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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

Depends on the man, but for me I'm not disappointed if a woman doesn't squirt. It's not a goal as such as I know not everyone can do it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?

Depends on the man, but for me I'm not disappointed if a woman doesn't squirt. It's not a goal as such as I know not everyone can do it."

Thank fuck for that! If anyone tried to make me that would really naff off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Some men have messaged me along the lines 'I'd love to make you squirt' etc, I guess those sort of guys would be disappointed. It's an instant turn off for me when they presume you can or want to do that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the be all and end all for me but I can only cum with hubby probably as even though I enjoy swapping I’m never quite as relaxed as I am with him and he knows my body so well and others don’t and nobody apart from him has made me squirt and that took years to happen now it’s a regular event

Beauty

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Lou can squirt and yes, I do enjoy it. I wouldn’t expect it all of the time and from other women either. Just seeing the ecstatic pleasure on her face when she cums is enough for me

Ed x

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Not all women can squirt it’s a myth they can!!! Porn has a lot to answer for confusing all the poor men in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I stopped taking my prescription diuretics, I have stopped squirting. Also I have figured that if it's caused by pain like a man biting my nipple too hard, it's an involuntary piss. XXX XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank goddess for that!

I was starting to think that my orgasms weren’t good enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he first started to make me squirt it scared the hell out of me as we had been together 7 or 8 year before it happened now I embrace it and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

Nope. I hate sleeping in the wet spot as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never squirted ( the word is enough to give me shudders) but I have amazing orgasms.

I'll quite happily pee on the man if he desires a wet patch but don't let it get in the way of my orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never squirted ( the word is enough to give me shudders) but I have amazing orgasms.

I'll quite happily pee on the man if he desires a wet patch but don't let it get in the way of my orgasm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank goddess for that!

I was starting to think that my orgasms weren’t good enough! "

If your orgasm is good enough for you, it is good enough.

Too much emphasis is placed on squirting sometimes. Blokes proclaiming they can guarantee to make a woman squirt.

If a woman doesn't squirt it can seem like a failure. If a man can't "make" a woman squirt, he is a failure.

Whatever happens, happens. Why force it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages along the lines of "i'd love to make you squirt" and you can feel their dissapointment when you say you don't.

I've put a "non squirter" note in my profile now, to avoid dissapointment

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

And here we are thinking the aim is to cum/orgasm not piss the bed, we prefer women who have some bladder control, but hey we guess when you get to a certain age things can relax a bit downstairs. We just don't see the joy in having someone piss in your face and if a bloke needs to see you piss in order to know you've finished then he's not paying attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a woman to experience a strong orgasm but no squirting is not required, in fact I'd rather she didn't.

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By *ornylicious67Woman
over a year ago

Ryton


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed."

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

I have made a few women squirt and it does feel great but not every woman can do it. But on the other hand most woman are amazing when they cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are disappointed when a woman doesn't squirt. I'm disappointed when a man wants me to.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!"
No it's not squirting is pissing, gushing is vaginal fluid release

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience "

It's not a subtle difference. It's a huge fucking difference between squirting and an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!No it's not squirting is pissing, gushing is vaginal fluid release"

Vagina fluid release is also dripping and oozing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disappointed when a woman doesn't squirt. I'm disappointed when a man wants me to. "

I cant understand when men ask for this. Sometimes it happens. I would be great just to be fucking a sexy lady x

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By *entonMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Too squirt or not to squirt lol.......if you bring a woman to orgasm properly you won't need a squirt to let you know

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"Too squirt or not to squirt lol.......if you bring a woman to orgasm properly you won't need a squirt to let you know "

precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firslty to my knowledge not all women can/do squirt and most say the experience is closer to "wetting themselves" - either way, I do know that technique has a lot to do with it and can/will encourage you to Squirt/Gush or Pee even - hopefully all to a climactic conclusion

For those like myself who love to indulge, its an awesome feeling when a women just explodes all over you

Happy times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disappointed when a woman doesn't squirt. I'm disappointed when a man wants me to.

I cant understand when men ask for this. Sometimes it happens. I would be great just to be fucking a sexy lady x"

The wetter the better used to mean she's turned on. Now it means you've found her weak bladder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

You only squirting with certain men is due to their technique.

