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"Katie....you have a beautiful body. The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom. I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own... Folks who want to play with you will find you. Folks who want to be morons and try degrade you will find you...you just need to ignore them and think about me thinking about you...(the boys watch the girls as the girls watch the boys) " I concur with this concurrence.....curves are yummy | |||
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"Katie....you have a beautiful body. The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom. I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own... Folks who want to play with you will find you. Folks who want to be morons and try degrade you will find you...you just need to ignore them and think about me thinking about you...(the boys watch the girls as the girls watch the boys) " How nice | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " We’re exactly the same. It’s come to the point where I’ve lost confidence and the feeling of being sexy and currently avoid gym fit guys or even if that have only met stunning body perfect females and totally not ready to meet any couples especially where the female is body perfect. Silly we know but having wobbly bits knocks your confidence and no matter how much I try to tone these areas nothing seems to work One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet! | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people. That applies to anything from body shape, to income to cars. It's a recipe for unhappiness until you set yourself an absolute standard. So the fact you are allowing other women to make you feel initimated is a personal flaw that you should probably fix. I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive. Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs. | |||
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"You dont have to be. Most men don't notice them as they are preoccupied with your boobs and bum. And then some men will love you wobbly bits. Mentioning no names, ahem. " Fixed | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! We’re exactly the same. It’s come to the point where I’ve lost confidence and the feeling of being sexy and currently avoid gym fit guys or even if that have only met stunning body perfect females and totally not ready to meet any couples especially where the female is body perfect. Silly we know but having wobbly bits knocks your confidence and no matter how much I try to tone these areas nothing seems to work One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet! " This post resonates with me. Obviously, I look at your pictures and think wow! She's stunning. But this doesn't help someone who has lost confidence in their sex appeal. It goes much deeper than this to a level where you and only you can help yourself. I'm at that point now. Xx | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Morning Katie, I just want to say that your beautiful. Everyone has their insecurities, their “wobbly bits” etc but you have to own it! Rock what your mama gave you. Everyone is unique and you should wear your stripes with pride girl!! Xx | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! Morning Katie, I just want to say that your beautiful. Everyone has their insecurities, their “wobbly bits” etc but you have to own it! Rock what your mama gave you. Everyone is unique and you should wear your stripes with pride girl!! Xx " Yes! | |||
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"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. " According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men. | |||
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"I've had some realisation lately that while most show the best of themselves in photos on here, its not always the reality. I hate my wobbly bits and tend to hide them behind angles and pretty underwear. However yesterday I sat in a genetics clinic and was given all sorts of information should I have this family gene. Including the removal of my breasts and reconstruction with said wobbly bits. Last night I thought no more hiding, they can't be taken for granted. So I took a very brave pic for me. No denying the wobbly bits now. I felt quite liberated. My point is things you dislike about yourself are unlikely as obvious to other people. Don't let it ruin your experiences xx" What a super post - well done! And it's a lovely sexy picture too!! xx | |||
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"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh" What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? | |||
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"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? " You had me at visible abs | |||
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"I've had some realisation lately that while most show the best of themselves in photos on here, its not always the reality. I hate my wobbly bits and tend to hide them behind angles and pretty underwear. However yesterday I sat in a genetics clinic and was given all sorts of information should I have this family gene. Including the removal of my breasts and reconstruction with said wobbly bits. Last night I thought no more hiding, they can't be taken for granted. So I took a very brave pic for me. No denying the wobbly bits now. I felt quite liberated. My point is things you dislike about yourself are unlikely as obvious to other people. Don't let it ruin your experiences xx What a super post - well done! And it's a lovely sexy picture too!! xx " Thank you. X | |||
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"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? " You don’t get that often!!! My personal preference is big boobs, big bum, wide hips and a waist. If the wobbly boobed size packed woman had curvy hips and arse then that would be ok with me | |||
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"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? You don’t get that often!!! My personal preference is big boobs, big bum, wide hips and a waist. If the wobbly boobed size packed woman had curvy hips and arse then that would be ok with me " That should be six pack obviously | |||
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"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? You had me at visible abs" Haha well mine are still hiding at the moment! But they're there, they've popped I can feel them! | |||
