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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish guys (not all) would think before typing, the amount of short rude messages or real cheesy messages are unreal and then of course there is hi how's you ,hows your day been ,im even getting guys asking how my meets were ?? like it anything to do with them ?? and don't get me stated on the hi hun , hi sexy ,hi beautiful.. is it only me that gets bothered by this lol

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Omg I was just about to rant about this!

Just had to block single guys again after receiving 5 stupid messages from single guys. Best just to find and message those you want to talk to and get to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you ideally look for in a first message from a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't blame us men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any messages start with hun or sexy etc etc insantly deleted and hi hows you deleated if someone cant be bothered to write a half decent message then i cant be bothered to reply...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

whys that then ??

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Can't blame us men

They can and they do everything;s our fault

. There's no meeting half way its us who have to everest all the time so most get fed up of it and move on and the ones that are are left, well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you ideally look for in a first message from a guy? "

to be themselves with out the cheese or desperation would be a start but then again im starting to think no let them be as its a excellent filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand these guys. Where is "hi" going to get you it's just a waste of time and even I get them from men. I only message a few regular people who I am serious about that way everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

They can and they do everything;s our fault

. There's no meeting half way its us who have to everest all the time so most get fed up of it and move on and the ones that are are left, well

if you read the original post you'll see I said not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you ideally look for in a first message from a guy?

to be themselves with out the cheese or desperation would be a start but then again im starting to think no let them be as its a excellent filter"

I understand where you're coming from with the simple 'hi want to fuck?' Messages but if you recieve a message of a polite 'hello, how has you day been?' And a little about themselves... what more are you looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish guys (not all) would think before typing, the amount of short rude messages or real cheesy messages are unreal and then of course there is hi how's you ,hows your day been ,im even getting guys asking how my meets were ?? like it anything to do with them ?? and don't get me stated on the hi hun , hi sexy ,hi beautiful.. is it only me that gets bothered by this lol "

So they haven't to ask you how you are, how your days been, say you are attractive or anything along those lines. I'm so glad I don't meet couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish they would learn to friggin read lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they haven't to ask you how you are, how your days been, say you are attractive or anything along those lines. I'm so glad I don't meet couples x"

Then if we didnt say hi and got straight into writing War & Peace the lady wiuld say "he didnt even have the decency to say hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

whys that then ?? "

All men I should say I take time out to read the profile and like a picture and message but women just instantly delete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So they haven't to ask you how you are, how your days been, say you are attractive or anything along those lines. I'm so glad I don't meet couples x"

the op never said this she's saying why stop at just hi hows you and also you may like being called hun or sexy with every message but i hate it and from what i see on statues everywhare many other women do too

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Why do men ask how your meets have gone I don’t get it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So they haven't to ask you how you are, how your days been, say you are attractive or anything along those lines. I'm so glad I don't meet couples x

I'm glad I'm a lot more easy going x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought Thursday was rant day

Think hapoy thoughts it's almost the weekend

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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OP.

You don't like beards. You may or may not do watersports. You are into group fun. Hubby may or may not be present but will know what goes on if not.

That's more or less what your profile tells me. I have no hope in hell of writing an opening message that I could relate specifically to you without it sounding like a bad porn story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can."

Uninvited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?"

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says."

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelevant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

So yes, we can blame them.

Accept other people's choices and just move on.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us."

I wish everyone behaved on here as they would face to face. Fact is a lot don't. I never have to worry about getting crap messages from guys as I have them blocked. I used my intelligence to realise this was a smart move and is far from irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning I woke up to what can only be described as a sick and nasty message from a 23 year old. It was headed up 'dominant'. For any woman with a delicate nature I'm sure it would have be very distressing. I just hope he never puts it into practice! Needless to say I blocked and deleted.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We generally reply even though we state no single men on here as some are friendly and just like a chat - ok some admit just trying but non been rude unlike some couples

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"This morning I woke up to what can only be described as a sick and nasty message from a 23 year old. It was headed up 'dominant'. For any woman with a delicate nature I'm sure it would have be very distressing. I just hope he never puts it into practice! Needless to say I blocked and deleted."

No excuse for that. Can you report as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

Thanks for your advice about blocking.

We will consider it, however in the mean time we are glad you have decided the way you enjoy using this site, we will also decide how we will use it, and hope eventually that people will learn to respect the choices of others.

Good luck.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"We generally reply even though we state no single men on here as some are friendly and just like a chat - ok some admit just trying but non been rude unlike some couples"

Great profile text.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The vast majority of messages I get from single men are pleasant and respectful, and whilst they may not all fit my preferences, recieving a polite "hello" certainly doesn't annoy me. If it did, I would block men and search for them myself.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"We generally reply even though we state no single men on here as some are friendly and just like a chat - ok some admit just trying but non been rude unlike some couples

Great profile text.

Thank you

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

Thanks for your advice about blocking.

Good luck."

I respect your choices on how to use this site. That goes without question. Posting on an open forum blaming men will prompt a retort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

But what would they moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

Thanks for your advice about blocking.

Good luck.

I respect your choices on how to use this site. That goes without question. Posting on an open forum blaming men will prompt a retort."

Retort all you want, we fully expected it.

We understand fully how the truth hurts.

As long as there is an open forum we will keep posting about bad behaviour we experience.

We are sure you will also enjoy posting your own comments as well.

After all, that is what an open forum is about!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

Thanks for your advice about blocking.

Good luck.

I respect your choices on how to use this site. That goes without question. Posting on an open forum blaming men will prompt a retort.

Retort all you want, we fully expected it.

We understand fully how the truth hurts.

As long as there is an open forum we will keep posting about bad behaviour we experience.

We are sure you will also enjoy posting your own comments as well.

After all, that is what an open forum is about!"

Indeed my friends! The world would be ever so boring if we all got along i suppose

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Can't blame us men

If it is stupid, uninvited or rude message of course we can.

Uninvited?

Yes, uninvited.

If a profile says no single guys, it means what it says.

Ah i see you have this. So you never get messages from single guys then as you have no doubt blocked them. And thus you can't blame men after all

Blocking them is irrelvant really isn't it?

Do they not have either the manners or intelligence to accept or understand profiles?

Nope, not most.

Why does behaviour on here have to be any different to how it would be face to face is absloutely beyond us.

But what would they moan about

I could not possibly comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with you, we would love for everyone to get on, but that does all depend on everyone behaving in a respectful way towards each other doesn't it?

Back to the beginning of the thread we guess!

Interesting comments made.

Have a good day all.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"We agree with you, we would love for everyone to get on, but that does all depend on everyone behaving in a respectful way towards each other doesn't it?

Back to the beginning of the thread we guess!

Interesting comments made.

Have a good day all."

You too

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