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By *dge of Heaven OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

Well its taken a while but I have finally realised the vast difference in time and resources between Fab and Club meets. Numerous time wasters on here who talk the talk but don't walk the walk!

On the other side of the coin a simple visit to the nearest Club and I have been lucky enough to meet some truly wonderful people every single visit.

Now looking on Fab as a general chat site with a bit of cheeky cyber thrown in! Wondered if others have experienced this?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I started off just on fab. Then I started going to clubs and messaging/meets from fab are now rare.

I prefer meeting people face to face at clubs and have found that I am attracted to some people I would never have considered based on their profile and pictures on fab.

I only really use fab nowadays to keep in touch with people I've met in clubs and for the forums.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I like to chat on here then prefer to meet at a club with them

If no spark can always still have a great night and do our own thing

If all good play at the club then hotel it next time

Plus if they don’t turn up ... no loss x

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Club meets are great. Much more relaxed and more fun I think xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I agree totally and that is absolutely how I use the site.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I like to chat on here then prefer to meet at a club with them

If no spark can always still have a great night and do our own thing

If all good play at the club then hotel it next time

Plus if they don’t turn up ... no loss x "

Same for us!

We find fab interesting, and useful to see who is around, who goes to Clubs and also to get Club reviews and look at veri’s.

Once at a Club we don’t bother with veri’s!, just make our own minds up. If we meet someone we like great, if not we have fun on our own.

The advantage of a Club is of course ALL the people are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with previous posts.

Clubs are for guys who do, Fab for guys who say they do.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I like to chat on here then prefer to meet at a club with them

If no spark can always still have a great night and do our own thing

If all good play at the club then hotel it next time

Plus if they don’t turn up ... no loss x

Same for us!

We find fab interesting, and useful to see who is around, who goes to Clubs and also to get Club reviews and look at veri’s.

Once at a Club we don’t bother with veri’s!, just make our own minds up. If we meet someone we like great, if not we have fun on our own.

The advantage of a Club is of course ALL the people are real "

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Totally agree with previous posts.

Clubs are for guys who do, Fab for guys who say they do. "

I love this quote ... 100% spot on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried clubs...they're a bit 'meh'

Your limited to the people there on the night, most times I've been I've not been all that attracted tot the folk at them, from here the nearest is 20 miles away so you have to piss about coming and going etc,

They're OK for a visit and a bit of a different night out but for me, they're not what I'd call sexy places.

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Chams is my favourite place to go. I find it easier to chat to people there and get to know them If we get on can have some fun if not nobody minds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with previous posts.

Clubs are for guys who do, Fab for guys who say they do.

I love this quote ... 100% spot on ! "

Yup. That is pretty spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to chat on here then prefer to meet at a club with them

If no spark can always still have a great night and do our own thing

If all good play at the club then hotel it next time

Plus if they don’t turn up ... no loss x "

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We much prefer clubs but rarely get the opportunity to go to them. Fab isn't as good as it was.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Fab is a brilliant tool for me

I love clubs and parties so where else to find out what's going on and where via

-Swinging clubs events ads and other forum threads

-organiser meets

-club meets

-statuses

-messages

-friends updates

-local updates

All above to connect with friends and new people who are going too

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Clubs for us.

Even people who get in touch on the site we'll ask to meet at a club.

If they won't, then we'll not meet.

If they're not like their pics, or if they're a no show, or if they just aren't for us / we're not for them. No harm done. You can still have your fun in the club.

And for all those who say we could be missing out on a great meet by not meeting private etc, we're not! If it's something we're uncomfortable with, we won't be doing it as we won't enjoy it.

We don't expect people who don't want to go to a club to go there for us, we just won't meet as we're clearly not compatible.

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By *dge of Heaven OP   Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

How true. Feel that my profile is somewhat limited and one dimensional and doesn't reflect my personality. Time for an update I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with previous posts.

Clubs are for guys who do, Fab for guys who say they do. "

I disagree.

I've never been to a club.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How true. Feel that my profile is somewhat limited and one dimensional and doesn't reflect my personality. Time for an update I think!"

I do agree that you can't really get to know someone just by reading a profile.

But you can by messaging and having a conversation, 'getting to know someone'. If all you are after is instant gratification, then perhaps a club is the way forward. As my previous post said, I've never been to one, never needed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started of at clubs before I found fab I just use fab for banter and forum very rarely meet x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

fabs great for networking.... but for meets if it goes further i then tend to suggest clubs....

its not one versus the other as such, but part of a bigger jigsaw where you can get the different pieces to work for you and not just relying on any bit as the be all and end all....

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