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By *aldonia OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

What is it about so called 'straight' men that insist on telling me what a nice cock I have and what they would like to do to me! And why oh why do couples virtually all have bi women but 'straight' men?

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We dont were both Bi.

We have alot of so called straight guys messeging us and when i say we only play with Bi guys all of a sudden they become Bi .......maybe just to get to the pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both bi too and we say in our profile that we only like to play with single guys if they are bi.

We have had a few messages from guys who say they dont want to put bi on their profile as they dont want to be inundated with messages from single guys, and I can see where they are coming from as we get quite a few messages ourselves.

Its the guys who say they are straight but will let male suck my cock if I can shag fem that we dont understand. I mean are they really that desperate for a shag??

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By *ne-just4funMan
over a year ago

Southampton

As i am starting to find out, it's hard enough to meet couples as a single guy. Put Bi in your profile and you seriously reduce your chances unless the male half is Bi. Why straight guys think we would only be interested in them is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i am starting to find out, it's hard enough to meet couples as a single guy. Put Bi in your profile and you seriously reduce your chances unless the male half is Bi. Why straight guys think we would only be interested in them is beyond me "

Lol We have a bit of the same problem, some couple seem put off by male half of our couple being bi, like he wouldnt be able to control himself around them or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i am starting to find out, it's hard enough to meet couples as a single guy. Put Bi in your profile and you seriously reduce your chances unless the male half is Bi. Why straight guys think we would only be interested in them is beyond me

Lol We have a bit of the same problem, some couple seem put off by male half of our couple being bi, like he wouldnt be able to control himself around them or something lol

"

Yes we have the same problem with some people as well double standards i think somtimes just because someone is bi it dosent mean they cant play straight but dont have a problem if its only the woman thats bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I ain't straight and yes you do have a

Nice cock xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i get a hell of a lot of messages from straight guys who offer to suck one of my friends cocks for a bit 'if they have to'!!!!

amazing what some men will do for a shag.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"i get a hell of a lot of messages from straight guys who offer to suck one of my friends cocks for a bit 'if they have to'!!!!

amazing what some men will do for a shag. "

obviously they haven't noticed that i also play with straight men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

oh there are.... I am married to a man that is definately straight... has no desires in that way at all...

Yes a lot lie about it.. but there are definately totally straight men about.. as there are totally straight women.

cali

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

Sorry, but this is a nonsense. Married men have come to you wanting a blowjob, therefore all men must be gay/bi? Absurd argument - it's like me saying women have come to me wanting a shag (it does happen, sometimes!), therefore they must all want it from me, therefore there is no such thing a lesbian.

Until every single 'straight' male on the planet has come to you begging for a blowjob, you can't make such ludicrous generalisations - your logic is deeply flawed.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"We dont were both Bi.

We have alot of so called straight guys messeging us and when i say we only play with Bi guys all of a sudden they become Bi .......maybe just to get to the pussy "

Yup...strange that init

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By *iandsylviaCouple
over a year ago

Ely

I think it's quite funny how many 'straight' men comment when Si in on cam on his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get lots that think because Master is a Master that he must be BI, and suddenly say that they can be bi if needed..

Sadly they realise their mistake.. and then they try to back track.

cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honestly i really must not have a nice cock...i dont get that many 'annoying' bi-males approaching me...then my inbox is so heavily inundated with pussy i have to delete most 'male'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

I'll take that with a pinch of salt...but not a salty fluid thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate my cock lol

* SiTs iN CrYpiT *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rate my cock lol

* SiTs iN CrYpiT * "

gets a zero ...as there was no pic! sakes...

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By *iandsylviaCouple
over a year ago

Ely

Maybe a new site is needed for all those men, comparethecock.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

You`ve a rather dangerous delusion running thru yer mind....

I`m straight thru and thru....try coming onto me and your delusion would be shattered..

With the same consideration...you clearly show others..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"not such a thing as a str8 man"

oh dearie me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a fella tells you you have a nice cock, take it as a compliment. If we are looking at profiles and a male has a nice cock why shouldn't it be me who tells him so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it about so called 'straight' men that insist on telling me what a nice cock I have and what they would like to do to me! And why oh why do couples virtually all have bi women but 'straight' men?"

or it seems alot of straight men have met, bi men or TV/TS

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm straight, he isn't

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Makes me giggle when you see a guys profile, who says he is straight, who has got the box crossed for meeting TV's. I dont get it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

Is that a fact?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX"

now why would i block single guys on here straight or bi...when i have many friends i like going to gangbangs with?????????????????????????????? absolutely futile so to all single straight males if u have a problem getting to gangbangs or small group straight fun...is it not in ur interests to at least have male friends...

there is something called NETWORKING and thats for genuine people who dont need to have sex with each other.

sorry but absolute pish and a knee jerk over reaction from many guys out there claiming being pestered by bi/gay men...ur inboxes dont get enough fucking action to make that complaint..oops..thats just IN my opinionQ!

