FabSwingers.com forum: BBWs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay. As my opening line i have nothing against BBWs, this is not a dig at BBWs, it is just a curiosity of the term BBW

as we know it stands for BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

okay i concede that a larger woman can indeed be beautiful. therefor they are infact big beautiful women as the title would suggest

HOWEVER

there are ALSO big UGLY woman (as there are skinny ugly woman)

why do they still go under the term of big beautiful woman? why do people call them as such? infact why does the term exist?

it to me EITHER emplys that their size automaticly makes them beautiful which is not the case

that they are called beautiful because they can get away with it and no one blinks an eyelid. If you had a skinny say size 8 girl saying skinny beautiful woman people would go on a shitstorm of about how she is so up herself and vain etc etc etc but if she goes to say size 18 and says big beautiful woman its acceptable?

i dunno i just find it an odd term to use to describe someones size, throwing in beautiful wether that be the case or not

Once again not a dig at bigger girls just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are beautifully big women.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

for myself and using the term, I am not stuck up and think I am god's gift, it is just a term that is widely recognised to mean a woman of larger proportions...a guy looking at my profile and seeing "BBW" will know straight away if I am someone who may not appeal to him,if he perfers a slimmer woman or that I may be right up his alley if he likes a girl with a bit (or a lot...lol)of meat on her bones...I don't think that we(BBWS) think our size makes us automatically beautiful or that we think we can get away with it...and you will find that a lot of larger woman do not like the term either...me personally it does not bother but then again I never really looked at it more deeply than just a term to let people know I am a big girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay. As my opening line i have nothing against BBWs, this is not a dig at BBWs, it is just a curiosity of the term BBW

as we know it stands for BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

okay i concede that a larger woman can indeed be beautiful. therefor they are infact big beautiful women as the title would suggest

HOWEVER

there are ALSO big UGLY woman (as there are skinny ugly woman)

why do they still go under the term of big beautiful woman? why do people call them as such? infact why does the term exist?

it to me EITHER emplys that their size automaticly makes them beautiful which is not the case

i dunno i just find it an odd term to use to describe someones size, throwing in beautiful wether that be the case or not

Once again not a dig at bigger girls just an observation"

With 25 stone or womanhood bearing down on you and no place to go because the door is locked only a brave man would call her anything but beautiful!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's just a term...surely no one takes it literally and thinks all BBWs are drop dead gorgeous? Isn't it just a positive way for women with that particular body type to self-identify?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just a term...surely no one takes it literally and thinks all BBWs are drop dead gorgeous? Isn't it just a positive way for women with that particular body type to self-identify?

my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worth reading the previous post regarding this subject

I use it just to keep away those who don't like larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to Wiki(it must be true)pedia:

Although "BBW" may have been first used in the context of BBW Magazine, the term's usage spread over the years, to the point that even women who had never heard of the magazine began to refer to themselves as "BBWs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"According to Wiki(it must be true)pedia:

lol i remember when i first heard the term and didnt know what it ment and since W is so close to Q i thought people were just mis spelling BBQ and i was like WHAT IS A BIG BARBECUE WOMAN!

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I, like the others that have posted, don't think of myself as beautiful but it is a term widely known so i use it to let people know my size. I will and do use other terms too but BBW is the most widely recognised.

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not all larger/curvier/bigger (etc...) women use or even like the term 'BBW'.

Kitty is quite curvy and has, in the past, been called that. In a word: block. She found it rather silly as, even in heels, she's barely over 5'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i Think this is been covert lots of times before....There are lots of terms that mean different things to different People.Like what you call Slim other's mind call chubby and being athletics defo does NOT mean your Fit.And yes being BBW deal not mean your are Beautiful but neither does it mean your are ugly.Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder or so they say

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By *ill_HallMan
over a year ago

leicester

I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate labels.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"It's just a term...surely no one takes it literally and thinks all BBWs are drop dead gorgeous? Isn't it just a positive way for women with that particular body type to self-identify?

my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised"

Do they?? Really??

