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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. I normally say something ridiculous like two - only once I've actually said how many. It's not really of any concern to others and someone can lie easily even if they do say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I say it's none of their business. Nosy fuckers!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I honestly have no idea of the answer so could only give an estimate.

I'm not ashamed that its probably higher than the avetage but I don't see how its anybody elses business either.

I suppose it would depend how they asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and I say it's none of their business. Nosy fuckers! "

Well that’s what I thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive slept with hundreds me, night after night at the bushcraft, feild, and wild camping convention, some right snoring buggers as well as those that talked whilst they slept

We are talking sleeping side by side arnt we, and not havin S.X ? as I did always wonder what one lass really meant when she winked, nodded, and then said that her bush could do with abit of a tidy up one night....... I just thought that she was abit mental, and had something in her eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how many people I've slept with.

The fact someone would ask me that would suspect they aren't my kind of person though (assuming this was a prospective partner type scenario)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly have no idea of the answer so could only give an estimate.

I'm not ashamed that its probably higher than the avetage but I don't see how its anybody elses business either.

I suppose it would depend how they asked."

“How many men have you slept with” was the question!!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea how many people I've slept with.

The fact someone would ask me that would suspect they aren't my kind of person though (assuming this was a prospective partner type scenario) "

I'd have to sit down and work it out lol and still wouldn't be 100 %

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's a question I would never answer, especially at my age, in fact I don't even know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would mind being asked, it's just a question, no different to what car do you drive or where did you go on holidays.

I don't know the answer as I've lost count but wouldn't consider it rude to be asked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I honestly have no idea of the answer so could only give an estimate.

I'm not ashamed that its probably higher than the avetage but I don't see how its anybody elses business either.

I suppose it would depend how they asked.

“How many men have you slept with” was the question!!

Xx"

"Why do you want to know?" would be my answer

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

Unless you’re talking about moving in together I can’t see how it’s anyones business but yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I would mind being asked, it's just a question, no different to what car do you drive or where did you go on holidays.

I don't know the answer as I've lost count but wouldn't consider it rude to be asked "

It's very different to being asked about cars or holidays, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this conversation with a few people about numbers. I don't find it particularly a big deal.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

I'd say...what, last night? This week, month, year, ever?

People ask stupid questions sometimes when they haven't got any idea of what they'd do with the answer...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I used to have a wall chart with comments!

That's how little action I got!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do know and it's not many, I'd probably tell you if was under the covers with you, but not just in general conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked this on here, and if I was, I'd tell them that it's none of their business and the conversation would end there. Anyone asking that sort of question probably isn't the kind of person I want to be intimate with.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count ?"

stopped counting like 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "
my ex husband asked me and I lied by a big amount and said about 10. He was horrified.. I was thinking thankfully id left off a good few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and my answer is always the same now. More than last year... less than next. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been asked but my answer would be I don't keep count, I'm not into notches on the bedpost. If it matters we aren't going to be compatible. T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the relevance in asking such a question. The sensible question is asking about if they practice safe sex or not.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'd just turn around and say "more than 1, less than 100..... i think!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't answer XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely personal I'd say, but that said, a lot less than the average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting after 10. I have absolutely no idea. Couldn't even give a guestimate

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

Just say 1 or 2, you don't have to count the ones where you were to busy fucking to actually get any sleep

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

So personally, you find this personal

Would you rather it were more.....

impersonal?

Personally, (I think)

That an impersonal wink

Is, personally, an impersonal person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I would mind being asked, it's just a question, no different to what car do you drive or where did you go on holidays.

I don't know the answer as I've lost count but wouldn't consider it rude to be asked

It's very different to being asked about cars or holidays, in my experience "

Perhaps, but I don't find it any more intrusive or nosey than being asked about how many holidays I've been on or how many cars I've had or other questions of that type, It's just sex, it's nothing odd unusual or different about it, it's just an inquisitive mind at work, and the subject isn't a closely guarded secret or something I'm bothered about discussing, our sexual sides are just as much part of us as any other, nothing odd about talking about it and how many lovers one has had might be a point of interest to some.

