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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

be too thick. on a recent meet the guys was about 5" but very thick and it was painful. im very small down there. has anyone else had this problem

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'm so tempted to say 'tight twat' but I'll behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur off ma xmas shaglist..i was gonna pulverize ur pie!...sakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you take anything wide you have to work up to it.. I can with work on occassion take a fist.. but by all means not always..

Also I have to be in the mood..

I have toys that go up in size to very large... but there are times even the medium ones wont go..

Yet I am tight.. its one of the comments I get the most.. it will go in, but if your not careful you can hurt yourself.. for me though, the fact it is a little painful is one of the main reasons I like the wider toys and the fisting at times..

Just relax and let them give you a nice warm up.. But it will go...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't hang me for holding the smoking gun here. There are many reasons that sex with a fella of wide girth can be painful. Psychological eclampsia (sp?)(nerves) can be one, temperature, lack of lubrication, scar tissue from child birth, etc. But on saying that vaginal tissue is very pliant and sex should not be painful and its highly unlikely that a wide penis girth would be the only reason for sex being painful. Other causes and the most frequent are mild infections such as thrush, which quite often can go undetected for some time, not to mention a whole host of other yeast type infections, warts and um obviously the more recognisable STDs. Now I'm not saying that the OP has STD's, but if the problem persists with the same partner, please don't hesitate to get it checked out with your GP of your at local GUM clinic. There is no stigma about it, if you're absolutely normal and healthy then you can work out together ways of warming you up to take big boy, comfortably and enjoyably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had wide girth that caused some pain but not as much as long length - when that hits the cervix ouch!!!

I have tight vaginal entrance too so sympathise. I have to lube if guy is wide so perhaps a little dryness might be making you sore.

I buy a lubricant called Yes. Gorgeous packaging no sugar in it like KY and it feels so silky. Look it up on the net. good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want to meet a man that big, i dont think many men are that big though. That would be like having a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps I'm one of those lucky fella with a wide girth and its a problem that I have come across before on numerous occasions. I'm aware that I can't just go right in with out causing discomfort and I take time to get my partner well excited, relaxed and lubed up before I even go there. So if your fella (swing partner, whatever) is just banging away at you and it hurts! Chuck the f..cker off, and send him home until he learns what foreplay is all about. I'm pretty sure he will know how his hand works if doesn't like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show off!!

LP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMM like the Yes Lube it really is sooooo silky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tell me I'm thick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose by equal standard, a pussy can be too tight.

But as afforementioned, with a bit of work and a lot of lube anything is possible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People tell me I'm thick xx

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People tell me I'm thick xx

dammit so u see that forum thread "is soapy thick"

I'd asked for it to be discontinued/deleted

sorry mate, no hurt was intended

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A colleague at work was rumoured to have a cock 'like a tin of beans'.

Apparently it was useless according to my other colleague who sampled the tin of beans. She nearly broke her jaw sucking it and she described having sex was like being fisted.

I was slightly aroused as she told me this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was once involved in a 3some with a M and F it was awesome. The other guy was about 7.5 - 8" but he was thick , i eman so thick the woman could barely get it in her mouth.

i on the other hand am blessed with a a 3" cock which is 1" girth........sometimes you are just pure lucky i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A colleague at work was rumoured to have a cock 'like a tin of beans'.

Apparently it was useless according to my other colleague who sampled the tin of beans. She nearly broke her jaw sucking it and she described having sex was like being fisted.

I was slightly aroused as she told me this."

Lp crosses her legs and ignores damp feeling in her panties lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A colleague at work was rumoured to have a cock 'like a tin of beans'.

Apparently it was useless according to my other colleague who sampled the tin of beans. She nearly broke her jaw sucking it and she described having sex was like being fisted.

I was slightly aroused as she told me this.

Lp crosses her legs and ignores damp feeling in her panties lol x"

It sounds rather good to me lol..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thers a lot of talk about lube and someone mentioned non sugar KY.... well we all know teflon for its no stick and low coefficient of friction properties, so why not use that. I have a tube of ptfe grease which will do the job.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"People tell me I'm thick xx

giggles ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a guy can be too thick and large and gets frustrated because women can't handle their size, so using lube and stretching isn't always going to be a solution. Guys put your fingers in the corners of your mouth and stretch even gently - then tell a woman she can take it.

I have mentioned this before but I am a member of a site which has an entire forum dedicated to the problems of being well hung. It's not a joke (although I did get banned from posting for writing my responses like Dr Ruth c/w accent)but I learned my lesson and looked at the problem and some of the stories (and pics) made your eyes water.

If you write I will tell you the website. Anyone can join its not only for big men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dirty size queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dirty size queen

Gosh yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and I thought nice and thick did the trick ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women in here whos profile i have been on always seem to ask for a well hung guy or big dick etc etc. Im sure size of the dick is directly proportional to the girth (dont have an equation for it yet lol) for a very large %age of the male population.

