone is trying to have sex outside of their marriage, it is because they are a 'player'. While I'm sure there is an element of that, it's not always the case.

I just think that we are all on here for our own reasons and that many, if not all, would be judged unfairly by the majority of the 'general public' for swinging or recreational sex. Therefore I won't judge anybody's reason for being here."

All of above is fine......as long as your other half knows and agrees....when they don't...its called cheating plain and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the male or femail is swinging as they always were swingers. But meet with a person that isnt. Why should they stop swinging. They still love there partners. Its no difference to married couples swinging. Dont always treat married people as cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the male or femail is swinging as they always were swingers. But meet with a person that isnt. Why should they stop swinging. They still love there partners. Its no difference to married couples swinging. Dont always treat married people as cheating."

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I get massively turned on having sex with a married man.. only if I'm also having sex with his wife at the same time

I don't judge anyone on their choices and would happily converse with a married man at a club/party. Just not interested in playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I get massively turned on having sex with a married man.. only if I'm also having sex with his wife at the same time

I don't judge anyone on their choices and would happily converse with a married man at a club/party. Just not interested in playing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up "

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're going to fuck people behind your partners back then stop trying to justify it with " we all have our reasons"

You're a liar and a cheat - own the label.

I'm promiscuous, drink too much, eat too much and give zero fucks about anyone elses judgement.

Love this, pure honesty.

Cheats and liars will ALWAYS try and find a way to justify why they creep around behind their partners backs... because it deflects from the real reasons as to why they cheat... No moral compass,

Selfish, greedy and narcissistic.

I'll wait for the responses from said cheats to try and disagree "

Haha yep.... just as you predicted - there they are justifying it

I would hate it if someone I loved was lying to me!

It's that simple for me.

It's not holier than thou - it's just how I would feel about it.

Having NSA sex doesnt excuse the lie, fucking an escort doesn't excuse the lie- however you dress it's up you're still a cheat.

Not having your emotions involved with the person your fucking doesnt make it better!

I think it would be better for me if the person my partner was fucking behind my back meant something.

Because then at least it would be worth losing me for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!"

I'm taking it your married as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

looking for ladies fairly local to worcestershire.

I have no face pic for obvious reasons but will gladly send one if requested.

Dan

(Know its not everyones cup of tea, so if it isnt yours just ignore the thread)

"

I do get turned on fking a married man. I have fked about 4 married men, my FWB was married for the first 2 years I was seeing him.I am finding the idea of having his younger married brother as my new FWB very appealing XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked a married guy but it's not something I would actively search for and he'd got married inbetween the time I first met him years ago and the time I last fucked him.

I want a guy of my own so married and attached men aren't what I look for. If I hadn't already known that guy from years back, I wouldn't have slept with him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well "

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if it was a women on here saying the same would she have the same treatment and be condemned to fab hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX"

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

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over a year ago


"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over."

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems. "

Im not judging him - I don't give a fuck what he or anyone else does.

I'm just glad that it's not me that's being lied to.

Fab is full of fantacists and liars so I take everything people say male or female with a pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems. "

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

looking for ladies fairly local to worcestershire.

I have no face pic for obvious reasons but will gladly send one if requested.

Dan

(Know its not everyones cup of tea, so if it isnt yours just ignore the thread)

I do get turned on fking a married man. I have fked about 4 married men, my FWB was married for the first 2 years I was seeing him.I am finding the idea of having his younger married brother as my new FWB very appealing XXX"

See now actively going out of your way to pursue a married guy and getting a thrill and turned on by knowing he's married that's another lovely of nastiness.

I felt guilty knowing he had a wife and it was him that told me I shouldn't feel guilty when he's the one in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!"

Totally agree with this, a sensible discussion will never happen, string them up, cut there cock off brigade will always pipe up.

