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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do Maturer women actually appreciate the terms cougars. And women with children milfs? What is it for you mature women that drives you crazy about younger guys as to me the thought of a mature women taking control of me really gets me going!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Generally prefer guy to be in charge. I like younger guys for lots of reasons but I'm not a cougar I don't go hunting. I am a mother so qualify as a milf (to those I appeal to). It's more about rapport really, I'm quite young in outlook so younger people suit me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy younger men, and to be honest don't really care whether that makes me a cougar or whatever label, I play how I want and with who I want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers nice to here a females view as everyone just assumes milf/cougar is what people want to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great attitude to have you know what your after and you go get it!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I got called a DILF recently and found it quite arrousing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly like or relate to those terms but acknowledge that they are a convenient shorthand sometimes

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I don't like these terms personally and I've always preferred older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called a milf quite alot

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I got called a DILF recently and found it quite arrousing "

You got a custard cream on your cock bro???

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I got called a DILF recently and found it quite arrousing

You got a custard cream on your cock bro??? "

No, I have a custard cream just to the side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called a DILF recently and found it quite arrousing

You got a custard cream on your cock bro???

No, I have a custard cream just to the side of it "

I like custard creams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a milf before I wouldn't say it offended me - as I know it was meant as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called both Cougar and Milf and like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't.mind being called a milf

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I got called a DILF recently and found it quite arrousing

You got a custard cream on your cock bro???

No, I have a custard cream just to the side of it

I like custard creams "

They are THE best dunker

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I get called Milf dont mind as I am a mother but wouldn't like cougar Fi x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't much care for milf and cougar but I'm not bothered if guys use the terms. It just means we wouldn't get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use the term as a quicker version of saying a beautiful, sexy lady older than me.

I love em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tend to lable it. Your either hot or your not.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"do Maturer women actually appreciate the terms cougars. And women with children milfs? What is it for you mature women that drives you crazy about younger guys as to me the thought of a mature women taking control of me really gets me going!"

I detest all forms of objectification and do my damnedest not to do it either.

It's individuals I find attractive for all sorts of reasons, not just because of age/skin colour/child status etc.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Would rather receive a message calling me a cougar / milf or the like than thinking I might actually like to be referred to as a Sexy slut / whore

Oh and one I got recently .. I want to bone you like a dog ???

Wtf ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you guys can’t win trying to find a term that’s acceptable to everyone. I really don’t care, I meet younger adults for adult fun. Can we think of a way to express that more simply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people like to be called different things, it's up to them to decide what they're happy with, it's not up to others to give them a label.

Personally, I prefer not to be called either a milf or a cougar. But what I'd rather not be referred to most of all, is mature! I have a very playful attitude to life generally, and (apparently) don't look anywhere near my age, so I don't really appreciate it when people make those sort of assumptions about me when it's really not relevant.

What does mature even mean anyway...!?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called both Cougar and Milf and like both. "

And a damn fine one you are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels mean nothing to me. As for younger guys, I do like them but very few show the maturity I required for having NSA sex! But that's just from my personal experiences!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s a new one “i want to bone you like a dog” Lol I could think of a fewer other things I’d had preferred to have said to you haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope it hasn’t offended you! I use the term mature loosely for a women that’s older than me rather than going straight in with milf or cougar as I don’t know how an individual would react to it, I guess I see the word mature as a more respectful approach until you learn a persons boundary’s and what they are comfortable being called however in your case I can still understand why you’d prefer not

To be called mature.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Heard a new one GLOB, good looking older bird, found that amusing, probably past the milf and cougar limits here!

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

I liked been called a milf and a yummy mummy

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Heard a new one GLOB, good looking older bird, found that amusing, probably past the milf and cougar limits here! "

Haha a glob - that’s hilarious

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I've been called a TILF x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never heard of that one before! Lol can I ask how you reacted to that one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not too fussed with what names are given... I guess its totally up to the individual xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that drives me crazy (not necessarily in the way I think you are suggesting OP) about younger guys, is that they fetishise my age and appear to assume I’d be overwhelmingly grateful that they have lowered their standards sufficiently to give an over-the-hill woman a chance. Nothing clangs the doors of the Heels Fandango shut faster.

Fortunately for you, I’m a lone wolf in this view and know lots of ladies who like nothing more than a young buck under the duvet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is always that side to things that the male could just be trying to enhance his ego by giving an older women the chance to be with him however in my eyes an older women that can strut her stuff and is confident with her body and wants to have her way with me as a younger guy that’s what’s turns me on the thought of just basically being submissive to her every needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf quite alot "

Do you like it?

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By *hris and SamCouple
over a year ago

at the end of the rainbow

Yes when someone says they want to meet a mature/older woman so you check their profile out and you find they are only 5 years younger than you.....instant sarcasm retort occurs

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By *one_Fishing83Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

A new one I read the other day was WHIP - women who are hot, intelligent, and in their prime.

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