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"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men." Thanks for pointing this out. Although, statistics are not half as useful as hearing people's experiences and making connections through words to help us see that we are not alone in how we are feeling. We are relational beings after all and live in a social world. Plus I'm a psychologist so statistics do nothing for me lolol. | |||
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"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men. Thanks for pointing this out. Although, statistics are not half as useful as hearing people's experiences and making connections through words to help us see that we are not alone in how we are feeling. We are relational beings after all and live in a social world. Plus I'm a psychologist so statistics do nothing for me lolol. " As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards? | |||
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"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men. Thanks for pointing this out. Although, statistics are not half as useful as hearing people's experiences and making connections through words to help us see that we are not alone in how we are feeling. We are relational beings after all and live in a social world. Plus I'm a psychologist so statistics do nothing for me lolol. As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards? " I have to admit I have become cynical about surveys and "scientific studies"... Like the discovery that chocolate is actually good for you... sponsored by Mars and Nestle... that smoking is good for you funded by the tobacco corp of america etc etc | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " I always laugh when it says not into overweight people then they fab my.wobbly belly pics! | |||
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"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men. Thanks for pointing this out. Although, statistics are not half as useful as hearing people's experiences and making connections through words to help us see that we are not alone in how we are feeling. We are relational beings after all and live in a social world. Plus I'm a psychologist so statistics do nothing for me lolol. As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards? I have to admit I have become cynical about surveys and "scientific studies"... Like the discovery that chocolate is actually good for you... sponsored by Mars and Nestle... that smoking is good for you funded by the tobacco corp of america etc etc" It's just logic really. 10 women in a room, objectively all 10 can have a healthy body fat % but only between 1 can be the slimmest woman in the room. | |||
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"I have noticed on more than one occasions at clubs . The 'body perfect' people are still perfect at the end of the night . They've obviously spent all night looking good rather than having fun . Ofcourse for them that could be how they have fun , who am I to judge . " You don't get that just fucked look from spending the night looking at yourself in the mirror! | |||
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"Thankyou. I was wondering about women's attitudes too. X" I’m not attracted to skinny people. I like curves so like ladies with boobs and bums | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " people take me as I am. I'm quite happy at a club or party to be naked and with wobbly fat bits on show. Yes had a few instances that if I had been more delicate could have knocked me... ( being in an open room.. 2 couples playing. Both open to single guys and not one came near me ) but that is a very rare instance... Some people don't like bigger ladies/men.. Others prefer.. some arent bothered. If someone else is appalled by me naked. That is there issue not mine.. as long as its not in Tescos obviously | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Hi lovely. Not read all the other comments so am at risk of repeating what others have said! Firstly - most women who’ve had kids will have ‘jelly belly’ to some extent - I certainly do - just as most women who’ve had kids/breastfed have boobs that aren’t as firm as those who haven’t! Men living in the real world (ie non porn fantasists) will accept that many women over 30 (and some younger) will have imperfect tummies and boobs! From my experience it seems to bother them less than it bothers us! Re overweight. Everyone has their own perspective on what they consider to be overweight. According to the scales I’m officially overweight - but most on here wouldn’t consider me as such. Ergo ‘officially’ I suspect you’re overweight - but when it comes to desirability - you have larger boobs than waist etc and are in good proportion (I think most people on here are more into ‘good proportion’ than they are bothered about specific dress sizes - but that’s simply my opinion and I could be wrong!) So what I’m saying is - to most chaps on here you’d still be an attractive prospect! Relax and have fun my lovely! | |||
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"I have wobbly bits and irritatingly saggy bits, but I’m nearly 43. I wish they weren’t there and I was as pert as I was in my twenties, but I’m not. Heh Ho. " Trust me you have no worries | |||
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"For the last five years I’ve been overweight and haven’t found much difference to be perfectly honest. Some guys like tall girls and some short, some like lithe and some curvy, some like gym toned while others prefer the wobbles. It’s all much of a muchness." I think my height is more an issue for some. 5'9" | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! We’re exactly the same. It’s come to the point where I’ve lost confidence and the feeling of being sexy and currently avoid gym fit guys or even if that have only met stunning body perfect females and totally not ready to meet any couples especially where the female is body perfect. Silly we know but having wobbly bits knocks your confidence and no matter how much I try to tone these areas nothing seems to work One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet! " Mrs is like this and because of such, we find it harder to meet couples. It is silly because being overly body conscious about wobbly bits that every woman/man has prevents potentially great meets/friendships! | |||