Some women and men just don't want sex any more, the other partner either leaves or cheats, some use websites like this, as long as it's not flaunted I don't see it as a prob, I'm the partner who wants a sex life. I'm honest about being married and yes it makes it harder to arrange a meet but my wife is well aware of wot I do and understands I have needs, so maybe you all should not judge this man for being honest, you don't no his situation so how can you judge him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

"

Explanations or Lies ?

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over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ? "

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I am training to be a priest so I will not fuck another man's wife.

Oh fuck it!

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over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

"

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

I find it funny when the OP posts on an open forum then expects no backlash or folks to simply not comment

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ? "

Do you?

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over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Do you?"

I don't have a wife so it doesn't affect me....but i'd never meet a married woman if she was playing away

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ? "

Guys, you need to stop the rubbish. I think I am too young to tell you but I just did. There are no points to be won here.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Do you?

I don't have a wife so it doesn't affect me....but i'd never meet a married woman if she was playing away "

And you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Do you?

I don't have a wife so it doesn't affect me....but i'd never meet a married woman if she was playing away

And you too."

Explain please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ? "

Who said I was married? As I said earlier... judging again!

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over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Who said I was married? As I said earlier... judging again!"

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over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Guys, you need to stop the rubbish. I think I am too young to tell you but I just did. There are no points to be won here."

No, you're right! No points, no point. Which is exactly what I have been saying, although some take exception to it. But then everyone is entitled to their opinion. Which some don't agree with. But I'll leave that for now.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

On that note, any married women on here, pls inbox me.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Do you?

I don't have a wife so it doesn't affect me....but i'd never meet a married woman if she was playing away "

You neither said you had a wife nor suggested that if you had you would respect swingers opinons more than hers.

Guess what neither did the other guy.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Any married women here pleeeease?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Any married women here pleeeease?"

Do your own thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am now hiding behind the sofa, with my tin hat on ! XXX

No one judges the women on here only the men it seems.

That was kinda my point. Not so much the subject as the fact it was a guy that was getting bashed again.

I've met single females that were married or in a relationship. A couple I knew about, one didn't tell me until after playing. They all had explanations too.

Explanations or Lies ?

No idea. I didn't worry over it too much, explanations or lies. If they were happy, then why shouldn't I be? We both got what we wanted from it.

I'm happy to respect anyone's opinion, I just don't understand why someone has to be slated because it might not be the same as mine.

You respect peoples opinions more on a swinging site than your wife's ?

Do you?

I don't have a wife so it doesn't affect me....but i'd never meet a married woman if she was playing away

You neither said you had a wife nor suggested that if you had you would respect swingers opinons more than hers.

Guess what neither did the other guy."

I respect people who are honest with themsevels and partners...not some lying cheating scumbag who's only aim is to get his end away with as many people as possible...happy now

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over a year ago

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

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"[Removed by poster at 20/11/17 15:37:39]"

I saw it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse "

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 20/11/17 15:37:39]

I saw it"

Good as its re writen again. I pushed wrong button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end. "

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

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"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way "

Just saying mate. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

Just saying mate. Just saying"

Do you realise how foolish that looked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

Just saying mate. Just saying

Do you realise how foolish that looked ? "

This thread is getting personal so im out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

Just saying mate. Just saying

Do you realise how foolish that looked ?

This thread is getting personal so im out"

Just saying mate just saying

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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"

Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

Just saying mate. Just saying

Do you realise how foolish that looked ?

This thread is getting personal so im out

Just saying mate just saying "

You just say a lot. You always have. Emotive enough subject as it is. Without you having a go at people for no reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Like i said it's fine unless your other half the one you propose you love doesn't know....which id say is the majority....then its called cheating how ever you want to package it up

How would you prove that though? Should they carry a note from their other halves?

Perhaps this is better than having an affair? Swinging, to my mind is all about nsa. Unless it moved onto something else, ie two singles meet but fall for each other.

I'm not condoning or judging, I just think we all have a choice, the op is upfront, those that choose not to meet him make their choice, those that will, will make theirs. As long as he and others allow you to make the choice of whether to meet them, being holier than thou isn't a nice trait either!

