FabSwingers.com forum: single guys can accom

By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

very strange but most single guys on this site can not accom!! if they are single over 25 wanting to play surly to god thay dont go home to mummy, i believe guys pretend to be single and not being able to accom is a clear sign something not right, they cheat behind gf wifes backs and lie to join couples

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some will live with parents or flat share.

Recession..... doesn't always make it that easy.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and some with the mrs....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and some with their civil partner.

see my diversity training worked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

diasgree its not always the case....

many do flat shares etc......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Doesn't matter whether they are single or not, if they can't accommodate or share a hotel then I can't meet.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange.

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By *rT30Man
over a year ago

Munster

I am Single Ove 25 and a guy..

And i can accomadate!!!!

Now folks form an orderly que and i will get through all the mails that will surely begin to come flooding in

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

House shares, living with relis, kidsall sorts of reasons!

Some single woman on here cant accom either, nor some couples, it might be a case they are married but might not. Every case is individual surely, you cant tar all men with the same brush...although many do!

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By *ussiebloke40Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

I can, will and do accommodate anyone willing to visit me. I live spitting distance from bus and train stations, for those who dont drive and will even collect people within a reasonable distance if it is easier for them.

How is that for nice and genuine, or does that just smack of desparation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't accom when i was a single fem either, mostly for safety, but also cos of nosy neighbours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange."

Same here as I live with my daughter and her boyfriend but only one guy has actually asked me why I can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can, will and do accommodate anyone willing to visit me. I live spitting distance from bus and train stations, for those who dont drive and will even collect people within a reasonable distance if it is easier for them.

How is that for nice and genuine, or does that just smack of desparation ?

You should be in the hotel trade!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I'm single, over 25 and accommodate. But, like many singles and couples, I choose who I invite round. Sometimes instinct tells you you're a great match and it's an instant invite round here, sometimes you just feel the need to check people out somewhere neutral. Single or couple, you should always do what you feel most comfortable with.

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

I'm a single dad of two teens, and while I can accommodate very occasionally, to all intents and purposes it's impossible most of the time..

I've seen posts from women saying (not unreasonably!) 'this fella wanted to come to mine and when I told him I had kids he said "it's ok they'll be in bed!", there's no way I could do this, am I being unreasonable...?' - everyone sympathises and says of course she's perfectly right to put her kids first.. should that be different for single fathers? I don't think so...

Of course I am counting down the days to my two leaving home

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I didn't accom when i was a single fem either, mostly for safety, but also cos of nosy neighbours x"

Same here, but I dont know why that is supposed to be different for single guys

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL

"very strange but most single guys on this site can not accom!! if they are single over 25 wanting to play surly to god thay dont go home to mummy, i believe guys pretend to be single and not being able to accom is a clear sign something not right, they cheat behind gf wifes backs and lie to join couples

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"
hello, i can see your point, but for me its simple, im a single parent so its hard for me to accomm while my young son is at home, though not impossible he does sometimes stay out, its just sometimes tricky, hotels at my expense the easiest option wen my meet cant accomm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefere to meet away from home...

If its a dodgy meet you can leave

saves my bed being damaged lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may be 'private' people and don't want to bring their swinging activities into their home.

We can accomodate if we wish but we choose not to as it keeps things uncomplicated.... we had experienced some strange behaviour from a couple of clingy swingers and we thank god we never let them into our home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefere to meet away from home...

If its a dodgy meet you can leave

saves my bed being damaged lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am single

an there fore can

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By *ussiebloke40Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

@ Katey and Charlie.

Need a lift?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

Well I can't accom simply because at the moment having lost my house through recession and bankruptcy I'm living in my ex wife's and daughters house with them until at least next March when I'm moving to Scotland and marrying Wendy (Fmuma)

Now I could say that no one on here needs to know that

But I'm just giving you the OP a chance to realise

that not everything in life is cut and dried xx

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By *rT30Man
over a year ago

Munster

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel

Now I could say that no one on here needs to know that

But I'm just giving you the OP a chance to realise

that not everything in life is cut and dried xx

Very honest Soapy

Great reply xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange."