I've not seen any posts where bigger women come into a forum and shout 'hey - I'm beautiful because I'm big'. That's just crap. Most bigger women use the BBW to identify their size - not their looks. As others have said, the initial-ism BBW is purely to tag a body type which can then be avoided or sought out depending on someone's preference.

Let's not regurgitate the 'beautiful big Vs beautiful small' thread again PLEEEASE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious "

What a chubby birds pussy tastes different to a thin birds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

What a chubby birds pussy tastes different to a thin birds?"

lol well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

What a chubby birds pussy tastes different to a thin birds?

lol well put"

So tell me this does a skinny guys cock taste different to a chubby blokes? I don't want to fine out for myself see

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious "

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x"

I think he has a case of wokki wokki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all women are beautiful but as a admira of the larger women i find bigger women beautiful.

same as some women only liking blk guys no matter of size or looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all women are beautiful but as a admira of the larger women i find bigger women beautiful.

same as some women only liking blk guys no matter of size or looks"

All women are NOT beautiful as ll blokes are NOT handsome also i dont want tu burst your bubble but santa doesn't exist either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many bigger women would be conceited or naive enough to state they are beautiful purely BECAUSE of their size.

BBW is an identifying tag - nothing more. On a profile, it allows guys to express a preference ... to seek out or avoid as desired.

So why are we subjected to this constant trolling regarding three bloody letters? It's becoming tedious to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is beautiful and if a girl is happy within it shows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not many bigger women would be conceited or naive enough to state they are beautiful purely BECAUSE of their size.

BBW is an identifying tag - nothing more. On a profile, it allows guys to express a preference ... to seek out or avoid as desired.

So why are we subjected to this constant trolling regarding three bloody letters? It's becoming tedious to say the least

think i made it evidently clear in my origional post that i wasnt having a dig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many bigger women would be conceited or naive enough to state they are beautiful purely BECAUSE of their size.

BBW is an identifying tag - nothing more. On a profile, it allows guys to express a preference ... to seek out or avoid as desired.

So why are we subjected to this constant trolling regarding three bloody letters? It's becoming tedious to say the least

think i made it evidently clear in my origional post that i wasnt having a dig"

Yeah yeah - "I'm not racist / sizeist / ageist ... BUT ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id go back to any statement question that says anything that says anything really about anything cos everyone thinks or says anything just for anything to get typed onto this anything thingy of anything

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x

I think he has a case of wokki wokki"

Is that what they are calling it when you say stupid things to try and get laid?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"id go back to any statement question that says anything that says anything really about anything cos everyone thinks or says anything just for anything to get typed onto this anything thingy of anything"

You're just saying that ...

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

" my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised"

But we all know that BBW doesn't literally mean "I am beautiful", so women who aren't of that size shouldn't feel ostracised in any way. It's a non issue.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Its internet shorthand...

i take it u never use lol or brb

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised

But we all know that BBW doesn't literally mean "I am beautiful", so women who aren't of that size shouldn't feel ostracised in any way. It's a non issue. "

then why is the word beautiful there?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

" my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised

But we all know that BBW doesn't literally mean "I am beautiful", so women who aren't of that size shouldn't feel ostracised in any way. It's a non issue.

then why is the word beautiful there?"

see above^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just saying that ... "

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet"

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! come on....some describe themselves as 'fabulous' on profiles....how many ppl have this in their mind as always a slim athletic type(since thats already a choice)

I have no hang ups about some sizes for my play interests, i dont seek out by body size...i do seek out by confidence, so the term BBW and the beautiful part, really means a woman who has confidence in her size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x"

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx"

Oh Paddy you are such a gent... so hard to resist you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx

Oh Paddy you are such a gent... so hard to resist you

MMMMMMMMMmm secret i love the way ur resisting me by backing ur arse into my hard member..MMMmmmmmMMMmmmmmMMMMM