I'm taking it your married as well

There you go again.... judging!

I've learnt over the years to live and let live. If it doesn't affect me directly then it's not for me to worry over.

Im not judging you or anyone else....just seems to me your defending and packaging up as live and let live which again is another excuse

Cheating is when a person has a lover that they buy prescents for,takes away for long weekends and treats better than there partners. Swinging is meeting at clubs or one off fun meets. No different to married couples that swop swing. They still love there partners at the end.

Really lol well fuck me backwards i bet the divorce courts wouldnt view it that way

Just saying mate. Just saying

Do you realise how foolish that looked ?

This thread is getting personal so im out

Just saying mate just saying

You just say a lot. You always have. Emotive enough subject as it is. Without you having a go at people for no reason."

No reason...did you read his post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking but I'm not it would not bother me at all if someone was married to me that's more of the no strings appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wonder if there will ever be a sensible mature discussion on here on the "married" playing away scenario...reasons..solutions..etc...or will it for ever be....nail em up...boil em in oil...knee jerk response to what for some...yes me included..is a very real problem....so many clearly think they know when they really have not got the first clue as to why some seek a physical relationship else where.....would welcome that discussion....but won't be holding my breath................walk a mile in my shoes.....then judge me!!"

Don't be silly, this is Fabswingers! People just itching to have a go at someone for any reason they can think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I / we play with married men.

If they are consenting at a play, then we can't be responsible for their baggage and how they handle it.

Swinging for us is good old fashioned sex. Were not here for "relationships". We know why we are here, married have their reasons."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. Been cheated on myself, nothing worse."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. Been cheated on myself, nothing worse."


"this "

I would play with a married man IF he, like my husband, has a wife who is fully aware and in agreement with him scratching an itch elsewhere on occasion. Those being deceptive with their partners, on the other hand, nope.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The OP must be a sucker for punishment, putting up a post like this. Bloody waste of time if you ask me because it always ends up being a lecture on morality. Give people a chance to judge you and they will.

Do you know how many married women are here playing without their husband's knowledge? Fucking Loads! Concentrate your efforts on finding them and those who don't mind what you're bringing to the table.

The whole point of being on a site like this is so you can do your thing, as you want to do it, with consenting adults.., and 2 fingers to what anyone else thinks.

Personally, as long as you're not going to be adding any stress to my life after we meet, I'm not bothered if you're married or single.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"The OP must be a sucker for punishment, putting up a post like this. Bloody waste of time if you ask me because it always ends up being a lecture on morality. Give people a chance to judge you and they will.

Do you know how many married women are here playing without their husband's knowledge? Fucking Loads! Concentrate your efforts on finding them and those who don't mind what you're bringing to the table.

The whole point of being on a site like this is so you can do your thing, as you want to do it, with consenting adults.., and 2 fingers to what anyone else thinks.

Personally, as long as you're not going to be adding any stress to my life after we meet, I'm not bothered if you're married or single.

"

This

Live and let live I say. If I fancy them , I will fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're going to fuck people behind your partners back then stop trying to justify it with " we all have our reasons"

You're a liar and a cheat - own the label.

I'm promiscuous, drink too much, eat too much and give zero fucks about anyone elses judgement.

Love this, pure honesty.

Cheats and liars will ALWAYS try and find a way to justify why they creep around behind their partners backs... because it deflects from the real reasons as to why they cheat... No moral compass,

Selfish, greedy and narcissistic.

I'll wait for the responses from said cheats to try and disagree "

WTAF..?!

Don't tar everyone with the same brush.

I don't justify, I (may) offer an explanation.

As for no moral compass being the reason, yeah right o sister ~ you look after your own morals and I'll look after mine. I can assure you they differ greatly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're going to fuck people behind your partners back then stop trying to justify it with " we all have our reasons"

You're a liar and a cheat - own the label.

