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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Are there any ladies out there who want or have an opinion on having a hot wife relationship. One where she is encouraged to fuck others whilst their partner remains 100% faithful ? Cuckolding with out the humiliation.

I crave this , is It just me?

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

This is us too

We’ve been having a Hotwife relationship for almost 20 months now (been together 17 years).

We did have some solo meets though, but it’s far too risky so we don’t now unless we’ve met the guys a few times first together. Plus I love seeing Mrs enjoying herself but equally, it’s a fun when she’s off on her own and sends me photos/videos of her antics.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (mrs) do solo meets then tell hubby how naughty I was

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

See I wouldn’t mind her playing separately, and not telling me her plans - just sending me a photo of what see is up to randomly - I have had something similar to this for the last 3 years of my 14 year marriage and we both loved it . Divorced now - but not down to the life style . Suppose I am craving what I once had

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I (mrs) do solo meets then tell hubby how naughty I was "

That is exactly what I want and once had and miss. I would be in work and just get a random photo to my phone of her with a cock in her mouth or being fucked at lunchtime- it used to drive us both wild and we would have incredible sex later that day. Surely there must be a single fem who wants this lifestyle on fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find it's fairly popular. And good fun too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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There are loads, but it needs to be an addition to an already working relationship, it's not enough just that you want the same thing, you have to be in sync and your expectations in other areas matched also.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 31/10/17 11:45:16]

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Stewart


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

Very much the way we are moving too.

Finding another couple where there was all-round mutual attraction was almost impossible, so it works well for us when (rarely) she finds someone she wants to play with. Also like others, the sex for us together afterwards is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

Lucky hubby. Just been perving on your pics wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread x

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

This is exactly what I want

Very much the way we are moving too.

Finding another couple where there was all-round mutual attraction was almost impossible, so it works well for us when (rarely) she finds someone she wants to play with. Also like others, the sex for us together afterwards is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to play MmF or MmFf sometimes my hubby watches sometimes he joins in. Horny sexy time had by all

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"We love to play MmF or MmFf sometimes my hubby watches sometimes he joins in. Horny sexy time had by all "

Haha that’s just swinging as opposed to hot wifing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solo hot wife meets o m g

Loved them

Shame she won’t do anymore

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Solo hot wife meets o m g

Loved them

Shame she won’t do anymore "

Was this your partner or somebody that you had a meet with

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By *oerow16Man
over a year ago

Essex/ London

My girlfriend and I have had few mmf she loves I so do I

We have an amazing relationship like this

She also likes to please me by having mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really like the idea of trying this out big turn on for me . Great blog

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Yes but that again is just generally swinging. I would want her to do it without my knowledge, and send me photo and videos of her antics , so I am counting the hours till she gets home

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

We've been hotwifing for two years. So much fun!

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"We've been hotwifing for two years. So much fun!"

So do you play alone or together? Smoking hot pics btw

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By *rincessandscoundrelCouple
over a year ago

westcliff

Love to watch Mikala played with in a nightclub or bar x

We go out together and she dresses to show off her body and ends up with two or more cocks on the go in the car park every time.

Love it x

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We play a lot like this. Both with Mr involved and also when not. I also have my own profile for meeting girls and sometimes couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

Pretty much sums us up too.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Love to watch Mikala played with in a nightclub or bar x

We go out together and she dresses to show off her body and ends up with two or more cocks on the go in the car park every time.

Love it x"

Yes that’s the type of thing I want - your lucky

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"We play a lot like this. Both with Mr involved and also when not. I also have my own profile for meeting girls and sometimes couples"

You have exactly what I am looking for - I have just had a perv at your profile - smoking hot !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww. I came into this threading thinking it was about sexy wireless internet access

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Awww. I came into this threading thinking it was about sexy wireless internet access "

Haha

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Totally how we’re set up, op. Lots of fun it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what we do and we love it.I love nothing better than watching my better half from all angles(which you can't do during sex lol)getting so much pleasure.Its a much a mental tjing as a physical in my book.Wpuldnt have it any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the concept x

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

In a stag and vixen relationship. Though on occasion I may play a little. We met on here, now my page is a couples and she has her own still. Most of our fun revolves round her with others. .