In my experience most men think that squirting/ gushing is an orgasm and enjoy the visual as though it's a badge of honour. Men need to learn that an orgasm can accompany squirting but not necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As to whether gush/squirt is urine, well it'll be argued for years to come.

In the past i have been ready to gush but because the urge to pee is strong, I've halted play and sat on the toilet. I have waited and waited and waited for the let down reflex to be able to urinate. Whenever i ignored the urge (prepared with an empty bladder), i have gushed. It hasn't smelled or tasted like urine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've squirted/gushed on the odd occasion mainly when I've been super horny

Also had to check and smell to see if it was wee and wasn't

Doesn't happen all the time but when it does it's messy

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By *entonMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Some men are disappointed when a woman doesn't squirt. I'm disappointed when a man wants me to.

I cant understand when men ask for this. Sometimes it happens. I would be great just to be fucking a sexy lady x

The wetter the better used to mean she's turned on. Now it means you've found her weak bladder. "

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

They would be disipointed with me. I don't squrt. Many see it as a challange. But I just don't do it. Being a Pan - bi sexual fem, I don't like squirters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't squirt/gush and as far as I know the men I've met haven't been disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only ever happened to me twice ( both in the same night) i wondered what the hell was going on haha. But i do cum lots and it is more intense x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience

It's not a subtle difference. It's a huge fucking difference between squirting and an orgasm.

"

OMG! This is bang on, squirting is enjoyable but I prefer a none squirt orgasm they are powerful and at times I have been known to pass out mine are very powerful and all consuming x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience

It's not a subtle difference. It's a huge fucking difference between squirting and an orgasm.

"

Stop being predantic lol, I'm sure you get the meaning of what I was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!"

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee."

Fab not can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Em can squirt. Squirts most times now didn't always do it. Love it. Just need extra towels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience

It's not a subtle difference. It's a huge fucking difference between squirting and an orgasm.

Stop being predantic lol, I'm sure you get the meaning of what I was trying to say"

I'm not being pedantic. There is no subtlety about it. One doesn't put pressure on the bladder or urethra; the other does. One only affects the area around the urinary tract and bladder, the other can affect the whole body. Which would you rather have? Bearing in mind one feels good and doesn't leave you laying in piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men have messaged me along the lines 'I'd love to make you squirt' etc, I guess those sort of guys would be disappointed. It's an instant turn off for me when they presume you can or want to do that!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee."

That's the kind of response I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because it's a visual representation of climaxing, and still pretty rare. On here it's easy to think every girl squirts but in normal life it's still the exception rather than the rule (unless I'm doing something wrong! Lol).

I remember the first time I made a girl squirt really well and I was walking around like I was Bruce double hard Lee, for about a month. Having been with a squirted for a few years now I understand the subtle differences in orgasm, but I was naive before and probably just as bad as the aforementioned guys. It's easily done, I guess it's all about experience "

Squirting has fuck all to do with an orgasm. I certainly don't piss when I cum and I so my pelvic floor exercises all the time I don't ever want to squirt. Stop trying to tell us woman how our bodies work.

I have has my hands in more vaginas than you could ever dream to in your lifetime.

The Brain is right you are wrong

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Can't speak for other men but I certainly don't think that. Alexis rarely squirts and neither of us knows what exactly causes it but she still has mindblowing orgasms. So she tell me

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?

You only squirting with certain men is due to their technique.

In my experience most men think that squirting/ gushing is an orgasm and enjoy the visual as though it's a badge of honour. Men need to learn that an orgasm can accompany squirting but not necessarily."

Yes I squirt and orgasm at the same time. Totally different to other orgasms. I’m not bothered what squirting is. I enjoy it so that’s that. Sometimes it doesn’t smell of urine at all and I’ve emptied my bladder after play. Other times I have smelt faint urine. Bed protection required either way

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

If she doesn't squirt like a fire hydrant and wail like a demented banshee... I've failed as a man ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually updated my profile today to add in that I don't squirt. Quite frankly fucked off being asked about it and compared to women that can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can squirt well gush haha had 2 long relationships 14 year and 8 and never did till a few months ago when started swinging , now I can make myself gush

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I've actually updated my profile today to add in that I don't squirt. Quite frankly fucked off being asked about it and compared to women that can! "

Oh that’s not good. I’d do the opposite if you get guys so hung up on it. Tell them you do but their techniques not right.

