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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs has said if it happens it happens, just waiting for our first willing Male to enjoy the mix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My Mrs has said if it happens it happens, just waiting for our first willing Male to enjoy the mix."

Interesting, so you have always been bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hot! Though with grabbing his hair and forcing his head down he didn't have a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Mrs has said if it happens it happens, just waiting for our first willing Male to enjoy the mix.

Interesting, so you have always been bi?"

Not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first noticed the man I was to marry,I initially thought he was gay. Only when we met properly I realised he was bi. It was just the way he was with guys and how he looked or behaved with them. Very obvious when we started swinging-to my delight and arousal. He's on Fabguys, and yes ,fully accept it. In fact, I encourage him to play with as many guys as possible and tell me all about it when we fuck.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

We have had bi play, just kinda happened by the notion that the Mr enjoys seeing ff play and i like seeing mm play.

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

My wife already knew I was bi TV when we met and love to see with a hard cock inside me.

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I have no idea where it came from, maybe a stigmatised youth kept my light under a bushel even hidden from myself. I've no idea how or what triggered it but I realised late last year, left it a month or so to make sure I knew what I was getting into and what it means to me, then broke it to Claire. I was expecting either a boot up the jacksy and out the door or floods of broken hearted tears. Instead she raised her eyes and smiled and said "oh my god, that's made me week at the knees".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea where it came from, maybe a stigmatised youth kept my light under a bushel even hidden from myself. I've no idea how or what triggered it but I realised late last year, left it a month or so to make sure I knew what I was getting into and what it means to me, then broke it to Claire. I was expecting either a boot up the jacksy and out the door or floods of broken hearted tears. Instead she raised her eyes and smiled and said "oh my god, that's made me week at the knees"."

Good for you both of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?"

Is this something you’re considering yourself op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?

Is this something you’re considering yourself op? "

Haha. As soon as i typed i knew someone would ask. But no. I just find it fascinating the dynamic of people's relationships. Love is a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?

Is this something you’re considering yourself op?

Haha. As soon as i typed i knew someone would ask. But no. I just find it fascinating the dynamic of people's relationships. Love is a wonderful thing."

Just seemed an odd question from a straight man.

I think you’ll find most people who fancy the same sex always knew deep down that they did. They may have not wanted to admit that to themselves but the possibility was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had just turned forty in my previous marriage when I realised I was really enjoying watching guys come in porn films.

Three years later I met Cheryl, herself bi, and she positively encouraged me to go and be myself. I couldn't be happier now, being married to someone who equally goes weak at the knees watching me play with guys

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?"

Honestly I wouldn't mind as long as he told me he was.. Preferably before said act as I would be a tad surprised but the we go with the flow with meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my hubby suck cock

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?"

I had no idea that I had a bi side until my swinging adventures back when I was single led me towards couples into the cuck and hotwife lifestyle.

After years of cuck's asking if I'm willing to have my cock sucked by a guy I eventually gave in. It gave me a deliciously wicked thrill and I have never looked back.

So when I met my girlfriend there was no way that I was going to keep it from her. Most of our fun with males is with orally bi guys so I get to suck and be sucked to my hearts content

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We love to share cock sucking duties in our meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Post OP

Life is a journey. My ex wife was totally against me being Bi. I asked her nicely if she minded if we had a threesome with because of my Bi needs and she told me I was a disgusting pervert for suggesting such a thing. Needless to say we are no longer together.

Move on from there I met Mrs N and we started swinging. At first I hid my Bi ness in the usual way by being a bit knee jerky and did the usual" arrghhhhh no" when a cock came near me. However gradually I found opportunities to squeeze and have sly licks and sucks when I though she wasn't looking and men were doing the same to me.

One day we were sat on the bed and I just blurted it out. I said I enjoy cock more and more and I needed to come out about it. She said oh that's fine. She wasn't sure if it turned her on but if I fancied some dick go for it, so I did.

I feel a lot less inclined to do stuff behind her back with men and if we fancy getting a man in for Bi fun occasionally we do it. It's how it should be. Things getting more cucky of late which is nice and she even let me CD a little when we played alone. Not sure if that will go any further but I imagine she'll as always just go with the flow. What a partner. She is so great and I love the journey together rather than alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good Post OP

Life is a journey. My ex wife was totally against me being Bi. I asked her nicely if she minded if we had a threesome with because of my Bi needs and she told me I was a disgusting pervert for suggesting such a thing. Needless to say we are no longer together.

Move on from there I met Mrs N and we started swinging. At first I hid my Bi ness in the usual way by being a bit knee jerky and did the usual" arrghhhhh no" when a cock came near me. However gradually I found opportunities to squeeze and have sly licks and sucks when I though she wasn't looking and men were doing the same to me.