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

Its my house! I'll let in and keep out who I want.

Just try and tell me otherwise!

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By *aneastyorksMan
over a year ago

Skipton and surrounding areas.

Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol."

Woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol.

Woohoo!

Tart this is a Christian reading room site xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol.

Woohoo!

Tart this is a Christian reading room site xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol.

Woohoo!

Tart this is a Christian reading room site xx

...and she has to bring the devil long

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

When I met my OH he was living in his mothers house whilst going through a very expensive divorce.

Sometimes things are not always as you presume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

I am a divorced male, 36 years old and I can't accommodate, why, well to be honest its none of your business, but hell, I must be married then......

No I work overseas for about 8 months of the year, sometimes 28 months straight. Just depends on the contract. Since the divorce my wife got the house, a nice little cottage outside London.

Now I could go and rent somewhere but let me see, no references....No possible way of knowing whether my contract will arrive tomorrow or in 4 months. I earn nice money but I am not going to throw it away, renting a house I use for 3 weeks and then pay for the next 6 months, hotel is best on that score. I help my family out when I am home, cooking, cleaning, maintaining the old family home (i.e. my mother's house)

I dont get mardy when people can't accommodate, i say "thats a shame" and move on. But to imply I am a sad individual because I a) must be lying, I am married really or b) I live at home with mummy, therefore I am an anorak is a little short-sighted.

I have a house in Kabul if its any consolation, you are welcome to come and stay should you choose too......

Sigh, another dig at single men, no wonder so many complain, not that I am one of the complainings, but having to "broadcast" my personal situation on a website to defend singlemen who can't accommodate, is mildly annoying.

Peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that there does seem to be this presumption of infidelity when it comes to single men who can't accomodate, I've started to wonder: just how common is it for 'single' men to be married/involved and cheating?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I try to not assume why someone can't accom.... and like to ask. Sadly sometimes asking reveals an attitude of 'I could accom but I don't want to shit on my own doorstep with dirty swingers... can I come and shit on yours'

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By *pudoratoMan
over a year ago

london

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

I will be more than happy to accommodate you if you wanted

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have a house in Kabul if its any consolation, you are welcome to come and stay should you choose too......"

If I could get there, I so would!

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange."

guys tend to have less standards and most will meet married woman or those with boyfriends, and before any1 gets wrong idea i know lots of woman are same, but my profile is clear if they dont accom we dont meet we also return meet as we accom, and yes a lot do share but the point still being married guys and those with gf use that as excuse to not accom, i had my own place from 19 he's had his own from 23, recession is not an excuse not to accom lol omg it's not even about that, it's guys pretendin to be single, maybe some just dont wanna know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a house in Kabul if its any consolation, you are welcome to come and stay should you choose too......

If I could get there, I so would!"

I also have an apartment in Odessa, if thats any good? (hark at Pauly and his many houses!!)

Not really I am married with 15 kids and my mother lives in the house, and I share the house with 15 people from latvia and I am actually a woman....

Maybe

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The recession is a factor for some...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have a house in Kabul if its any consolation, you are welcome to come and stay should you choose too......

If I could get there, I so would!

I also have an apartment in Odessa, if thats any good? (hark at Pauly and his many houses!!)

Not really I am married with 15 kids and my mother lives in the house, and I share the house with 15 people from latvia and I am actually a woman....

Maybe

Room for a big un then?

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i choose not to accom due to my daughter and some guys go mad at that, i can sneek i when she goes to bed is what i get.... em aye that will be right..... not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Room for a big un then?

What do you look like in a Burkha?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Room for a big un then?

What do you look like in a Burkha?

Well I am sure it will hide the rolls of fat, so bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys tend to have less standards ..."

If you're basing that assertion on anything at all, please share it.

As for the recession, if (hypothetically) you've lost your job and are sleeping on your friends couch at the moment, that's a bloody good reason not to accomodate!

Some people can't or won't accomodate. And some people aren't who they say they are. Confusing the two issues helps no-one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am sure it will hide the rolls of fat, so bring it on!"