Ive met many bi men, gay men,TV's and they all know the barriers personally just wish some of u 'complainers' would actually DElabelise some people see them as people and not what their sexual orientation is...its a simple case of stating ur straight and lets not play just the same as u would to someone u dont want to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX

now why would i block single guys on here straight or bi...when i have many friends i like going to gangbangs with?????????????????????????????? absolutely futile so to all single straight males if u have a problem getting to gangbangs or small group straight fun...is it not in ur interests to at least have male friends...

there is something called NETWORKING and thats for genuine people who dont need to have sex with each other.

sorry but absolute pish and a knee jerk over reaction from many guys out there claiming being pestered by bi/gay men...ur inboxes dont get enough fucking action to make that complaint..oops..thats just IN my opinionQ!

Ive met many bi men, gay men,TV's and they all know the barriers personally just wish some of u 'complainers' would actually DElabelise some people see them as people and not what their sexual orientation is...its a simple case of stating ur straight and lets not play just the same as u would to someone u dont want to play with."

did i add im straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX"

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX

now why would i block single guys on here straight or bi...when i have many friends i like going to gangbangs with?????????????????????????????? absolutely futile so to all single straight males if u have a problem getting to gangbangs or small group straight fun...is it not in ur interests to at least have male friends...

there is something called NETWORKING and thats for genuine people who dont need to have sex with each other.

sorry but absolute pish and a knee jerk over reaction from many guys out there claiming being pestered by bi/gay men...ur inboxes dont get enough fucking action to make that complaint..oops..thats just IN my opinionQ!

Ive met many bi men, gay men,TV's and they all know the barriers personally just wish some of u 'complainers' would actually DElabelise some people see them as people and not what their sexual orientation is...its a simple case of stating ur straight and lets not play just the same as u would to someone u dont want to play with."

Not wishing to put words in TraceanRic's mouth I didn't see their post the same way you did. I took it they meant for the straight men who didn't welcome bi men approaching them, the easy option was simply to block.

It wouldn't prevent them contacting men, just as couples do with "no single men" ticked.

Not wishing to play with bi men doesn't make you homophobic!

I think it unfair that people are labelled with some ism if they exclude certain people from their playlist. Who are we to tell people who they should take into their bed?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dictionary corner says……. why all the fuss….? Swinger’s definitions can be no different to the rest of the world

Heterosexual = Erotic attraction, predisposition, or sexual behaviour between persons of the opposite sex

Homosexual = Sexual activity with another of the same sex

Bisexual = A state in which a person has sex with male and female partners I.e. To sexually interact with persons of both sexes; exhibit both homosexual and heterosexual behaviour

Curiosity = A desire to know or learn.

Liar = One that tells lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8

We reckon that's just wishful thinking on the posters part.

I'm most definately straight, however, I hasten to add, this doesn't mean I'm homophobic.

Just the thought of two guys having sex is a turn off for both of us, which is why we don't meet bi guys.

No doubt the reason some self deluded, so called "straight" guys have sex with T.V's is simply because it appeases their conscience and they can still believe themselves straight.

The one thing we'd advise any genuine straight single guy on here to do is "block single guys".

This topic often comes up, with straight guys being pestered by liars who can't even be true about their sexuality to themselves, let alone anyone else.

Bi guys, whether single or part of a couple, would get more respect if they were just honest.

Does it really matter if you don't get as many meets as long as your genuine with the ones you get?

XXXX

now why would i block single guys on here straight or bi...when i have many friends i like going to gangbangs with?????????????????????????????? absolutely futile so to all single straight males if u have a problem getting to gangbangs or small group straight fun...is it not in ur interests to at least have male friends...

there is something called NETWORKING and thats for genuine people who dont need to have sex with each other.

sorry but absolute pish and a knee jerk over reaction from many guys out there claiming being pestered by bi/gay men...ur inboxes dont get enough fucking action to make that complaint..oops..thats just IN my opinionQ!

Ive met many bi men, gay men,TV's and they all know the barriers personally just wish some of u 'complainers' would actually DElabelise some people see them as people and not what their sexual orientation is...its a simple case of stating ur straight and lets not play just the same as u would to someone u dont want to play with.

Not wishing to put words in TraceanRic's mouth I didn't see their post the same way you did. I took it they meant for the straight men who didn't welcome bi men approaching them, the easy option was simply to block.

It wouldn't prevent them contacting men, just as couples do with "no single men" ticked.

Not wishing to play with bi men doesn't make you homophobic!