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"I would rather sleep with a woman who is a size 38 than a size 8. Some guys like a woman who wobbles, some guys don't. As long as everyone is respectful though" 38 really? That would be morbidly obese and probably around 28 to 30 stone in weight! | |||
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"I’m a bigger girl an lack body confidence! I’m more than happy naked in the presence of a small few! I actually love the feeling of being naked. I would love to go to the Townhouse but really worry about my wobbly bits as there will be so many more people there!! " I wouldn't worry, once you're there nobody takes notice of shapes and sizes, and if they do they don't say anything because that's not what clubs are about ^_^ | |||
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"I’m a big girl, some like bugger girls some don’t like everything in life. Personally I love girls with wobbly bits, when I’m playing with a girl and she has a soft tummy it drives me wild X" *bugger girls* | |||
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"... I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive. Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs." Wow! Just wow. Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous. What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone. | |||
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"... I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive. Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs. Wow! Just wow. Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous. What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone." | |||
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"... I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive. Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs. Wow! Just wow. Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous. What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone." Very well said!! X | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Like you I have all the wobbly bits too. Stretch marks cellulite and even a c-section scar and boobs are definitely not what they used to be lol. But all these flaws make up who I am and I love who I am. Other people may not but that’s their problem not mine. I do hope you feel better about yourself soon you have an amazing body. Embrace it | |||
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"Katie....you have a beautiful body. The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom. I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own... Folks who want to play with you will find you. Folks who want to be morons and try degrade you will find you...you just need to ignore them and think about me thinking about you...(the boys watch the girls as the girls watch the boys) " Lovely | |||
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"Its all down to body confidence. Love my curves but hate my wobbly bits if that makes sense. And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond." Same here | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " So last week we went to a popular pub in town for my wife to go on the pull . As soon as we went to the beer garden we saw two extremely fit and attractive twenty something blondes sat at the main table , wearing tiny denim shorts and very skimpy tops . Size 6 , big boobs , tight butts , and not an ounce of excess weight anywhere . Was my wife intimidated ? Hell yeah ... she didn’t want to sit anywhere near them ! Anyway , to cut a long story short , she sat a couple of tables away , messaged me to say she was wasting her time as no one would want to join her with them there . I told her not to be so daft , and to crack on as normal . Twenty minutes later she was sitting at a table with four gym fit guys , laughing and flirting , with the blondes still sat on their own . Later in the evening she copped off with the hottest guy , and the blondes left the pub , one complaining that a weird goth girl had pulled the guy she were after . I laughed to myself , and my wife later told me the guy was cool with spending the evening with her as the blondes were in his words ‘ so far up their own arses ‘ , that he wouldn’t want to go anywhere near them . He knew I was about and that she was married , but we all had a great night and she felt so much better about herself at the end of the night . | |||
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"It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people." I think that's an excellent idea...consequently, I shall set myself the following 'absolute standard': Rule: I will not waste time asking to meet people who assume that I must be 'full of shit' because I make no secret of the fact that I think that 'wobbly bits are sexy.' Likewise, I will not ask to meet people who assume that those of us who eschew 'the broadly accepted definition of attractive' are an insignificant minority. | |||
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"It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people. I think that's an excellent idea...consequently, I shall set myself the following 'absolute standard': Rule: I will not waste time asking to meet people who assume that I must be 'full of shit' because I make no secret of the fact that I think that 'wobbly bits are sexy.' Likewise, I will not ask to meet people who assume that those of us who eschew 'the broadly accepted definition of attractive' are an insignificant minority." | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Your curves look amazing | |||
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"I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x" Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me. Thank you! | |||
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"I love my wobbly bits but hate my legs Juliexxxx Also like men with wobbly bits lol xx" My belly is the bit I'm trying to reduce, but as I get older I'm finding it harder to lose it _ so I guess I just have to larn to love my spare tyre and find women who love it too! | |||
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"I'm struggling with confidence. Especially today. Seem to have leaky eyes lol. I know I won't change the way I look, my weight tends to yo yo and I find my confidence isn't affected. It's always rubbish. I don't see myself as curvy I see myself as fat. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong. I worry if I hit the gym that I'll look even more male. I tend to put on muscle very easily. Ah I dunno just write it off as a bad few days I guess. " I know exactly how you feel - and having other people say "Well I LOVE your curves" does nothing to help, as it's a confidence issue rather than an attention issue. The bad days are often for me, so much so that I stopped bothering even to try and find women for dating because I'm finding it difficult to believe that people do like chubbier men - again, that Western idealised notion of beauty, I guess, affects men as well it seems haha! | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " It means they don't like overweight people? Surely that doesn't need clarity does it? I can't say I'm a fan of wobbly bits. I find out of shape bodies a turn off I'm afraid | |||