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By *aughty40sCplCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

This is how we got started! Always play together though....too much time for the mind to play tricks is Mrs N was off playing alone! So much fun inviting a guy to have some fun with us though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a regular Black Guy for Andrea to take us further

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

We love this.

I (Mrs spicy) get lots of fun from it, Mr spicy loves watching me have fun. He joins in sometimes so I get a good mfm but the sex with hubby afterwards is amazing.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"We love this.

I (Mrs spicy) get lots of fun from it, Mr spicy loves watching me have fun. He joins in sometimes so I get a good mfm but the sex with hubby afterwards is amazing. "

That’s what I once had and am now looking for again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any ladies out there who want or have an opinion on having a hot wife relationship. One where she is encouraged to fuck others whilst their partner remains 100% faithful ? Cuckolding with out the humiliation.

I crave this , is It just me?"

This is how we roll. Cuckold in, but for people who don't mutually loathe each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to assist with any hot wife’s

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely a hotwife

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yep we’ve moved on to this now, I rarely play with a fem but mrs gets a free pass, if I’m there or not

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Yep we’ve moved on to this now, I rarely play with a fem but mrs gets a free pass, if I’m there or not"

You are so lucky , do you both enjoy this as much as each other . I really am searching for a relationship with this dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how me & my husband swing his desires are to see me with other men, he will join in playing with me but has no intrest playing with other women, we are happy this way and it works for us.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We seem to be heading this way.del encourages guys to fuck me. And he watches while I play with others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am 100% interested so if any couples want to get in touch go ahead

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By *ngelcandyWoman
over a year ago

wirral

We have just recently started this, Mr loves me to tell him all about my meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What defines 'hot' in terms of hotwife though?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We don't see it as me thinking I am "hot". More as the Op describes it where hubby loves me to play but does not himself play,except when he joins in.

In this way we are playing as "hotwife" and hubby.

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By *he GriswaldsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm the opposite, I like Mr G having solo meets. Finding out about it afterwards is my turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me me me! Hubby loves hearing me making naughty plans and then sending him pics/videos while I'm off having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotness is on the eye of the beholder I suppose.

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By *aneioCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Totally agree and always selective

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"There are loads, but it needs to be an addition to an already working relationship, it's not enough just that you want the same thing, you have to be in sync and your expectations in other areas matched also."

Absolute truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife has had several solo meets. We love it xx

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Me me me! Hubby loves hearing me making naughty plans and then sending him pics/videos while I'm off having fun "

Haha , lucky you - that’s what I am aiming for too !!

There has to be a single fem on fab that wants this lifestyle too . The problem is that I can’t find her

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Wife has had several solo meets. We love it xx"

Just had a quick perv at your profile wow !! Xxx

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"This is how we got started! Always play together though....too much time for the mind to play tricks is Mrs N was off playing alone! So much fun inviting a guy to have some fun with us though."

I did it once - she went out on a date & fucked him . It was an incredible experience, one I would repeat given the chance

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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It is definitely something I would be completely open too, if everything else in our dynamic was in sync also.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South


"I'm the opposite, I like Mr G having solo meets. Finding out about it afterwards is my turn on."

That's how me and my partner are set. I have solo meets and send her pics/vids as well as give her the naughty details. We also do song together and she likes to see me play with women from the best view on the house.

Hot Hubbying lol

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It is definitely something I would be completely open too, if everything else in our dynamic was in sync also."

Done right , it’s rewarding for all

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

something we both enjoy. Happy going on solo dates but also fun when all 3 get together.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

something we both enjoy. Happy going on solo dates but also fun when all 3 get together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better then hot wife action! Literally nothing better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it. That's how we started. She has had solo meets and I love the phone calls and vids during the action. Sex after is incredible. We have met couple but are struggling to meet a couple with 4 way mutual attraction.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"We love it. That's how we started. She has had solo meets and I love the phone calls and vids during the action. Sex after is incredible. We have met couple but are struggling to meet a couple with 4 way mutual attraction. "

I have only done it once , she got him to take a photo of her on her knees sucking his cock , my eyes (amongst other things) almost popped out when I saw it - we had the best sex of a -14 year marriage when she returned home , it was magical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are enjoying this and the whole scenario..so far always both involved..but we are trying new things that turn us both on

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

This is us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why we swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's giving us lots of ideas mmmmm

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

I have been lucky enough to play with some hotwife couples since joining fab. I have found each couple is different and has their own unique needs and desires. The key is communication to find out what they are looking for before you turn up.