Squirting is just a different kind of orgasm to me. No worse or better. In fact it is worse because of the mess !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee."

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?"

I didn't say a dipstick.

I said a urine test. Different. A testing of liquid to prove it's urine. Done in a lab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?"

Never felt pressured into thinking the squirt is the most amazing. Only had 1 woman squirt and it didn't really.make me think any more of it apart from it made my carpets soaked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I know this has been done a million times before but other threads have never really answered my question

First of all I’m not a natural squirter, I can do it but only it would seem with certain men!

Thinking all down to tech...anyway am I right in thinking that a man only feels that a woman only squirts when she has/is have the most mind blowing orgasm ever?

Personally when it comes to orgasm I am hard work, but feel that my own (minus the squirt) is powerful and intense lasting near on a full minute, but those that fixate on squirting feel that because it’s not seen isn’t mind blowing.

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?

You only squirting with certain men is due to their technique.

In my experience most men think that squirting/ gushing is an orgasm and enjoy the visual as though it's a badge of honour. Men need to learn that an orgasm can accompany squirting but not necessarily.

Yes I squirt and orgasm at the same time. Totally different to other orgasms. I’m not bothered what squirting is. I enjoy it so that’s that. Sometimes it doesn’t smell of urine at all and I’ve emptied my bladder after play. Other times I have smelt faint urine. Bed protection required either way "

I used to be solely in the camp of gush does not equal urine. I've had an experience where it has been urine. Ex b/f had me tied up, after hours of gushing and rehydration i squirted - it was urine that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?

I didn't say a dipstick.

I said a urine test. Different. A testing of liquid to prove it's urine. Done in a lab.

"

Well you wouldn't personally be doing the lab test, hence questioning you.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I've actually updated my profile today to add in that I don't squirt. Quite frankly fucked off being asked about it and compared to women that can! "

Me too, unfortunately guys in clubs don't have access to my profile so I still endure the finger fucking as some try desperately to prove me wrong when I tell them it won't happen.

Plus, the more vigorous the fingering, the drier I get. I wish men would just focus on the clit, seems invisible to some, even with my piercing to signpost it for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?

I didn't say a dipstick.

I said a urine test. Different. A testing of liquid to prove it's urine. Done in a lab.

Well you wouldn't personally be doing the lab test, hence questioning you."

It as merely a point to prove it's urine.

I suggest all non believers ask their doctor or a gynecologist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've actually updated my profile today to add in that I don't squirt. Quite frankly fucked off being asked about it and compared to women that can!

Me too, unfortunately guys in clubs don't have access to my profile so I still endure the finger fucking as some try desperately to prove me wrong when I tell them it won't happen.

Plus, the more vigorous the fingering, the drier I get. I wish men would just focus on the clit, seems invisible to some, even with my piercing to signpost it for them "

The thing is, you don't have to finger fuck, or put a pneumatic drill in the vagina to stimulate the g-spot. Massaging it works.

I'm actually extremely pissed off with rough finger work and think I'll ban fingers from entering that delicate area (especially as i have suffered trauma to the urethra and/ or vagina, resulting in a UTI).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?

I didn't say a dipstick.

I said a urine test. Different. A testing of liquid to prove it's urine. Done in a lab.

Well you wouldn't personally be doing the lab test, hence questioning you.

It as merely a point to prove it's urine.

I suggest all non believers ask their doctor or a gynecologist"

There is no robust evidence out there to suggest it's urine. Likewise there is no robust evidence to suggest it's not. Doctors will theorise what it is.

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By *iWifeHappyLifeCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Whilst some women do release urine during some types of orgasm, female ejaculation is not urine and it comes from the Skene's glands either side of the urethra.