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx

Oh Paddy you are such a gent... so hard to resist you

MMMMMMMMMmm secret i love the way ur resisting me by backing ur arse into my hard member..MMMmmmmmMMMmmmmmMMMMM"

Oops sorry, thought that was a chair honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx

Oh Paddy you are such a gent... so hard to resist you

MMMMMMMMMmm secret i love the way ur resisting me by backing ur arse into my hard member..MMMmmmmmMMMmmmmmMMMMM

Oops sorry, thought that was a chair honest...

no way i can fit a chair in there ffs!!!!! heheheheheh x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

You're just saying that ...

lol crumpet, yeahh...anything to get into ur crumpet

Stop doing those scary pics... that new one the other day made hubby choke on his tea (well done

)

Mistress x

lololol awwww poor hubby.....its part of my plan to kill him off then i can have u all to myself...and tart u out to ma pals too! xxx

Oh Paddy you are such a gent... so hard to resist you

MMMMMMMMMmm secret i love the way ur resisting me by backing ur arse into my hard member..MMMmmmmmMMMmmmmmMMMMM

Oops sorry, thought that was a chair honest...

no way i can fit a chair in there ffs!!!!! heheheheheh x"

ooooh cheeky well not an armchair anyway lol

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By *r slimMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

bbw doesnt include there face

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"bbw doesnt include there face"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay. As my opening line i have nothing against BBWs, this is not a dig at BBWs, it is just a curiosity of the term BBW

as we know it stands for BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

okay i concede that a larger woman can indeed be beautiful. therefor they are infact big beautiful women as the title would suggest

HOWEVER

there are ALSO big UGLY woman (as there are skinny ugly woman)

why do they still go under the term of big beautiful woman? why do people call them as such? infact why does the term exist?

it to me EITHER emplys that their size automaticly makes them beautiful which is not the case

i dunno i just find it an odd term to use to describe someones size, throwing in beautiful wether that be the case or not

Once again not a dig at bigger girls just an observation"

I do often think that the smaller lady often finds it difficult to believe a guy or guys can actually like the larger lady, beautiful or not.

I knew one lady who often remarked "why the hell would he want HER"

iTS all about choice and not the labelling .

Thats never going to change.

So why not just appreciate the differences, there are plenty of guys to go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all women are beautiful but as a admira of the larger women i find bigger women beautiful.

same as some women only liking blk guys no matter of size or looks

All women are NOT beautiful as ll blokes are NOT handsome also i dont want tu burst your bubble but santa doesn't exist either!

Noooooooooo oh woe is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised

But we all know that BBW doesn't literally mean "I am beautiful", so women who aren't of that size shouldn't feel ostracised in any way. It's a non issue.

then why is the word beautiful there?"

Why do you care so much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x"

rubbish if you ask me as it depends on one's diet not their size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x"

rubbish if you ask me as it depends on one's diet not their size

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

What a chubby birds pussy tastes different to a thin birds?"

yes, makes sense really considering all the cocolate and sweet sugary cakes we eat that we taste sweeter

care to do some research

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many bigger women would be conceited or naive enough to state they are beautiful purely BECAUSE of their size.

BBW is an identifying tag - nothing more. On a profile, it allows guys to express a preference ... to seek out or avoid as desired.

So why are we subjected to this constant trolling regarding three bloody letters? It's becoming tedious to say the least

I agree...ignore the trolls, sad people.

Damn...I posted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term UBW won't catch on me feels!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The term UBW won't catch on me feels!! "

oh i dunno, sure there would be some niche fettish for it - maybe i should put it on my profile haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @ Eve - I agree. Stands to reason us choccie lovers will taste sweeter

To the OP - why do you care why the term BBW is used. I personally don't care what people call themselves. And not many really believe they are ugly, so describing oneself as beautiful is really down to personal choice and its not up to you to be the judge of whether you think someone is beautiful or not.

I don't know how you describe yourself in your profile but I bet you've used positive terms such as sexy, gorgeous etc. What if I don't think you are, should I be allowed to request you remove those terms? No of course not cos you believe it of yourself. Whether anybody else does isn't really an issue is it.