One day we were sat on the bed and I just blurted it out. I said I enjoy cock more and more and I needed to come out about it. She said oh that's fine. She wasn't sure if it turned her on but if I fancied some dick go for it, so I did.

I feel a lot less inclined to do stuff behind her back with men and if we fancy getting a man in for Bi fun occasionally we do it. It's how it should be. Things getting more cucky of late which is nice and she even let me CD a little when we played alone. Not sure if that will go any further but I imagine she'll as always just go with the flow. What a partner. She is so great and I love the journey together rather than alone.

"

I imagine there are quite a few cpls with partners having to hide. Glad for both of of you

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

Always fantasised about joining a bi couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex wife used to cuckold me and made me suck cock and dress in stockings and sussies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ex wife used to cuckold me and made me suck cock and dress in stockings and sussies "

"Made you" so u obviously open to the idea. Did u discuss b4 hand??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Post OP

Life is a journey. My ex wife was totally against me being Bi. I asked her nicely if she minded if we had a threesome with because of my Bi needs and she told me I was a disgusting pervert for suggesting such a thing. Needless to say we are no longer together.

Move on from there I met Mrs N and we started swinging. At first I hid my Bi ness in the usual way by being a bit knee jerky and did the usual" arrghhhhh no" when a cock came near me. However gradually I found opportunities to squeeze and have sly licks and sucks when I though she wasn't looking and men were doing the same to me.

One day we were sat on the bed and I just blurted it out. I said I enjoy cock more and more and I needed to come out about it. She said oh that's fine. She wasn't sure if it turned her on but if I fancied some dick go for it, so I did.

I feel a lot less inclined to do stuff behind her back with men and if we fancy getting a man in for Bi fun occasionally we do it. It's how it should be. Things getting more cucky of late which is nice and she even let me CD a little when we played alone. Not sure if that will go any further but I imagine she'll as always just go with the flow. What a partner. She is so great and I love the journey together rather than alone.

I imagine there are quite a few cpls with partners having to hide. Glad for both of of you"

Some of the most shouty profiles stating ‘no bi men’ have quietly bisexual male men in them. It’s hardly surprising he can’t tell her when she’s so against it.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

always knew i wasnt against the idea after wanking sessions with a mate at 14 got a bit touchy feely so when we started swinging it was a natural thing to look for more

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?"

I wish! Not that I have a hubby.

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"Ladies how was it finding out for the first time hubby was willing to play with men? Did you readily accept it? Did the idea grow on you?

And gentelmen was it the heat of the moment that got you into it or were you always that way inclined?

I wish! Not that I have a hubby."

I wish I had a gf/wife!

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

I love to watch Jon suck a big hard cock and share sucking it with him! He's orally bi and happy to wank off a guy but nothing further. It's definitely the best of both worlds! Yum!

Jayne xx

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always inclined that way for me, took some time to admit to my wife but she's totally into it and opened her mind

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

My wife first suggested it and I was very reluctant at first but once I’d given it some thought and watch her choice of porn etc I was actually quite turned on.

First time was a very nervous affair but it made us hungry for more

She loves watching me suck cock and always gets so aroused and horny which is win win for all

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"My wife first suggested it and I was very reluctant at first but once I’d given it some thought and watch her choice of porn etc I was actually quite turned on.

First time was a very nervous affair but it made us hungry for more

She loves watching me suck cock and always gets so aroused and horny which is win win for all "

I’m so glad that you guys took that first step. I loved having my cock in your mouth that night at the VA. Getting to watch your sexy wife sucking someone else’s cock at the same time added to that pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I met my OH on here it was the first thing he told me, he's still curious for now! Little did I know we'd end up falling for each other and I'd accept him as he is. we've come back after three years away from fab concentrating on us but knowing we still have urges to satisfy

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Love watching them slowly join in

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"My wife first suggested it and I was very reluctant at first but once I’d given it some thought and watch her choice of porn etc I was actually quite turned on.

First time was a very nervous affair but it made us hungry for more

She loves watching me suck cock and always gets so aroused and horny which is win win for all

I’m so glad that you guys took that first step. I loved having my cock in your mouth that night at the VA. Getting to watch your sexy wife sucking someone else’s cock at the same time added to that pleasure "

Than you it was a particular highlight, we love sucking cock together

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

From a orally bi guys perspective I think it’s hot sharing with both sexes if everyone is comfortable with it. Wish I started down this road years ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want a fully bi experience like my wife has but she don't want to see it which makes me want her to agree even more .. ..oh the confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only like the hardness in my mouth the feeling of power I get, I don't do kissing,stroking body but like to watch a guy cum. I'm straight in other ways, doesn't make sense to me but I like to look at and feel cocks in my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sucked guy from here.