I won't claim to know if there would be traces of urine given the proximity to the urethra but the liquid doesn't smell or taste anything like urine and for me personally at least it seems to be stimulated by pressure on the g spot (similar to how men do with their prostate, which is their equivalent of the skene's glands). My interpretation of it is that it's just a different (messier!) kind of orgasm

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland

TL;DR - it's not piss

B xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had women who squirt - yes its a good feeling getting covered in their juices but not not a necessity - reading their body language building up to an intense non squirting o is pleasurable in itself

However my ex used to gush loads absolutely soak both of us the bed everything and that was so hot

I crave that now

Would love a gusher in my life

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's the assumption that when a woman doesn't squirt there's something wrong with her that's pisses me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the assumption that when a woman doesn't squirt there's something wrong with her that's pisses me off!"

Same here. That some women 'cant' do it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's the assumption that when a woman doesn't squirt there's something wrong with her that's pisses me off!

Same here. That some women 'cant' do it. "

Exactly!

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By *ugzbunny1Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I really dont get the fixation with squirting myself...some women do, others dont...and it can change around..From my perspective its whether the woman enjoys the experience, hopefully including orgasm i hasten to add, which is important..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Name robust research.

Dipstick? How does that prove it's urine when it's checking for abnormalities of urine composition?

Ever stimulated your saliva glands?

I didn't say a dipstick.

I said a urine test. Different. A testing of liquid to prove it's urine. Done in a lab.

Well you wouldn't personally be doing the lab test, hence questioning you.

It as merely a point to prove it's urine.

I suggest all non believers ask their doctor or a gynecologist"

If it was that easy then it would have been done a long time ago and there would not be an on going argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst some women do release urine during some types of orgasm, female ejaculation is not urine and it comes from the Skene's glands either side of the urethra.

I won't claim to know if there would be traces of urine given the proximity to the urethra but the liquid doesn't smell or taste anything like urine and for me personally at least it seems to be stimulated by pressure on the g spot (similar to how men do with their prostate, which is their equivalent of the skene's glands). My interpretation of it is that it's just a different (messier!) kind of orgasm

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland

TL;DR - it's not piss

B xx"

We aren't talking about female ejaculation the biggest myth ever but squirting.

I give up, I believe in evolution and science where others believe in God. We are just going to have to agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s two different things. It’s probably harder to make me orgasm than gush for fellas with the ol magic touch. Sometimes rarely I gush during sex. I’ve never gushed when I orgasmed. I’m in the I don’t give a flying doo-dah what it is, camp, but I love the sensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee."

Had to quote this.

One of the biggest myths of female sexuality is squirter. There is no gland down there that holds that amount of fluid except one thing, the bladder.

Also physiological studies has shown bladder filling and emptying during sexual stimulation during sex. Also when it is tested it has been shown to be mostly urine with a few different proteins in it.

It's stress incontinence as the same time as an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Had to quote this.

One of the biggest myths of female sexuality is squirter. There is no gland down there that holds that amount of fluid except one thing, the bladder.

Also physiological studies has shown bladder filling and emptying during sexual stimulation during sex. Also when it is tested it has been shown to be mostly urine with a few different proteins in it.

It's stress incontinence as the same time as an orgasm. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't care what it is or where it comes from all we know is we don't find it enjoyable.

We had a meet with a pleasant woman who we had been chatting to for a while and when we arrived at hers we noticed that there was a mattress protector on the bed to which we really thought nothing of..

However the woman started playing and I was taking a few pics at the request of the other lady and I noticed that Mrs filth was starting to look a little uncomfortable but at this point I hadn't twigged why... Anyway me and the other woman ended up in a 69 position and after a few seconds I was having a wtf moment as she started gushing all over me which came a total surprise as she hadn't mentioned that she was a gusher and we hadn't thought to ask!

I went home feeling like I'd spent an hour being pissed on to be honest i wasn't too bothered when she was on top and she was gushing all over my balls but I was grossed out when I was pinned to the bed when she was sat on my face gushing her never ending supply of whatever the fuck it is all over my neck and chest

This probably sounds harsh but It actually reminded me of my dog as I can walk him for miles along the beach and he is guaranteed to piss on every breakwater on the way and again on the way back with his never ending supply of piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't squirt, never have, but i get very very wet down there and have very nice intense orgasms.

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE

The way I see it, if she is as wet as an otters pocket,, before during and after it’s all gravy,,

Horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me at all if a women didn't piss on me or over the bed.