People should just carry on swinging in their own way to their own rules - stop thinking about what other people are calling themselves or, and I hope this is not the case, try and put people down with starting a thread pretending its just a question you wish to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" my points is if women who arnt of a larger size identified themselfs as x beautiful x they get ostracised

But we all know that BBW doesn't literally mean "I am beautiful", so women who aren't of that size shouldn't feel ostracised in any way. It's a non issue.

then why is the word beautiful there?"

Why not???

Everyone is beautiful in their own way!! Your only 19, one day you will understand huni! Get over it x

Not that Im having a go you understand!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The term UBW won't catch on me feels!!

oh i dunno, sure there would be some niche fettish for it - maybe i should put it on my profile haha"

Can't comment too much, though ur figure is beautiful,but any woman who likes rugby is a good egg by me lol but is it ok to start drinking this early watching it???

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Don't feed the trolls

First day posting on the forums after being on the site a week and already started a size war I wonder whats next?

Married men?

Verifications?

Bareback?

Face pics?

Offering money for sex?...the trolling list is endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think bbw is more just a term now like lol or ffs!! Who cares...really at the end of the day it's just a term and it's not hurting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*wanders off to remove BBW and replace with Fat Bird!*

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The term UBW won't catch on me feels!!

oh i dunno, sure there would be some niche fettish for it - maybe i should put it on my profile haha

Can't comment too much, though ur figure is beautiful,but any woman who likes rugby is a good egg by me lol but is it ok to start drinking this early watching it???"

Haha believe me if I wasn't at work i'd be down the pub! I know I will be tomorrow morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're big, then that tends to define you (physically) in the eyes of other people.

The term Big, Beautiful Woman is an extension of that, in that why does the 'Big' part need to be there in the first place - can a woman (whatever her size) simply not be beautiful ?

Moreover though, the line i hate most is :

'she's big, but she's got a lovely face'

You hear that so much, it's almost become a cliche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're big, then that tends to define you (physically) in the eyes of other people.

The term Big, Beautiful Woman is an extension of that, in that why does the 'Big' part need to be there in the first place - can a woman (whatever her size) simply not be beautiful ?

Moreover though, the line i hate most is :

'she's big, but she's got a lovely face'

You hear that so much, it's almost become a cliche.

Been there or she has a lovely personality or being chatted up classic fat bird to get to my slim friend such a cliche.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Another BBW bashing thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another BBW bashing thread

Yep its getting very tired aand boring.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Another BBW bashing thread

Yep its getting very tired aand boring."

Your not wrong.

I use the term BBW on my profile because................. I want to. AND regardless of how many times people open these threads and rip 'us' apart I will still use it again because.......... I WANT TO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously doubt if those that are less aesthetically pleasing would style themselves as Big Ugly Women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It kinda seems like a look at me thread!! bbw, curvy, skinny, large, athletic who gives a f&%k.....Were all here for sexy fun!! Simple

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Another BBW bashing thread

Yep its getting very tired aand boring.

Your not wrong.

Oh... and I have never used the BBW term to class myself as 'beautiful' either. I'm not that vain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally being a larger woman myself I never use that term. Just my opinion and all that but why would we need to label ourselves. Slim ladies aren't SBW - slim beautiful women are they ??

Everyones definition of beautiful is different so I am just ME and I don't need any label.

I see a lot of people get very defensive about this and I can't see anything wrong in the question asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no different to guys calling themselves "rugby player type" or "atheletic"

Guy contacted us when we were looking for guys who said he was atheletic, and he had more spare tyres than ATS.

When you've been here a while you get immune to the stereotypical self descriptions.

