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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like pleasing or do you like to be pleased? Do you give too much or are you selfish in the sack?

Don't be shy!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Give/please every time. That is what gives me the most pleasure.

I can always shoot ma load later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get pleasure out of giving pleasure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both.... but must admit i love giving pleasure and seeing how much the person is enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get pleasure out of giving pleasure xx "

Ditto xx

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Equal measure and in no particular order, just go with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give and recieve. it goes both ways.

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


" Give/please every time. That is what gives me the most pleasure.

I can always shoot ma load later? "

IM the same and really please to hear im not the only one

Tom (angies hubby)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get pleasure out of giving pleasure xx

Ditto xx"

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad to hear that there are so many givers out there!

I've had a few lazy/selfish lovers in my time. Not happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like both equally

However, i dont know if im just built funny down there but i find it very hard to meet guys who i consider to be good at oral and if its not doing anything for me id much sooner then just not bother and i'll spend more time giving

However if i find a guy who does do it for me in the oral department i can be quite selfish lol

Tho i will still give back just as much, they just have to wait longer for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad to hear that there are so many givers out there!

I've had a few lazy/selfish lovers in my time. Not happy "

haha havnt we all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"both.... but must admit i love giving pleasure and seeing how much the person is enjoying it"

ditto

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I get pleasure out of giving pleasure xx "

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. If i really like the man im with, i like to please him a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving ladies oral,can do it for hours,just love it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually do prefer with meets to give... But Master likes me to get my fair share back.. so am learning to recieve too..

has been quite a long road

cali

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By *ottinghamPaulMan
over a year ago

nottingham

i love to give and please my partners,must must admit like to be rewarded afterwards.

Paul

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis better to give than to recieve....wise words. And proven right on most occassions, as with most meets I tend to give at length first, then rather than recieve, I instead TAKE...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give as well as to receive in equal measures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Em a giver - its such a turn on getting a woman hot and wet, even without touching at first then feeling the fruits of your labour for the first time - love it - but I'm not averse to receiving - although mutual giving/receiving requires A LOT of concentration - but having a woman moan with her mouth full of my cock is always fantastic

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Depends....sometimes i'm in cock slut mode, i just want to lie back and have my holes filled, tho i dont know if that is that selfish judging from the reaction of the men!

But mostly i like giving,making men and woman come is jut so horny!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have always been a better giver than receiver... just the kind nice chappie i am... lol

plus turning on the other person turns me on as well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the whole point is to make sure the lady is satieated.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"the whole point is to make sure the lady is satieated."

This is the way to get repeat meets.

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By *illow_femaleWoman
over a year ago

Thetford


"i like both equally

However, i dont know if im just built funny down there but i find it very hard to meet guys who i consider to be good at oral and if its not doing anything for me id much sooner then just not bother and i'll spend more time giving

However if i find a guy who does do it for me in the oral department i can be quite selfish lol

Tho i will still give back just as much, they just have to wait longer for it "

I agree.... some times it's good to be greedy......

What you give you get back 10 fold!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

compliments...... Give

Oral sex...........give

Flowers............give

Money.......recieve

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"compliments...... Give

Oral sex...........give

Flowers............give

Money.......recieve

"

STDs....???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to receive and that seems to be ok, I have enough messages from guys saying they love to lick pussy for hours so yeah go for it.

I do give too, I wouldn't ever not but I do love oral though I admit I've been spoilt as my OH is particularly talented in this respect. Its nice to have a different way too but I must admit I always relax into it with my OH much more as I'm confident he loves my taste and my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the type of the romp you are engaged in at the time. If I am with someone who is very unimpaginitive I try for a while to up the ante but if he's still being boring then I have ways of making it end soon afterwards.

Having said that if you're in a comfy relationship then you all probably have the same joke with your beau...

Do you wan't sex?

No I don't.

Well do you mind if I do.

Cue nightie lift

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