I always want to meet couple and be force to suck cock by Mrs (doesn't happen yet).

I think it's something in forbidden stuff if you know what I mean. So I meet guy from here and we have some action;) only one time so far

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Its really good to hear some positive stories on this but unfotunately this isn't the reality for many.

My ex found out when we were discussing fantasies when we were considering swinging. She had already said she was curious and initially went on to encourage me to explore. She then later claimed this was the reason she wanted to seperate although as ever in these things this wasn't the entire story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage..."

How long have you known you were bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?"

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years"

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it don't class myself as bi just believe if your playing play with what's handy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years"

Then that’s the start of the conversation if you decide to that is.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved...."

really .....

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By *haufferuknottsMan
over a year ago

loughborough

I’d love to meet a bi couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

really ....."

Yes..you have no idea how long I have been harbouring this secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love bi guys. A huge turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising I was bi/pansexual came separately to my experiences. I had a couple of experiences in my younger years that I brushed off as experimentation and having the raging horn. The next was a deliberate spur of the moment meet with a post-op TS. Then the next one was heat of the moment with a couple. Then a deliberate yet spur of the moment meet. with a bloke. I still held onto the idea that it was all just experimentation and decided I was straight. Only two years later did I decide I was definitely it straight and gradually realised the best description of my sexuality was pansexual albeit predominantly heterosexual. I haven’t acted on that aspect of my sexuality since ‘my experimentation’ - so I’ve been a non-practicing pansexual for the last six years.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

really .....

Yes..you have no idea how long I have been harbouring this secret."

Well you did say. Well good luck. I believe honesty is the right thing. I only had one partner that struggled to accept my sexuality ( I’m the fem) and I divorced him. Whilst it wasn’t the overriding reason for our split, his relunctance to even discuss even look at me when I told him, which was very early in our relationship, made me feel like I was dirty. Whatever happens I hope you find peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

really .....

Yes..you have no idea how long I have been harbouring this secret.

Well you did say. Well good luck. I believe honesty is the right thing. I only had one partner that struggled to accept my sexuality ( I’m the fem) and I divorced him. Whilst it wasn’t the overriding reason for our split, his relunctance to even discuss even look at me when I told him, which was very early in our relationship, made me feel like I was dirty. Whatever happens I hope you find peace. "

Thank you for undersunderstanding,

It feels so much better out in the open and as you say being honest was the best policy, just ashamrd it took me so long to admit it to myself and also to pluck up the courage to tell her, knowing what the outcome would be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna suck a dick OP just go for it. We all know you want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

really .....

Yes..you have no idea how long I have been harbouring this secret.

Well you did say. Well good luck. I believe honesty is the right thing. I only had one partner that struggled to accept my sexuality ( I’m the fem) and I divorced him. Whilst it wasn’t the overriding reason for our split, his relunctance to even discuss even look at me when I told him, which was very early in our relationship, made me feel like I was dirty. Whatever happens I hope you find peace.

Thank you for undersunderstanding,

It feels so much better out in the open and as you say being honest was the best policy, just ashamrd it took me so long to admit it to myself and also to pluck up the courage to tell her, knowing what the outcome would be..."

This post shows a big part of love is aacceptance. She just might choose love and accept you in every way

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Just embraced it really

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've been to a few bi party and have a great time. First one I just mingled and chatted to couples and singles alike. I met a sexy couple that we later had a very sexy meet a month later. The last bi party was at a couple I had met many times alone. This exceeded my dreams. Everyone sexy and openminded. I could play with any cock or pussy I wanted. So partys are a good way to dip your toe in or cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to tell my wife but I dont have the courage...

How long have you known you were bi?

I had an exp at 15 then nothing til 50.. I think I denied it all those years

Just told her...marriage over..relieved....

really .....

Yes..you have no idea how long I have been harbouring this secret.

Well you did say. Well good luck. I believe honesty is the right thing. I only had one partner that struggled to accept my sexuality ( I’m the fem) and I divorced him. Whilst it wasn’t the overriding reason for our split, his relunctance to even discuss even look at me when I told him, which was very early in our relationship, made me feel like I was dirty. Whatever happens I hope you find peace.

Thank you for undersunderstanding,

It feels so much better out in the open and as you say being honest was the best policy, just ashamrd it took me so long to admit it to myself and also to pluck up the courage to tell her, knowing what the outcome would be...

This post shows a big part of love is aacceptance. She just might choose love and accept you in every way"

She hasn't......

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