I guess to others it's a little more a sensitive subject, but difference makes the world a more varied place I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were. "

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet. "

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Yes and I say it's none of their business. Nosy fuckers! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been asked but would tell the truth if I was.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I'd just be honest and say I lost count

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx

Just say 1 or 2, you don't have to count the ones where you were to busy fucking to actually get any sleep "

That's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers."

Maybe our opposing sexes give us a different angle on the answer to this then and i can see what your driving at...a little food for thought here.

I would say though, those 'some men' would be getting very ignored by me! Let them judge, we can never please everybody.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not many, I snore. However I’ve had fun with a few as has L with her girly friends.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

That's nobody's business but mine lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

'Slept' with... Probably over a 1000

The joys of school dorms, barrack life & hostel backpacking

Had sex with... Quite a lot less

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Can honestly say no meet has ever asked only girl or boyfriends and I've been honest however since swinging I can't say I've counted so couldn't really give an honest answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slept with my ex husband but had sex with loads of guys lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"slept with my ex husband but had sex with loads of guys lol "

I've slept with loads but never had set with them

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think the answer is "Not enough", or we wouldn't be here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Depends who is asking. A random stranger can do one.

My mega best friends can ask me anything about Fab & men

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think the answer is "Not enough", or we wouldn't be here."

That's so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully those i talk to have never asked. I probably wouldn't stay chatting to them either if they did. I moved on from that sort of question when i left college

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By *omario11Man
over a year ago

North

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Answer with any number you pluck from thin air if you want to, it's utterly impossible to know if it's the truth. It's a moot question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers."

I agree with both of you. Which is why I say it would depend on who's asking and why I think they want to know. I am not ashamed of all my ahem! experience... anyone that is horrified by my number is probably not for me sexually and I'm not for them. Having that discussion is one way to find out. As for the whole "men are studs but women are sluts" thing, oh don't get me started!! Still a surprisingly common view, even on fab it seems

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

If we put notches on the bed of our combined we would have a pile of sawdust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again I would say... I don't kiss and tell ...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have no idea how many people I've slept with.

The fact someone would ask me that would suspect they aren't my kind of person though (assuming this was a prospective partner type scenario)

I'd have to sit down and work it out lol and still wouldn't be 100 % "

This!

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

A wee too for the blokes, if a girlfriend asks this question, tell them it doesn't matter as they will be your last. That tends to get a few brownie points and some good lovin

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Funny enough , this question was brought up with the lads at work , as one guy was boasting he had just hit reached 50 girls he has `shagged` .

We told him shagging the GF 48 times didn`t count lol .

So the qustion was put about , most owed up to about 10 partners ........i kept quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers."

I have asked the question of how many people they have slept with for one reason only, it just sends my imagination into overdrive especially if I look at their profile photos. As for judging people, I don't think any of us on here can judge, we're all here for the same reason

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I can't even calculate the number.

E.g. My last meet was a straight MMF. Did I have sex with one person or two?

Do we count blowjobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even calculate the number.

E.g. My last meet was a straight MMF. Did I have sex with one person or two?

Do we count blowjobs?

"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still a virgin. ...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

We’ve been asked a few times , by potential playmates , and by people when we’ve met up .

It is a kind of personal question , but then we are on here , and we show our verification summary , so maybe not as personal as it would be if asked in our vanilla life .

We usually say way more than our veris show , as we meet more people not on fab as we do that are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx

We’ve been asked a few times , by potential playmates , and by people when we’ve met up .

It is a kind of personal question , but then we are on here , and we show our verification summary , so maybe not as personal as it would be if asked in our vanilla life .

We usually say way more than our veris show , as we meet more people not on fab as we do that are ."

Can you hear the horrified *gasp* over the internet when you tell them that?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx

We’ve been asked a few times , by potential playmates , and by people when we’ve met up .

It is a kind of personal question , but then we are on here , and we show our verification summary , so maybe not as personal as it would be if asked in our vanilla life .

We usually say way more than our veris show , as we meet more people not on fab as we do that are .