I have to say that I have had immense fun and pleasure with the Hotwives I have met and look forward to more (although one day I would love to meet a Lass who wants to be join me as a Hotwifing couple )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul never plays but likes to know the full graphic details when i get home.

I have one sexual partner that I meet quite often and I think it's as much as a turn on for Paul knowing what I did with him as it is for me that's actually having the sex.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

This is us too

We’ve been having a Hotwife relationship for almost 20 months now (been together 17 years).

We did have some solo meets though, but it’s far too risky so we don’t now unless we’ve met the guys a few times first together. Plus I love seeing Mrs enjoying herself but equally, it’s a fun when she’s off on her own and sends me photos/videos of her antics. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the kind of relationship |I'd like. Finding someone in general a problem, let alone someone who'd happily let me play still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's us. I rejoined this time as a single female because I meet mainly alone but my husband joins (very occasionally if the guy if happy to) and my husband loves it. No humiliation no denial. He loves loaning me to a horny man. We have a fantastic set up right now and I hope it lasts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a fem in that type of relationship, he even dropped her off and picked her up from the hotel, so i never saw him.

She just took a couple pics and text him during meet so he knew all was good.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

This is the type of relationship I have with my partner and we enjoy it very much. We have a couples profile too but we don't use it much now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to watch Belle with others!

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"That's us. I rejoined this time as a single female because I meet mainly alone but my husband joins (very occasionally if the guy if happy to) and my husband loves it. No humiliation no denial. He loves loaning me to a horny man. We have a fantastic set up right now and I hope it lasts x"

I love this - it’s what I am searching for

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I met a fem in that type of relationship, he even dropped her off and picked her up from the hotel, so i never saw him.

She just took a couple pics and text him during meet so he knew all was good."

I have done that with my ex wife & and it’s the thing I am looking for now , I am also keen to experience the other dynamic to this as you have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play with men as I love seeing Floppsy getting fucked or sucking cocks

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

This is what we enjoy. Even got the anklet to go with it.

HW

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I know he loves watching and joining in when allowed, almost as much as I enjoy the extra cock.

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By *UCKY_13Couple
over a year ago

southwest

This is us mr loves to watch and film me be a filthy girl with another guy or multiple guys then when they leave we have amazing sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's exactly how we like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what we have steered to over the last few years , we go to clubs to meet single guys and also outside so if they meet what we are looking for we invite them to join us . Very few guys seem to understand the dynamics of Hotwifeing unfortunately and seem to think hotwifes will fuck anything , the mere terms used in messages to us .. bill cuck bbc clean up is an instant delete .. but that’s just our take on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what we enjoy. Even got the anklet to go with it.

HW"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what we have steered to over the last few years , we go to clubs to meet single guys and also outside so if they meet what we are looking for we invite them to join us . Very few guys seem to understand the dynamics of Hotwifeing unfortunately and seem to think hotwifes will fuck anything , the mere terms used in messages to us .. bill cuck bbc clean up is an instant delete .. but that’s just our take on this subject "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what we have steered to over the last few years , we go to clubs to meet single guys and also outside so if they meet what we are looking for we invite them to join us . Very few guys seem to understand the dynamics of Hotwifeing unfortunately and seem to think hotwifes will fuck anything , the mere terms used in messages to us .. bill cuck bbc clean up is an instant delete .. but that’s just our take on this subject "

Let me put an alternative position.

People use a couple of terms to describe a wide variety of requirements. Ten couples using the phrase 'hot wife' may have ten different requirements, see earlier threads. Possibly a single man may be responding in the manner of the last few couples he may have met.

Reading some of the posts remind of the 'magic' trick that required punters to guess what is under the cup to win it.

Although I have largely stopped swinging I did play with a number of couples in my time and each involved very different dynamics. The best situations where where we had a good chat beforehand socially and got to know each other as people and then if that worked discussed the sexual requirements.