But it seems woman want pencil dicks, i.e long but thick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree on that last post to this thread, not all women like pencil dicks as you put it lol.

I have found it really is a case of knowing how to use it!! No matter what shape or size (ok a couple of years ago i may have tried out one or two so can speak from experience!)

I have had a very large cock that was uselss, thick that eventually squeezed in (nice) and medium that made me squirt until someone chucked a life guard on the bed to help me out!!! lol

Lp xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I thought nice and thick did the trick ?

no, if its thin it'll go in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't agree on that last post to this thread, not all women like pencil dicks as you put it lol.

I have found it really is a case of knowing how to use it!! No matter what shape or size (ok a couple of years ago i may have tried out one or two so can speak from experience!)

I have had a very large cock that was uselss, thick that eventually squeezed in (nice) and medium that made me squirt until someone chucked a life guard on the bed to help me out!!! lol

Lp xxxx

If im honest, i think a connection between the two people makes a big difference. if there is good chemistry and trust you can do alot more than you could. big dicks with god girth helps but ultimatley i think chemistry trumpts all.

i could be talking aload of shit but i hope it has an element of truth in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can anyone define thick though ? when does it actually become w/e that way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a guy can be too thick and large and gets frustrated because women can't handle their size, so using lube and stretching isn't always going to be a solution. Guys put your fingers in the corners of your mouth and stretch even gently - then tell a woman she can take it.

If you write I will tell you the website. Anyone can join its not only for big men."

Used to belong to a forum based web site sponsoring a large penis support group for quite a while, but as with all these sites they loose they flavour after a while and the posts seem to endlessly repeat themselves In one form or another. But very informative and useful and yes there are a very few eye watering members there.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is there cocks wider than a baby?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oops pressed send on the above too soon

is there cocks wider than a baby, so if you have had a baby, does it tighten again..

a serious question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oops pressed send on the above too soon

is there cocks wider than a baby, so if you have had a baby, does it tighten again..

a serious question "

I have had 6 kids.. yet a guy the other day had to start with one finger then move to too..

So yes.. if you do your pelvic floor exercises...

My Master loves how my pussy seems to be actually getting tighter over time.. but then..everytime I post a post on the forum I do a set of those exercises.. along with when I get a text.. send an email lol..

and three times a day for good measure.

Cali

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

actually my question was really silly, of course pelvic exercises..

thanks cali.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair thinking about it.. I struggle a bit more when its oral with a guy with lots of girth.. but it wont beat me.. lol

had a guy with a good 7inch girth the other day which I got a good way in.. Master and the guy in question were very very impressed... but not as much as I was.. lol I just was not going to be denied my oral

(love to give.)

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cocks wider than a baby lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can anyone define thick though ? when does it actually become w/e that way ?"

I'm sure Fab-swingers isn't the right forum to go debating penis size. However from another site I used to belong to, there does seem to be a very slight correlation between length and girth i.e 5" long and 5" girth etc. But I have come across 9" long with 5" girth and a 6" long one with an 8" girth. And there is everything in between. Men over 9" long and 9" in girth are few and far between, you could probably count them on one hand for any particular country or region you choose to look at. In practice I've found that some women find a girth around 8" to be a tad too big. It'll certainly make your jaw ache after a few minutes. Equally in practice I've only been able to use my closed fist on two women and my fist is 12" in circumference. So its horses for courses on this one, as it is down to personal preference and experience. So if your partner asks you to let them know when your finished I guess that you are too small and if they ask you to stop I guess you are too big...for them! As to what is normal, above average and below average, there are literally thousands of sites that are dedicated to just that topic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oops pressed send on the above too soon

is there cocks wider than a baby, so if you have had a baby, does it tighten again..

a serious question "

had both by caesarian so never squeezed a baby out. but yes it does tighten back again. bit of a dumb question really

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes i admitted a few posts up, it was a silly question.

after I thought about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman are going around with big gaping holes where a baby popped out didnt you know?

Women do not all pop a babies head out successfully without being cut or torn in a lot of circumstances the vaginal entrance is too small.

One of my sons used to be on the ball for his pocket money and would say you owe me another 50p or whatever. I would look at him square in the eye and say you owe me a million quid - I had to have episiotomies giving birth to you lot. You owe me big style.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Woman are going around with big gaping holes where a baby popped out didnt you know?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woman are going around with big gaping holes where a baby popped out didnt you know?

I wondered what the howling gale was on the last meet I had lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woman are going around with big gaping holes where a baby popped out didnt you know?

Really?

Yet they need a handbag the size of a school to put all their stuff in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woman are going around with big gaping holes where a baby popped out didnt you know?

Really?

Yet they need a handbag the size of a school to put all their stuff in..."

your turn for Dragons Den - you can invent the vagina hold-all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Head says that I`m a man of ample girth, well what I think she means when she refers to me as "that fat cock".

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