Can you hear the horrified *gasp* over the internet when you tell them that? "

Sometimes we can , but that’s ok as we wouldn’t gel with them anyway .

More often than not we get a positive reaction as most people who contact us on here appreciate the fact that we are likely to turn up and have fun though

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

The number of Veris are a very poor indicator of sexual numbers.

I often verify people I haven't had sex with. They could be people I have met socially.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Never asked...but the answer "No fucking idea" may cause issues.

I think that anyone seriously asking that should not be here.

Just saying.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx my ex husband asked me and I lied by a big amount and said about 10. He was horrified.. I was thinking thankfully id left off a good few. "

Why was he horrified?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were.

Aren't many questions asked simply to judge?

Why else would people ask about say where you were educated, what you do for work, what you drive, what beliefs you hold, what we would do if X or y happened...we ask questions to build up a picture of a person, see what they are like and if they would make a suitable friend/lover/employee etc etc and this is how we get the measure of each other, by communication

We answer questions like this all day long, hardly registering them but the moment we perceive our sexual side might be judged , we clam up and go quiet.

It’s a fair point. And, you’re quite right, it’s getting to know someone.

Unfortunately, some men think your number of partners determines whether you’re a ‘good girl’/‘decent’ or not... and whether you are worthy of respect.

Many archaic men equate these two things.

And of course, by general societal standards.. this judgment doesn’t apply to men.

I’d rather someone were to judge if I was a ‘good girl’ on the basis of my kindness and honour rather than my numbers.

I have asked the question of how many people they have slept with for one reason only, it just sends my imagination into overdrive especially if I look at their profile photos. As for judging people, I don't think any of us on here can judge, we're all here for the same reason "

I like to ask because i usually follow it up with "which one was the best and why?" As a way to try and tease out the type of sex they like and hence, the type of sex we should have. I also have a working theory that there's a minimum number of partners one needs to have had before they become especially good at sex and i like to test my theory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no ones business but yours

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The number of Veris are a very poor indicator of sexual numbers.

I often verify people I haven't had sex with. They could be people I have met socially. "

This can be true , and in most cases is .

But not in our case as every veri is from a meet we have had sex with .

Although we have met up with just as many people we haven’t had sex with , we always insist that they don’t verify us if we don’t play .

If they aren’t for us we see no point in saying we met them and felt they weren’t for us for one reason or another . And we don’t do organised or socials in any way shape or form .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say how many fags have u smoked or drinks have you had. And it would be far more than men i have slept with.

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By *ozartCouple
over a year ago

newbury

Shouldent everyone’s anwswer on here be ,not enough !

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

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By *mynclMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mine would be zero, I’m still a virgin

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt. "

She got a raw deal then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is being fingered sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, im in my 50's, lost count in my 20's

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Is being fingered sex?"

No, i tried claiming that the boost my numbers as a teenager and it wasn't counted

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"More than 2 less than 4,000" and watch their face

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

See I wouldn't know how to answer that because I wouldn't know what counts.

Just vaginal penetration?

What about all other stuff, oral, fingering, and so on? If you'd done all that with someone but not had penetration, would that count or not?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

My answer would be one less than it might have been!

Not a question from a swinger really is it?

H

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then "

How so??

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I have on occasion asked yes. I'm not ashamed of telling how many I have slept with, which is actually a small number which for some is off putting as I haven't had sex with numbers they would consider as "experienced". I ask as I don't want to meet the town/city bike (male or female). Guess those who have had sex with loads prefer those who have slept with loads and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked once, outwith fab. Even when I thought I'd got them all I would be driving past somewhere and something would switch in my head and I'd smile and remember something else. In all honesty I don't think I'd matters. Not really.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then

How so??"

Because she neither got an answer nor ended up being the last person you slept with

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have on occasion asked yes. I'm not ashamed of telling how many I have slept with, which is actually a small number which for some is off putting as I haven't had sex with numbers they would consider as "experienced". I ask as I don't want to meet the town/city bike (male or female). Guess those who have had sex with loads prefer those who have slept with loads and vice versa."