Let you pics show your body shape and size, then we can decide what we really think you are rather than what you want us to think you are

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Another BBW bashing thread

I haven't seen it as a bbw bashing thread. The op asked a question and people answered. Just because not all the answers have been positive doesn't mean its a bashing thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people take the term BBW so litteral

Its just a term people use to let other know they are over weight

People who say on their profile they are a BBW dont think they are beautiful

BBW was a term made up by people who this big IS beautiful not that ALL big women are beautiful

You find a lot of slim people tho who get very offended by the face big people dare suggest they are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say im a fat bird. Doesnt stop me enjoying sex though so why should i care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You find a lot of slim people tho who get very offended by the face big people dare suggest they are beautiful "

And that is the crux of the matter and why these type of threads are started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could also stand for big breasted woman so some might use bbw to discribe themselves as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself a BBW, however, apparently I do not qualify. Perhaps my FAB friends are just being kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im me i dont like to label myself as they fall off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The term UBW won't catch on me feels!!

oh i dunno, sure there would be some niche fettish for it - maybe i should put it on my profile haha

Can't comment too much, though ur figure is beautiful,but any woman who likes rugby is a good egg by me lol but is it ok to start drinking this early watching it???

Haha believe me if I wasn't at work i'd be down the pub! I know I will be tomorrow morning!"

new zealand were good lol will hammer england!!!

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over a year ago

"I consider myself a BBW, however, apparently I do not qualify. Perhaps my FAB friends are just being kind.

Well that's the point isn't it - if you consider yourself to be a BBW and are happy to have that label then that is what you are. It does not matter what others think. That's why I cannot understand when people question what other people want to call themselves. Let people be what they want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Let people be what they want to be.

I'm Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr b here and ive got to add my bit cliff richard doesnt agree with the title the king of rock n roll that people tagged elvis with but hey it was a global tag

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally being a larger woman myself I never use that term. Just my opinion and all that but why would we need to label ourselves. Slim ladies aren't SBW - slim beautiful women are they ??

Everyones definition of beautiful is different so I am just ME and I don't need any label.

I see a lot of people get very defensive about this and I can't see anything wrong in the question asked.

this x100

this si exactly what i ment i have stated TIME AND TIME AGAIN i DO NOT see anything wrong with big woman and they CAN be beautiful and CAN be attractive i just see the term beautiful being thrown around far too much

Thank you poster people seem to almost WANT to be offended here when no offence is ment just to bump their gums and gain support

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I consider myself a BBW, however, apparently I do not qualify. Perhaps my FAB friends are just being kind.

because other people calling themselves beautiful blatantly are apparently NOT allowed to call themselves what they want because its being "vain"

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over a year ago

"I consider myself a BBW, however, apparently I do not qualify. Perhaps my FAB friends are just being kind.

because other people calling themselves beautiful blatantly are apparently NOT allowed to call themselves what they want because its being "vain"

Your taking it to litteral

when people have on their profile BBW its a term aimed at a group of people, used just to let others know they are larger ladies

Now if you looked on a profile and it was worded in a way to call themself as a individual beautiful then thats just vain lol no matter what size and most dont like vanity or see it as attractive

But BBW isnt ment to be aimed at ones self as an individual its ment to put yourself into a group of people and to let others know your body size

If i had on my profile.....

hi im a single BBW......

thats not me saying hey im beautiful, its me just informing others im larger in body size

If people made up a phrase of SBW for slimmer ladies and they put on their profile they was a SBW i doubt anyone would bat an eye lid or see it as slimmer ladies being vain they would just see it the same as BBW, a way of letting others know their body size

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I consider myself a BBW, however, apparently I do not qualify. Perhaps my FAB friends are just being kind.

because other people calling themselves beautiful blatantly are apparently NOT allowed to call themselves what they want because its being "vain"

Your taking it to litteral

when people have on their profile BBW its a term aimed at a group of people, used just to let others know they are larger ladies

Now if you looked on a profile and it was worded in a way to call themself as a individual beautiful then thats just vain lol no matter what size and most dont like vanity or see it as attractive

But BBW isnt ment to be aimed at ones self as an individual its ment to put yourself into a group of people and to let others know your body size

If i had on my profile.....

hi im a single BBW......

thats not me saying hey im beautiful, its me just informing others im larger in body size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see

BB - as two pairs of tits so maybe its about having possibly bigger tits

W- looks like two V's(for vagina), maybe meaning extra tasty...just like the ones u get in tesco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP........we understand what your getting at but bottom line is the "beautiful" part is not to be taken literally.