Why you hiding rolls of fat? Is there a shortage, should I rush out and buy some, why doesnt anyone tell me anything!!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well I am sure it will hide the rolls of fat, so bring it on!

Why you hiding rolls of fat? Is there a shortage, should I rush out and buy some, why doesnt anyone tell me anything!!!!"

I'm a fat smuggler.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accurate because im poor and live in a tent

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I dont think its necessary to tar everyone with the same brush. Some are genuine in their reasons, some arent.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat smuggler.

Do you have gold teeth (answer this one correctly and we is getting married!!)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a fat smuggler.

Do you have gold teeth (answer this one correctly and we is getting married!!)"

I've got a silver one if thats any good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP.

I've shown this thread to the missus and she has agreed to be out between 9 and 10 if you can pop round.

I'll take the pictures down and hide her knickers under the bed.

She says can we do the funky chicken on the settee though as the sheets are new on t'bed.

(((((KIDDING))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat smuggler.

Do you have gold teeth (answer this one correctly and we is getting married!!)

I've got a silver one if thats any good."

Meh, long engagement?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a fat smuggler.

Do you have gold teeth (answer this one correctly and we is getting married!!)

I've got a silver one if thats any good.

Meh, long engagement?

*heartbroken*

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By *ussiebloke40Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

the OP's second post says my profile is clear if they cant accommodate no meet. Now i will admit i dont fully get this post, but that smacks of double standards doesnt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with every thing you say ,but there are exceptions to the rule ,i am a single guy but cant accomodate,i am not cheating on any body ,but i do have my son living with me,and with the cost of housing or rent,and job insecurity ,i think he might be here for a while ,so stop and think before you tar everybody with the same brush,i hate people who judge others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*heartbroken*

Don't do that, you know I will give in, I am a sucker for a sucker....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"
single guys getting moaned bout again lol im single but cant accomadate,i have a son who i have alot and i house share with a mate,and i dont lie but,i go to hotels for meet and will always pay or atleast share coasts,everyone has there reason, men,women and couples,so it just aint single guys

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

"i agree with every thing you say ,but there are exceptions to the rule ,i am a single guy but cant accomodate,i am not cheating on any body ,but i do have my son living with me,and with the cost of housing or rent,and job insecurity ,i think he might be here for a while ,so stop and think before you tar everybody with the same brush,i hate people who judge others."

exactly!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange."

Ofcourse no one's gonna question a lady that can't accomodate:

1) Most don't want to be seen as cutting their nose to spite their face.

2) Its a lady's prerogative.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

*heartbroken*

Don't do that, you know I will give in, I am a sucker for a sucker...."

*snif*

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

I can accomodate - yet it doesn't seem to make much difference, if anything its been suggested too good to be true so I was not believed, lol.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange.

Same here as I live with my daughter and her boyfriend but only one guy has actually asked me why I can't accommodate"

They don't want to risk blowing their chance at meeting if thougtht to be questioning your legitimacy

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By *umbrian GuyMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

"single guys on this site can not accom"

I've noticed the same with single women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*heartbroken*

Don't do that, you know I will give in, I am a sucker for a sucker....

*snif*"

Stop it!! (already his mind is twisting, how can he get this fair maiden to stop sniffling....don't do it Paul, hold back, be strong (but she's got lady bits!!), patience paul, hold back (but the lady bits!!!)......arrrghhh)

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By *ostboy1Man
over a year ago

leeds

i could accom but choose to use hotels (save drying the mattress out )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can do occasional home meets...but dont like bringing my swinging friends into my living room to meet ma dad..

*please note any inclusion of my 'dad' referred to in this post really does not mean i'd like any jokes about him joining in...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

*heartbroken*

Don't do that, you know I will give in, I am a sucker for a sucker....

*snif*

Long time in Kabul, I take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long time in Kabul, I take it.

You wouldnt believe me if I told you (single guy remember, liar (check), timewaster (check) fake pics (check) (monkey on back (ook ook).

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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Long time in Kabul, I take it.

