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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I have commented on another thread about this .my opinion is couples profiles should have pics of both .Too many have just the female on .

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?"

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples use the woman as bait. Some couples have men that aren't very attractive. Some couples are really just men wanking about the idea, with women's pics they stole off t'internet.

I always ask for a pic of them together if it feels a bit fishy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women are click bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult."

The OP is asking a question, not telling people what to do.

If you don't have 'couples' ticked your profile won't show up on searches for couples looking for couples so it won't be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult."

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man. "

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women "

Is it just the female meeting then?

Because even those single guys need to see a pic of both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women

Is it just the female meeting then?

Because even those single guys need to see a pic of both... "

No they don't....YOU might think they do but any guys we've met have never asked for a pic of me and since we don't struggle when we're looking to meet I assume it's working fine for us. If we ever had to meet couples then I'd add pics of me but until then we'll carry on doing as we're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not meeting couples then I guess it’s irrelevant but the amount of couple profiles that only have pics of her on drive me mad.

If I’m going to be playing with him I want to know what he looks like before I waste my time engaging in chit chat. Don’t expect face pics but a body shot or something at lease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently just split up with my ex we had a couples profile had pictures of both of us on there. It did use to annoy my ex tho how many couples profiles have no pictures of the male on. Surely your trying to create interest in both of you male and female so be better if couples did have at least one picture of there partner (male) on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women

Is it just the female meeting then?

Because even those single guys need to see a pic of both...

No they don't....YOU might think they do but any guys we've met have never asked for a pic of me and since we don't struggle when we're looking to meet I assume it's working fine for us. If we ever had to meet couples then I'd add pics of me but until then we'll carry on doing as we're doing "

Wow really?! I was taking the piss.

Well I'm surprised but if it works then don't fix it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are certainly not telling others how to have their profile and that wasn't the question or intention. We are a full swap couple looking for men, women and couples. So if a woman or another couple (or bi curious/sexual man) looks at our profile they can see what we both look like not just 'A'. We've also looked through a lot of M/F who are looking for other couples for full swap. 'J' is grinning at the profile but 'A' is scratching her head wondering what the male party looks like? There is no offence intended anywhere here, just asking that's all. Thanks.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Because I’m a shameless selfie taking slut.

Though I have tried to include Sir in amongst my collection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I’m a shameless selfie taking slut.

Though I have tried to include Sir in amongst my collection. "

His cock and lips are in

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Because I’m a shameless selfie taking slut.

Though I have tried to include Sir in amongst my collection.

His cock and lips are in "

Are you objectifying my bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were guilty of this. After a bit of advice we got some pics of him up last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I’m a shameless selfie taking slut.

Though I have tried to include Sir in amongst my collection.

His cock and lips are in

Are you objectifying my bf "

No its nice pics

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

This issue comes up over and over again. The simple answer is that couples post pictures on their profile that work for them. If they don't work for you move on to a profile that does.

Our profiles are just shop windows advertising our goods- it isn't up to anyone else to be disappointed, annoyed or critical of them. There are enough profiles on Fab that show just what you are looking for.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Because I’m a shameless selfie taking slut.

Though I have tried to include Sir in amongst my collection.

His cock and lips are in

Are you objectifying my bf

No its nice pics "

I think he’d like to be objectified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies for any offence, that wasn't our intention here and apologies if we're not being clear, we are not judging anyone why they choose not to put pictures of the male up either.

We are not saying you have to either. And yes we know we can ask but, but we're still interested why do couples choose to not put up many photos of the male party? Is it because of identifiable tattoos? Or a simple we choose not to because... Or something else?

Curious that's all. Thanks.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We only have a few pics of Mr up as although we meet couples he doesn’t play, his turn on is to watch before playing with me

Our preference is single guys so therefore they are only interested in what I look like really

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man. "
.

This

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

I always thought it was because the dude was ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

e're a little bit guilty of this. Upon reflection, I suspect the reason is that we're trying to attract bi-fem couples - so most of the emphasis is on the bi-fem bit.

I do see your point though.