Its a Yankee P.C ism, designed to help a section of society, who may have self confidence issues, feel better about themselves.

We're sure a great many large women would never describe themselves as beautiful, no more than slim ones would, its just a phrase that has become universal.

Its the same as Gay, when used to describe homosexuals, some are probably as miserable as sin but they're still Gay.

Both are just labels for certain groups in society, not literal descriptions.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I headed all this off with the first reply on the thread.

Think of it as Beautifully Big Woman.

Problem solved.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Oh brother! Why does this matter?

I think the OP was wrong to assume that the emphasis is on "beautiful". Even if it was the tag is meant to indicate a woman of a certain size, not necessarily fat, and that is all it is.

Im attracted to BBWs, although not exclusively, and so I find the term very useful, not only in making decisions about possible meets but also gives an indication of how that person feels about themselves, which us more important than their absolute size.

Hell I describe myself as a black man, but guess what!? I'm not actually black I'm actually dark brown, but now we get into precise shades of brown. Arrrrrrrrrrrrgh!

It's simply a label. It could have been anything, DXZ?, but that doesn't mean anything, so it helps if the words mean something then they're eSier to remember. Its no big deal really.

So no offence taken just feel it's one of many threads at the moment that have been started that don't really seem to have a point.

Where's Fabio when you need him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh brother! Why does this matter?

I think the OP was wrong to assume that the emphasis is on "beautiful". Even if it was the tag is meant to indicate a woman of a certain size, not necessarily fat, and that is all it is.

Hell I describe myself as a black man, but guess what!? I'm not actually black I'm actually dark brown, but now we get into precise shades of brown. Arrrrrrrrrrrrgh!

It's simply a label. It could have been anything, DXZ?, but that doesn't mean anything, so it helps if the words mean something then they're eSier to remember. Its no big deal really.

So no offence taken just feel it's one of many threads at the moment that have been started that don't really seem to have a point.

Where's Fabio when you need him?"

Exactly my point ,why the emphasis on beautiful?it kinda seems like a personal dig and not a general question..

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

i prefer cuddly

and i have clingfilm on me mirrors to catch the glass when i look in em

beauty is skin deep personality does it all the time

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

When I first heard the term 'BBW' I thought it meant Big Black Women... have since found out otherwise, lol, I know I am a large lady but I wouldn't consider myself beautiful.

The term 'UBW' (ugly big woman) doesn't roll off the tongue like 'BBW' however, 'BUW' (big ugly woman) does, so we could if we wanted consider ourselves as a 'BBW' or a 'BUW' whichever you prefer I guess, and I know some ladies are niether, myself included but 'BOLW' (big ordinary looking woman) doesn't sound quite right either.

Just putting my two pennorth' in.

Devil

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"I love large ladies especially when my toung is in their pussy. they taste delicious

wow taste depends on weight... never knew that

Mistress x

rubbish if you ask me as it depends on one's diet not their size

I know... I was being facetious

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I intially questioned the use of this term but I guess its personal choice. I was moved to comment on the subject soon after reading the Forums and being surprised to see lots of larger people bashing slimmer ones... the usual no personality, vain etc then calling themselves beautiful in the bbw way. It is just seemed to smack of hypocracy and I felt that they were knocking others to make themselves feel better.

Personally I enjoy being in the company of attractive people of both sexes and have found that size has nothing to do with measure of personality, intelligence or anything else. What a ridiculous idea that it could. Peoples weight differs throughout their lifetime generally speaking and although can affect self esteem usually doesnt affect much else. I can understand why the OP asked the question.... and of course everyone is entitled to answer the question. Difficult situation on a site like this as you do need to sell yourself in a manner of speaking, especially if you choose not to show verifications so think a little licence should be granted. I like to see someone describing themselves as attractive, goodlooking, whatever as it shows confidence I think. I will soon know after speaking to them if they have an out of control ego or not. Would also know if someone who is a little larger has a chip on their shoulder about it which is equally unattractive in my opinion.