OP is asking about squirting which is a different thing to pee!!

Nope it's pee. Stimulation of the urethra. Weak pelvic floor muscles. No part of the female anatomy produces this volume of liquid other than the bladder u less of course your pregnant and your water have broken (qualified midwife here).

No sometimes it won't smell like piss if the women is well hydrates but doesn't hide the fact it's wee.

Who wants to see during sex other than those interested in eatersports.

Can is completely divided by this and some absolutely blinkered and won't listen to science.

If I could do a urine test on each and every squirt I would show you it's wee.

Had to quote this.

One of the biggest myths of female sexuality is squirter. There is no gland down there that holds that amount of fluid except one thing, the bladder.

Also physiological studies has shown bladder filling and emptying during sexual stimulation during sex. Also when it is tested it has been shown to be mostly urine with a few different proteins in it.

It's stress incontinence as the same time as an orgasm. "

No good quoting without the source.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"We don't care what it is or where it comes from all we know is we don't find it enjoyable.

We had a meet with a pleasant woman who we had been chatting to for a while and when we arrived at hers we noticed that there was a mattress protector on the bed to which we really thought nothing of..

However the woman started playing and I was taking a few pics at the request of the other lady and I noticed that Mrs filth was starting to look a little uncomfortable but at this point I hadn't twigged why... Anyway me and the other woman ended up in a 69 position and after a few seconds I was having a wtf moment as she started gushing all over me which came a total surprise as she hadn't mentioned that she was a gusher and we hadn't thought to ask!

I went home feeling like I'd spent an hour being pissed on to be honest i wasn't too bothered when she was on top and she was gushing all over my balls but I was grossed out when I was pinned to the bed when she was sat on my face gushing her never ending supply of whatever the fuck it is all over my neck and chest

This probably sounds harsh but It actually reminded me of my dog as I can walk him for miles along the beach and he is guaranteed to piss on every breakwater on the way and again on the way back with his never ending supply of piss.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading back over the last few days it seems that lots of people getting all wound up about something nice sexually

Whether its Squirting - gushing - Peeing or an Awesome wet orgasm - its ALL good - isn't it ?????

j xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do men feel let down\disapointed if a women doesn’t squirt?

."

i rarely squirt, if i do its as i trust my playmate and usually its not a quick meet, but its not something i tell people, that i dont squirt unless comes up in conversation ( i blame porn)

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish


"Thank goddess for that!

I was starting to think that my orgasms weren’t good enough! "

Your orgasams are for you to enjoy by which I mean I get pleasure form the pleasure a woman gains if she feels she is satisfied

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I feel let down and disappointed and if it happens I simply won't see the woman again. ??

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By *weet and Spicy69Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

Wouldn't worry to much about it most of it is just pee any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting and peeing r 2 different things

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I haven't squirted but I do get fed up of men saying they are going to make me squirt.

It's just painful and gets boring.

I've never had a woman say I'm going to make you sqirt.

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

Squirt is not piss, but can be very messy, T squirts but we only try now and again it’s down to technique and the woman relaxing and pushing it out, it isn’t an Orgasm either.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

One of lifes new rules all pork must be pulled all caramel must be salted and all women must squirt ?

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By *weet and Spicy69Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

Most of it is pee with slight secretion from pancreas studies were done on this subject have a google

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By *weet and Spicy69Couple
over a year ago

Northwest


"Most of it is pee with slight secretion from pancreas studies were done on this subject have a google "

Sorry prostrate meant to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So good to read we are still chatting about my fav subject ......bring it on, but enjoyably wet xxx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met a woman that doesn't

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’d be disappointed if she did as I’ve got better things to do than clear up any woman’s piss from my bedsheets and carpet .

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

I've only ever been made to squirt by a couple of men but like you op i still have mind blowing orgasms if i don't it just depends on the technique they use to how i cum i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fed up of the whole seeing squirting as being a goal and a trophy. Some ladies can, some can’t. It must be awful for women who can’t who are unfortunate to meet with guys who think they can make it happen. As far as I can see ‘normal’ orgasms and squirting are two very different sensations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of it is pee with slight secretion from pancreas studies were done on this subject have a google

Sorry prostrate meant to say "

Prostate, really???