However, given the vast amount of single male profiles on here, we consider it quite important to show that we do have the often 'elusive' female. By elusive, of course I mean fictitious.

I don't think there are many cases of faked male profiles...

In any case, I agree - and admit at least some guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was because the dude was ugly "

I second this I (Mr) have the odd picture dotted amongst the many pics of Mrs filth! We lure people in with our profile pic and purposely have a pic of me every so often to give some kind of consistent disappointment and ruin their hopes and dreams

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I always thought it was because the dude was ugly

I second this I (Mr) have the odd picture dotted amongst the many pics of Mrs filth! We lure people in with our profile pic and purposely have a pic of me every so often to give some kind of consistent disappointment and ruin their hopes and dreams "

Lure people in - love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was because the dude was ugly

I second this I (Mr) have the odd picture dotted amongst the many pics of Mrs filth! We lure people in with our profile pic and purposely have a pic of me every so often to give some kind of consistent disappointment and ruin their hopes and dreams "

Is that like edging?

Their cock gets hard looking at the missus then *whoommpf* a pic of you and the hard on goes....

another missus pic *kerchinnggg* ...

You're helping men have better stronger orgasms.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I always wondered why we struggled to get meets

In all seriousness we mainly meet single guys , and they aren’t in the slightest bit interested in what I look like .

If a tv or a single woman , or a couple want to meet us , we send a couple of face pics of ourselves together , but we don’t really look for these meets , hence more of my wife on the profile .

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By *idscouple999Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We have both, but very few show interest....we must be fuglies!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Apologies for any offence, that wasn't our intention here and apologies if we're not being clear, we are not judging anyone why they choose not to put pictures of the male up either.

We are not saying you have to either. And yes we know we can ask but, but we're still interested why do couples choose to not put up many photos of the male party? Is it because of identifiable tattoos? Or a simple we choose not to because... Or something else?

Curious that's all. Thanks. "

As I said it's simple - people set up a profile that works best for them. If the balance didn't work they would change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic has been done to death. At the end of the day people will put on their profile what the hell they want to and everyone else can suck it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was because the dude was ugly

I second this I (Mr) have the odd picture dotted amongst the many pics of Mrs filth! We lure people in with our profile pic and purposely have a pic of me every so often to give some kind of consistent disappointment and ruin their hopes and dreams

Is that like edging?

Their cock gets hard looking at the missus then *whoommpf* a pic of you and the hard on goes....

another missus pic *kerchinnggg* ...

You're helping men have better stronger orgasms. "

Oh bugger I guess it is a bit like edging and I didn't mean to help people have better stronger orgasm's I was aiming at coming across as cruel to give the people a look of disappointment that rivals the look on a small child's face when you tell them santa isn't real

Nice sky remote although it seems to be faulty as it doesn't have a penis next to it

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By *a and kaCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire(ish)

We hope our latest pic goes some way to re-addressing the balance Ka (fem) xx

Show me the money as well as the honey

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There's plenty of pics of both of us on our profile. There's also quite a few pics of us and other people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was because the dude was ugly

I second this I (Mr) have the odd picture dotted amongst the many pics of Mrs filth! We lure people in with our profile pic and purposely have a pic of me every so often to give some kind of consistent disappointment and ruin their hopes and dreams

Is that like edging?

Their cock gets hard looking at the missus then *whoommpf* a pic of you and the hard on goes....

another missus pic *kerchinnggg* ...

You're helping men have better stronger orgasms.

Oh bugger I guess it is a bit like edging and I didn't mean to help people have better stronger orgasm's I was aiming at coming across as cruel to give the people a look of disappointment that rivals the look on a small child's face when you tell them santa isn't real

Nice sky remote although it seems to be faulty as it doesn't have a penis next to it "

I'm relieved you got my sense of humour. X

I thought the Sky remote pics on here all had thumbs next to them. I need glasses.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women

Is it just the female meeting then?

Because even those single guys need to see a pic of both...

No they don't....YOU might think they do but any guys we've met have never asked for a pic of me and since we don't struggle when we're looking to meet I assume it's working fine for us. If we ever had to meet couples then I'd add pics of me but until then we'll carry on doing as we're doing "

Have to agree with this.