You wouldnt believe me if I told you (single guy remember, liar (check), timewaster (check) fake pics (check) (monkey on back (ook ook).

oh well, the monkey should fulfil any needs you have until you fly back then. Pity I can't *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well, the monkey should fulfil any needs you have until you fly back then. Pity I can't *sigh*"

Ok if you really want too....sigh, the things I do, who'd be a humanitarian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to not assume why someone can't accom.... and like to ask. Sadly sometimes asking reveals an attitude of 'I could accom but I don't want to shit on my own doorstep with dirty swingers... can I come and shit on yours'

That's why I never met men that couldn't accommodate. I share my house with two of ny daughter's and one of their boyfriend's. When my youngest was at uni I could meet during the day at home.

On one occasion I suggested to a playmate we meet at his only to be told he didn't shit on his own doorstep. He was never invited back to mine and I never met another man that couldn't accommodate.

Couldn't give a monkies what his reason was: don't care as to me it will always be because they don't shit on their doorstep but don't mind leaving their turd in mine...yeah...right!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

oh well, the monkey should fulfil any needs you have until you fly back then. Pity I can't *sigh*

Ok if you really want too....sigh, the things I do, who'd be a humanitarian?

Bit of a drive there though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a drive there though."

S'ok, I can usually find somewhere nice to stay betwixt and between (oo'er missus!)

P xxx

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over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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Bit of a drive there though.

S'ok, I can usually find somewhere nice to stay betwixt and between (oo'er missus!)

P xxx"

Haha, won't be seeping betwixt my legs mister!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Bit of a drive there though.

S'ok, I can usually find somewhere nice to stay betwixt and between (oo'er missus!)

P xxx

Haha, won't be seeping betwixt my legs mister!"

Sleeping!! (damn typoes). You can seep all you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well, the monkey should fulfil any needs you have until you fly back then. Pity I can't *sigh*

Ok if you really want too....sigh, the things I do, who'd be a humanitarian?

Bit of a drive there though."

Why don't you two pm each other and stop spoiling the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accom cos im back with my mum for a bit till i can get a new flat. Lots have reasons why we cant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and I do

and I make a lovely cuppa

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

ok lets get someting straight here, i'm not sayin all the guys that can not accom are married or have girlfriends, i am saying that cheats that have girlfriend and wifes pretend they are single and just cant accom ok, therefore we do not meet guys that do not accom due to the fact we are not physchic nor mind readers we assume rightly or wrongly they have somethin to hide, lets face it more geys live with gf wife ect than with family so we err to side of caution and i do believe over 75% guys that say they cant accom are cheats, sorry to the genuine 25%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok lets get someting straight here, i'm not sayin all the guys that can not accom are married or have girlfriends, i am saying that cheats that have girlfriend and wifes pretend they are single and just cant accom ok, therefore we do not meet guys that do not accom due to the fact we are not physchic nor mind readers we assume rightly or wrongly they have somethin to hide, lets face it more geys live with gf wife ect than with family so we err to side of caution and i do believe over 75% guys that say they cant accom are cheats, sorry to the genuine 25%"

i wanna be in that 25% fucklist lol

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

god, ok i think most either miss the point or are just blinkers, there are a hell of a lot of reasons for not to accom!!!! that is not the issue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!what i am clearly talkin about and bein sidewinded in MARRIED AND ATTACHED GUYS HERE CHEATING BEHIND TERE PARTNERS BACK

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

lets face it a lot of single men tell LIES about accommodateing as there is a girlfriend hidden in the back ground some where but i can def accommodate over night at weekends and i dont tell lies so any ladys are couples want to come and stay get in touch LOL THANKS TREV XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is I hope to be able to accomodate before the year is out. Wonder what that will do to my meet count. hmmmm..

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By *illow_femaleWoman
over a year ago

Thetford

"I didn't accom when i was a single fem either, mostly for safety, but also cos of nosy neighbours x"

I am the same.........

curtain twitchers in the village of gossips aplenty!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have incredible difficulty in accommodating, even though I really want to.

My electronic tag means I can only go out during the daytime, and at night the wife gets off her shift at 11pm so meets have to be well clear by then.

You may laugh at my situation, but it's really hard for me.