Personally I dont do labels. Im unique as is everyone else. Beauty, well I guess we all have different tastes...although most people do agree in general on the beautiful or the visually challenged. Looks indeed arent everything but on a swinging site, well they are a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very well put

and lovely arse

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"very well put

and lovely arse

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See we had to modify the bbw term for my lovely girl. Bex is a bbbw, (big beautiful bald women)

Sorry will crawl back in to my box.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

"See we had to modify the bbw term for my lovely girl. Bex is a bbbw, (big beautiful bald women)

Sorry will crawl back in to my box.

… and she looks great! Very pretty young lady.

You can come out of your box now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fuller figure on a woman mmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the term was coined in the USA and rather than the fact that the women themselves are beautiful it was meant to mean that some guys can actually find the size of the woman beautiful so ya can chill ya clogs as its purely used to simply say hey guys that find our wobbles beautifull here i am come wobble me

so no need to see us that use it as arrogant we are just using it to both attract those that like rolls n wobbles and warn those that don't it really is that simple

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over a year ago

"the term was coined in the USA and rather than the fact that the women themselves are beautiful it was meant to mean that some guys can actually find the size of the woman beautiful so ya can chill ya clogs as its purely used to simply say hey guys that find our wobbles beautifull here i am come wobble me

so no need to see us that use it as arrogant we are just using it to both attract those that like rolls n wobbles and warn those that don't it really is that simple

Simples

very well said .bouncy oh bouncy I love bouncing also hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so no need to see us that use it as arrogant we are just using it to both attract those that like rolls n wobbles and warn those that don't it really is that simple

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a BBW but would still describe myself as beautiful even if I were a skinny minny. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and doesn't always mean external beauty even though I am pretty dam gorgeous myself lol x

personally I don't see a problem with the term, at least people know what it means and what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know it stands for big beautiful woman however i think its just 3 letters to indicate a womans body size

like its called a boxing ring.. but its actually a square

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over a year ago

"i know it stands for big beautiful woman however i think its just 3 letters to indicate a womans body size

like its called a boxing ring.. but its actually a square

ooooo likes ya angle

personally i'm actually starting to finally enjoy these threads i get to find new BBWs i haven't seen before when they post always good to have new profiles to perv

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I love all women in all shapes and sizes. Each have their own wonderful merits, and variety is after all the spice of life

sexiness comes from within!

Wolf

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over a year ago

"I love all women in all shapes and sizes. Each have their own wonderful merits, and variety is after all the spice of life

sexiness comes from within!

Wolf

I like women in all shapes and sizes too. I dont see whats wrong with describing yourself as fat though, if its not in a nasty way. Some fat people i dont fancy, some skinny peeps i dont fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

simpleeessss......

BBW is much easier for me to type than fat ugly bird any one want a shag.

id much rather say BW but then it looks like a typo and might b mistaken for "beautiful woman" and god forbid if woman thought they were that.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"It's just a term...surely no one takes it literally and thinks all BBWs are drop dead gorgeous? Isn't it just a positive way for women with that particular body type to self-identify?

I agree..its more of a term of endearment..let be honest they could be referred to as a BBB 'Big Bouncing Bird' or HWW 'Heavy Weight Whopper'..just as BOB could be 'bag of bones'...the 'beautiful' bit takes the sting out of it...

Much the same as 'fabulous' is a category on here after 'ample'

Its just a shame though that any of us are put into categories and people dont just accept them for what/who they actually are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definition of beautiful......'having beauty; having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about,'

nothing to do with size, therefore bueaty if not only for thin people or large people....everyonme has their own thoughts of what or who is beautiful.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more important to be beautiful on the inside to be honest. Desirability has always been within the person I choose to be with, regardless of anything.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate labels and thats all it is really ..

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