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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl "

Come to Scotland, we will cheer you up

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl "

They've got an excellent Potuguese red from Borba try it!

On a more serious note, part of what i'd call the fab pitfalls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got let down by a couple last friday !!

Not just us guys who get blamed as you can see from posts its a cross section alas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have pink gin, lemonade and Prosecco with summer fruits to add in.

Shame, she could have had that and a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meeting planned this evening with a 45 year old buxom blonde who is a sex maniac and lives above a pub.

She cancelled when I woke up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx "

That's how us single males get such a hard time. If i say I'm meeting I always turn up.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I had a meeting planned this evening with a 45 year old buxom blonde who is a sex maniac and lives above a pub.

She cancelled when I woke up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get more let down and no shows than we do those that make an appearance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its her / there loss for not wanting to meet yous

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Yep definately their loss.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx "

Had 2 meets cancelled in the last 2 evenings!

Halps to have a plan B!

Last night it was Lucifer (god he’s fit!) and porn with Roger Rabbit

Tonight it’s meeting a male stripper at a swinging club for hours of rampant sex!

Woe is me!

I’m jealous about the lightbulb shopping though guys - honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever a man asks to open a couple's account with me I ask him why I would want to seriously hamper my sex life like that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever a man asks to open a couple's account with me I ask him why I would want to seriously hamper my sex life like that.."

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx "

Lightbulbs! Is it your birthday?

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I had a meeting planned this evening with a 45 year old buxom blonde who is a sex maniac and lives above a pub.

She cancelled when I woke up"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let down myself tonight, it's crap but an excuse to chill by the fire with chocolate covered pretzels and lovely hot mulled wine.

It sucks OP, sending hugs your way x

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By *uchess_BBWWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Likewise. I'm seriously fed up of people showing interest, then going AWOL on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get more let down and no shows than we do those that make an appearance lol"

Eh wtf why I wouldn't

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Seriously op - have you thought of going to a club for the evening? There may be a single lady there who floats your boat!

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By *ndeenaMan
over a year ago

Upminster

Seriously???? I am available. Let me know if you are interested for a social to start with. Thanks

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

After a bright and enthusiastic beginning on Fab, I'm now starting to see far more of what I read about.

No shows, late cancellations, stopping communications after arranging a meet, blocks.

Latest block was apparently for having the temerity to suggest a day time social. Was told that she had a full time job with several exclamation marks and then blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a bright and enthusiastic beginning on Fab, I'm now starting to see far more of what I read about.

No shows, late cancellations, stopping communications after arranging a meet, blocks.

Latest block was apparently for having the temerity to suggest a day time social. Was told that she had a full time job with several exclamation marks and then blocked. "

Thing is though, alot of men DO assume we are available 24/7. Sitting waiting with wet knickers

It doesnt seem to cross their minds that the ladies on here might have jobs, children and grown up responsibilities

Maybe she had been on the receiving end of a few like that, and you took the brunt?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"After a bright and enthusiastic beginning on Fab, I'm now starting to see far more of what I read about.

No shows, late cancellations, stopping communications after arranging a meet, blocks.

Latest block was apparently for having the temerity to suggest a day time social. Was told that she had a full time job with several exclamation marks and then blocked. "

Turn it around, how about "How do you feel about a social first & if ok what times/days are good for you?"

Get nothing or q block from that & you can draw your own conclusions.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx "

There loss x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We must be lucky, got to admit, best meets have been in clubs.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I was about to say ‘well at least you got chatting with someone to the point of arranging a meet”

But if there’s one thing more annoying than no contact is to get the ‘fab run arojnd’.... f&@)ing annoying ....

Apologies to you, and to the time wasters ‘fuck you’

HG

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"We must be lucky, got to admit, best meets have been in clubs."

Agree!

As a single fem I tend to play with couples at clubs and parties! There I feel we’re on an equal footing.

Going to their home, their territory, when there are two of them and one of me? Even I’d find that intimidating and I’m one of the most confident people I know! Xx

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"

I’m jealous about the lightbulb shopping though guys - honest! "

Have one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx

Had 2 meets cancelled in the last 2 evenings!

Halps to have a plan B!

Last night it was Lucifer (god he’s fit!) and porn with Roger Rabbit

Tonight it’s meeting a male stripper at a swinging club for hours of rampant sex!

Woe is me!

I’m jealous about the lightbulb shopping though guys - honest! "

You need a mature hand?

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish


"So what was mean to to be a FFM meet tonight has turned into a walk around Lidl looking for lightbulbs.

We feel like we are running a Fab marathon but no win in sight.

Moan over xx "

I,v never thought to try to pick up a couple at lidl wonders what the approach should be now where do they hide the light bulbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 3 meets fall through last week

And another I cancelled as she turned out to be a bit of catfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx "

Where are the kids when you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl "

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I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

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I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence. "
As a couple I'd say wasted time is correct. There are plenty of things a couple could do that they put on hold, for the notion that they are going to meet somebody or people. They are also let-down by those that arrange to meet and don't, this isn't an either or statement its both.

