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"The thing is... You don't know the cow. So rump is rump is rump. With sex, the person matters... So you can do the same thing with different people and get different feelings from it. I know they say with porn that the danger is seeking more and more "adventurous" things to watch... But again, you're removing the human element with porn. Swinging to me feels like the best approach... Do what you like, what you know you like (as vanilla as it might be)... but with different people to keep it interesting." Interesting alonogy, thanks for that. Personally i don't have a lot of time for the porn arguement, but that's based on personal experiencer rather than a deep understanding of how it effects other people. I think the bigger problem with porn is wanking can reduce your desire for regaular sex with your partner and hence your intimacy with them, but that's a bit different. | |||
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"I think whenever you do something for a buzz or thrill regularly it can start to seem like the norm and sometimes you will find yourself looking for new things..." I agree, but isn't that inherently dangerous? | |||
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"I think whenever you do something for a buzz or thrill regularly it can start to seem like the norm and sometimes you will find yourself looking for new things... I agree, but isn't that inherently dangerous? " Only if the new things exclude your partner I think. We look for new things periodically, both of us (fortunately) like the piquancy of peppercorn sauce with our sirloin but we're quite happy to have rump as long as the side dishes are appetizing. | |||
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"Have you ever noticed how you used to like rump steak and rump steak was perfectly good, you didn't realise there was anything wrong with it until someone gave you sirloin and fuck me, doesn't that taste better. Then you loved sirloin until you had fillet steak, but fillet steak costs £30 a kilo so you only have 4 ounces of it, but that's not enough and you're still hungry and you want to tuck into 16 ounces of rump but you can't because it tastes like shit? Well does swinging present the danger that sex / your threshold for excitement can be like that? If so, what's the implication for dealing with it..." We found our fillet with each other , and nothing comes close to getting close to the excitement we share together . The swinging world is a mere starter to be honest , very pleasant , but far from the main course . And believe me when I say we have experienced everything swinging has to offer in the seven years we have been doing it . | |||
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"Have you ever noticed how you used to like rump steak and rump steak was perfectly good, you didn't realise there was anything wrong with it until someone gave you sirloin and fuck me, doesn't that taste better. Then you loved sirloin until you had fillet steak, but fillet steak costs £30 a kilo so you only have 4 ounces of it, but that's not enough and you're still hungry and you want to tuck into 16 ounces of rump but you can't because it tastes like shit? Well does swinging present the danger that sex / your threshold for excitement can be like that? If so, what's the implication for dealing with it..." From my experience.. once I hit a certain amount of excitement well it kept at that level ... That was mostly to do with meeting the same person  | |||
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