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"When I was a kid I loved jelly. Now when I see things that wobble I want to put them in my mouth " That's one of the reasons why we luv you so much C xxx | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! It means they don't like overweight people? Surely that doesn't need clarity does it? I can't say I'm a fan of wobbly bits. I find out of shape bodies a turn off I'm afraid" I felt I needed clarity on this so yes, please clarify. From the perspective of someone who isn't a fan a wobble, what would you class as overweight? Technically, on a bmi scale, I'm overweight, but I don't think of myself as overweight. Would you use the nationally agreed medical definition of overweight to decide who you play with? Or do you think curvy is overweight? | |||
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"When I was a kid I loved jelly. Now when I see things that wobble I want to put them in my mouth That's one of the reasons why we luv you so much C xxx " Awwww That means so much coming from such an amazingly sexy lady! Doing the happy dance here... Mwah!!! | |||
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"OP. Our friends was telling us recently how they went to a local club not knowing it was a bbw event. They said people were queing to get in and the place was pack They played with some very attractive curvy ladies of all shapes and sizes and said they would defiantly go again. Clubs events aren't for everyone but would such an event boost your confidence?" That's really interesting, thankyou. We have been to a club but just to watch and see what happens. I think we'd be happy to go again to A different one. I think this thread has helped enormously though already and helped me see that we all have insecurities, but most of us have good hearts and kind souls and would not intentionally set out to hurt someone's feelings. | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " You are in no way shape or form overweight I have to confess I'm not into men who are overweight but mostly because they are more likely to die on me I'm small (size 8) but I still have wobbly bits that I've never been able to banish after the kids despite loosing 3 stone and doing Ariel yoga but I don't care I'm physically fit and your health at the end of the day is more important than having a flat stomach x | |||
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"I am fat and wobbly....I don't love my body, but I'm certainly the hung up about it. My OH loves every inch, roll and wobble I love being different to the majority and have never struggled to find people interested. Confidence goes a long way! Concentrate on those that do think you're gorgeous and pass the others by... For the record...you have a fabulous figure! Wear that mum tum with pride cos it's fucking beautiful and so is the rest of you! " Don't worry there's plenty of us who love your body! Your OH obviously has good taste (also one of the best looking men on fab) | |||
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"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies" I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x | |||
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"I am fat and wobbly....I don't love my body, but I'm certainly the hung up about it. My OH loves every inch, roll and wobble I love being different to the majority and have never struggled to find people interested. Confidence goes a long way! Concentrate on those that do think you're gorgeous and pass the others by... For the record...you have a fabulous figure! Wear that mum tum with pride cos it's fucking beautiful and so is the rest of you! Don't worry there's plenty of us who love your body! Your OH obviously has good taste (also one of the best looking men on fab)" blusharama! Fanks....and you're right, he is a fucking hottie! | |||
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"I would rather sleep with a woman who is a size 38 than a size 8. Some guys like a woman who wobbles, some guys don't. As long as everyone is respectful though 38 really? That would be morbidly obese and probably around 28 to 30 stone in weight!" Different strokes and all that. I mean, the right woman at a size 8 will do it for me too. My girlfriend is a size 8 and I still find her sexy as hell. I wouldn't trade her for a bigger woman, just because of that alone. But, I do prefer large women. I'm not into women who detest their body because of their size though; I think a woman should have the right to want her body how she wants, regardless of my preferences | |||
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"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x " That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages | |||
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"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages " Plus all the bogeys smell of tea for weeks | |||
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"OP. Our friends was telling us recently how they went to a local club not knowing it was a bbw event. They said people were queing to get in and the place was pack They played with some very attractive curvy ladies of all shapes and sizes and said they would defiantly go again. Clubs events aren't for everyone but would such an event boost your confidence? That's really interesting, thankyou. We have been to a club but just to watch and see what happens. I think we'd be happy to go again to A different one. I think this thread has helped enormously though already and helped me see that we all have insecurities, but most of us have good hearts and kind souls and would not intentionally set out to hurt someone's feelings. " Definitely go to a BBW event even if it's just to watch. It will give you a massive boost. x | |||
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"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages Plus all the bogeys smell of tea for weeks " Yeah it isn't so great when it all goes back into the cup. Well... depends what you're into really... | |||