Just my 2p worth.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Would love to host a party beds for six and floor space for me, alas parking for just one more car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is many reasons why guys can't accommodate, mine is personal. But I can see why certain ppl frown on this, but a person with an open mind wont get caught up on this, surely a profile as a whole should be judged not just the accommodation bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a theory regardless if they flat share and weather it is male or female. How many guys/gals go out on a night and pull a lady/guy and takes them back to his place with no stigma attached and how many would invite a swinger back to his place. Its all about discretion not wanting there friends to know their secrets. And yes worrying about an influx of guys coming in and out of my place if only I was that lucky. This is one of the reasons why I rarely play at home and this is why I meet clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok i know im not a man

but

im single and i dont accommodate and im not married and i dont have a partner and i dont live with my mum

Everyone has their own reason, all because someone does not accommodate that does not mean they are cheating

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By *rownsuga1982Man
over a year ago

leicester

very frustrating cos some say they can accom and last minute some tragedy occurs, but funny thing they will still meet and pay for hotel"

in eastenders most of those folks live in an extended family etc. and that seems normal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait a minute...

As a single male who recently doesn't accomodate for reasons that I prefer not to share.(but definitely not cheating! lol) I want to know where you get your stats from.

Could you find out the percentage of female cheats while you're at it? hmmm?

Thanks in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, another one here with a legit reason of why i couldn't accommodate back when i was meeting.

If someone is cheating there's more to look at than just the can or can't accommodate, they're not likely going to want to give their number out or have a phone chat unless they did the calling, won't be able to go on cam at short notice etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I can say is I hope to be able to accomodate before the year is out. Wonder what that will do to my meet count. hmmmm.."

Sweet FA. You're still a single male!

Just joking. Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres guys on here that are cheating that do accommodate

I get messages from guys asking me to come round while their wifes at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flat share thing I dont really understand as a reason not to accommodate. Im sure your flatmates are other adults and what you get up to in the privacy of your own room has nothing to do with them.

Now kids. I can understand that. Wither your kids live with you full time or visit once a month. Its your childrens home. And we all know how 'normal' some people may seem. I dont have kids, but I know if I did, I would not accommadate, at all, so I dont see why this should be different for men.

Anyway its winter, im in the house for the next 6 months, I dont do the cold, so im happy to accommadate.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"god, ok i think most either miss the point or are just blinkers, there are a hell of a lot of reasons for not to accom!!!! that is not the issue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!what i am clearly talkin about and bein sidewinded in MARRIED AND ATTACHED GUYS HERE CHEATING BEHIND TERE PARTNERS BACK "

If you had been talking about it THAT CLEARLY, then there would have been less missing of the point.

Your first post was a sweeping statement to the effect that not accommodating was most likely to be a sign of a cheating male.

Others pointed out other reasons, to which you responded with another sweeping statement - now all single men have low standards.

If you wanted a discussion about cheating men, maybe THAT should have been the thread title...although I remain convinced that you're trying to change the subject because you didn't like the response you got first time.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my 4 housemates would find it extremely strange if I was inviting couples around to my bedroom. I have no problems with hotels however, and always have been willing to pay the full cost.

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over a year ago

"I think my 4 housemates would find it extremely strange if I was inviting couples around to my bedroom. I have no problems with hotels however, and always have been willing to pay the full cost. "

No I dont get this.

I flatshared for about 8 years durning my 20's.

And if any of my flatmates had passed comment on who I brought home, they would have been told to feck off it was none of there business.

As long as I was paying my share of the rent and bills. And wasnt destroying the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my 4 housemates would find it extremely strange if I was inviting couples around to my bedroom. I have no problems with hotels however, and always have been willing to pay the full cost.

No I dont get this.

I flatshared for about 8 years durning my 20's.

And if any of my flatmates had passed comment on who I brought home, they would have been told to feck off it was none of there business.

As long as I was paying my share of the rent and bills. And wasnt destroying the place."

Not everyone is so open about swinging, actually many wont tell their closest friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us single guys live in shared accom due to work reasons, ideal if any of you lush ladies fancy a gang bang! Lol."

where??? hahaha can y other half join in pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my 4 housemates would find it extremely strange if I was inviting couples around to my bedroom. I have no problems with hotels however, and always have been willing to pay the full cost.