The caveat is of course to have a plan B and move to that instead, but in some cases, that plan isn't quite as straight forward as the meet itself would have been. The only thing I can suggest is that if you agree to meet, do it somewhere you could stay or that's something nearby that could fill that gap in your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I spend time getting to know a couple and we exchange emails and progress to exchanging e mail addresses.

They have posted a meeting request at a hotel or at potential playmates house. The e mail sent today is as follows;

Hi Harry

We are meeting this evening and have booked a hotel in [large city in the north] we are meeting at 8 and would love you to come along. We have 6 other horny guys coming too for what will be a great bonfire party!

We are making a small charge of £100 per person to cover the costs.

Hope to see you this evening!

The hotel in question must be the Dorchester!

I truly give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

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I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence. "

Nobody said wasted time did they?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

Where are the kids when you meet?"

That's what I thought too. If they are having a sleepover you could go to a club. If they are in the house I'm not suprised the woman wasn't keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

.

I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence.

Nobody said wasted time did they? "

No they didn't. But I see wasted time said a lot. When the title said 'let down' it was probably more appropriate for a lot of cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

.

I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence. As a couple I'd say wasted time is correct. There are plenty of things a couple could do that they put on hold, for the notion that they are going to meet somebody or people. They are also let-down by those that arrange to meet and don't, this isn't an either or statement its both.

The caveat is of course to have a plan B and move to that instead, but in some cases, that plan isn't quite as straight forward as the meet itself would have been. The only thing I can suggest is that if you agree to meet, do it somewhere you could stay or that's something nearby that could fill that gap in your time."

Good advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down twice this week. It sucks.

Get some wine in Lidl

.

I think wasted time maybe wrong, esp as a couple, you can share that time together.

I think 'let down' is more appropriate maybe. There's lots of people getting let down lately in the threads, it's quite disappointing to hear, and doesn't fill the place up with much confidence.

Nobody said wasted time did they?

No they didn't. But I see wasted time said a lot. When the title said 'let down' it was probably more appropriate for a lot of cases. "

Yeah that's a good point. Although I suppose people count the time spent chatting beforehand as wasted.

Either way it sucks, especially on a Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have pink gin, lemonade and Prosecco with summer fruits to add in.

Shame, she could have had that and a meet x"

On another note that drink cocktail sounds amazing!

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a no show not too long ago, chatted and said ok let's meet at the designated pub , so I got all dressed up hold ups heels the works, meet was organised for 8pm.

At 8.45 decided to go home, went back on fab his account was deleted what an absolute tosser, so we're going for club meets now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

Where are the kids when you meet?"

Chained down in the shed narurally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

Where are the kids when you meet?

That's what I thought too. If they are having a sleepover you could go to a club. If they are in the house I'm not suprised the woman wasn't keen. "

Believe it or not, they would be in their own rooms, asleep. That leaves a substantial amount of other rooms child free. Which we can have the typical husband and wife sex in at any point. Sometimes, when we are not let down, someone else can join us. Can’t see how kids factor in that formula?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I wonder sometimes, not you OP, how many of these are a poor me, or a look at me, I’m not verified threads.

Never had, a missed meet, personally don’t think it is rocket science setting one up, the signs are there to players.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

Where are the kids when you meet?

That's what I thought too. If they are having a sleepover you could go to a club. If they are in the house I'm not suprised the woman wasn't keen.

Believe it or not, they would be in their own rooms, asleep. That leaves a substantial amount of other rooms child free. Which we can have the typical husband and wife sex in at any point. Sometimes, when we are not let down, someone else can join us. Can’t see how kids factor in that formula? "

Not a chance I'd go to someone's house if kids were there. They could wake up at any time. Highly disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I spend time getting to know a couple and we exchange emails and progress to exchanging e mail addresses.

They have posted a meeting request at a hotel or at potential playmates house. The e mail sent today is as follows;

Hi Harry

We are meeting this evening and have booked a hotel in [large city in the north] we are meeting at 8 and would love you to come along. We have 6 other horny guys coming too for what will be a great bonfire party!

We are making a small charge of £100 per person to cover the costs.

Hope to see you this evening!

The hotel in question must be the Dorchester!

I truly give up!"

Too many zeros

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have kids so can’t get out.

We are both desperate to get to a club. Tonight’s meet was for FF fun with the M joining in when we let him. Oh well, thanks for the support everyone though! Xx

Where are the kids when you meet?

That's what I thought too. If they are having a sleepover you could go to a club. If they are in the house I'm not suprised the woman wasn't keen.

Believe it or not, they would be in their own rooms, asleep. That leaves a substantial amount of other rooms child free. Which we can have the typical husband and wife sex in at any point. Sometimes, when we are not let down, someone else can join us. Can’t see how kids factor in that formula? "

A child wakes up and sees mummy and daddy in compromising positions with strangers - yeah no worries there

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Fuck it book a flight to Dublin I would love the opportunity to meet you guys no chance of a no show as you could stay at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think you have actually sorted a meet with a Unicorn you were probably asleep at the time... find a cuck couple and let the guy sit and watch. Same as a fmf...

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