The two steps for disaster are firstly if couples expect single men to be mind reading performing seals, and secondly where single men respond solely in their previous experience and don't ask the specific requirements of the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr loves this although we find there’s a lot of fakes and time wasters on here. The ideal situation would be for Mrs j to find a female friend local to go out drinking and pull men at the end Of the night with. It’s hard to do with normal friends who are not aware of the lifestyle.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We both find this extremely erotic. I recently dropped my lady off for a Hotwife 1 to 1 hotel meet with a guy she had played with several times previously. Picking her up several hours later and hearing of the deep sensuality of the evening was mind blowing and highly erotic.

She gets to choose some highly skilled lovers and I enjoy her being sexually fulfilled.

Having a Hotwife is so horny. xxxx Hubby xx

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

This is what my BF is after. It works perfectly for me but I have to admit I’m not sure what the male dide is getting from it. Feel free to enlighten me

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Not really sure it is possible to enlighten anyone on this subject. As already stated there seems to be different dynamics for different couples.

I know I enjoy playing with extra guys and he loves being part of this.

It works for us keeps us happy and very horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never heard of hot wifing..until my recent meet...many txt.. told what was required by the husband went into their lovely home did what was required by him with his gorgeous wife...who she then snuggled up with...given the nod to go...put my clothes/shoes back on and strolled out into the night...all planned by him...fascinating experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me me me! Hubby loves hearing me making naughty plans and then sending him pics/videos while I'm off having fun

Haha , lucky you - that’s what I am aiming for too !!

There has to be a single fem on fab that wants this lifestyle too . The problem is that I can’t find her "

Travel south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a slightly different dynamic in that my partner would give me to other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what we have steered to over the last few years , we go to clubs to meet single guys and also outside so if they meet what we are looking for we invite them to join us . Very few guys seem to understand the dynamics of Hotwifeing unfortunately and seem to think hotwifes will fuck anything , the mere terms used in messages to us .. bill cuck bbc clean up is an instant delete .. but that’s just our take on this subject

Let me put an alternative position.

People use a couple of terms to describe a wide variety of requirements. Ten couples using the phrase 'hot wife' may have ten different requirements, see earlier threads. Possibly a single man may be responding in the manner of the last few couples he may have met.

Reading some of the posts remind of the 'magic' trick that required punters to guess what is under the cup to win it.

Although I have largely stopped swinging I did play with a number of couples in my time and each involved very different dynamics. The best situations where where we had a good chat beforehand socially and got to know each other as people and then if that worked discussed the sexual requirements.

The two steps for disaster are firstly if couples expect single men to be mind reading performing seals, and secondly where single men respond solely in their previous experience and don't ask the specific requirements of the couple. "

I would also also add to this, that it is often a good idea for all parties to go in with a blank canvas and work out what is right for that combination of 3 people. We have found we have had very different dynamics with different men, none of which could have been predicted in the initial stage. But if we get a good dynamic we just enjoy, and not try to create something that doesn’t come naturally, just because its a fantasy or may have worked with someone else.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say the experience wasnt all about male control...the wife sent me some nice photos and a little video..looking forward to the meet...so hotwifing as far as I can see is a two way thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adore this. Its just what wife and I do. Such a turn on for me

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Love this kind of thing always happy for wife to duck anyone she likes whenever she likes as long as she's got a big smile and gets satisfied I'm happy. Not to mention a big turn on knowing she fucking guys in our bed when I'm out

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

Just planning a meet tomorrow while my other half is at work. Such a turn on asking if it was ok for me to fuck someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I’m on Fab!

Not after single women

Hotwives all the way!

He lends her to me

I treat her well & fuck her good

And return her safe & sound

She tells and they fuck

Perfect

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"This is what we have steered to over the last few years , we go to clubs to meet single guys and also outside so if they meet what we are looking for we invite them to join us . Very few guys seem to understand the dynamics of Hotwifeing unfortunately and seem to think hotwifes will fuck anything , the mere terms used in messages to us .. bill cuck bbc clean up is an instant delete .. but that’s just our take on this subject

Let me put an alternative position.

People use a couple of terms to describe a wide variety of requirements. Ten couples using the phrase 'hot wife' may have ten different requirements, see earlier threads. Possibly a single man may be responding in the manner of the last few couples he may have met.

Reading some of the posts remind of the 'magic' trick that required punters to guess what is under the cup to win it.

