FabSwingers.com forum: Foreplay vs Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Firstly I wanna put it out there that I do love both. It's just Sometimes I find the excitement and build up of foreplay, better than the sex that follows. I'm not a 2 pump chump, but nor am I someone who can smash away for hours. So sometimes I prefer to just leave it at the foreplay but really have some fun.

What are everyone else's views on this?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I won't be having sex if there's no foreplay involved, that's (almost) my favourite bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't be having sex if there's no foreplay involved, that's (almost) my favourite bit

And what is your favourite bit? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my!!!!

Forplay is the bomb...the build up the anticipation being taken to the brink and then slowing it down only to start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love foreplay! Can be actually so much hotter than sex itself if done well with a considerate mindful lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is the best. A climax can sometimes feel like an anticlimax.

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

As I am an older man I adore foreplay - it is such a turn on and penetration is not always necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly I wanna put it out there that I do love both. It's just Sometimes I find the excitement and build up of foreplay, better than the sex that follows. I'm not a 2 pump chump, but nor am I someone who can smash away for hours. So sometimes I prefer to just leave it at the foreplay but really have some fun.

What are everyone else's views on this? "

I live for foreplay. I much prefer making a woman cum before intercourse........My own orgasm is the cherry on the cake

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As a soft swing couple foreplay is pretty key to the proceedings

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I love lots of foreplay, including the use of toys too. Just fucking does nothing for me, love all the kissing teasing and sensual play xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foreplay is first and foremost in our sex lives, we love to tease and edge, build up the tension, and sometimes we don't penetrate but just wank ourselves to climax infront of eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love prolonged foreplay for hours teasing each other , exploring Each other's bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer the foreplay the better for us Beauty rarely cums from penetration but always during foreplay.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do love foreplay is fun and exciting too. Lots of kissing and teasing too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"foreplay is first and foremost in our sex lives, we love to tease and edge, build up the tension, and sometimes we don't penetrate but just wank ourselves to climax infront of eachother"

This is so much more fun and sensuous than banging away for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fire play is fantastic. Slowly edging someone's climax closer and closer until they can't take anymore.

Great Sex is a mixture of lots of things. I personally can't enjoy just penetration. Although sometimes I just want to jump on someone, we can do afterwards foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both essential for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree OP. Foreplay can be so teasing and sensual, it often outshines the sex that follows it. In my opinion anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife only came through oral so was always the start point, used to love spending time playing and licking her pussy, often lasted longer than the sex afterwards.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Definitely foreplay is essential and almost preferable - starting with slow soft kisses that build and build until hands start wandering and touching building the arousal and slowing it down, exploring and building until the right moment to take things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not really into foreplay with nsa meets... tend to get straight to it.. but seems im in the minority.

Cali

Ps I love the teasing with and build up with my partner But no interest with meets on me... yet love to see the other woman teased and her recieve foreplay.. And playfully touch the other guy but just not into receiving myself on meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's quite interesting, is everyone talking about home experiences or in the "fab meet" context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay as love giving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love foreplay sex is not always necessary xx

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

Foreplay all the way every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love foreplay sex is not always necessary xx"

This I totally agree with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love foreplay sex is not always necessary xx

This I totally agree with xx"

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I will engage in foreplay without fucking but not vice versa.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Foreplay is everything

kissing , touching, exploring every cm of the body

Without it , it's just not going to go any further for me

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

Love foreplay. Kissing, stroking, touching, lightest of kisses all over each other's body. Lots of licking and sucking. Making each other cum several time

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Love foreplay. Kissing, stroking, touching, lightest of kisses all over each other's body. Lots of licking and sucking. Making each other cum several time

On my way to you

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

"Love foreplay. Kissing, stroking, touching, lightest of kisses all over each other's body. Lots of licking and sucking. Making each other cum several time

On my way to you

I'll be in the shower if you'd like to join me

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

"Love foreplay. Kissing, stroking, touching, lightest of kisses all over each other's body. Lots of licking and sucking. Making each other cum several time

On my way to you

I'll be in the shower if you'd like to join me

You must be still on the way

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By *ugzbunny1Man
over a year ago

Swindon

"Love foreplay. Kissing, stroking, touching, lightest of kisses all over each other's body. Lots of licking and sucking. Making each other cum several time

On my way to you

I'll be in the shower if you'd like to join me

You must be still on the way

Bloody hell, read post above and thought...wheres my keys, im on my way and will sort out details on route....then read further down...both from swindon...its going to have to be a race!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both but if I had to choose one I would go for forplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay before sex. It's all about the build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than teasing her body so that just a touch at the right time causes her to climax !

And doing it with the aid of different materials or cold or hot all adds to the excitement ?

Doing this until she begs to be taken is just the best thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is by far THE best thing. I have a rule that I must always make the female climax via foreplay before we progress onto anything else; She must always come first.

I also find that foreplay is better than full sex for satisfying women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don't mind the sex, but foreplay/softplay is can be mind blowing and set the tone for even better body shuddering sex...

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