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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the longest fellow fabsters have had fuck buddies for ? Kinda been 18 months for me and my FB just wondering if I should stop before things get messy and feelings develop ??

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

had a friend with whom I had some fun when both were single for a couple of years... but we were friends before and after and didn't see each other a lot so feelings were never on the cards. properbly and it when you feel that things are changing for either of you? unless you want something to change...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

8 years and it never works labelling it anything but fuck buds so that it shall stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had one lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have thought feelings would have developed by now if they were going to. So, if you're content with the way things are just enjoy yourselfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months. I don't think i'm very good at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"8 years and it never works labelling it anything but fuck buds so that it shall stay"

Wow 8 years ! Must off been good he x

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"8 years and it never works labelling it anything but fuck buds so that it shall stay

Wow 8 years ! Must off been good he x "

Thats the dam trouble hahahaha

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

5-6 years for me.

We have a lot of things we both enjoy and sex is great. I really enjoy spending time with him.

I really like him, but no more than a friend. I've never felt anything more for him. I don't know if that is because I knew from the start we would never be more than that or if it's just because the feelings have never developed. We are just good friends who fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-2 times a week for 18 years.........

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

A while now, we are friends really.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

Have "friends with benefits", view that differently from a "fuck buddy"

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

Not as long as I hoped for. Only a few months but was brilliant while it lasted.

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By *amesYork17Man
over a year ago

York

Never had one but would like one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the difference between a fuck buddy and friends with benefits please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my fuck buddy been friends and fucking for about 2 yrs. Not regular, might go months not hearing or seeing her...then she will turn up and want the world. Funny it never works the other way round, never around when I demand it lol

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Just one meet

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By *ean 8423Man
over a year ago

ilford

Never had one would love to have one

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Had a great FB for roughly two years, should it have finished? Ecology, says yes, heart mmm

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield


"What is the difference between a fuck buddy and friends with benefits please?"

For us the focus of the "friends with benefits" scenario is the friendship (which could appear almost 'vanilla' or 'dating') whereas a fuck buddy to us is more focussed on sex.

So, friendship with sex as opposed to sex with friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i came to know about a cpl recently who are fuckbuddies for 9 years and still on no feelings just NSA ding dong..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that. "

I can’t, need some sort of connection, mmm.

Him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would like to have a friend like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 and a half years. I'm seeing him Friday (If I haven't jinxed myself again).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one open to offers though

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

2 years. Looking for a new one as she's all settled down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that.

I can’t, need some sort of connection, mmm.

Him."

You too?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"What’s the longest fellow fabsters have had fuck buddies for ? Kinda been 18 months for me and my FB just wondering if I should stop before things get messy and feelings develop ?? "

Depends what you want out of it?. Long as you both communicate can't see why feelings would be a problem and get messy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest is 18 months

I had one that turned into a relationship in the end but sadly it ended

I'm on the look out for a new fb now but it's not that easy to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been seeing one guy fairly regularly for about 5-6 years. We've become really good friends, and the sex just gets better and better. Getting to know people and building a genuine connection/friendship with a view to long term fun, is the ideal scenario for us.

V x

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to only last about 2 months with me then they get a new one. Dont bother me though. Currently on the look out for someone new myself so ladies get intouch!

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

12yrs for me. Not seen him for a gud few years now but stil in touch and he wants to see me again. It only stopped cuz I met sumone I fel for but I am single now so who knows wot wil happen if bump into each other again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a regular guy i had fun with but he called it quits with me

Think he was starting to get feelings so he vanished

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

A year for me.

It suited us both at the time

She got into a relationship so it came to a close with no hard feelings etc

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Last fuck buddie kasted about a year

Always best to have at least two fuck buddies I think just incase one is unavailable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last fuck buddie kasted about a year

Always best to have at least two fuck buddies I think just incase one is unavailable lol "

Or three works well ha ha but yes...people you can trust, relax and know there is a connection...and will also always have your back like any other good friend x

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