No I dont get this.

I flatshared for about 8 years durning my 20's.

And if any of my flatmates had passed comment on who I brought home, they would have been told to feck off it was none of there business.

As long as I was paying my share of the rent and bills. And wasnt destroying the place.

Not everyone is so open about swinging, actually many wont tell their closest friends.

That's true. We know many that won't let on about their swinging lives.

....and if a single guy says he can accommodate and invites us into a home he shares with others we'll give it a miss. I'll be way out of my comfort zone with his flatmates/housemates hanging about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although gentlemen of a certain age who cannot accommodate would arouse suspicion with regard to their marital status, if they tick enough boxes in order to engage my interest, then I would ask them why they cannot accommodate.

If they are forthcoming with a believable and valid reason, and can be backed up by evidence that they are genuinely single, e.g. no restrictions on when one can phone and play etc... then I would believe them.

As the others have already mentioned, there are many reasons why one cannot accommodate, and not because they have something to hide.

IMHO, the good eggs will be honest about their circumstances up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is so open about swinging, actually many wont tell their closest friends.

Maybe if it was a couple then fair enough.

But if its a single male meeting a single female. Then really none of the flatmates business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, I am not sure if I would feel comfortable to meet a gent at his place knowing he house-shares with other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although gentlemen of a certain age who cannot accommodate would arouse suspicion with regard to their marital status, if they tick enough boxes in order to engage my interest, then I would ask them why they cannot accommodate.

As the others have already mentioned, there are many reasons why one cannot accommodate, and not because they have something to hide.

IMHO, the good eggs will be honest about their circumstances up front.

This is exactly how I measure the situation now. I was of the school that presumed men were married if they could not accommodate but after a previous thread on this subject I decided to be more understanding

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over a year ago

"Hmmm, I am not sure if I would feel comfortable to meet a gent at his place knowing he house-shares with other people.

Its not something I would do.

But I dont think its a reasons not to accommodate. If its 2 singles meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only come across a few who can accommodate. We are open minded but suspect many are playing away.

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By *amoutofafricaMan
over a year ago

Headley

Would love to accom but have to house share at the mo

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over a year ago

"Hmmm, I am not sure if I would feel comfortable to meet a gent at his place knowing he house-shares with other people.

Its not something I would do.

But I dont think its a reasons not to accommodate. If its 2 singles meeting."

Problem is, damned if you do, damned if you don't....

A guy may state 'can't accommodate' because he seeks not only singles but couples (or even bi guys) and wouldn't want to take back a couple (or bi guy) to shared accommodation..

If however he stated he 'can accommodate' because he's hoping to attract at least single females then he'll be accused of being fake/telling lies/being married because he then tells a couple he can't accommodate after all.

sometimes 'can accommodate, can't accommodate' and 'can travel, can't travel' aren't so black and white and we then have a decision on how to select.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm, I am not sure if I would feel comfortable to meet a gent at his place knowing he house-shares with other people.

Its not something I would do.

But I dont think its a reasons not to accommodate. If its 2 singles meeting.

Problem is, damned if you do, damned if you don't....

A guy may state 'can't accommodate' because he seeks not only singles but couples (or even bi guys) and wouldn't want to take back a couple (or bi guy) to shared accommodation..

sometimes 'can accommodate, can't accommodate' and 'can travel, can't travel' aren't so black and white and we then have a decision on how to select."

example of not always black and white, I have my son living with me, now it's not impossible to get a night to myself but can be very difficult, I have however opted to tick 'can accommodate' as strictly speaking I can, but others may opt for 'can't accommodate being in my situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't really single, I'd either be on a couple profile or I wouldn't be here at all. Similarly, I won't meet someone I know is cheating. Apart from the ethics of it, there's the question of if they're lying to their partner about fucking me, what are they lying to ME about?

I wish I could accommodate. I can't. Property prices around here mean that having my own place isn't practical on my salary. I could probably afford a studio flat, maybe even a 1-bedroom... if I stopped paying into my pension and my savings account. I'm not willing to do that. Fun as it is, if it comes down to a choice between swinging and financial security (whatever that means these days), I know which one I'd rather do without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is so open about swinging, actually many wont tell their closest friends.

