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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London


"Discuss"

Yes! If it's an unflattering username (to us that is) we will ignore them.

Things like "ruin" in them for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if it has the word “slut” or something similar in. Nothing wrong with being promiscuous but when someone’s whole thing is about being degraded and used, then it makes me question their health. I don’t want to catch anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with daddy, slut, pussylicker in does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

occasionally, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely but I have come across the odd few that makes me honk “ummmmm, wtf!”

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don't get stuck in semantics, however some that have a positive connotation I find more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There does seem to be a lot of males with derogatory user names

Do they get meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"occasionally, yes."

What puts you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen some crackers......makes me wonder what they were thinking at the time and what they think in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much as I’d like to I can’t blame my username for putting people off. There are a few usernames that would put me off, men’s, women’s and couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only if it has the word “slut” or something similar in. Nothing wrong with being promiscuous but when someone’s whole thing is about being degraded and used, then it makes me question their health. I don’t want to catch anything "

Slut is an interesting one. I like slutty behaviour in a woman but wouldn't want a slut

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By *razysexysingleWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes anything too vulgar is a massive turn off! Keep it classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss"

in a word yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shouldn't say this because its giving the game away.... but if you are that one in a million guy who is prepared to perform oral sex on a woman you just HAVE to put it in your username somewhere.

The result is astounding. Women are simply overjoyed that their prayers have been answered and will message you you immediately to find out if its true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I shouldn't say this because its giving the game away.... but if you are that one in a million guy who is prepared to perform oral sex on a woman you just HAVE to put it in your username somewhere.

The result is astounding. Women are simply overjoyed that their prayers have been answered and will message you you immediately to find out if its true!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes anything too vulgar is a massive turn off! Keep it classy"

Hello neighbour.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Yes

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes! Any along the 'mr grey' line plus some others which I won't mention as its a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do. I really don't want to meet flitteryouranus or twatdestroyer.

Some really bring a smile to my face and others I can't even pronounce, like gfdvjnbx223

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had good and bad feedback about my username. Mr fuckboy was the alternative

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By *URACELLBUNNY67Man
over a year ago

padgate, warrington


"Anything with daddy, slut, pussylicker in does! "
what about my username

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it’s time a change my username to something better.

I’m open to suggestions. What’s a good username?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Anything with dom master sissy ruin or destroy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking of a swap to hornypregnantslutandhermastertwelveinchkidneydisturber.

Too much ya think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not to me u can call ur self any thing u want all I care about is the quality of ur body not ur name xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Yep....

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

No, why would they? they usually stem from imagination. Hundreds of crude verifications explaining what you did is a bigger turn off for me.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Absolutely ! ... anything derogatory is a big no no and I also tend to cringe when users think they are ‘all that’

Invariably profiles with Hot , Sexy , muscle , abs etc tend to be exactly not what it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite often! Dom, bull, sissy, sub, slut, daddy, to name a few...oohh and any reference to 50 shades!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Absolutely ! ... anything derogatory is a big no no and I also tend to cringe when users think they are ‘all that’

Invariably profiles with Hot , Sexy , muscle , abs etc tend to be exactly not what it says on the tin

"

Might add there are exception to the rule tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, why would they? they usually stem from imagination. Hundreds of crude verifications explaining what you did is a bigger turn off for me."

"Mr huge dong" implies the user has an imagination?

Not in my world it dont!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes quite often! Dom, bull, sissy, sub, slut, daddy, to name a few...oohh and any reference to 50 shades! "

Ha!...this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep it simple people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking of a swap to hornypregnantslutandhermastertwelveinchkidneydisturber.

Too much ya think? "

Almost as bad a cervixbasher

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Yes quite often! Dom, bull, sissy, sub, slut, daddy, to name a few...oohh and any reference to 50 shades! "

Closest we want to get to anything 50 shadey is the paint isle in B&Q!

Yeah names do put us off, more so if they don't match up with the pictures!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking of a swap to hornypregnantslutandhermastertwelveinchkidneydisturber.

Too much ya think? "

I thought that one was already taken

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes quite often! Dom, bull, sissy, sub, slut, daddy, to name a few...oohh and any reference to 50 shades!

Closest we want to get to anything 50 shadey is the paint isle in B&Q!

Yeah names do put us off, more so if they don't match up with the pictures!

S"

Or the personality - don't claim to be Dom then be a quiet little shy thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s time a change my username to something better.

I’m open to suggestions. What’s a good username?"

Here's a tip... use a date like SilverBullet_1990. People are lazy and don't check your age. By the time they've worked out that you aren't 27 and it was actually the year your first grandchild was born.... you have them hooked on your old fashioned charm, witty remarks and have successfully groomed an old man fettish. Do it on all my other profiles

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think you can tell a lot (good and bad) just from the username of some users - anything derogatory, or abusive would certainly put me off.

