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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. " I agree with the first paragraph. | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. "   | |||
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"My wife loves a bit of rough handling and whilst I love to please her I find myself holding back a little. She's the love of my life and mother of my children, I just can't commit to 100% giving her the hard time she craves. I love seeing her pleasured by select people, we recently had a young man fuck her mouth whilst she was chained up. Ive never seen her take such a big cock so deep and it was a joy to watch. Anyone else find their feelings get in the way of something that feels a little unnatural despite knowing how much their partner enjoys it?" I think it shows you care. It sums up what I think swinging is. | |||
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"My wife loves a bit of rough handling and whilst I love to please her I find myself holding back a little. She's the love of my life and mother of my children, I just can't commit to 100% giving her the hard time she craves. I love seeing her pleasured by select people, we recently had a young man fuck her mouth whilst she was chained up. Ive never seen her take such a big cock so deep and it was a joy to watch. Anyone else find their feelings get in the way of something that feels a little unnatural despite knowing how much their partner enjoys it? I think it shows you care. It sums up what I think swinging is." Totally agree. | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. " ABSOLUTELY AWESOME coffee out of my mouth with a spurt, this is what makes true swinging so much fun direct and honest Fantastic post mate well done you | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. " Thanks, its been on my mind for a while and I've been grappling with ways to deal with it whilst supressing the feeling. The guy that had his cock jammed down her throat had no such reservations and all three of us enjoyed it immensely. I think I can deal with the role of facilitator for the more extreme stuff. | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. " This answer though!  | |||
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"If your uncomfortable playing rough with your wife then don't, if your happy for another guy to do this and it makes you all happy then do that. " Its a bit more nuanced than that, i love it but worry as i approach her limits and stop short. If it were a similar situation with another lady i think i could easily push past it. But you understand my general gist. | |||
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"My wife loves a bit of rough handling and whilst I love to please her I find myself holding back a little. She's the love of my life and mother of my children, I just can't commit to 100% giving her the hard time she craves. I love seeing her pleasured by select people, we recently had a young man fuck her mouth whilst she was chained up. Ive never seen her take such a big cock so deep and it was a joy to watch. Anyone else find their feelings get in the way of something that feels a little unnatural despite knowing how much their partner enjoys it?" Absolutely. Our relationship is built on kindness and love and you can’t put that aside when fucking. If J wants rough then we’d have to find a 3rd party to give it to her. | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. ABSOLUTELY AWESOME coffee out of my mouth with a spurt, this is what makes true swinging so much fun direct and honest Fantastic post mate well done you " Thanks, when you're 5 foot 8, rapidly greying hair and expanding waist line - it's better to lower the expectations of prospective mating partners and stick to a core competency. | |||
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"Indeed and it's quite sophisticated of you to acknowledge this. Ultimately this is where swinging can pay dividends to your sex life. I would say that if you are not good at something then don't try to be, sub-contract it out and focus on what you are good at. Personally I'm rubbish at licking fanny, can't repeat cum and am horrendous at role play. So i just focus on what i am good at... I'm a champion at sitting in a chair and watching others fuck. Thanks, its been on my mind for a while and I've been grappling with ways to deal with it whilst supressing the feeling. The guy that had his cock jammed down her throat had no such reservations and all three of us enjoyed it immensely. I think I can deal with the role of facilitator for the more extreme stuff. "Yeah i took part in a gangbang last weekend, it included double vaginal, anal and her going air tight. It wasn't really my cup of tea, i would have preferred a cuddle and a kiss... | |||
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