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Most of it is pee with slight secretion from pancreas studies were done on this subject have a google

Sorry prostrate meant to say

Prostate, really???"

Not the prostate, only men have one of those (as I assume cornishman_45 is alluding to). I think you mean the female analogue: the skene's gland (or skene glands: put the 's' where you like ). It sits inside the vagina near the back end of the clitoris and secretes lubrication (or cum as we might say it). Apparently quite a lot of it for some women.

For those worried about the pee vs cum question, the answer is usually a bit of both: in experiments the ratio of pee to cum varied from almost all pee to almost all cum. I'll let everyone else decide whether or not they are worried about that .

As for the reason lots of men get, shall we say, overly focused on squirting. I have a thought that it might be because it's the only form of female orgasm where the man can be absolutely sure that the woman has actually orgasmed and that he has therefor "done it" for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of it is pee with slight secretion from pancreas studies were done on this subject have a google

Sorry prostrate meant to say

Prostate, really???

Not the prostate, only men have one of those (as I assume cornishman_45 is alluding to). I think you mean the female analogue: the skene's gland (or skene glands: put the 's' where you like ). It sits inside the vagina near the back end of the clitoris and secretes lubrication (or cum as we might say it). Apparently quite a lot of it for some women.

For those worried about the pee vs cum question, the answer is usually a bit of both: in experiments the ratio of pee to cum varied from almost all pee to almost all cum. I'll let everyone else decide whether or not they are worried about that .

As for the reason lots of men get, shall we say, overly focused on squirting. I have a thought that it might be because it's the only form of female orgasm where the man can be absolutely sure that the woman has actually orgasmed and that he has therefor "done it" for her."

You can squirt without having an orgasm so a man cannot even be sure of that.

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You can squirt without having an orgasm so a man cannot even be sure of that. "

True, but I think most are unaware of that fact so it still stands as a potential explanation for why many become fixated on squirting.

There are other explanations, of course, and I'm sure the actual explanation is slightly different for every fixated man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for the reason lots of men get, shall we say, overly focused on squirting. I have a thought that it might be because it's the only form of female orgasm where the man can be absolutely sure that the woman has actually orgasmed and that he has therefor "done it" for her."

This isn't entirely true. Men can tell if a woman has cum by feeling her vaginal muscles contracting on him, and by the sudden increase of wetness.

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"This isn't entirely true. Men can tell if a woman has cum by feeling her vaginal muscles contracting on him, and by the sudden increase of wetness. "

Yes, that's true. Although there is always the potential for doubt that those contractions aren't a bona fide orgasm - particularly where the man isn't quite so experienced and/or the woman's natural contractions aren't easily felt.

And that sudden increase in wetness is basically the same mechanism that's at play during gushing/squirting: the release of cum from the skene's gland (which swells up with it as you're turned on and releases it during an orgasm).

I think I ought to retract slightly and say that fixating on the physical signs of a female orgasm is only one possible explanation - before I get a slapping .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a massive difference between a squirt and a squirting orgasm, I can squirt but it’s not like an orgasm just a release and an orgasm is better but a squirting orgasm is euphoric and goes on for minutes, involuntary shaking body with no control without even being touched, I have only ever managed this 5 times, 3 by myself and 2 from sex none of this finger blasting guys usually do as that just feels like I’m pissing myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On a personal note, squirting feels completely different to MY normal mind blowing climax.

I always feel left wanting when made to squirt, like its just not finished and im still waiting!

I personally want MY kind of climax, where my legs shake my body stiffens and pulsates with pleasure and i instinctively hold my breath... that to me should be a mans goal not a wet bed!

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By *nJ814Couple
over a year ago

And around other parts of the UK

As a male or woman yoj should listen for the breathing change an wetness change then exploit that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a personal note, squirting feels completely different to MY normal mind blowing climax.

I always feel left wanting when made to squirt, like its just not finished and im still waiting!

I personally want MY kind of climax, where my legs shake my body stiffens and pulsates with pleasure and i instinctively hold my breath... that to me should be a mans goal not a wet bed! "

I'm exactly the same as you

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