I often see such usernames (and let's face it, they're nearly always attached to single male profiles) and shake my head and wonder how on earth they expect to get any level of success out of the site.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Ok so we aren’t popular then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The use of the word lad for anyone over,at most 30! What is that about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so we aren’t popular then "

I'm sure your user name will put a few off.They'll be the people you dont want to meet. So if it acts like a filter and connects you to the right sort of people , that's Surely a good thing.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes. "fuddbanger" or "twelveinchanaldestroyer" does nothing for me except activate the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely ! ... anything derogatory is a big no no and I also tend to cringe when users think they are ‘all that’

Invariably profiles with Hot , Sexy , muscle , abs etc tend to be exactly not what it says on the tin

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I'm actually a little bitch

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Ok so we aren’t popular then "

Why would you think that? Your username says exactly who you are and where you're coming from

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Ok so we aren’t popular then

Why would you think that? Your username says exactly who you are and where you're coming from "

Look what the bitches wrote above

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Oh and smash

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Absolutely ! ... anything derogatory is a big no no and I also tend to cringe when users think they are ‘all that’

Invariably profiles with Hot , Sexy , muscle , abs etc tend to be exactly not what it says on the tin

I'm actually a little bitch "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if it has the word “slut” or something similar in. Nothing wrong with being promiscuous but when someone’s whole thing is about being degraded and used, then it makes me question their health. I don’t want to catch anything

Slut is an interesting one. I like slutty behaviour in a woman but wouldn't want a slut"

My pov is slut can be a term women own as they are sexually liberated. It doesn't make them promiscuous. I'd say a slag goes with anyone whereas a slut is choosy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Bigdickthis,hungthat etc.

Message me having not read my profile and when I point it out they say oh it's not that big!

Block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The use of the words hot, milf and the like when they clearly aren't. Minx is another I see a lot. What the actual fuck is a minx anyway?

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

This thread is killing me!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Ok so we aren’t popular then

Why would you think that? Your username says exactly who you are and where you're coming from

Look what the bitches wrote above

"

Ah

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

Definitely

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Yes definitely I’ve had a few arse eaters message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything with daddy, slut, pussylicker in does! "

I was literally just about to change my username to pussylickerdaddyslut1 as well, now I'm going to have to go with cuntruiner2.0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgemental bunch for people that are supposed to be free spirited and open minded. Or is that just a stereo type

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I tend to stay away from arsesplitters and the like.. so yeah I guess they do.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Discuss"

We will generally overlook any username which includes sub/dom, slave, slut, whore, and similar things that feel offensive.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumdump is pretty off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones with pounder, ruiner or destroyer in and any with 50 Shades references will be starting on the back foot with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s time a change my username to something better.

I’m open to suggestions. What’s a good username?"

Skiddypants? XXX

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Sometimes, depends how freaky it is

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss"

They can do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"occasionally, yes.

What puts you off"

women that are barebackcumdump or abuseallmyholes or guys with felchmyarse or barebackanalwhore

*shudders*

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By *ayMaxxxMan
over a year ago

Windsor

I would find names like Geoff or Barry quite off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss"

Definitely. Anything that sounds aggressive like ‘Pussy-destroyer’ or something promoting a man’s ‘supposed’ prowess... like all the women automatically fawn on his dick...

Just don’t like crude! Gives a bad first impression.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep anything with mr gray in or too crude puts me off.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ones with pounder, ruiner or destroyer in and any with 50 Shades references will be starting on the back foot with us. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of compliments on my username, so did my last one.

I find couples with himandher2017 boring and unimaginative. Most people with naff names have site support, so surely they can think of something a few weeks down the line and change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta agree with Rosie - intriguing username and perfectly enticing woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I might be deterred but I take a decision on more than just a username generally. I've benefitted from a few that have made me smile and my own is off-putting to some, so I keep a somewhat open mind. :

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hell yeah!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad username can be saved by a good profile, whereas a cracking username can be let down by a shite profile...

Usernames that would amuse me include:

Cocktimus Prime

Turbomegathruster2000

Jolly Rogerer

Crystal Decanter

Some words in names would put me off though.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes usernames put me off.

All the above mentioned plus cumthiscumthat

Hungthishungthat

MmmmmthisMmmmmthat

You get the picture!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some as a welcome instruction lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% some user-names put us off.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Any containing Daddy, Breeder, Will Make You Squirt, etc get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usernames / avatars and an unsuitable combo of the two totally put me off!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes they can.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Any containing Daddy, Breeder, Will Make You Squirt, etc get blocked.

"

I don’t like those either

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Anything relating to cock size or hardness.

Huge this, monster that, rock hard the other Etc.

We usually find that they come attached to an even bigger ego.

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

I’ve gone for one that I thought was completely non offensive

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By *ornypompeyMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

I saw a great one today, throatraper lol

You have to wonder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy, master/Dom or slave. Find those either creepy or pretentious

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Some do yes ..especially crude/crass/420 usernames

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Profiles with my master

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We had someone turn us down because they thought that we would spread _umours (That's what we wanted them to do! )

But anything with Squirt Gush or soaker plus all of the above mentioned. Also any name that suggests that our sex life is anything other than good by offering to "show how it's done"!

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Absolutely, some are just awful.

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By *obnDaniCouple
over a year ago

Crawley

Some are just stupid. .. we joined here as we want people to know us. .not a rocket in a pocket lol or a beaver in a hole lol...we've seen some funny ones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, why would they? they usually stem from imagination. Hundreds of crude verifications explaining what you did is a bigger turn off for me.

"Mr huge dong" implies the user has an imagination?

Not in my world it dont!"

Oh I think it demonstrates imagination... or is it delusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything with daddy, slut, pussylicker in does! "

Glad I never used anything with cock in it

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Some can be quite funny, but others are just offensive. A good or funny name is more likely going to get our attention

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