What qualifies as the ‘town bike’?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have on occasion asked yes. I'm not ashamed of telling how many I have slept with, which is actually a small number which for some is off putting as I haven't had sex with numbers they would consider as "experienced". I ask as I don't want to meet the town/city bike (male or female). Guess those who have had sex with loads prefer those who have slept with loads and vice versa."

Such a delightful turn of phrase ‘ town / city bike .... and no it’s not the case that like attracts like as we have met lots of first timers .

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Yes, I have....it seems to matter to some people. And it can go both ways. Some potential playmates enjoy someone who's slept with lots of people because it might be considered "naughty" and indicates some experience. Others prefer someone who has not slept with lots of people as it might suggest they are choosy.

I never mind answering honestly.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Who cares ..... as long as protection is used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than one and thats all if they are that bothered they should get of fab and sites like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked, i tell them A LOT....... Im a honest hoe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be an assumption on this thread that if someone asks this question they are being judgemental or disapproving. The times that I've discussed this sort of thing with others it's purely been because I enjoy talking about sex and sharing experiences. I also enjoy knowing that I'm not the only one who is promiscuous. Such questions are just part of conversation to me. I don't feel the need to show off about sexual partners, but neither do I feel the need to be secretive or overly private. Having multiple sex partners is as normal to me as a swingers as playing a game of tennis to a tennis player is.

Mrs

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"There seems to be an assumption on this thread that if someone asks this question they are being judgemental or disapproving. The times that I've discussed this sort of thing with others it's purely been because I enjoy talking about sex and sharing experiences. I also enjoy knowing that I'm not the only one who is promiscuous. Such questions are just part of conversation to me. I don't feel the need to show off about sexual partners, but neither do I feel the need to be secretive or overly private. Having multiple sex partners is as normal to me as a swingers as playing a game of tennis to a tennis player is.

Mrs

"

This !!

I don't mind talking about number of sex partners as part of casual even sexy conversation with other men and women it's good fun.

I generally have to say it's an "obscene" number and then give a guestimate because I don't know the exact number. I'm often surprised that there are other girls way more "accomplished" than me but sometimes I've seen jaws drop open when I give that guestimate. But no one is judgemental. Point is that as part of casual conversation this is an OK question to ask.

Now, if this question was part of a job interview I would have a different response !

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I’ve. Only slept with one. But ffucked loads?.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I'm not sure I'd answer it.

I wouldn't of thought any prospective partner would ask these days... how wrong am I lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm astonished the number of times I've been asked this, often by men fairly new to Fab and I do think they are looking to judge. It's a ridiculous question to ask someone on here and I usually tell them 'Millions'. The conversation rarely goes much further. I like the idea of a chain of questions getting them to precisely define 'slept with' tho. It would perhaps make the realise how ridiculous the question is.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It depends on the context.

In general chat with swinging friends, I'd be honest and say I really don't know, I don't count. It also depends on what is being counted.

In vanilla life, in most cases, I'd tell them it's none of their business. I might occasionally give my Fab answer... Usually a good way to get rid of creepy guys

Nita

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

In one night

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never been asked this but my answer would be none of your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get affronted and and tell them not to be so rude!

Actually no, I'd just tell 'em. Doesn't bother me any more than any other subject really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being fingered sex?

No, i tried claiming that the boost my numbers as a teenager and it wasn't counted"

I'm not counting blow jobs either then.

I wouldn't tell anyone even if I knew the number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefere to say with How many nationalities I slept with. Travelling a little

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By *addiesgirl84Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

I honestly wouldnt know, when I was a teen and woke up not knowing excatly how many id done over the weekend I thought why bother counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who asked me.

I don't know the answer to be honest - but it's just a question - why get your knickers in a twist about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you’re talking about moving in together I can’t see how it’s anyones business but yours "

Even then it’s not their business. We all have a past. If pressed for an answer then just say “more than one, but less than a thousand”.... treat it as a joke question by giving a joke answer!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It's not a question that I ask often, but I do prefer promiscuous and experienced ladies. As a long term and committed non-monogamous person myself I certainly never judge.

