FabSwingers.com forum: Getting to it...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering when people have meets how quickly do they normally get to business....some days its straight to the bedroom other days i like to chat for maybes an hourish before hand.

By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wait in a dressing gown and we head straight to the bedroom.

I used to find that starting off with tea and a chat didn't really lead anywhere for quite a while, and I'm crap at making the first move (way too nervous and I freeze up) so if the guy didn't make the move then we wouldn't go any further.

So now I say that I'll be ready in my dressing gown, and we get straight to it, and I've had a lot more enjoyable and successful meets.

But that's what I'm after, some people want the build up and to make friends, make a connection. The only connection I want is his skin on mine

By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

sometimes very quick, especially when I already know them. with others I like to chat a bit but then I am not shy and usually things move on when I start sitting on his lap he he

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I normally lead them straight to bedroom unless i feel i know them really well lol if their good craic well chat loads first