Our thing is MMF where the fellas are straight. We share a pic of us both with guys we are likely to want to meet, but there's never been an issue with our profile pics just showing MrsNWC because we're not advertising MrNWC.

Works well for us and we never, ever have any guys asking for pics of us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago."

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol"

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?"

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself"

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist."

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight "

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely a lack of male picture on couple profiles in my opinion.

If you're going to be arranging a meet it would be good to know what both halves of the couple look like.

I find pictures of the couple together are always nice too. Whether it be fully clothed or fucking hard.

Couples you should consider having equal or close amounts of photos of each other.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Apologies for any offence, that wasn't our intention here and apologies if we're not being clear, we are not judging anyone why they choose not to put pictures of the male up either.

We are not saying you have to either. And yes we know we can ask but, but we're still interested why do couples choose to not put up many photos of the male party? Is it because of identifiable tattoos? Or a simple we choose not to because... Or something else?

Curious that's all. Thanks. "

We have asked the same question before! The stock answer is confidentiality, but that seems a bit daft as one half has pic’s. A body shot should be enough, we don’t expect face pic’s. It is not hard & not every couple on hear is a major TV (as in television) personality! ; )

Clearly each to their own, but whilst we both admire the female form, one of us (at least) likes to ogle guys - especially the ones where the woman has interested me. Perhaps it is just clickbait, but if the guy doesn’t appear on first contact we walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday "

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever"

Thank you for your insightful input, and cutting repartee. I was clearly projecting just as you say.

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over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever

Thank you for your insightful input, and cutting repartee. I was clearly projecting just as you say. "
i put ? To ask and give abit of sarcasm back because as i said its wrong putting something you find a problem with and then also have it on your profile how hard is that to understand.i didnt say anything about the beginning of your comment I pulled you up on the last bit of your comment as the 1st bit is your opinion but the part i pulled you up on i thought was abit rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever

Thank you for your insightful input, and cutting repartee. I was clearly projecting just as you say. i put ? To ask and give abit of sarcasm back because as i said its wrong putting something you find a problem with and then also have it on your profile how hard is that to understand.i didnt say anything about the beginning of your comment I pulled you up on the last bit of your comment as the 1st bit is your opinion but the part i pulled you up on i thought was abit rich"

I have 5 public photos - one of them happens to be me in a suit. You're just using that one photo to back up an argument point to fit your agenda - thus missing the point entirely. Couples profiles = loads of photos of women and none of men, then perhaps one of a guy looking his 'best' in a suit, versus what he really looks like naked.

Seriously mate, I'm going to retire from this conversation now because you're never going to get it, and we're going round in circles.

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We try to keep the balance right with a mixture of pics of us together and of us individually. We have noticed a lot of couples profiles where its very heavily the woman only, so it doesn't give us a real idea of the couple together. As much as I appreciate the women's pics, I'd prefer a more balanced mix.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever

Thank you for your insightful input, and cutting repartee. I was clearly projecting just as you say. i put ? To ask and give abit of sarcasm back because as i said its wrong putting something you find a problem with and then also have it on your profile how hard is that to understand.i didnt say anything about the beginning of your comment I pulled you up on the last bit of your comment as the 1st bit is your opinion but the part i pulled you up on i thought was abit rich

I have 5 public photos - one of them happens to be me in a suit. You're just using that one photo to back up an argument point to fit your agenda - thus missing the point entirely. Couples profiles = loads of photos of women and none of men, then perhaps one of a guy looking his 'best' in a suit, versus what he really looks like naked.

Seriously mate, I'm going to retire from this conversation now because you're never going to get it, and we're going round in circles."
No your never going to get it dont judge a man by a photo of him in a suit what you think is from 8 years ago which could be you with your photos who knows accept you. You too stuck up and arrogant to accept the fact im right in what i pulled you up on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I both play on here and yes I will say I have more of her on mine then I have of me . Looks and sounds like we need to do some changing , and if you want to know that their is both of us just message me and I'll give you her FB name and we are not fake

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"There is definitely a lack of male picture on couple profiles in my opinion.