However, nobody is obliged to answer and it's certainly not a question for the first few messages.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

Slept with - a couple Had sex with, well the answer is probably different, but never thought to keep a score

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then

How so??

Because she neither got an answer nor ended up being the last person you slept with "

Didnt need to know, like i didnt need to know her past count so i didnt ask. Did it cause us to split up..nope..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then

How so??

Because she neither got an answer nor ended up being the last person you slept with

Didnt need to know, like i didnt need to know her past count so i didnt ask. Did it cause us to split up..nope.. "

But sometimes it's just interesting to know about the past of someone who is close. Sure nobody needs to know, but if 2 people are close it doesn't need to be a secret either. Same way nobody needs to know who their partners best friends at primary is, but it's nice to build up a holistic picture of someone's life. Sex is just one aspect of life that is fun to talk about.

Mrs

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask. "

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive? "

Questions or conversation openers need to be appropriate to the situation and the individual. Asking about sexual experiences or such like with a fellow swinger, if relevant to the conversation, I wouldn't have thought is a big deal. And it's not like they have to answer.

Mrs

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive? "

My point is just that the question isn't inherently offensive, it's context dependant.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

Questions or conversation openers need to be appropriate to the situation and the individual. Asking about sexual experiences or such like with a fellow swinger, if relevant to the conversation, I wouldn't have thought is a big deal. And it's not like they have to answer.

Mrs "

Personally, I wouldn't be offended at all by the question, but I think most people would, especially women, given the possibility for disapproval. . Hence, I wouldn't ask anyone unless I knew them very well or I knew that they carried it as a badge of pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person is asking this question... it’s simply to judge you by the answer.

Complete turn off, I refuse to answer. And in most cases, the entire conversation is over... for good.

I’m more interested in how you had sex with people than how many there were. "

Excellent point.....why ask the question except to make the person feel small by the answer.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

i dont care, i say loads and loads, just to make them feel it was worth asking

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Have been asked and I say the truth, I don't know. I lost track at 7 and not someone who keeps a list of everyone. I think it's not over 30 but I don't know.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

My point is just that the question isn't inherently offensive, it's context dependant. "

Nothing is inherently offensive and it does all depend on context. However, for most people, a question about numbers of sexual partners from someone they don't know very well will be considered offensive.

My point is that comparing a question like that with a question that is obviously inoffensive to most people was silly.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's a terrible question and one no one should ask. What's your pussy for to do with them? I actually haven't counted since I got over being a teenager.

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

I always reply that i dont want to be judged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone come across this an been asked how many men/women they have slept with?!

Personally I find it a really personal question!

What are people’s opinions????? What would you say if asked???

Xx "

It is something that we wish we had kept a count of, just for our own interest really,.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

My point is just that the question isn't inherently offensive, it's context dependant.

Nothing is inherently offensive and it does all depend on context. However, for most people, a question about numbers of sexual partners from someone they don't know very well will be considered offensive.

My point is that comparing a question like that with a question that is obviously inoffensive to most people was silly. "

If i ask you "how long have you known you are a cunt?" That is inherently offensive although you can still choose not to take offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask. "

What makes you think they are offended?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

What makes you think they are offended?"

The responses on the thread...

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By *roseccoandaleWoman
over a year ago

close

I ac

actually dont know!!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

My point is just that the question isn't inherently offensive, it's context dependant.

Nothing is inherently offensive and it does all depend on context. However, for most people, a question about numbers of sexual partners from someone they don't know very well will be considered offensive.

My point is that comparing a question like that with a question that is obviously inoffensive to most people was silly.

If i ask you "how long have you known you are a cunt?" That is inherently offensive although you can still choose not to take offence. "

Not at all. It would usually be offensive, but banter between lads? Not necessarily so.

Anyway your original point appeared to be that they fact that you could refuse to answer a question meant it wasn't offensive, hence your comparison with a pretty much always inoffensive question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you’re talking about moving in together I can’t see how it’s anyones business but yours "

I don't see how it is relevant in that context either.

You meet someone, you fall in love, you decide to commit to each other, you decide to move in together because you want to spend time together...

