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By *ostboy1 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawn - not rude what so ever

many a topics about this.

as said before - if folk replay to every single mail they receive, they be here for ever an wont have any fun

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By *j_markCouple
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over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"How many people out there find it rude that they have their messages deleted without a simple answer of "no thank you" or "your not my type". i understand that many people get hundreds of messages and cant possibly answer all of them.I read and answer all my mail because if people took the time to write then its only polite to answer"

Fab's official policy is: It's not rude not to reply.

Closing, because this thread comes up all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand that many people get hundreds of messages and cant possibly answer all of them."

So why post?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"How many people out there find it rude that they have their messages deleted without a simple answer of "no thank you" or "your not my type". i understand that many people get hundreds of messages and cant possibly answer all of them.I read and answer all my mail because if people took the time to write then its only polite to answer"

oh god... here we go.. about the 5th time this week as well...

a couple of things....

1) if the next e-mail is "why" it then sets up a lot of abuse

2) if people are really that upset over something as trivial as this.. then I don't think swinging is really for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people out there find it rude that they have their messages deleted without a simple answer of "no thank you" or "your not my type". i understand that many people get hundreds of messages and cant possibly answer all of them.I read and answer all my mail because if people took the time to write then its only polite to answer"

Ok, look you really have to see this from the receivers perspective. You said in your post "can't possibly answer all of them" and yet you want them reply to you. No offence but what makes you different from the others that they don't reply.

Life is full of knock-backs and dissapointments, just because people are swingers doesnt mean they will jump on anything that moves (ok, ok, there are some out there..... )

Make sure you match their "type" first, before condemning people that don't reply. Read their profile text, some people say "include face pic, divorce certificate and strange bulge in patio where ex-wife is buried picture" before they will entertain opening your message.

Just relax its swinging, its fun, not a vocation.

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