Maybe if it was a couple then fair enough.

But if its a single male meeting a single female. Then really none of the flatmates business.

Theres lots of things in my life thats noone elses business, does not mean i want to go round advertising it to everyone tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did i say i Can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all round to your house then

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Think that there can be quite a few different reasons why men (and couples / ladies) can't accomodate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is so open about swinging, actually many wont tell their closest friends.

Maybe if it was a couple then fair enough.

But if its a single male meeting a single female. Then really none of the flatmates business.

Exactly why I said if I was bringing couples back. If it was a single female I'd be applauded! My housemates also happen to be my best friends so it's not a situation where everyone is keeping themselves totally to themselves. We take interest in each others lives.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I didn't accom when i was a single fem either, mostly for safety, but also cos of nosy neighbours x

I am the same.........

curtain twitchers in the village of gossips aplenty!

the same here!

i have no problem with single men who can't accommodate as long as we can find a solution. but i do have a problem with guys who suggest that instead of meeting for coffee in a cafe - for safety reasons - that i should sneak them into my house for coffee even though my profile clearly states that i can't accom. these are usually the guys who won't discuss why they can't host, and who seem overly concerned on being seen in such a scandalous place as a cafe with a woman,but are determined that i should... hmmmm methinks i smell a lying rat there

but i have met plenty of lovely guys who can't host and we have found solutions - although in the back of the car/van is not an acceptable one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and live alone... i know how swinging works and don't really need educating by others..

I for one chose not to accomodate as my wish is to keep my swinging life sepereated from my home life..

Simple if you think about it..

Wish people would stop to think instead of asuming there is something behind it..

In fact i have plenty of meets and people don't have a problem with me..

So on that note must be off as i have a couple to meet at their house for some fun..

Gotta love old Blighty..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single and live alone... i know how swinging works and don't really need educating by others..

I for one chose not to accomodate as my wish is to keep my swinging life sepereated from my home life..

Simple if you think about it..

Wish people would stop to think instead of asuming there is something behind it..

In fact i have plenty of meets and people don't have a problem with me..

So on that note must be off as i have a couple to meet at their house for some fun..

Gotta love old Blighty.."

i totally agree with you

most of my meets are one offs and thats how i like it and i do not wish to give out my address to dozens of guys i meet on here and have lots of different men coming and going from my home and knowing where i live

I do not expect people to accommodate me as i do not myself, however some guys prefure to accommodate if they can rather than use a hotel and thats fine if thats what they want but i would never expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can't accom...but purely due to the fact that i wouldn't want my grandad sticking his nose in on my sex life lol i live with him due to financial reasons, break down of relationship and the pure fact that i'm 2 years into a teaching degree and which then relates to reason number 1

the op is just generalising single males, but also has some validity to the point. there will always be exceptions to the rule.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

My Master cannot accom,and is most certainly not married

People have a variety of reasons,one of the reasons why i like to get to know peeps in chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have that problem,all welcome at mine haha.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

lots of genuine reasons why single men cant accom..

i just had an ex move in the spare room as her boyfriend kicked her out..

wont b here too long i hope.. but makes it difficult for me at the moment..

like most people i like to keep my personal life my personal life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had been talking about it THAT CLEARLY, then there would have been less missing of the point.

Your first post was a sweeping statement to the effect that not accommodating was most likely to be a sign of a cheating male.

Others pointed out other reasons, to which you responded with another sweeping statement - now all single men have low standards.

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

some guys are actually one parent, i have a friend who has a adult child living with him, another friend shares a house with someone, so not all guys are married...

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Im single, over 25 and dont accom but people dont seem to find that strange."

It's different for girls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont seek single guys but have to say that its non of our business if they have a partner etc ... Its not our responsibility to keep their relationship on the go lol.

Some people are very nervous about giving their address, may be ashamed of their home etc .. If they dont want you there , That is their choice... If they are married then that is also their own choice... They will get caught in the end anyway

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