If you're going to be arranging a meet it would be good to know what both halves of the couple look like.

I find pictures of the couple together are always nice too. Whether it be fully clothed or fucking hard.

Couples you should consider having equal or close amounts of photos of each other. "

We have several nice pics of us both, but only share them with men who are in-the-running. Not much point before that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. Strangely i get a lot of messages from “couples” where the only person in the photos is a woman. Yet when it comes down to arranging something, the only one available to meet is the male with no photos.

It’s all very suspicious.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I can’t tar everybody with the same brush but going from some experience on here, several couples profiles with no male pics generally tells us it’s a single guy getting off on talking to the female half of the other couple he’s managed to ensnare. Some are genuine mind you, so don’t all jump on the righteous bandwagon and shoot me lol. We tend to follow our gut instinct. If it looks dodgy or sounds dodgy, it probably is dodgy.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been the same or donkeys years, and not just on here - invariably it's because you find the female half in good shape, and the male is overweight and not looking too great these days so they avoid using photos.

Then when you ask for one, you get one of him in a suit 8 years ago.

And there is you sitting in a suit in your profile picture lol

Can you explain the relevance of your comment?

Yes how does anyone know that yours isnt from 8 years ago just saying abit rich mentioning about males sending pictures in suites then your there with one yourself

I think you're missing the point of the thread, and my comment.

This is about couples profiles, and the reasons they often don't show the male half of the couple. It has nothing to do with me or my profile photos, all of which are recent for your information. Just because I coincidentally have a profile photo of me in a suit, is meaningless in the context of this discussion.

The thread is about constructive conversation and debate, so I would ask you kindly not to attempt to pervert the conversation onto other issues which don't exist.

Im not missing the point with anything you pointed out something which you find a problem with but yet have the same on your profile. I think your missing what im getting at, and coming back to the post how many of you single males ask for pictures of the male?? we have had 1000s of messages and all ask for pictures of the lady unless they are bi which barely pop up as it states im straight

OK, I can tell you're never going to get it, so I'm going to back down and leave you to your day. My days of arguing the toss with strangers on the Internet are long gone!

Happy Tuesday

Thats how you know you messed up with that comment no1 knows whats pictures are recent or not doesnt matter how much you say they are. And you obviously are not going to get my point, dont judge men in suites that you think are from 8 years unless you used the post to hint yours are??? Yes have a nice day mr clever

Thank you for your insightful input, and cutting repartee. I was clearly projecting just as you say. i put ? To ask and give abit of sarcasm back because as i said its wrong putting something you find a problem with and then also have it on your profile how hard is that to understand.i didnt say anything about the beginning of your comment I pulled you up on the last bit of your comment as the 1st bit is your opinion but the part i pulled you up on i thought was abit rich

I have 5 public photos - one of them happens to be me in a suit. You're just using that one photo to back up an argument point to fit your agenda - thus missing the point entirely. Couples profiles = loads of photos of women and none of men, then perhaps one of a guy looking his 'best' in a suit, versus what he really looks like naked.

Seriously mate, I'm going to retire from this conversation now because you're never going to get it, and we're going round in circles. No your never going to get it dont judge a man by a photo of him in a suit what you think is from 8 years ago which could be you with your photos who knows accept you. You too stuck up and arrogant to accept the fact im right in what i pulled you up on"

I completely understand what you're getting at - I'm also wearing a suit. What you're missing is the fact that I have 5 photos of myself in public which negate your point.

You have zero on your profile.

Have a nice day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG!!! I thought it was just me, it does my head in. If I’m gonna meet a couple I wanna see what they both look like, if there profile was full of male pics they’d be accused of being a fake.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ive said this many times,if they just meet single men then fair enough.

If they are looking for a couple ,there should be visible pics of both people on their profile.

Im straight,so lady pics do nothing for me.its one of the reasons we now use our single profiles to meet and use couple profile for clubs and socials

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hello

x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Ive said this many times,if they just meet single men then fair enough.

If they are looking for a couple ,there should be visible pics of both people on their profile.

