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Ever found somebody on Fab (or another site) that you know offline?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever found somebody on FAB or some other site that you know offline, and didn't realise they too were into the scene?

If so, did you message them or wink at them?

And if so did it lead anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daughter of former boss. Met her once. Just by chance clicked onto profile and saw her couple pic with her husband. Turns out absolutely filthy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but i'll always wonder

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes, yes and yes!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Sister"
oh dear..... was the profile pic a bad one?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Found my ex on here with her then hubby! Chatted for a bit had a little perv n we left it there

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By *ssex Lycra LoverMan
over a year ago

Ilford

An ex manager found me this week on another website. It was very odd at first when chatted about things, but not uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did meet a customer on another site. I then mentioned it to the area sales rep that covered his company. It lead to a rather embarrassed converstion, as the rep turned out to be less broadminded than I had expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents neighbours. Well..... they found me actually. Been round for a chat but not played.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found the barmaid in my local she nearly died when I messaged her for a Guinness

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I did meet a customer on another site. I then mentioned it to the area sales rep that covered his company. It lead to a rather embarrassed converstion, as the rep turned out to be less broadminded than I had expected. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a lad I went to school with. We grew up together, same neighbourhood and circle of friends.

We chatted on here then met up at a club. Met a few times in total, was nice to reminisce about the good old days in between bouts of oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman at work i recognised her even though the face is blurred.... I’d never say something and embarrass her or let out her secret though. Also got some plumbing work after talking to a guy in chams years ago and I’m not even a plumber ha ha!!!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We've seen at least 3 profiles here where we've known them IRL first.

We dont really bat an eyelid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.

People when in pof

People from work

And close friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've seen at least 3 profiles here where we've known them IRL first.

We dont really bat an eyelid. "

Im the same. X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, my niece was on here for a while and a couple I work with on the events circuit off the top of my head, chatted to em on here too my nephew is on here too but we've never said hi. one of my lass friends came to a fab party a couple years back then joined up if that counts? My guy mate joined up seeing how much I'd enjoyed it too but we don't yap about it much, there's quite a cross over into 'real' life on here for me. I welcome that though rather than try and keep it separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I've then blocked them and ran away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sister"
awkward

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

Yes a neighbour and a female friend I went to school with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sisteroh dear..... was the profile pic a bad one?"

Tell us you didn't fap before noticing hahaha.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Yeah there's a couple people on here I knew before, helped me reconnect with one even though it didn't last ,

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By *andVCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Had a few people on here who we've worked with, and 2 have messaged us knowing it was us, but thats as far as it got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few people on here who we've worked with, and 2 have messaged us knowing it was us, but thats as far as it got."

I saw 1 lass on here ive known for yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever found somebody on FAB or some other site that you know offline, and didn't realise they too were into the scene?

If so, did you message them or wink at them?

And if so did it lead anywhere?

"

Yes

I blocked them pronto

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

My next door neighbour was on here but I believe he was caught out by his wife and deleted his profile. So weird to think the person just a couple of feet away on the other side of the wall was on here too because it's such a small community, what are the odds I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my work colleagues & her husband sent me a message once.

I've also had a message from an ex boyfriend's best mate.

I just politely declined & carried on with my day. (That is however a good chunk of why I don't display a face pic publically)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

publicly even!

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

A old freind we now chat regular and neither of us are ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couple on here who walk past my house on a daily basis, never said anything to them as wouldn't want to embarrass them.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Marks found loads on here mates family members people he went to school with his mates ex gf I think we are on about 15 plus now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes few of the wifes ex work associates, another couple from our village and a few couples we see around our local town.

We find it a massive turn on and met a few but understand if some don't. The point is if you put in a 40 mile rad of your area and are on a number of sites you will get a reply from some couple/single you know eventually as your not the only one with a sex life in your circle of friends/work associates etc. We must admit of the ones we have had replies ALL have been yes we would none have been errrrr nooo. Its like a added bonus of a little secret with our friends which is a little horny.

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By *en474Man
over a year ago

antrim

A guy who comes into my work ,said one day I saw your profile on here while looking at another couple , he is married but down as single, I wish she played ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have found a a guy on here I worked with and also his daughter but non of them know each other on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My baby bothers bestie..

We fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen one women I know on here and if I wasn't outside her age range I would probably message her

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

One of the builders working in my house started chatting to me about Quest which I thought was really odd but then I realised that if during his lunch break he had logged on to ' who's on nearby' I would have been top of the list as he was in my house!

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I've spotted a few but would never approach them or even message.i think its just best to block for my privacy and theirs.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Often thought it maybe a tad embarrassing if my adult children perved the site..

I imagine it happens quite a bit.

"Ooh look at mummy/daddy" lol

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Recently had a plumber working next door who checked out who's nearby and messaged me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few...yes. Reaction/action depends on the person. It’s a judgement call...hence the different responses on here. I’ve no problem with anyone else seeing me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my old boss and she was married and on here as single, very awkward conversation in which she very clearly expected sex from me which I found flattering but I also know her hubby. I refused

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By *ake_holeMan
over a year ago

London

When I worked as a waiter a while ago I served someone who I'd chatted to on here

Awks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually noticed a few poeple that travel on my trian that are on here lol but they won't have noticed me.. no one pays attention to the driver anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw someone from a fishy dating site. We communicated as though we were setting up a normal date. When we met we just talked about all things fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my uncle and aunt. Made for an interesting conversation lol

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By *uts123Man
over a year ago

Nr Ipswich

Yes, Yes and Yes.

Speak regularly to a couple I know. Used to hang around with the male half when we were younger. We chat about the old days mixed in with what he would like me to do with his wife.