Although I have largely stopped swinging I did play with a number of couples in my time and each involved very different dynamics. The best situations where where we had a good chat beforehand socially and got to know each other as people and then if that worked discussed the sexual requirements.

The two steps for disaster are firstly if couples expect single men to be mind reading performing seals, and secondly where single men respond solely in their previous experience and don't ask the specific requirements of the couple.

I would also also add to this, that it is often a good idea for all parties to go in with a blank canvas and work out what is right for that combination of 3 people. We have found we have had very different dynamics with different men, none of which could have been predicted in the initial stage. But if we get a good dynamic we just enjoy, and not try to create something that doesn’t come naturally, just because its a fantasy or may have worked with someone else.

Mrs"

I agree -the couple that I play with are totally different from each other. Some love certain things, some dont. With some, the husband joins in, for others he watches or is in the next room. Some love the wife to go on a date - whereas others dont.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Me me me! Hubby loves hearing me making naughty plans and then sending him pics/videos while I'm off having fun

Haha , lucky you - that’s what I am aiming for too !!

There has to be a single fem on fab that wants this lifestyle too . The problem is that I can’t find her

Travel south"

“Travel south”

Was that an invite ?

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

From what I gather in hot wifing, a husband/partner that likes to share is sometimes called the stag.

The female is known as a vixen...

Don't know if that's only an American thing...

But it works for us...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

This for us too but Mrs M is also allowed to play solo if she chooses to.

Mr

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

Love your pics

This for us too but Mrs M is also allowed to play solo if she chooses to.

Mr "

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By *laything1966Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm lucky to be in a relationship where my partner love's to watch me fucking other women

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

This for us too but Mrs M is also allowed to play solo if she chooses to.

Mr "

This is what I am aiming for, I am finding it really difficult to find someone who wants the same , even on fab. There has got to be someone who wants to be a “hot wife “ . Loved adored spoilt and encouraged to fuck others , either with me watching/joining in or free to play alone , and send me the pics whilst she is doing it & I remain 100% faithful

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"From what I gather in hot wifing, a husband/partner that likes to share is sometimes called the stag.

The female is known as a vixen...

Don't know if that's only an American thing...

But it works for us... "

Works for us as well. Ideal scenario.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"From what I gather in hot wifing, a husband/partner that likes to share is sometimes called the stag.

The female is known as a vixen...

Don't know if that's only an American thing...

But it works for us...

Works for us as well. Ideal scenario. "

I have just had a peek at your profile , this is what I want too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life "

this!

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

Wow great profile and pics wouldn’t mind been part of the hot wife scene

This for us too but Mrs M is also allowed to play solo if she chooses to.

Mr "

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It’s how we swing

Never seperately tho. Mr doesn’t play but loves to see Miss playing and then doing it even better together

Very picky with who and not a necessity just when we want that extra kinky addition to our sex life

Love your profile

this!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is 100% faithful and has given me full permition to have one sex partner for regular meets.

It's been fantastic for both of us as we both like him as a friend and we trust him and i have the added bonus of having amazing sex with him.

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By *eadowMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Exactly what we love but always together, never apart. We have dirth sex with others but the lovemaking once were alone is amazing.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Exactly what we love but always together, never apart. We have dirth sex with others but the lovemaking once were alone is amazing."
That's hotwifing at its best. How both partners get so horny from the meet is the best part for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throughout our relationship, I have loved Lucy being fucked by other guys. Whether at clubs, solo meets, opportunistic or arranged meets which I invariably arrange. If I'm not present she will give me a full report. She loves the extra cock and is a big turn-on for us both which always results in a very intense session in our own bed.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Works for us too xx

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

We have gravitated more towards this type of fun for one reason or another and both enjoy the fun it brings for us

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Throughout our relationship, I have loved Lucy being fucked by other guys. Whether at clubs, solo meets, opportunistic or arranged meets which I invariably arrange. If I'm not present she will give me a full report. She loves the extra cock and is a big turn-on for us both which always results in a very intense session in our own bed."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this most of the time .Me(Mike)loves nothing more than to watch her have fun ..we have plenty of video's too of her solo meets ..we have arrange a couple of meet where I drop her off and wait outside in the car..very horny indeed .. she meets here on her own as I wait in the lounge too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do this most of the time .Me(Mike)loves nothing more than to watch her have fun ..we have plenty of video's too of her solo meets ..we have arrange a couple of meet where I drop her off and wait outside in the car..very horny indeed .. she meets here on her own as I wait in the lounge too "