I'm promiscuous, drink too much, eat too much and give zero fucks about anyone elses judgement.

Love this, pure honesty.

Cheats and liars will ALWAYS try and find a way to justify why they creep around behind their partners backs... because it deflects from the real reasons as to why they cheat... No moral compass,

Selfish, greedy and narcissistic.

I'll wait for the responses from said cheats to try and disagree

WTAF..?!

Don't tar everyone with the same brush.

I don't justify, I (may) offer an explanation.

As for no moral compass being the reason, yeah right o sister ~ you look after your own morals and I'll look after mine. I can assure you they differ greatly!

"

I think thats plainly obvious they do differ

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Blacksausage you ain't never going to make it as a priest if you here looking for other mens wives you should be going for choir boys.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

A part of me feels sorry for the OP. Trawling a swingers site for meaningless sex because his relationship is that unfulfilling.

A large part of me also feels sorry for his partner.

Its a sad situation on the whole.

Unless of course you claim to be happy in your relationship. Then I'd think you were a cunt.

Him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck when she finds out, because she will eventually..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say no to a married guy because in my eyes he has his reasons.. we all have reasons why we are on this site. I do not understand his curcumstannces to be able to judge him and therefore as long as I am not mixed into the messiness of his marriage then I would say I am ok with it.

Let's face it, how can anyone on here guarantee that the men/women they have met are definitely 100% single??? it is very easy to say your single when you are not.

I am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked a few (fab straight) married guys... it's their little secret and I'm happy to keep it that way, don't kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why, the fact someone is married would be a turn on. Had a message from a guy...really fancied him until he said he wanted to fuck me in his marital bed because the thought turned him on...it really wasn't for me! Weird!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I wouldn't say no to a married guy because in my eyes he has his reasons.. we all have reasons why we are on this site. I do not understand his curcumstannces to be able to judge him and therefore as long as I am not mixed into the messiness of his marriage then I would say I am ok with it.

Let's face it, how can anyone on here guarantee that the men/women they have met are definitely 100% single??? it is very easy to say your single when you are not.

I am single "

Yes, all too easy to be judgemental....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put the shoe on the other foot and think about how you would feel if you found out your wife was the low down dirty cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not after being cheated on I feel for your wife I just hope your not dis respecting her by doing this behind her back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ve figured out why I think married people are more attractive. It’s because there’s no/low risk of becoming attached, and less chance of any complications.

And when you have that sort of deal then it makes the sex much better too (IMO).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not always as straightforward as that. There can be many reasons why either party will seek fun outside their relationship. But of course to many people none are acceptable which is perhaps why some guys choose to hide this fact. I won't go into my personal reasons on this thread except to say that I have had contact and met with some very open and understanding people on this site. All were appreciative that I was up front about it. Some weren't concerned about the detail, some were very supportive. One said she had more trouble with single guys who got hooked on her and wouldn't leave her alone! Anyway just my two pennies worth! "

I agree I also won't discuss my reasons for being here in forums but will explain to potential partners if they ask - it's complicated. I do not judge others and do not expect to be judged. If someone does not like it they can move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not always as straightforward as that. There can be many reasons why either party will seek fun outside their relationship. But of course to many people none are acceptable which is perhaps why some guys choose to hide this fact. I won't go into my personal reasons on this thread except to say that I have had contact and met with some very open and understanding people on this site. All were appreciative that I was up front about it. Some weren't concerned about the detail, some were very supportive. One said she had more trouble with single guys who got hooked on her and wouldn't leave her alone! Anyway just my two pennies worth!

I agree I also won't discuss my reasons for being here in forums but will explain to potential partners if they ask - it's complicated. I do not judge others and do not expect to be judged. If someone does not like it they can move on."

Like i posted before nothing wrong with being married and swinging............as long as your other half knows....i doubt if a lot do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say no to a married guy because in my eyes he has his reasons.. we all have reasons why we are on this site. I do not understand his curcumstannces to be able to judge him and therefore as long as I am not mixed into the messiness of his marriage then I would say I am ok with it.