Im straight,so lady pics do nothing for me.its one of the reasons we now use our single profiles to meet and use couple profile for clubs and socials

Miss"

"Should"?

If it works for them why fix it? You "should" just look elsewhere.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Ive said this many times,if they just meet single men then fair enough.

If they are looking for a couple ,there should be visible pics of both people on their profile.

Im straight,so lady pics do nothing for me.its one of the reasons we now use our single profiles to meet and use couple profile for clubs and socials

Miss

"Should"?

If it works for them why fix it? You "should" just look elsewhere."

We do thanks

Doesnt stop them messaging us

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Agree we have torso pics of us both - ok more of fem but more photo opportunities with underwear. Must add couple one and bum pic of male and some more male. When looking at pics its nice to see the whole package that goes for all profiles

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

There are no pictures of my hubby on our profile as we clearly state that he does not play. We have a couples profile as he is always present at any meets. I also state that I will never show face pics but it seems to work for me.

I would rather there were no pics on profiles than some of the ones with loads of pics 'borrowed' off the web

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss "

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue!

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

We find it annoying that most couples don't have male pics, and to be honest most of the time the natural reaction is to assume the worst case scenario, so unless there is something else that really grabs us about the profile we probably won't bother sending a message, so really I suppose they are limiting their opportunities by not having pics, but that's their choice I guess

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By *hiny-funCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

does`t seem to matter how many pics of the hubby or me are on our profile we still struggle to arrange meets x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We find it annoying that most couples don't have male pics, and to be honest most of the time the natural reaction is to assume the worst case scenario, so unless there is something else that really grabs us about the profile we probably won't bother sending a message, so really I suppose they are limiting their opportunities by not having pics, but that's their choice I guess"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" does`t seem to matter how many pics of the hubby or me are on our profile we still struggle to arrange meets x"

youve got 16 verifications so aren’t doing that badly !!!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes, we have mentioned this too. Admittedly ours are quite me focused but there are some of SSS too as obv there has to be an all round attraction. We do appreciate that photos of the F is most likely the ‘draw’ so do tend to have me as a profile pic.

I’m definitely put off by a profile with none at all of the guy.

Next photo session will be SSS’s turn to be the object of the attention

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By *ountyladMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Perhaps it's a lot simpler than a lot of the messages are making it ouit to be. In the couple if the wife is attractive and the guy is just Pig Ugly you just use the wifes pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put photos up because we like taking the odd picture. There's one of my arse.

Getting interest isn't a problem, however the hassle of trying to arrange a meet that then gets blown out, or you find the other people aren't what you were led to believe makes us very sceptical of bothering.

Clubs, parties, socials are where we actually have found our circle of swinging friends.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Perhaps it's a lot simpler than a lot of the messages are making it ouit to be. In the couple if the wife is attractive and the guy is just Pig Ugly you just use the wifes pics. "

Well MrNWC certainly isn't pig ugly. Quite the opposite, which is why we find it hard to find handsome men to match. The only reason we don't have public pics of him is that we aren't trying to attract a woman, couple or a bi-guy.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue! "

So you fit the “jog on by” then as we said, your loss.

It’s no wonder with all the back biting and bitching on here that the site is going downhill.

If the folk on here were real swingers then the above comment wouldn’t be necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think until you meet you never know. Pics help to see a little of what some people are like but sometimes people don't send their latest anyway

Not all profiles and pics are a true reflection.... we have many times been even happier on meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue!

So you fit the “jog on by” then as we said, your loss.

It’s no wonder with all the back biting and bitching on here that the site is going downhill.

If the folk on here were real swingers then the above comment wouldn’t be necessary."

What is your definition of a 'real swinger'? People that will fuck anything that breathes?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue!

So you fit the “jog on by” then as we said, your loss.

It’s no wonder with all the back biting and bitching on here that the site is going downhill.

If the folk on here were real swingers then the above comment wouldn’t be necessary.

What is your definition of a 'real swinger'? People that will fuck anything that breathes?"

Not at all, we would expect a level of tact and decorum along with respect for how others choose to play.