Here as our home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Solo hot wife meets o m g

Loved them

Shame she won’t do anymore

Was this your partner or somebody that you had a meet with"

My wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for us!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I am very interested in a relationship like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a HotWife

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Would love to chat to husbands/partner who have horny wives. Love talking about all the naughty things they have done and scenarios they could try. Maybe meet up one day too xx

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By *ensual_lover86Man
over a year ago

london

I would love to meet a lady off fab for a long term relationship that will involve hot wifing. I find it very sexy and erotic! 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how our relationship works. I get to go and play with who I want, sometimes on my own and sometimes with hubby there watching or joining in.

Hubby never touches anyone else.

The only difference is we do dabble with humiliation too.

It has worked like that from just a couple of months after we met and neither of us would want it any other way!

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"I am very interested in a relationship like that.

"

You must have guys Queing up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (mrs) do solo meets then tell hubby how naughty I was "

Does he reclaim you back as you are telling him your tales?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This works for us too. Hubby is 100% faithful and I play and he likes to see pics/videos of me being naughty

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"This works for us too. Hubby is 100% faithful and I play and he likes to see pics/videos of me being naughty "

Wow you sound perfect. My ex partner used to do this for me too - it was a massive turn on

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By *each107Couple
over a year ago

colchester

I would love to find a guy that would let and enjoy me do this! Such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we've done it a time or two. Its great fun. Mark met the guy and checked him out of course and Hillie went on a few hotel meets on her own with him. Very stimulating.

Done it with a couple if guys like that. No doubt we'll do it again. We love whoring Hillie out to selected gents and couples.

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Sounds like we all like it, nothing humiliating for us

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

Yes, please !!!

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Slippery slope.Next will be separate room fun.where do you draw the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slippery slope.Next will be separate room fun.where do you draw the line.

"

What’s wrong with separate room fun?

Mrs

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

My husband is kept in permanent chastity, so this is how I swing!

Husband has always been there, but this is no necessity, as long as I take a pic! Even that is for tease and denial purposes, not essential!

No reclaim sex either. I expect to be too tired! Husband's chastity is permanent, he may get to kiss my well f*cked c*nt though!

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By *iss FontaineWoman
over a year ago

Northwest


"This works for us too. Hubby is 100% faithful and I play and he likes to see pics/videos of me being naughty

Wow you sound perfect. My ex partner used to do this for me too - it was a massive turn on

"

Your profile is hidden OP I am a single female who may be interested..

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We do this. Wife is allowed to play at club while I either watch. Or let her play in room nearby or cinema where I can watch her on screen. There is one guy she is allowed to meet solo at hotel but I know this person, if we got to find someone else we could trust maybe. I always finish wife off after but we also swing as couple at club or party's. And I'm also available daytimes for horny couples and fems. Bit most of our play is clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slippery slope.Next will be separate room fun.where do you draw the line.

"

so what's wrong with sep room fun?

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Slippery slope.Next will be separate room fun.where do you draw the line.

so what's wrong with sep room fun?"

Yes I agree what’s wrong with separate room fun? I would be happy for separate house fun !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how we play all the time, Mr just loves to watch me with other men or send him photos and videos during or after

It definitely works for us and the sex after is amazeballs

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

That's our favourite sort of play...

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"This is how we play all the time, Mr just loves to watch me with other men or send him photos and videos during or after

It definitely works for us and the sex after is amazeballs "

I know , it was mind blowing when I had that type of relationship, lucky you two

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We both love it and have had lots of fun over the years and long may it continue

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

It’s an amazing lifestyle and one we love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what we intend to do but never separately

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By *heer_sussexcplCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton


"Slippery slope.Next will be separate room fun.where do you draw the line.

What’s wrong with separate room fun?

Mrs"

Totally agree .... nothing wrong with separate room fun. We enjoy this on occasions

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Soo hard to find the right guy though.