Let's face it, how can anyone on here guarantee that the men/women they have met are definitely 100% single??? it is very easy to say your single when you are not.

I am single "

Shame I'm outside your prefered age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

looking for ladies fairly local to worcestershire.

I have no face pic for obvious reasons but will gladly send one if requested.

Dan

(Know its not everyones cup of tea, so if it isnt yours just ignore the thread)

"
I always fuck a married man but then again he is my own husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wifes fuckbuddy is married, which i think is a good thing no chance of him braggin all about our filthy meets

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you "

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off."

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off."

Good for you I'm pleased for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature. "

She did say not ashamed of not that she didnt have any

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"I respect people who are honest with themsevels and partners...not some lying cheating scumbag who's only aim is to get his end away with as many people as possible...happy now "

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature. "

She's not alone. I'm lucky enough to not have skeletons either. The most embarrassing thing i have is a fab profile and thats only embarrassing with certain people like my kids and my dear old mum.

We all have different morals. Personally i think cheating when you claim to be happy at home is low. But i do accept people stray for many reasons. Some valid.

Him

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature. "

No I'll repeat I don't have any 'skeletons' I'm ashamed off. Don't generalise just because you have!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

Good for you I'm pleased for you "

Cracking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life and Marriage is complicated. Some women turn there noses up at Sex/Intimacy. Everyone comments but no body knows all the details. A man just wants to feel loved and wanted.

I love my wife but feel neglected and just want to over a lady what I cannot offer at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

looking for ladies fairly local to worcestershire.

I have no face pic for obvious reasons but will gladly send one if requested.

Dan

(Know its not everyones cup of tea, so if it isnt yours just ignore the thread)

"

It doesn't turn me on, there's nothing more off putting than being some cheating husbands idea of marriage councilling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life and Marriage is complicated. Some women turn there noses up at Sex/Intimacy. Everyone comments but no body knows all the details. A man just wants to feel loved and wanted.

I love my wife but feel neglected and just want to over a lady what I cannot offer at home."

Does the wife know ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature.

She did say not ashamed of not that she didnt have any "

Thankyou,pisses my boil when people put word's in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life and Marriage is complicated. Some women turn there noses up at Sex/Intimacy. Everyone comments but no body knows all the details. A man just wants to feel loved and wanted.

I love my wife but feel neglected and just want to over a lady what I cannot offer at home.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies "

So it was you you that nicked sweets from my shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies "

Naughty girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life and Marriage is complicated. Some women turn there noses up at Sex/Intimacy. Everyone comments but no body knows all the details. A man just wants to feel loved and wanted.

I love my wife but feel neglected and just want to over a lady what I cannot offer at home."

So you keep saying, try not to over use that violin

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

Naughty girl "

I've hung my head in shame ever since

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature.

No I'll repeat I don't have any 'skeletons' I'm ashamed off. Don't generalise just because you have!"

Just not being honest with yourself....we all have them !! Did not say they were necessarily of a sexual nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature.

No I'll repeat I don't have any 'skeletons' I'm ashamed off. Don't generalise just because you have!

Just not being honest with yourself....we all have them !! Did not say they were necessarily of a sexual nature. "

Assumptions eh...and i dont think you got the sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

Naughty girl

I've hung my head in shame ever since "

You should be spanked for your sins

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

So it was you you that nicked sweets from my shop."

What did I say about people putting word's in my mouth,it was ONE sweet! Anyway you'd be dead by now if it was you,if it was your location it could have been your dad's shop though

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

Naughty girl

I've hung my head in shame ever since

You should be spanked for your sins "

I have been many time's

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think maybe just nail him to the cross and flog him. All you who cast stones at glass houses. Everyone single one of us has skeletons in our closets even me. Married yes? Separated? Yes. So many judgemental people. We all have opinions and reasons for being here and some yes some are genuine. Good luck OP I'd there is anything left after the scalping party has finished with you

I don't have skeletons I'm ashamed off.