We each play our own way and run our profiles as we choose, so why do so many on here feel the need to pass judgement?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue!

So you fit the “jog on by” then as we said, your loss.

It’s no wonder with all the back biting and bitching on here that the site is going downhill.

If the folk on here were real swingers then the above comment wouldn’t be necessary.

What is your definition of a 'real swinger'? People that will fuck anything that breathes?

Not at all, we would expect a level of tact and decorum along with respect for how others choose to play.

We each play our own way and run our profiles as we choose, so why do so many on here feel the need to pass judgement?

Mr "

Are they passing judgement or just voicing their opinions? You will have things that you like or dislike. Doesn't mean you're judging.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A

It’s easy, chat to them if you get a good feel for them then just ask.

If he’s not for you then say no thank you.

We have none on our profile or no face pics as we like to remain discrete but we don’t judge how others choose to run their profiles so expect the same in return, not much to ask but some seem to have a major axe to grind so no matter what you do, they will always moan about something.

In our case we would just say “jog on” your loss

Quite possibly why you’ve met far more men than couples!

If I was looking for a couple I wouldn’t spend ages messaging only to find that he wasn’t my type down the line - and I doubt many others would want to either!

If there aren’t good pics of Male and female on the profile then I won’t start a dialogue!

So you fit the “jog on by” then as we said, your loss.

It’s no wonder with all the back biting and bitching on here that the site is going downhill.

If the folk on here were real swingers then the above comment wouldn’t be necessary.

What is your definition of a 'real swinger'? People that will fuck anything that breathes?

Not at all, we would expect a level of tact and decorum along with respect for how others choose to play.

We each play our own way and run our profiles as we choose, so why do so many on here feel the need to pass judgement?

Mr

Are they passing judgement or just voicing their opinions? You will have things that you like or dislike. Doesn't mean you're judging. "

What on here, really.

You are joking right

Hence our comment on “real swingers”

We have a life as well so swinging is an added bonus to our life, time permitting..

We play with who and how we choose there are no rights or wrongs or any rule books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we have mentioned this too. Admittedly ours are quite me focused but there are some of SSS too as obv there has to be an all round attraction. We do appreciate that photos of the F is most likely the ‘draw’ so do tend to have me as a profile pic.

I’m definitely put off by a profile with none at all of the guy.

Next photo session will be SSS’s turn to be the object of the attention "

Good idea re next photo session as your profile is pretty female orientated for a newbie couple who's male half has been on the scene for years. Don't need to do the click bait approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best products go on the front of the display. Everyone knows this, the less saleable stuff gets bunged in as a deal with the good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best products go on the front of the display. Everyone knows this, the less saleable stuff gets bunged in as a deal with the good stuff "

A bit like a BOGOF at the supermarket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have plenty on our profile. Just don't want just anyone seeing them. Happily send if anybody asks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have plenty on our profile. Just don't want just anyone seeing them. Happily send if anybody asks x"

But why though? Why are you hiding them? You're not hiding the female pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have plenty on our profile. Just don't want just anyone seeing them. Happily send if anybody asks x

But why though? Why are you hiding them? You're not hiding the female pics"
fair point. I'll show a few of him too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our view is that we have enough photos of Mr and probably an excessive amount of me. The photos of him give an idea as to his body shape and how he presents himself, with face pics in friends gallery. We don't show naked pics of him, because we assume that nobody is interested in pics of middle aged men with dad's bods. We show him looking at his best which is how he'll be looking when we go to a swing party, and that is no less that what I expect to see in the man if we are looking at a couples profile. We show more revealing pics of me, because we think people will enjoy those pics and we enjoy taking them. But those pics of me are just an added extra really.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our view is that we have enough photos of Mr and probably an excessive amount of me. The photos of him give an idea as to his body shape and how he presents himself, with face pics in friends gallery. We don't show naked pics of him, because we assume that nobody is interested in pics of middle aged men with dad's bods. We show him looking at his best which is how he'll be looking when we go to a swing party, and that is no less that what I expect to see in the man if we are looking at a couples profile. We show more revealing pics of me, because we think people will enjoy those pics and we enjoy taking them. But those pics of me are just an added extra really.