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

I love it when hubby sends me off to fuck someone. We normally have a social meet first and if everyone is happy will arrange a meet generally in a hotel a couple of days later. I love sending him photos and telling him about it when I get home. Sadly doesn’t happen often enough due to work and family commitments. X X

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Somebody pm d me to look on xhamster And search Charlie’s wife revisited . Omg I am sooooo jealous of Charlie . Ladies watch this and comment in this thread - I am interested to hear a femail perspective on this ? Is it something alluring from a woman’s point of view ?

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I love it when hubby sends me off to fuck someone. We normally have a social meet first and if everyone is happy will arrange a meet generally in a hotel a couple of days later. I love sending him photos and telling him about it when I get home. Sadly doesn’t happen often enough due to work and family commitments. X X "

This is what I am seeking , massive turn in for both !

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By *elshcouple91Couple
over a year ago

Llandudno


"I'm the opposite, I like Mr G having solo meets. Finding out about it afterwards is my turn on."

Me too...can be difficult to arrange though because the single female is naturally suspicious.

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Hey guys , it seems I have found somebody to enjoy my kink with !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving this part of our swinging lifestyle always a major turn on for us both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to find a stag, a dominant stag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh to find a stag, a dominant stag "

just awesome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to direct proceedings and watch her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to watch......and be watched....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loving this part of our swinging lifestyle always a major turn on for us both x"

There's a few about I found mine and oh such a good stag ..makes me feel empowered x

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

We set up an indoor camera so I can watch and issue instructions when Iam at work while she's fucks, it's like being your own porn director

Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We set up an indoor camera so I can watch and issue instructions when Iam at work while she's fucks, it's like being your own porn director

Works for us"

Love it but it contradicts what you say in your profile?

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech


"We set up an indoor camera so I can watch and issue instructions when Iam at work while she's fucks, it's like being your own porn director

Works for us

Love it but it contradicts what you say in your profile?"

Because this part of our relationship is pretty new, haven't updated profile since we joined fab. But we are hoping to have a lot more

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Think I have found someone who wants the same thing as me . Faith in fab restored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any ladies out there who want or have an opinion on having a hot wife relationship. One where she is encouraged to fuck others whilst their partner remains 100% faithful ? Cuckolding with out the humiliation.

I crave this , is It just me?"

I have this

Hubby definitely isn’t a cuck either

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Are there any ladies out there who want or have an opinion on having a hot wife relationship. One where she is encouraged to fuck others whilst their partner remains 100% faithful ? Cuckolding with out the humiliation.

I crave this , is It just me?

I have this

Hubby definitely isn’t a cuck either "

Same here, just makes my relationship with hubby even stronger Wish I'd discovered it years ago!

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Lucky you !

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Domestic vixen ! Em wow those photos , those legs.....

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Are there any ladies out there who want or have an opinion on having a hot wife relationship. One where she is encouraged to fuck others whilst their partner remains 100% faithful ? Cuckolding with out the humiliation.

I crave this , is It just me?"

This is us hubby isn't cuck tho.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have enjoyed this in the past. Always with the woman on her own, although her husband was watching as we had an iPad using FaceTime video in the corner of the room so he could see what was happening.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Always dreamt of being a Hotwife but never had the confidence until I met my Husband. He has been in the fetish scene all his life and was able to nurture my suppressed fantasy and give me free reign to be the Hotwife Whore I was always meant to be.

I am a sub slut so this is definitely not a cuckold Dynamic - in fact my hubby encourages and loves to see me being a filthy sex doll with horny guys and gorgeous gals......mmmmmm!

Btw I would love to get to know other local Hotwife couples to build a likeminded group for social get togethers, public exhibitionism and naughty play

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By *heekyglint OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Always dreamt of being a Hotwife but never had the confidence until I met my Husband. He has been in the fetish scene all his life and was able to nurture my suppressed fantasy and give me free reign to be the Hotwife Whore I was always meant to be.

I am a sub slut so this is definitely not a cuckold Dynamic - in fact my hubby encourages and loves to see me being a filthy sex doll with horny guys and gorgeous gals......mmmmmm!

Btw I would love to get to know other local Hotwife couples to build a likeminded group for social get togethers, public exhibitionism and naughty play

"

There is something fabulous about watching your partner behave like a slut for you , you guys seem to have a great dynamic & pics

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