You either a very rare person (or more likely) you are not being honest with yourself. I know I have skeletons, some of a sexual nature.

No I'll repeat I don't have any 'skeletons' I'm ashamed off. Don't generalise just because you have!

Just not being honest with yourself....we all have them !! Did not say they were necessarily of a sexual nature. "

Yeah apologies that damn sweet was just to tempting along with the damn peer pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

Naughty girl

I've hung my head in shame ever since

You should be spanked for your sins

I have been many time's "

Then you have atoned...your forgiven

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If they are consenting at a play, then we can't be responsible for their baggage and how they handle it.

Swinging for us is good old fashioned sex. Were not here for "relationships". We know why we are here, married have their reasons."

indeed, people can have a million reasons to stay in a sexless and / or emotionally dead relationship.

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries


"I won't go near an attached man and I get very grumpy (ballistic!) if I find out he's been lying to me. Might be a swinger but I do respect the wife/ partner even if he doesn't. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If they are consenting at a play, then we can't be responsible for their baggage and how they handle it.

Swinging for us is good old fashioned sex. Were not here for "relationships". We know why we are here, married have their reasons.

indeed, people can have a million reasons to stay in a sexless and / or emotionally dead relationship. "

Absolutely....if the other half knows not a problem

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"At least he is honest ... "

It's the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies out there get turned on at the thought of fucking a married man?

"

Yes, it proper turns me on.

In both cases, when the man is straying and keeping it secret, and when the man is a swinger and other half knows, it turns me on. Each scenario for its own, quite specific, reason.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Actually I've had a think,there was this one occasion when I was about 8 or 9 and I nicked a sweet from the local corner shop. I'm sure the shop owner saw me as well,I was so ashamed the sweet stuck in my throat.

So yeah apologies

Naughty girl

I've hung my head in shame ever since

You should be spanked for your sins

I have been many time's

Then you have atoned...your forgiven "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A part of me feels sorry for the OP. Trawling a swingers site for meaningless sex because his relationship is that unfulfilling.

A large part of me also feels sorry for his partner.

Its a sad situation on the whole.

Unless of course you claim to be happy in your relationship. Then I'd think you were a cunt.

Him."

Sex is only one part of a relationship, it may well be fulfilling in other ways and overall he is / they are happy, everyone's relationship dynamics are different.

There are a lot of 'sad' people trawling through here for meaningless sex, all have a story of sorts to tell. I don't understand a lot of them but I pass 'em by, no need to think they're a cunt because I don't agree with their lifestyle choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A part of me feels sorry for the OP. Trawling a swingers site for meaningless sex because his relationship is that unfulfilling.

A large part of me also feels sorry for his partner.

Its a sad situation on the whole.

Unless of course you claim to be happy in your relationship. Then I'd think you were a cunt.

Him.

Sex is only one part of a relationship, it may well be fulfilling in other ways and overall he is / they are happy, everyone's relationship dynamics are different.

There are a lot of 'sad' people trawling through here for meaningless sex, all have a story of sorts to tell. I don't understand a lot of them but I pass 'em by, no need to think they're a cunt because I don't agree with their lifestyle choices.

"

This is a the most sensible post I've read on this subject.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"At least he is honest ...

Your definition of "honest" differs to mine."

Fab honest

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Cunts: they do not leave others alone.

Cunts: they want everybody to accept their views.

Cunts: the message people who clearly do not want them.

Cunts: they are disrespectful.

Cunts: they try to shoot people down for fun.

Cunts: they want everyone to follow their sexuality.

Cunts:they do not accept that other people have equal rights.

Cunts: they think they own fab.

Cunts: they think they rule the forums.

Cunts: they think everyone wants to fuck them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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My favourite flavour

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