If the number of previous sexual partners is a deal breaker, you probably shouldn't be together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

What makes you think they are offended?

The responses on the thread... "

Maybe it's embarrassment because they only fucked 3 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My number with men is zero. If that helps. Well except that one time when gangbangs go wrong....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

People get offended because they take it that the question implies "if it is a number I consider to be too large, I will disapprove" and to be fair it often does imply that.

And on your general point, it's a little silly, I f I may so. If I introduced you, for the first time, to my mum who is in her seventies and your first question to her is "tell me Mrs W, do you like to take it up the arse?" are you saying that because she can refuse to answer the question it isn't offensive?

My point is just that the question isn't inherently offensive, it's context dependant.

Nothing is inherently offensive and it does all depend on context. However, for most people, a question about numbers of sexual partners from someone they don't know very well will be considered offensive.

My point is that comparing a question like that with a question that is obviously inoffensive to most people was silly.

If i ask you "how long have you known you are a cunt?" That is inherently offensive although you can still choose not to take offence.

Not at all. It would usually be offensive, but banter between lads? Not necessarily so.

Anyway your original point appeared to be that they fact that you could refuse to answer a question meant it wasn't offensive, hence your comparison with a pretty much always inoffensive question. "

Not quite. My point was that not much about my life inherently 'the business' of any other member of public so saying the question is "none of your business" doesn't make much sense.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To all the people saying "it's none of their business", do you realise that nobody is obligated to answer any question from a member of the public? My choice of electricity supplier is none of your business either but i won't get offended if you ask.

What makes you think they are offended?

The responses on the thread...

Maybe it's embarrassment because they only fucked 3 people. "

The only time i ever resented the question was as a uni student when my numbers had stalled for a long time. I mean if you can't get laid in a university then you really are doing something wrong... twas embarassing i tell thee

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"My number with men is zero. If that helps. Well except that one time when gangbangs go wrong...."

At a weekend gangbang, i was fucking a girl from behind, who was in cowgirl with two dicks in her pussy (of which i was one). Logistically the only way to achieve this was that the guy on the bottom had the have his ass quite high and exposed, not far from my ball sack to be precise. During a particularly vigorous part, he looked a bit worried and said "you will be careful to stay in the right hole?" I completely cracked up with laughter and couldn't perform for about 5 minutes.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then

How so??

Because she neither got an answer nor ended up being the last person you slept with

Didnt need to know, like i didnt need to know her past count so i didnt ask. Did it cause us to split up..nope..

But sometimes it's just interesting to know about the past of someone who is close. Sure nobody needs to know, but if 2 people are close it doesn't need to be a secret either. Same way nobody needs to know who their partners best friends at primary is, but it's nice to build up a holistic picture of someone's life. Sex is just one aspect of life that is fun to talk about.

Mrs"

I would be surprised if someone said and was ok with..i slept with 4 people before you.. how many partners have you had? 97...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked that a few years ago, i replied im not ok with answering as it didnt matte..and that if im forced to answer then she would not be the last person i sleep with. I didnt answer and she wasnt.

She got a raw deal then

How so??

Because she neither got an answer nor ended up being the last person you slept with

Didnt need to know, like i didnt need to know her past count so i didnt ask. Did it cause us to split up..nope..

But sometimes it's just interesting to know about the past of someone who is close. Sure nobody needs to know, but if 2 people are close it doesn't need to be a secret either. Same way nobody needs to know who their partners best friends at primary is, but it's nice to build up a holistic picture of someone's life. Sex is just one aspect of life that is fun to talk about.

Mrs

I would be surprised if someone said and was ok with..i slept with 4 people before you.. how many partners have you had? 97... "

I personally haven't found it a problem when I've been in relationships where one person has slept with considerably more than the other. Though admittedly if I were single now, I would only date men who were promiscuous like me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL asking how many people someone has slept with on here?

Some guys are really doing Fab wrong

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Depends how well I knew who asked me, I'd be honest and tell them if I was in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately I am quite old so I can't remember fuck all let alone who I slept with let alone how many different people, it was more than one I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont sleep with many, I tend to chuck them out before sleepy time

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