Also chatted to a few people who then saw me in town and we chatted about fabs.

It’s only awkward if you let it be. At the end of the day we are all swingers!

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

During our time hear we've come across

Work colleagues

Personal friends and even family members, however we have never made contact with any of them and tend to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever found somebody on FAB or some other site that you know offline, and didn't realise they too were into the scene?

If so, did you message them or wink at them?

And if so did it lead anywhere?

"

Yes, I messaged him as I'd always had a crush on him which he never knew. We've met a few times and had so much fun together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever found somebody on FAB or some other site that you know offline, and didn't realise they too were into the scene?

If so, did you message them or wink at them?

And if so did it lead anywhere?

I found one of my bosses, she had a picture of herself covered in Cum. I haven’t mentioned it. Think it’s best to leave work and play separate but I have flirted a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of times.

First time was a few years ago when I had a message of a lady and we chatted. Thankfully all my face pics were set to private and not friends because when I seen hers it turned out to be my best mates mum. She never knew it was me in the end but it was a little awkward as I was best man at his wedding two weeks after seeing her on here.

Second time was I was exchanging messages with a lady and it turned out he worked in a building I was a contractor at regularly. That turned out to be fun as we snuck off a couple of times to an electrical cupboard and had some fun.

Most recently similar thing was exchanging messages with a lady and we met up where she told me she knew a lot of people I knew. I recognised but couldn’t put my finger on it until she mentioned it.

I regularly see guys profiles on here of people I recognise from around where I live but at the end of the day it’s not my business to interfere

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By *ornyforfmCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Twice on this I've been recognised by someone I know locally. We ended up inviting 1 of them over and having our way with her haha. I like to think everyone has they're reasons for being her and keeping it quiet so it worked out pretty well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever found somebody on FAB or some other site that you know offline, and didn't realise they too were into the scene?

If so, did you message them or wink at them?

And if so did it lead anywhere?

"

I was messaged by a former partner..... No I didn't tell him I knew him as it showed he'd been on fab all the time we were dating.... Imagine the fun I could have had as a couple on fab lol

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, I had an old fried message me on here... Turns out he loves tvs and always thought I had a bit of femme look back in the day... Couldn't go there... Too weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seen quite a few. Surprising how small the swinging world is. We've also seen people we know at club and social events x

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By *ootylicious 100Woman
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

A model, photographer and old friend caught me but thought people were using my image's... Not realising it was me

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By *ornyforfmCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"A model, photographer and old friend caught me but thought people were using my image's... Not realising it was me"

If he took those images he's a lucky lucky man;-) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope don’t think we would want to contact anyone we knew outside mixing it up could be weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems I get spotted all the time.

In the local diy store. I’m the street. Pubs etc.

I was in Manchester at pride to hear my name being called. I live in south Somerset.

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By *ollo69Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Yes a neighbour and a couple of work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a women from work. i sent her a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I worked as a waiter a while ago I served someone who I'd chatted to on here

Awks"

But why was it? Where’s the problem unless you make it one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I worked as a waiter a while ago I served someone who I'd chatted to on here

Awks

But why was it? Where’s the problem unless you make it one?"

It would depend what type of conversation we'd had.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

He was lurking round the site and came across a woman he works with occasionally, also had a social meet with a couple where it turned out he and the lady had worked on the same contract but on different sites. Funny thing is, none of them live close, small world on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex girlfriends parents are on here so i gave them a cheeky wink ,might have some fun with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl I went to school with, was a nice conversation

One of my exs, lovely bird

And recently my old neighbour, instant block.

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By *adyLucknGamblersCouple
over a year ago

Harwich / Colchester


"Yup, I've then blocked them and ran away "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next door neighbours. They know it’s us but denied it massively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a friend of my daughters. She noticed I'd peeked at her profile and told my daughter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple on here I've known for 10+ years, won't contact them though as they are not my type.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

A staunch labour committee member from local club ,with a bi profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, a friend of my daughters. She noticed I'd peeked at her profile and told my daughter!"

This is why we try to maintain a level of anonymity on here. We don't want people knowing it's us without us giving them solid evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on fab, but had a conversation with the ex wife on pof which was kind of weird thinking about it..

If I did find anyone I knew on here I would just block them and not mention it to them, I wouldn't embarrass them potentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went to a private party with other Fabsters. Walked in to find a guy who worked for me there. Quick exist ensued!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a girl on here that knows her dad is also on fab... she blocked him when she noticed his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised at least half a dozen. We're all here for the same thing and I never say anything and hope they don't either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 99% sure people have seen me. Nobody has raised the question though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did, and blocked them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A manager from work found me on here, messaged me he was interested but I politely declined.

Didn't fancy him,he's married and it would just seem too weird.

Never been mentioned at work, by either of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A manager from work found me on here, messaged me he was interested but I politely declined.

Didn't fancy him,he's married and it would just seem too weird.

Never been mentioned at work, by either of us.

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And that's how the privacy of FAB should remain .. we are all on here for the same kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes! "

Care to explain more?.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

Yes I have. Next question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met a chef i used to work with..

A lad i went to school with..

And a lad i was already sleeping with

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By *ina2018Woman
over a year ago

kil

my husbands brother sent me a dick pic

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By *cot611Man
over a year ago

carterton

ive spotted 4 girls i know using fake names and ages on another site. never said anything though.

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Believe an ex girlfriend may be on here . She s now married and playing away from home j

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Yes went to a club and met the husband of a couple who's child used to go to same sports club as our child before they moved away. He was there behind his wifes back.

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