I think it unfair that people are labelled with some ism if they exclude certain people from their playlist. Who are we to tell people who they should take into their bed?!! "

yeahh took the reference to the nonwelcoming types,or those who sit and get all infuriated at some pretty harmless malemail lol- I just find blocking a whole section(s) of fab rather pointless...especially if u like the social side of swinging i.e going to parties etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree. I also think that the status of straight/bi/bi-curious does not help. I am would not class myself as bi, maybe bi-curious at a push. I am orally bi if the situation is right, but would not not to want to suck every guy we play with. I do think that the guys who brand themselves as VERY STRAIGHT, 'doth protest too much'. Funny how those peeps love watching the girlies fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont were both Bi.

We have alot of so called straight guys messeging us and when i say we only play with Bi guys all of a sudden they become Bi .......maybe just to get to the pussy "

same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does appear to be a very odd phenonema amongst some of the Bi guys on this thread...they appear to be living with a paradigm...that all straight blokes are latently bi...

What the fuck is that all about...

I`ve no problem accepting my own sexuality or others ...bi or not...and respecting it...

Yet that courtesy and tolerance doesn`t seem so forthcoming among some on this thread...

Its food fer thought....and one that abit risky....touch me in a delusional wish fulfillment and I`ll set yer disrespect straight....not to mix my metaphors...

We`ve never been messaged by one bi or gay fella...so don`t understand any of this malarky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does appear to be a very odd phenonema amongst some of the Bi guys on this thread...they appear to be living with a paradigm...that all straight blokes are latently bi...

What the fuck is that all about...

I`ve no problem accepting my own sexuality or others ...bi or not...and respecting it...

Yet that courtesy and tolerance doesn`t seem so forthcoming among some on this thread...

Its food fer thought....and one that abit risky....touch me in a delusional wish fulfillment and I`ll set yer disrespect straight....not to mix my metaphors...

We`ve never been messaged by one bi or gay fella...so don`t understand any of this malarky..

"

+1

I just tease the men who message me, its pretty entertaining to think they're getting turned on and excited but I'm just laughing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does appear to be a very odd phenonema amongst some of the Bi guys on this thread...they appear to be living with a paradigm...that all straight blokes are latently bi...

What the fuck is that all about...

I`ve no problem accepting my own sexuality or others ...bi or not...and respecting it...

Yet that courtesy and tolerance doesn`t seem so forthcoming among some on this thread...

Its food fer thought....and one that abit risky....touch me in a delusional wish fulfillment and I`ll set yer disrespect straight....not to mix my metaphors...

We`ve never been messaged by one bi or gay fella...so don`t understand any of this malarky..

"

It always happens on threads like these, and it annoys the hell out of me too. It's usually followed by straight people are uptight, or something along those lines.

That said, it's easy, and lazy, to make sweeping genetalisations if "straight" men contact gay/bi men. If people were honest with themselves this issue wouldn't arise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does appear to be a very odd phenonema amongst some of the Bi guys on this thread...they appear to be living with a paradigm...that all straight blokes are latently bi...

What the fuck is that all about...

I`ve no problem accepting my own sexuality or others ...bi or not...and respecting it...

Yet that courtesy and tolerance doesn`t seem so forthcoming among some on this thread...

Its food fer thought....and one that abit risky....touch me in a delusional wish fulfillment and I`ll set yer disrespect straight....not to mix my metaphors...

We`ve never been messaged by one bi or gay fella...so don`t understand any of this malarky..

It always happens on threads like these, and it annoys the hell out of me too. It's usually followed by straight people are uptight, or something along those lines.

That said, it's easy, and lazy, to make sweeping genetalisations if "straight" men contact gay/bi men. If people were honest with themselves this issue wouldn't arise. "

I`m kinda struggling with the lack of honesty...it doesn`t make no sense...

I could understand the reluctance in everyday life...but on a swingers website...whats to hide...

Ah well..

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

ha ha ha ha.. what a load of crap... ha ha ha...

Kaz

oh and Paul is straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not such a thing as a str8 man ,most of the guys i have gave bj too have been married and so called st8"

Ermm disagree! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does appear to be a very odd phenonema amongst some of the Bi guys on this thread...they appear to be living with a paradigm...that all straight blokes are latently bi...

What the fuck is that all about...

I`ve no problem accepting my own sexuality or others ...bi or not...and respecting it...

Yet that courtesy and tolerance doesn`t seem so forthcoming among some on this thread...

Its food fer thought....and one that abit risky....touch me in a delusional wish fulfillment and I`ll set yer disrespect straight....not to mix my metaphors...

We`ve never been messaged by one bi or gay fella...so don`t understand any of this malarky..

It always happens on threads like these, and it annoys the hell out of me too. It's usually followed by straight people are uptight, or something along those lines.

That said, it's easy, and lazy, to make sweeping genetalisations if "straight" men contact gay/bi men. If people were honest with themselves this issue wouldn't arise. "

+1

I think that's the real issue and root cause of confusion.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love the straights.... I even have some as best friends

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