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"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies You do know you don't have to insult one kind of woman to compliment another right? " | |||
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"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural " I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot. | |||
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"...And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond." Yeah, I do this too but only because if they have six veris and all of their meets have been with those that class themselves as ‘slim’ or ‘athletic’, then it seems to suggest that they are their preferred type. I’ll still respond if interested but I’ll highlight my body type to ensure that they are going into it with eyes wide open. | |||
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"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot." Quite right too, all humans are natural. Not every slim woman without wobbly bits is some sort of fitness freak on a strict diet. We are what we are. | |||
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"...And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond. Yeah, I do this too but only because if they have six veris and all of their meets have been with those that class themselves as ‘slim’ or ‘athletic’, then it seems to suggest that they are their preferred type. I’ll still respond if interested but I’ll highlight my body type to ensure that they are going into it with eyes wide open." I have a petite lady on my verifications list. I met her for coffee because she blew me away with some amazing banter and after a couple of meets couldn't resist her because because of the person she is. Despite being petite she has never been in a gym which dispells a certain stereotype. | |||
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"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot. Quite right too, all humans are natural. Not every slim woman without wobbly bits is some sort of fitness freak on a strict diet. We are what we are." Today humans eat a lot of things that are anything but natural. That leads to health issues that are not natural. One micro example is that if you see a documentary on Amazon tribes, it's surprising how good their teeth are considering the lack of tooth paste etc. But that's because they don't eat sugary sweets that rot them. | |||
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" Definitely go to a BBW event even if it's just to watch. It will give you a massive boost. x" A BBW swingers event? I would love to go to one of these, but I don't know of any in the west Yorkshire area. Closest know of one is in the Midlands somewhere. As for the BBW social club nights (big girls paradise in particular); I went to one, and it was the worst night ever. A guy who was about school disco level DJ, and women with horrible attitudes. Never looked so looked down on in my life for just being somewhere, and I used to dye my hair and spike it, and wear a lot of gendercrossing clothes twenty years ago | |||
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"I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me. Thank you! " Thank me for what? | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " I can only speak for myself, but I don't mind jiggly bits in a woman at all. With that said, you really don't have an overly jiggly body, even if you are not 'ripped'. Katie, as I am sure you have been told many times in this thread and in real life: you have a spectacular body. One that should be touched and licked and played with for hours, every single day. Your mister is a very lucky man. | |||
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"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot." That's because it's nonsense | |||
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"I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me. Thank you! Thank me for what? " Fabbing my pic | |||
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"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot. That's because it's nonsense " Yes you're right. There's nothing more natural looking on a woman than a rippling 6 pack. That's why I've stopped doing crunches. They made me look more feminine | |||
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"Its all down to body confidence. Love my curves but hate my wobbly bits if that makes sense. And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond." You have a gorgeous body | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Its funny as i am usually very self concious and do my best to hide my mummy tummy and wobbly bits. Mr is very complimentory but he kinda has to be haha. However being on here as helped boost my confidence as a size 14/16 with wobbly bits and tiger stripes i am embracing theseba little more. | |||
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"I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me. Thank you! Thank me for what? Fabbing my pic " You're welcome | |||
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"We all have wobbly bits, some more than others. But half of it is down to self confidence. Maybe a down night tonight, but my wobbly bits make me feel " Looking over your pics you have no wobbly bits that people woukdnt enjoy! X | |||
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"We all have wobbly bits, some more than others. But half of it is down to self confidence. Maybe a down night tonight, but my wobbly bits make me feel Looking over your pics you have no wobbly bits that people woukdnt enjoy! X" Mrs x | |||
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"Nowt wrong with wobbly bits for me, my preference would be for curve over cocktail stick every day" Cocktail stick? | |||
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"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet. So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes? Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean? Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this. Katie Mwah! " Love that little pouch above the honey pot. Mmm x | |||
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"Wobbly bits make the curves which I like. I like the look and feel of curves. Women who have wobbly bits probably have better mid-fuck snacks too, so wins all round." Gin and crisps | |||
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