Mrs"

So another way of saying that the woman is the bait and the man is the eyesore. Seems to be very very common in here

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By *iWifeHappyLifeCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well that escalated quickly

We don't have many of J simply because he hasn't really taken that kind of picture before, so we took one of him and one of us together to put on the profile. In the meantime he works away so I take pictures for him and post some of them on fab. There's an accurate representation of both of us on there so I don't think we're being misleading

B xx

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We try to have a good mix of both. Plenty of me and him together plus us both alone. So if people message us then they must already like what they see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

And yet, strangely, couples' cams tend to only feature the bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have pics up of “the bloke” on our profile, female ones are in private as any meet will e between the two guys so see little point of having pics up of me.

Mrs

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have roughly an equal amount of photos of each other on our profile as well as ones of us together.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

I get sent messages by many couples who claim to be looking for single females for them both to play with. Most have either no pics of the Male - or a hastily taken pic of his penis or torso - yet have dozens of the female!

I tend to delete them!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"

And yet, strangely, couples' cams tend to only feature the bloke "

Yes we’ve found that too! Guess the Mrs must be ‘out for the evening’

At least when we’re on cam you always get both of us

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any photos we post of (mr) are only ever fabbed by male profiles, and very rarely get more than 10 fabs.

Mrs is not that keen on having pics up either, but if you don’t you are often labelled as fake.

Not particularly looking to meet off this site anyway, just chat and have a moan now and again. So we post as liitle pics as poss, cos over the years we’ve put loads up on various sites and now frankly its yaaaaawn.

Why others post few men, we have no idea. Probably because they feel best with that, nothing deeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only looking for Males preferably single, so there are no pictures of the Male on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mister is a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mister is a minger "

No he's not! Handsome as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find this too and I mrs force find this very frustrating as I want to see what the guy looks like!!

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester


"We try to have a good mix of both. Plenty of me and him together plus us both alone. So if people message us then they must already like what they see."

We're the same, try to maintain a balance of photos, but sometimes I can get a bit snap happy. Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a genuine married couple but because of my husbands job we keep his pics in friends only or private as we found guys on here from where he works and took one of our pics and put it on snap chat so for those reasons we like to keep his face pics hidden unless we have spoken and accept friends requests

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By *aitlinRobCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I guess it depends on what they are looking for and who they are trying to attract?

This totally

We have no interest in meeting other couples so it's pretty much irrelevant if there's pics of me or not.

Maybe it'd be best just to let everyone run their profile how they see fit and if you don't like it then move onto the next one. It's really not that difficult.

But if your meeting singles as a couple I would still expect to see a photo of the man.

Sorry I should've been clearer....we're not meeting couples or single women

Is it just the female meeting then?

Because even those single guys need to see a pic of both...

No they don't....YOU might think they do but any guys we've met have never asked for a pic of me and since we don't struggle when we're looking to meet I assume it's working fine for us. If we ever had to meet couples then I'd add pics of me but until then we'll carry on doing as we're doing "

It's the same for us, we only meet single guys and none have ever been interested in what Rob looks like. Cat

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

Totally agree.

Although it’s nice to see pics of the sexy ladies, need to see at least one of the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a hotwife, we’re only looking for single males to play with mrs. So pics of mr would be pointless to our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x"

Don't they send it when you chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x

Totally agree.

Although it’s nice to see pics of the sexy ladies, need to see at least one of the guy.

"

We agree with you on this .. It's always nice to see the male in a couples profile

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Hi all, be gentle lol.

We were wondering why when we look through M/F couple profiles there are usually more photos of the female than the man. As sexy as the females are, 'A' would like to see the males body, after all she is looking at having sex with him and it would be nice to see what he looked like.

Thanks all.

J n A x

Totally agree.

Although it’s nice to see pics of the sexy ladies, need to see at least one of the guy.

We agree with you on this .. It's always nice to see the male in a couples profile "

This thread was around before I joined, but I'd agree when couples are involved. Equality and all that. I don't have that luxury as a single, can only show what I've got.

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