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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im a married man who loves his wife but we have no sex she told me to get my fun elsewhere but she doesnt want to know but most people dont want to know as they wont play with married men as i must be a cheater stuck between a rock and a hard place or what.

any ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a married man who loves his wife but we have no sex she told me to get my fun elsewhere but she doesnt want to know but most people dont want to know as they wont play with married men as i must be a cheater stuck between a rock and a hard place or what.

any ideas. "

lol be prepared for the backlash .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest in your profile about your situation, and let the others decide whether to play with you or not, and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest in your profile about your situation, and let the others decide whether to play with you or not, and be patient.

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+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i looked at your profile before replying.

just be honest on the profile and get rid of the 2 lines of tosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well a quick look at your profile reveals you have had meets and also have an active friends list.

so saying 'most people' don't want to know suggests that you don't get as many offers as you would like ?

remember this is a site for fun. it is not a quest to cram in as many meets as you can or to make up for what you feel is 'lost time' in a sexless marriage.

there is also no mention of your situation in your profile. i would insert something there. people like to know what they are dealing with.

remember, you are here as a single man and having been a member for a relatively long period, you will also know that very few single men get an easy ride on here.

you will never please everyone all of the time irregardless of your circumstances so the best option is to be honest and remain positive.

bleating about people not being interested in the forums will serve you more of an injustice than it will serve as an aid to you.

you are in a unique position in that you have the emotional bonds of a relationship and the 'blessing' of your wife to meet other people for sex.

to me (and without knowing the full circumstances), that is a positive thing - you are a lucky man to have emotional and marital security and a somewhat 'free reign' to meet other people for sex.

i have needs beyond the boundaries of my relationship but we have sat down and had grown up talks about what goes and what doesn't.

i never abuse those boundaries as i realise how fortunate i am to have someone who not only loves me and supports me but also trusts me not to take things too far.

as i said earlier in the post though, your situation will not please everyone and rather than being 'hung up' on what you can't have, concentrate on the people that are aware of your particular set of circumstances, have processed them and have still been willing to meet.

i wish you well in finding other understanding singles and couples to have fun times with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marky, as others have said, you are very fortunate to have a loving and understanding partner, who is willing for you to find sexual fulfilment elsewhere. But you have to accept that, although some females don't mind, others will be very reluctant to play with a married man.

In the interests of honesty, you should fully explain the situation in your profile, to enable potential meets to make an informed decision.

Also, I would suggest a re-think about the pics on your profile - remember to emphasise the positive things you have to offer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest on your profile about being married, and be patient.

Something that is often ignored/conveniently forgotten by some on here, is the fact that there are a fair few married ladies on here too!!

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